About: “a dievca’s World”
I am a dievca looking to share my Sensual World through fashion, style, submission, poetry, photos, anecdotes and humor. No matter what form a D/s relationship takes, there is elegance and beauty through the power exchange. Style and presentation can enhance that exchange. Viewing the World with humor and delight is sexy. I collect and write about current and past items to inspire the future. Come find the joy in little things that might open up your eyes and make the day go better.
This blog is meant for readers over 18 years and is nsfw.
(The wire image nude odalisque is by Bart Soutendijk)
***I have added responses to Awards Questions below, incase you want to know a bit more about dievca.***
As an appreciation of you and your online presence, I have nominated you for the Shine on Blogger-to-blogger award! I love reading your blog, and even though you have a master, you are a godess, remember that 🙂 Oh, and please tell me where you are from, I couldn’t find that here.
Again — I thank you so much for the nomination. I didn’t feel that I could follow through completely, but I just realized I could answer the questions here….please forgive me for being so slow:
How was your blog born?
A pressure escape valve for my private D/s thoughts — the fashion joined in because it is a passion, it affects my life, it is fun to talk about and having a mix makes the D/s lighter..
What is the most important thing in your life?
Family and Friends
Do you have any other passions?
My relationships, my work and any form of body motion.
Are you an ambitious person or are you one who likes to get carried away?
Both, depending upon the situation. I have an enormous amount of energy to disperse.
What is your style?
What is your favorite place?
Too many locations; Europe, NYC, the US Midwest, any body of water, Garden or Park, But, I realize those places are driven by the people behind them. So, I guess my absolute favorite place is to be next to someone and be touching. A hug, a kiss, a cuddle, holding hands, sitting close. My heart settles at a touch. Location doesn’t matter
What is a quote that characterizes you?
I offer two:
nosce te ipsum — “Know Thyself”
veritas vos liberabit –“The truth shall make you free”
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I nominated you for a Liebster Award. Check out my post for the details http://thesubmissionofelle.wordpress.com/2014/05/03/liebster-award/
Hope you can participate.
Thank you, again, for the nomination. I appreciate your generosity. I don’t feel like I can follow through completely, but I can answer your questions here:
1. How tall are you and have you shrunk?
I am 5’3 and 3/4″ on a good day — I haven’t shrunk, yet…..my DL says 5’4″.
2. Do you have a celebrity girl crush?
Not really — I have a lesbian friend who has a very androgynous look and a great personality. I am fascinated by her.
3. Have you ever had an orgasm in your sleep?
Yes, sometimes I have very erotic dreams. I will wake up and write Master, if I am not with him.
4. How many places have you lived?
Three countries in Europe, Eight US States. I have a charm necklace that has all the States on it, makes for a pack.
5. What’s your all-time favorite book?
A ‘Wrinkle in Time’ Madeleine L’Engle
6.Do you have any supernatural abilities?
I have good intuition and sense about people. I also have excellent spatial body sense. I always know where I am (physically) in relation to others and the World. I don’t get lost.
7.Have you ever been to a sex club or would you ever consider going?
I have seen the Chippendale dancers when I was younger. I have asked Master about going to a BDSM club, but He knows me and He doesn’t think it is my scene.
8.Do you have any education goals?
I have a BS, MSM and a MBA. I am considering studying to take the MCAT, again after 22 years. I talk about it here:.
9. Is there anything in your house that looks like a sex toy or a body part?
I have a mannequin to show off some of my outfits and use it to sell clothes.
10. Do you have any piercings other than ears?
Just ears. I always wonder about a clit piercing, but would never do it.
11. Do you have some fearlessness or a bit of a daredevil in you?
I was a very good athlete (National/International) — I have two athletic brothers and am the youngest. To use a jet fighter term — I can go ‘balls the wall’ when pushed or I want show-off!
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What great answers! You are so very interesting so thank you for sharing more about yourself. I love “balls to the wall.” I come from an athletic family too (dad played a little pro baseball…Yankees!) and on that side there were Olympic boxers. I have 4 brothers who all played sport and then went into the Marines and Navy! And now I’m married to a total jock. I can so totally go balls to the wall. You’re a bad-ass. I really like that from one short girl to another. Thanks again!
