Masculine/Feminine (part one) Memory LanePosted: December 20, 2015
dievca started this blog as an outlet for her D/s thoughts and brought in fashion – as an interest because presentation is a large part of Master and dievca’s dynamic. The blog has merged to add essays, thoughts, poetry, lifestyles pieces – but nothing has been offered directly from Master. Until now:
Written by Master:
If you read a summary of Master’s activities on a piece of paper, you might come to certain conclusions. Master is a journalist who has worked as a war correspondent in highly dangerous countries. At various times, he’s been involved with what he calls “the three Ms” – motorcycles, mountain climbing and martial arts.
So his resume might indicate a man with fairly “macho” characteristics – the sort of guy who flexes his muscles at the gym and likes to party with his buddies at a sports bar.
The reality is quite the opposite. Master is calm, soft-spoken and polite. He shows a great deal of courtesy to the people he meets in the city. In addition, he knows a lot about women’s fashion and regularly attends the fashion shows at the Metropolitan Museum.
It’s easy to make conclusions about someone’s masculinity or femininity by certain superficial characteristics. But sexuality for men and women can be a fairly complicated.
This thought stream was prompted from e-mails before Master and dievca met face-to-face. It was our anniversary and Master sent the e-mail stream as a memory booster.
I’m glad that we didn’t meet immediately.
I feel that I have learned a great deal more about you during the last week.
And, I hope, that you have learned more about me.
But that’s good! You should be nervous meeting a possible Dom for the first time. I know this is a major step for you and will respect that.
I’m a fairly intense person. But not loud or vulgar. I always make an effort to be polite. A close friend once said that “***** is an Alpha Male who isn’t macho.” Quite true.
So..the reality is: you’re meeting a calm, polite man at the Club who ahhh…
is also a Dom.
I want this meeting to be a positive experience for you.
What dievca was presented with on that first meeting was a MAN.
Someone who was Mentally Strong, Confident in His Sexuality, Capable in Life and Crisis, and Responsible.
All wrapped in velvet, which made the iron fist so desirable.
And created the feeling of TRUST immediately.
And she couldn’t resist this beautiful photo:
So what about dievca? Where does she fit on the sexuality “spectrum?”