Plans gone Awry (lingerie): a dievca Disaster
Posted: February 12, 2019 Filed under: Body Type, Clothing, Disasters, lingerie | Tags: BDSM, bondage, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Life, Master, Presentation Outfits, Submission, submissive 5 Comments
Jane Fonda
Saved by an Waist-cinching Open-bottom Control Garter Belt.
Truly.
Last Lingerie Thursday, dievca offered a sneak peek at what she was planning to wear for Master:
Disaster! When dievca was setting out the pieces it was NOT going to work. dievca was too chubby for the blue corset, she had a major run in the nude stockings, she couldn’t find the nude garter belt (and still does not know where it is…)
Once she admitted defeat with the corset, she decided it was time to tap dance.
Plan B:
Best tap dance ever!
dievca did a dry run through with the corset and pieces – she could get it on in the 20 minutes allotted from arriving home from work to Master’s arrival, expecting a kneeling dievca.
dievca caught site of herself in a window reflection (back-lit), the control garter belt and corset made her body look amazing!
Vavavoom Curves – which Master appreciated fully.
Plus, the open bottom of the garter created a hint of what was underneath, then easy access when needed. The corset was a larger size than the blue and could be cinched-in safely, and the stockings had no runs.
dievca has learned the hard way, take time to plan your presentation outfit. And she is planning to add more Waist-cinching Open-bottom Control Garter Belts to her lingerie collection.
No Matter How You Say It ~ Love is Love
Posted: February 9, 2019 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, Fashion | Tags: Alberta Ferretti, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Happiness, Life, Love, Presentation Outfits, quote, Relationships, Shopping, submissive Leave a comment
You may hold my hand for a while,
but you hold my heart forever.
Alberta Ferretti Sweaters and Bags available at Fwrd.com
Baby, its gonna be cold!
Posted: January 30, 2019 Filed under: Analysis, Clothing | Tags: 1950's Household Kink, BDSM, Choices, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Family, fashion, Fetish, Fur, Fur Coat, Life, Love, Presentation Outfits, submissive, Winter 3 Comments
1950 Jacques Griffe
And, yes, dievca is going to pull out one of her 15 fur coats/jackets/vests….
Fifteen? you ask.
Yes, 15.
Just four here in NYC.
dievca’s Mom was best friends with a furrier. We received coats when people upgraded or needed another size. Coats can be cut down, but making them larger calls for a new coat. We received more when they retired and decided not to sell the business.
Fur, if it is taken care of well – stands the test of time. It is pretty much the warmest solution in cold weather.
If you decided to pass judgement on dievca — ask yourself if you eat meat, drive a car, wear leather, wear down, understand how much of a carbon footprint is made from creating faux leather and plastic products, etc. dievca knows where her fur came from, who sourced it, who made the coats and how long she has had them.
And they will, someday, decompose safely.
dievca is going to guess that you have a problem with hunting deer, too.
Have you ever seen Bambi starve in the winter? It’s not pretty.
All the hunters she knows are very conscious about using ALL the parts of a deer.
Yes, dievca has fur hats, too. Vintage.
And is tired of being on the defense for wearing fur, so she has gone on the offensive.
XO
A weird weekend…
Posted: January 27, 2019 Filed under: Clothing, Disasters | Tags: BDSM, Cuddl Duds, D/s, dievca, disaster, Family, last minute, Life, Love, submissive, travel, Winter 3 Comments
dievca had a party she forgot about and an 85th birthday party drop on her lap.
Both casual. One very casual Poconos…..PJ’s.
she got through 1.5 hours in NYC wearing:
The DISASTER?
PJ Party….
Someone bought dievca Cuddl Duds from QVC.com
dievca looks absolutely horrible in baby pink and she had to wear the PJs over Lululemon tights and a long sleeve top because she was freezing her a** off. That is what she is writing this post in….as everyone else is snoring away. That’s what you get when you are exhausted after work on a Sat. and you always get up early. Not glamorous.
Just weird.
Back to NYC – ASAP.
PVC
Posted: January 9, 2019 Filed under: Clothing, Fashion | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, erotic, fashion, Fetish, Kink, Presentation Outfits, PVC, Shopping, Slave, submissive 6 CommentsPolyvinyl chloride is the world’s third-most widely produced synthetic plastic polymer, after polyethylene and polypropylene. Chemical formula: (C2H3Cl)n
The terms “PVC”, “vinyl” and “PU” tend to be used interchangeably by retailers for clothing made from shiny plastic-coated fabrics. These fabrics usually consist of a backing woven from polyester fibers with a surface coating of shiny plastic.
As with latex, PVC became more noted as fetish material in the 1960’s and early 1970’s. During that era, boots and garments made of vinyl were made and worn in public areas to some degrees. In the media, the most obvious was the British TV program The Avengers with Emma Peel.
Why PVC?
The advantages of PVC are the shiny look, durability and cost. Patent Leather is much more expensive and getting your latex to shine is a slippery process.
Disadvantages include being hot, stiff and the fabric not breathing well.
With that in mind, dievca was surprised to see Fleur du Mal offering these pieces:
A quick review of some Winter Outfits (3)
Posted: January 5, 2019 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, Fashion, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Holidays 2018, Life, NYC, Presentation Outfits, submissive, Winter Leave a commentdievca realized that she wrote this post and forgot to put it out there. These are some outfits from the Holidays – but are appropriate for the Winter. All were pulled from dievca’s closet of goodies.
Holiday Party downtown Brooklyn, brownstone, friends:
Holiday Work Party, formal venue, meeting with Master afterward:
At home: cozy mulled wine and dinner with close friends:
‘Chemical Play’: Some like it HOT!
Posted: January 2, 2019 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, Dresses, Poetry | Tags: 1950's Household Kink, BDSM, Chili Peppers, D/s, dievca, Elegant, fashion, Kate Spade, Life, Presentation Outfits, Shopping, Slave, submissive 2 Comments
Some Like It Hot, Marilyn Monroe
Does anyone have burnout from the Holidays? Can dievca distract you with a Hot Chili Pepper or two?
Definition – What does Chemical Play mean?
Chemical play refers to the use of chemical substances, often in liquid form, during sex. These chemicals are means of increasing excitement through different tactile sensations. They are applied sensually through caresses and sometimes, even using sexual body parts such as the penis or nipples. Substances used include chili peppers, tabasco, lemon, cinnamon, ginger, Bengay, Tiger Balm, and Vicks Vapor Rub. These are applied anywhere on the body, including favorites such as the genitals, anus, inner thighs, and tongue.
Chemical play can be very exciting. It adds another level of sensation during sex which can increase the intensity of orgasms. Remember that introducing foreign substances to ones body has innate risks. At the very least, applying these chemicals can cause temporary burns. Safety FIRST! When one intends to play with chemicals, test the substances and have items that can counter their effects nearby, such as water, milk, and anti-inflammatory medicine.
A comprehensive primer on CHEMICAL PLAY – please read before playing!
Coin purse, earrings and dress from Kate Spade.
plus a haiku from a Cape Cod hot sauce maker Rooster Fricke called “The Chili”:
