The Ghost in the Room.

my_ghost_in_your_bedroom_by_canuslilium-dieviant-art“Just what happened between you and that guy you were engaged to?”
“That’s hardly relevant now.”
“It is when you’ve just plopped him down in bed with us.”

Roberts, Nora (2004-01-27). Chesapeake Blue: The Chesapeake Bay Saga #4 (p. 228). 

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A ghost in the bedroom, work, person, previous subs, “try to stay in the present moment”
Focusing 100% — transition rituals, presentation outfit, where Master’s sits.

notes dievca wrote in the beginning. Pre-blog.

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When Master and dievca were learning about each other and beginning to set-up the relationship and limits, the topic of adding  submissives came up. dievca was a new submissive and just starting to learn about herself, Master had been in D/s relationships previously and still has contact with His past submissives.

dievca always wondered how she compared. But, Master is very good – He takes everyone at face value for what they offer in the moment. A trait dievca appreciated. she grew at her own pace and in her own way — not worrying about being someone else.

Now, years down the line, Master has casually mentioned various submissives in passing – always in a positive light.  They are a part of His growth as a Dominant and helped shape His relationship with dievca.

dievca no longer fears the “Ghosts in the Room”.
(nor the Reaper)

Photo: My Ghost in Your Bedroom by CanusLilium DeviantArt

5 Comments on “The Ghost in the Room.”

  1. Ret MP says:

    he has certainly earned that trust in him. the innocence of that complete lack of fear of comparison is a testament to his character> what an honor for you to have Him in your life, d. Hugs- Ret

  2. 🙂 No reason to fear ghosts. 🙂


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