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was kind enough to nominate me for a Liebster Award, I do not feel that I can follow through fully–but I can answer her questions here in the About section. Thank you, again, Errant! XO
1. What quote is your favourite or gives you inspiration at the moment?
At this exact moment — I am feeling a huge amount of Trust towards another human being (Master). I wouldn’t say this to just anyone:
“Where you lead, I will follow.” Ruth 1:16
2. What poem has stayed with you for a long time and remains a favourite?
Hug O’ War:
a poem by the late Shel Silverstein [Author of A Light in the Attic]
I will not play at tug o’ war
I’d rather play at hug o’ war,
Where everyone hugs
Instead of tugs
Where everyone giggles
And rolls on the rug,
Where everyone kisses
And everyone grins
And everyone cuddles
And everyone wins.
3. Do you have any tattoos, if not would you consider getting one?
No tattoos. I’ve never really been interested or thought about it. I had an Uncle who had one on his chest from WWII and then he had open heart surgery, twice….
4. Do you have a particular genre of music that you listen to or is there a surprising favourite artist?
I have Eclectic tastes and am open about music.
That said there are two instruments that grate on my ears: the Erhu and the Pan Pipe. People play them on the subway platforms and I about flip out of my skin.
5. Is there a film that surprised you with drawing you in even though it was in a ‘genre’ that you wouldn’t normally watch?
When I read a book or watch a film, I feel the emotions deeply — almost painfully so~
“The Deer Hunter” – I always find films about the US/Vietnam War draining — but the Wedding in PA reminds me of my Family/Friends and the story is about Friends going above and beyond for each other in ugly times. The phenomenal cast doesn’t hurt.
6. Is there anything in your life that you have really had to fight hard to achieve?
Being an Elite Athlete growing up, I missed a lot of social events with people my age. There came a time when people no longer invited me to do things because I would always have to say, “no.” As a Child/Young Adult — you feel left out and ostracized, even though there was a valid reason. The good news was that there was another Elite Athlete (different discipline) in the grade, we had a genuine respect for each other’s talents and she had the same experiences. Uncomfortable experiences become easier when shared.
That said, whenever I host a social event — I tell myself that it is o.k. if no one shows up. I still think that there might be a backlash response for all the events I missed.
I worked hard to accept that I was not and will not be ostracized.
7. What is the most blatant lie you have ever told?
People can read lies from my eyes and body, easily. I avoid the truth, rather than lie. I will tell you everything you don’t want to know, so that you won’t ask me the question I don’t want to answer.
8. What talent or skill would you like to develop more?
I wish that I had more time (or took more time) to dance, again. I was very good — it linked into my athletic training. But, I’ve left it alone and my body is no longer so flexible. I do feel welcome whenever I go to a dance class even though my body is bigger — I have a spark and excellent training that instructors appreciate. Your eyes will follow me when I move — but I don’t find the time to go to class.
9.If you could live at any time history, when would it be?
That’s tough — I am selfishly comfortable in our time. I think I would have been a success during WWII, when the Women had to hold down the homefront. I am very good in a crisis. The question would be, could I give it up when the Men came home?
10. Do you have a phobia or something you are afraid of?
Revolving Doors — I am terrified that they will get stuck with me in it.
11. Do you have a favourite word?
pleth·o·ra : pleTHərə/Submit
1.a large or excessive amount of (something).
It rolls off the tongue and you can never have too much of a good thing…like a plethora of love.
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Thank you, Peep for thinking of me! XO
1. What am I working on at the moment?
15 drafts are in my Drafts file.
Some examples: Lily Allens clothing line that went belly up, DSTM (Don’t Shoot The Messengers), Steampunk, Dom Perignon Ads, St. Christopher, Globe-Trotter 1897, etc.
I just dumped a post about “the ghost” in the room (past Subs, past Doms, etc.) I tried to write about it and I had too much or too little information to draw upon. Maybe later~ or make it a poem.
2 How does my work differ from others of its genre?
I don’t think anyone has combined Fashion with BDSM. I did it immediately because I wasn’t comfortable presenting to Master in public wearing certain so-called ‘BDSM’ items. I wanted to honor Him, not just be raunchy. He never asked for those items, either — He prefers that I dress well for Him and be His ASSet.
Subtle BDSM, beautiful BDSM – not offensive BDSM.
Master sees me as a lovely extension of Him.
I wasn’t comfortable writing about BDSM in the beginning, though I am getting better about it. Writing about my passion for Fashion and my presentations for Master made a link in my head. I can flip in either direction as the mood hits and they are tied together in my mind, strange though it may be~
3 Why do I write what I do?
I am very private about my BDSM leanings. I think that it would not be comfortable for very important people in my life to know about my BDSM. This blog is a pressure release valve for that need to be silent elsewhere.
