The Pleasure and the Pain: Betony Vernon Nipple Clamps, A Thing of Beauty

20_dievca was appalled with the visual effects of red plastic clothespins on her body, even though they felt fantastic.

Full-size wood clothespins were not much more appealing.

A livable solution was achieved when she found mini clothespins covered in silver glitter.

But, the most elegant solution was offered by Betony Vernon.

Sterling Silver or 18K Gold Nipple Clamps.

Gorgeous.


Making a List: BDSM style

Coco de Mer Beautiful Bondage - Copy

Master asked His dievca to make a gift list for the Holidays.
she has never asked for a D/s gift.
dievca went looking for elegant BDSM.
And she found it….at the Coco de Mer website.
DANGEROUS!
The exquisite pieces on dievca’s list need to be shared.
D/s or not~

ABSIDEM

Absidem Cateye Blindfold - Copy Absidem Jolene Collar - Copy Absidem Jolene Lead - Copy Absidem Janice Cuffs - Copy Absidem Forget Me Not Paddle - Copy

SYLVIE MONTHULE

Sylvie Monthule Secret River Necklace and Nipple Clamps

COCO DE MER

Coco de Mer Brown Leather Flogger - Copy Coco de Mer Brown Leather Lead - Copy Coco de Mer Brown Leather Crop - Copy

Fräulein Kink

Fräulein Kink python cuffs - Copy Fräulein Kink Crystak tipped bondage ropes - Copy

PAUL SEVILLE

Paul Seville Leather Snakeskin Mask - Copy Paul Seville Leather Snakeskin T-strap snakeskin restraints Paul Seville Leather Snakeskin Paddle - Copy Paul Seville Horsse Hair Whip - Copy Paul Seville x Coco de Mer Angel Posture CollarPaul Seville x Coco de Mer Angel Vanity Paddle Paul Seville Slim Molded Collar Paul Seville Handcuff Bracelets - Copy Paul Seville Blue Feather Tickler - Copy Paul Seville Blue Ball Gag - Copy

And a preview of what will be under the tree for Master.

Christmas Present - Copy

 


Alex Monroe: Butterfly Kisses xxx

Urban Dictionary: butterfly kisses

Fluttering one’s eyelashes on someone’s skin so they just feel the tickling sensation.

Buttflies and Gator

Butterfly Kisses with a Bite

Alex Monroe: Butterfly Nipple Clamps

Each bondage clamp weighs 6g and measures 1.25 inches across the wings when closed. The clamping section is made up of the butterfly’s 6 legs which form a claw grip. A spring allows the clip to be opened by pressing the butterfly’s wings together

Alex Monroe Silver Butterfly Nipple Clamps 344BPD

The butterflies are made from sterling silver and are coated in gold plating to create a shimmering golden finish.

Designed exclusively for Coco de Mer (click photo for purchase) Available in Silver.

London based jewellery designer Alex Monroe, has been designing and making jewellery for over 25 years. Strongly inspired by nature and British eccentricity, Alex’s jewellery is elegant with a whimsical charm that makes it very much his own. In 2008 he was awarded the prestigious Jeweller of the Year award.

http://www.alexmonroe.com


Glitter Mini-Clothespins

Glitter

Not as beautiful as the Betony Vernon Nipple Clamps in Sterling Silver or 14K Gold.
But, perhaps more useful because your Sir/Madame can have more available.
And use them in more interesting places.

Etsy or DIY

clothespin


7 am: Coffee, High Line and Eggs

It’s not all presentation outfits, collars, cuffs, lingerie, whips, nipple clamps – 24/7.

Sometimes it is casual fashion for the sunrise with coffee, a walk, breakfast and conversation.


A conversation with an ODALISQUE

Lying on the bed, with the sun coming through the windows — dievca laps up the Sun’s energy like a cat absorbing Vitamin D. dievca could be on her back, her side, her belly — in whatever position Master has finished with her.

Master loves to see His dievca in this somnolent state and will watch her from afar for a few moments before coming back to bed and pulling her in for aftercare.

 Master calls dievca His ‘odalisque’.

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Definition of ODALISQUE

1:  a female slave
2:  a concubine in a harem

Origin of ODALISQUE

First Known Use: circa 1681
The word “odalisque” is French in form and originates from the Turkish  odalık, meaning “chambermaid”, from oda, “chamber” or “room”.

Joan DelPlato has described the term’s shift in meaning from Turkish to English and French:

The English and French term odalisque (rarely odalique) derives from the Turkish ‘oda’, meaning “chamber”; thus an odalisque originally meant a chamber girl or attendant. In western usage, the term has come to refer specifically to the harem concubine. By the eighteenth century the term odalisque referred to the eroticized artistic genre in which a nominally eastern woman lies on her side on display for the spectator.

During the 19th century, odalisques became common fantasy figures in the artistic movement known as Orientalism, being featured in many erotic paintings from that era.

For popular use, the word odalisque also may refer to a mistress, concubine or paramour of a wealthy man.  In 2011 the Law Society of British Columbia brought a discipline hearing against an unnamed lawyer for referring to another lawyer’s client as living with an odalisque. The Law Society found the use of the word, though an extremely poor choice, did not rise to the level of professional misconduct.

