Stand Back
Posted: November 12, 2017 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Discussion | Tags: Anger, BDSM, Communication, D/s, dievca, Dominant, failure, Footwear, Master, Relationships, Submission, submissive 23 Comments
like everyone,
dievca has a lot going on right now
Master hasn’t been there for her,
He likes everything light and friendly
so dievca avoids sharing,
and digs in hard to stand up
that act of dominance
comes with a brusque wind
it also brings something else,
a F*ck you, F*ck me Attitude
which is not anyone’s fault,
it’s a form of protection
just be careful around dievca,
under the fire is … fragility
given time she’ll re-find her ladylike,
until then its Stevie Nicks and alcohol
Lyrics
No one looked as I walked by
Just an invitation would have been just fine
Said no to him again and again
First, he took my heart, then he ran
No one knows how I feel
What I say unless you read between my lines
One man walked away from me
First, he took my hand, take me home
Stand back, stand back
In the middle of my room
I did not hear from you
It’s all right, it’s all right
To be standing in a line
Standing in a line
I would cry
Do not turn away, my friend
Like a willow I can bend
No man calls my name
No man came
So I walked on down away from you
Maybe your attention was more
Than you could do
One man did not call
He asked me for my love
And that was all
Stand back, stand back
In the middle of my room
I did not hear from you
It’s all right, it’s all right
To be standing in a line
Standing in a line
Standing in a line
So I walked on down the line
Away from you
Maybe your attention was more
Than I could do
One man did not call
Well, he asked me for my love
That was all
Written by Prince Rogers Nelson, Stevie Nicks • Copyright © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Universal Music Publishing Group
dievca 
That doesn’t seem healthy, fair or loving? But maybe I misunderstand your relationship?
In any case, I know you to be smart and capable and I know you got this.
xoxoxo
PS. I’m a good listener. Even if by email
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Thank you, Cinn. I’ve gotten sleep, I’m gaining my balance. M. and I have issues going on like many relationships – he’s helping with one of the items. We are not 24/7 and I take care of much of my own. It’s a luxury for me to go sub. It will flesh out one way or another. But, again, Thank you.
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Sorry you’re struggling Dievca. I understand all too well myself as my Daddy and i have chosen to end things very recently. It’s such an adjustment and difficult but he had to relocate sometime back and neither of us were getting what we really needed out of it. but it was difficult for me to truly admit to myself that i wanted and needed and Deserved more than he was capable of giving me … and yes, like you, years later… it hurts.
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years later of serving him i mean. (((HUGS))) and dont let him toast your buns too much!
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Thank you for stopping by, Jennifer. I am sorry that you had to move on, but am wishing you the best for the future! Something fantastic will be down the line for you.
As for M. we have had a lot of Life things in the past 3 years (deaths, family changes, age-related issues, social issues). They take a toll sometimes and a reboot needs to occur. Where will that go? We will see in the next few weeks. 🙂
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Hmmm … I regret that you are standing alone here on this. Support ought to be there when you need it. But I do get it that you (alone) are a tower of strength. You have my admiration.
Btw, Stevie is one of my favorite kick-ass women.
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Aww, Thank You, Marty. And this, too, shall pass. Sometimes when you are the strong one and other’s rattle the cage all the time — you are not taken seriously because you rarely ask for help.
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Yes this will pass. But store it in the memory banks for later retrieval … if required
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It’s been adding up. The odd part, this time, is when I used to get sad — I’ve been able to enjoy good things and friends who step up to the plate.
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PS. My favorite Stevie:
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Hmmm, I think I get it now…
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XO — sometimes we need to regroup. All is relatively well, how are you? Philadelphia looked cool. The last time I was there was for an Army/Navy College Football Game, years ago . Too busy partying to look around.
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😀 Philly is really cool, we enjoyed it a lot. Weather helped, it was in spring-like mood.
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It looks like you were having a great time! I’m down South for a little bit. Good to get out and move around.
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Sounds good… will plan a trip to the South early next year I think. Enjoy!
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Thank you! Writing a little bit about it for tomorrow (Friday, Dec.1st). I think you will enjoy the southern states.
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Glad that all is well, even relatively (isn’t everything relative)? Hope you had a nice Thanksgiving with the family xoxo
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Family got the flu, so other plans were made! It was lovely. Did you attempt to make a turkey? Or catch up with people who were making a turkey? Getting one in the Nederlands, many moons ago, was a trip!
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Oh no, never attempted this myself, prefer to leave to professional cooks – or professional mothers! And we haven’t been that well connected yet so no invite either – buuuut… I did roast some chicken legs and had a cozy lunch for two at home! Lovely.
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Sounds like good fun! Don’t be scared of the Turkey. Reynolds Wrap makes a Plastic Cooking Bag makes it easy. Just follow the directions – a safe way to cook the bird! XO
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You learn something every day… had no idea there are plastic bags you could put in the oven!
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Click to access Turkey%20Oven%20Bag%20Cooking%20Guide.pdf
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So you can cook different meats too! Where have I been!? Thank you!
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