4. How does my writing process work?
Master calls me a ‘Fox’ and Himself a ‘Hedgehog’ (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Hedgehog_and_the_Fox)
I have an enormous amount of energy and work better when I am multi-tasking with a number of items to be completed. I work on many things at the same time and amazingly (or luckily) — everything gets done after the whirlwind blows through.
Basically, I see or hear something that inspires me and I make a note of it or write a post, immediately. Under the sheen of chaos, I am super organized and have a strong work ethic.
sh3rayah (http://sh3rayah.wordpress.com/) thought of me when nominating people for the Liebster Award. Her generous gesture allows me to share a little bit more information about myself.
1. If you could be any animal, what animal would you be?
A well taken care of cat. (My well-taken-care-of, geriatric cat just passed away)
2. If You acquired a boat what would You name her?
3. What is your favorite smell?
Citrus Tree Blossoms and Jasmine Blossoms
4. Would you ever live outside your comfort zone for 30 days? (whatever that interpretation means to you. i.e. no technology, no television, living in a shelter or without electricity) Please Share
Yes, easily. I don’t mind being alone and I love to be outside. I could dump technology and get back to basics with minimum fuss. What a treat. XO
5. Do you have any phobias?
Not really, other than the fear of revolving doors…
6. What’s the Most dangerous thing You have done?
Falling asleep at the wheel of a car. I immediately pulled over to the side of the road and slept for 30 minutes. It got me home safely.
7. What is your Astrological sign, and do you feel you possess those characteristics?
Libra: I always see both sides of a situation and try to give each side a fair shake. I also like to think that I have an eye for beauty. I can be fickle about material objects.
8. Do you believe that the color of a room affects your mood? What color(s) soothes you.
I like sun, openness and a bright room. Optical White is too much, but a clean crisp light cream or grey works well with white trim. It opens up a small apartment and shows off Artwork, well.
9. Do you donate blood?
Yes — they love me because I have an odd blood type. But, my pulse is slow so it takes more time.
10. If you could be the opposite sex for 30 days would you?
Sure, why not? I would like to discover why it is easier for Men to lose weight vs.. Women. And how does one deal with the dangly things in the front?
11. If you had 3 wishes, what would you wish for?
Good Health for my Family and Friends
An efficient way to recycle garbage (it weighs on me)
More understanding in the World.
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Hello ,i like your Blog,visit me too in free time , Take care,Regards from Poland
Thanks for this little tour of random things about you! It works really well putting the various award questions together on one page like this!
Thank you, Ash. I didn’t feel like I could follow through with all of the “rules” of the awards, but I could offer some information. I’ve seen some blogs have an “Awards” page, too. I’m not that savvy.
I love the drawing on the header of your blog. I been meaning to tell you how great your blog is. So I love your blog. Vintage art is great. I’ve been getting ready for a big move and been packing boxes. Thank you for following me and liking my post. Have a great day. Cheers , Katie
Welcome! Thank you for dropping by – the header picture is a wire sculpture by Bart Soutendijk – he has some other fun pieces. Good Luck with packing and travel safely!
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Great sculpture. It reminds me of a drawing someone gave me. I need to go find a box for a 42 ‘ flatscreen. Maybe at best buy.
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I’m student of a university. I wonder if I can use a photo on your website for my assignment which is designing a magazine cover. It is not for commercial use and there won’t be any modification to the original photo, only used for my assignment handing on to the lecturer.
Here is the picture I want to use https://dievca.files.wordpress.com/2014/11/todd-burris-silvershoes1993.jpg?w=1200&h=1494
Looking forward to you reply.
Hi, this isn’t my photograph. The artist, Todd Burris, is still living and in NYC. His last show was at the Robin Rice Gallery–and that gallery is who is selling a physical copy of the photo. I would contact them to be “covered”.
Here’s a link to send the gallery a message: https://www.1stdibs.com/art/photography/todd-burris-silver-shoes-1993/id-a_18648/
Hello, where does the name of your blog come from? In my (slovak) language, “dievca” means a girl…just wondering 🙂
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The name of the blog is “girl” — often times in BDSM a submissive is called “boy” or “girl” and they will write it with a lower case letter. So, we are both correct!
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Did you live in Slovakia? Or where did you come accross that word? It´s not very common for the foreigners to know it 🙂
I sought it out. My ethnic background consists of two halves. With the other half the word for “girl” is used quite a bit, so I went with the Slovak side. Considering that I look Slovak, too — well, it made sense. Just Grandparents who spoke Slovak.
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That´s an interesting background, thanks for sharing 🙂