Master is able to play, tease, control and command dievca until she is actually silent.  A rare and precious occurrence, normally, dievca bubbles with energy and questions. After Master is through with her, dievca is boneless and in La La Land for about 20 blissful minutes.

During play, dievca may be divested of clothing or pieces may be added to her presentation outfit. she may gain nipple clamps, lose panties, find herself restrained with cuffs, etc.

After one such episode, dievca found herself in La La Land wearing black thigh-hi stay-up tights, plus Master’s black leather locking collar with the chain lead still attached.

dievca was artlessly sprawled across the bed after being used fully. she was on her back, breasts up, with arms stretched above her head, one leg across the other with her hips tilted to one side. Hair tousled, make-up slightly smeared, dievca felt sensual and decadent.

Once again, Master stated that His dievca looked like an odalisque. A conversation ensued about how an odalisque is much more entrancing with odds and ends draped about her body. Master finds His dievca to be more alluring with the stockings and collar marking her as His, then when she is just in the nude.
Either way, dievca feels she has served Master well
and is beautiful.

Odalisque - Henri Matisse

Marie-Louise O'Murphy Girl studio-peacefulness

Odalisque - Jules Joseph Lefebvre 1842 Odalisque with a slave Jean Auguste Dominique Ingres 1842

François Boucher, L'Odalisque c. 1749Odalisque Jean-Joseph_Benjamin-Constant_-_guy bourdin orange-sofa

A little more from Wiki:

Origin as the Turkish odalık

An odalık was not a concubine of the harem, but it was possible that she could become one. An odalık was ranked at the bottom of the social stratification of a harem, serving not the man of the household, but rather, his concubines and wives as personal chambermaids. Odalık were usually slaves given as gifts to the sultan by wealthy Turkish men. Generally, an odalık was never seen by the sultan but instead remained under the direct supervision of his mother, the Valide Sultan. 

If an odalık was of extraordinary beauty or had exceptional talents in dancing or singing, she would be trained as a possible concubine. If selected, an odalık trained as a concubine would serve the sultan sexually and only after such sexual contact would she change in status, becoming thenceforth a concubine. In the Ottoman Empire, concubines encountered the sultan only once, unless she was especially skilled in dance, singing, or the sexual arts, thus gaining his attention. If a concubine’s contact with the sultan resulted in the birth of a son, she would become one of his wives.


Baby Got Back. (18+, nsfw) repost

The best things in life are unexpected – because there were no expectations. Eli Khamarov

dievca’s Master asks for variation.

Master does not want anything to become stagnant or expected for himself or for his dievca.  The variations do not have to be large, they just need to exist.  dievca keeps an eye on what clothing/shoes she wears with Master, the presentation outfits she creates, the jewelry that accentuates her creations, and her hair/make-up, etc with variation in mind.

One simple way that dievca makes her Master happy is with beautiful unexpected surprises.  Nipple nooses, clit clamps, body chains, pasties can work, but a favorite for dievca and something surprising for Master is the crystal anal plug.  The plug is not noticeable under clothing and it feels lovely for dievca to wear– she feels a bit full. Plus, the anticipation that she will be giving Master an unexpected treat is delicious.

Master will not see or feel the plug until he begins to play with his dievca. dievca can always sense when Master runs into the plug. He pauses, smiles and then taps the crystal to let her know that he is pleased.

insertion

With the variation theme the plug is not used all the time and dievca makes sure that it’s appearance does not coincide only with certain outfits.  Both Hi and Lo styling have seen use of the plug.

dievca just wanted to mention the plug to other submissives and Vanillas because it is an inexpensive way to make your Master or partner smile.

Now that your bottom is dressed, let’s get your weekend started…..

From Nov. 8th, 2013


Baby Got Back. (18+, nsfw)

The best things in life are unexpected – because there were no expectations. Eli Khamarov

dievca’s Master asks for variation.

Master does not want anything to become stagnant or expected for himself or for his dievca.  The variations do not have to be large, they just need to exist.  dievca keeps an eye on what clothing/shoes she wears with Master, the presentation outfits she creates, the jewelry that accentuates her creations, and her hair/make-up, etc with variation in mind.

One simple way that dievca makes her Master happy is with beautiful unexpected surprises.  Nipple nooses, clit clamps, body chains, pasties can work, but a favorite for dievca and something surprising for Master is the crystal anal plug.  The plug is not noticeable under clothing and it feels lovely for dievca to wear– she feels a bit full. Plus, the anticipation that she will be giving Master an unexpected treat is delicious.

Master will not see or feel the plug until he begins to play with his dievca. dievca can always sense when Master runs into the plug. He pauses, smiles and then taps the crystal to let her know that he is pleased.

insertion

With the variation theme the plug is not used all the time and dievca makes sure that it’s appearance does not coincide only with certain outfits.  Both Hi and Lo styling have seen use of the plug.

dievca just wanted to mention the plug to other submissives and Vanillas because it is an inexpensive way to make your Master or partner smile.

Now that your bottom is dressed, let’s get your weekend started…..