I’m emotional – so sue me…

A recent study indicates that our emotions may actually serve us well in the bedroom. According to a study published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine, emotions may actually be good for a woman’s sex life. The study found that women who have high emotional intelligence or are more in touch with their feelings and sensitive to others are two-and-a-half times as likely to orgasm compared to women who don’t have as high emotional intelligence.

mai khôi tự sướng orgasm

mai khôi tự sướng orgasm

“I am an excitable person who only understands life lyrically, musically, in whom feelings are much stronger as reason. I am so thirsty for the marvelous that only the marvelous has power over me. Anything I can not transform into something marvelous, I let go. Reality doesn’t impress me. I only believe in intoxication, in ecstasy, and when ordinary life shackles me, I escape, one way or another. No more walls.” Anais Nin

and I found partners with whom I had emotional fireworks with~

I spent time deciding whether a Sir deserved my honesty, trust, mind and body.
I hadn’t been treating my body like the temple it is.
I do now.
I praise her, listen to her, ravish her, am patient to hear and heed what she needs.
She’s the boss, and after having her mouth duct taped shut for so long she’s got a lot to say.
But, a good Sir pulls out the hidden gems and silences me with healthy Domination.
He is able to share, cherish and ride my emotions.
In return He receives the only true gift I have to give…
me-emotionally and physically-fully.

Burri, A., Cherkas, L., & Spector, T. (2009). Emotional Intelligence and Its Association with Orgasmic Frequency in Women Journal of Sexual Medicine DOI: 10.1111/j.1743-6109.2009.01297.x


9 Comments on “I’m emotional – so sue me…”

  1. Pelelotus says:

    A sign of compatibility between your self and Sir. But also a sign that you love yourself too. X

    • dievca says:

      Slow Learner….what knowledge I didn’t know in my 20’s, I had to learn at double that number. 🙂
      Is it true that opposites attract?

      • Pelelotus says:

        True, sometimes we need time to really realise what is important. As to whether opposites attract, I am not so sure. What is often true, that people who are opposites balance each other out. X

  2. I’m close to 50 and still learning. I like it though, it means I’m still ”growing up”. 😉

    • dievca says:

      We can learn together! Always something new, interesting, awkward, elegant, etc. That I enjoy it fully with my emotions running? Even better. I want to be involved and sharing. It might exhaust me, but I have lived.

  3. Feel fully. Fall forward and reap the rewards with someone you desire, trust and respect. Love adds to this equation, but takes time to be found, recognized, accepted…and when you get there, and your voice is hoarse from the crying out that cannot be controlled and you look into his face, teary eyed and wordless, there’s a heady truth in the center of your chest that is both twisting and leaping — FEEL that. And know it.is.good.

    • dievca says:

      IT.IS.GOOD! And I am Thankful that I can go through Life “feeling” — whether it is good or bad. Others might not want that or cannot function that way, and I get it, but that is not me. M. can handle my emotions and can join with me — but we have learned he needs a break sometimes, because I can function above and beyond the average human. That’s working though a relationship — give, take and facing what works or doesn’t work.

  4. jackiemallon says:

    Emotions set us apart from robots–and, I don’t know about you butI’ve noticed there are an increasing numbers of those around. So wear your emotions on your sleeve, girl! xo

    • dievca says:

      People who work in the ARTS show their emotions in a number of ways. Sometimes when they give of themselves so much — they have to shut down to regroup (M.). I take on so many emotions during my week, I have to release them or explode. Makes for some interesting times, but I know we are both not Robots. And I know, you are not one either. 😉


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