So Many Ways To Go~Presenting for MasterPosted: March 6, 2016
Who is dievca? dievca is Master’s submissive. she’s a bit of a clotheshorse and Master desires diversity. Master and dievca are not in a 24/7 relationship, but dressing for Master drives many fashion and styling choices in dievca’s World.
Ms. Christina Mandara was kind enough to ask dievca to write a post about BDSM submissive fashion/style. It’s a tough topic because there are so many ways to go when presenting for your Master or Mistress. Their needs and desires are the focus. But, if your Dom (Domme) is more flexible in their Presentation Requirements and they love the idea that their submissive should think ahead and dress for them…dievca might be able to offer some suggestions!
One tenet that has defined Master and dievca’s relationship in regards to presenting is “Diversity”. Master likes for His dievca to change it up. That said, Master does have His favorite types of outfits and dievca will be using one as a template. In fact, she is coming into this post with the thought of finding a new presentation outfit for her Master – she is hoping this will spark some creativity for other submissives.
Master prefers His dievca to look ladylike when they are out in public. He wants His dievca to show-off her curves, be confident and offer hints of BDSM in jewelry or accessories – riding the edge of telling all.
Underneath it all is lingerie that is appropriate for Presentation. Master prefers His dievca to be in attractive lingerie while serving and submitting at home. He has a fondness for Corsets, stockings, and heels. The blatantly slutty pieces don’t seem to go down well — Master prefers to unwrap His submissive and catch glimpses of her ASSets.
dievca has been fascinated by a Corset Company based in Los Angeles. Exquisite Restraint -they have Limited Edition offerings or you can just design your own. she doesn’t own an underbust corset and the idea of wearing it over a slip is something different for Master.
And simple heels in Black:
dievca would finish it off with a Vintage Collar she has been eyeing. Master has been very generous in the past with dievca’s “Public” Collars, but this one is very bold.
Some other pieces that dievca would add from her collection:
A Chignon with simple daytime make-up, heavier on the eyebrows and eyelashes – plus, deep red lips: à la Audrey Hepburn.
OK….so the look is very 1950’s Retro and perhaps not your Master/Mistresses thing. dievca would suggest that sit a moment and think of the items you have worn that have made your Dom/Domme very pleased or excited. Then communicate that you would like to choose a presentation outfit as a surprise and build an outfit around those items – your Master/Mistress might not go for it, but at least they know you would thinking about their wants and needs as a good submissive should. XO