When someone asks you a question, respond.
Posted: June 5, 2018 Filed under: Discussion, Relationships | Tags: BDSM, courtesy, D/s, dievca, Good Manners, Life, NYC, Questions, Relationships, replies, Submission, submissive, vent 13 Comments
I’m direct
I’m blunt.
I’m Midwestern.
Call a spade is a spade.
I absorb and learn from criticism.
I pick my ass up after a failure.
If I ask a question, I expect an answer.
I’m not asking just to make noise.
I’m waiting for the answer.
Even if that answer is negative.
Even if you think I won’t like the answer.
And if I asked two questions, I am looking for the answer to both questions.
I am sorry if you have trouble offering a negative answer.
Or any answer at all.
Not my problem.
But it is my problem when I am trying to schedule my life and I asked the question for a reason.
The avoidance becomes disrespectful and rude.
My ire doesn’t matter – because I’m still waiting for your answer.
I’m not playing a game, its my Life.
dievca 
Absolutely — a direct question deserves a direct answer.
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Thank you, I thought so, too. The person said to me that I was telling them what to do by requesting an answer. (eye roll and head shaking).
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Oh boy. Why some people can’t understand the dynamics of human relations is beyond me.
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There is IQ and EQ – this person is very smart intelligence-wise, but when it comes to working with or though emotions – no go~
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D: I guess we’ve all got our strong points and our weak ones, too…. and sometimes our loved ones have to bear the brunt of those… 😀
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It would really help if they…..communicated.
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It’s tough for some people who never really learned to speak from the heart when they were young.
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True
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Mind you, it was to schedule an activity.
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Ha. You know, that’s exactly why Fleetwood Mac is touring without Lindsey Buckingham — he just wouldn’t commit to dates.
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What a pain in the neck – yes, what I deal with…
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It’s just common courtesy. It’s just common sense.
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I don’t know if it is game, premeditated for effect, laziness or just being an a**. Whatever the reason, I don’t have time~
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