Fetish? All in your definition…

fet·ish
ˈfediSH/
noun
1. a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.

dievca and Master have had talks about BDSM and fetishes.
dievca made the statement that she loves to be connected, via a chain or restraints and she thought that the desire for connection was a “fetish” (there is even a flag below)

Master disagreed.
Master’s definition of a fetish comes from past submissives He connected with along the way. His point was that being chained was not “needed” by dievca. Being restrained was not necessary for the relationship to exist or proceed. It is just something dievca enjoys very much. But dievca really enjoys changing it up, too — she doesn’t need her restraints to “get off”. Master had connected with some people who had to do the same thing in the same pattern to be fulfilled.  It was not His thing.
“diversity, dievca, diversity” — hmm, maybe that is Master’s fetish…

These musings were prompted because dievca was looking up the date for the Pride Parade in NYC (June 25th, 2017 9:00 am) and a side bar on the website offered some flags:

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Age Play Fetish Androgyne Fetish BDSM Fetish Bear Fetish Boi Fetish Boot Fetish
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Drag Fetish Fat Fetish Feather Fetish Fisting Fetish Foot Fetish Freak Fetish
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Mask Fetish Gay Goth Fetish Goth Fetish Intersex Leather Fetish Leather Eagle Pride
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Leather Girl Pride Leather Queer Pride Long Hair Fetish Military Fetish Muscle Fetish Ownership Fetish
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Puppy Play Fetish Rubber Latex Fetish Slave Fetish Switch Fetish Twink Fetish Watersports Fetish

9 Comments on “Fetish? All in your definition…”

  1. Pelelotus says:

    Did not realise that there were flags for each fetish? Like the goth fetish flags, thank you. X

    • dievca says:

      I know, fun to see — I wondered why some colors or graphics were chosen for certain activities- but I got the Goth One and the Slave Flag.

  2. Your Master has a very good point. I like his reasoning.
    The way FetLife uses ‘fetish’ is to describe things that turn is on. I think we’ve got used to using the word that way.

    Ash

  3. I know in the Old Guard there are particular colors that pertain to what you are into but had no idea there are flags for them as well.

  4. Flags for fetishes? You learn something every day! That and the watersports fetish – who would have thought!


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