Winter Sludge

“Holy shit! You know what they say in England: there’s no such thing as bad weather. There’s just bad clothing.”

“So you’re good.”

Those who know you well….can always make you feel good. What a close friend said after seeing dievca’s selfie while she was sludging through sh*t.

Here’s what dievca was wearing through the slushy, can’t decide if it will rain, sleet or snow – weather:

dievca was better prepared than anyone she met that day.
(pat on the back)
she does know how to dress appropriately for most situations.
Feel free to ask if you have a clothing question, Master does…XO

Finding a Way (Presentation Outfit)

dievca is curvy.

That makes wearing certain styles a trick. And normally, dievca just avoids those styles.

For instance,
a 1960’s Go-Go mini-skirt shift dress:

It is a style dievca avoids….
until she saw Master looking at a museum exhibition of them with fondness.
Obviously, the fashion holds some great memories for Him.

So, now she has taken on the Go-Go Dress as a Presentation Outfit for Master.

dievca plans to buy one and get it altered to her curves as best as possible
or she might have a friend make her a dress with a vintage pattern.
Then it will be the quest for Go-Go Boots.
Poufy hair and cat eyes are not a problem.

Add a little groovy music and maybe dievca will swing her Master’s memories back here:

“Very often in the old fashion style of dancing, we may not feel particularly in a romantic mood and yet, very often, our partner would grab us and dance very close and hold us so closely – and I like this because, your know, we can completely keep it arms length and dance however we please, and ah – I really like that.”

Hopefully, Master will dance with His dievca at arms length
and then invite her to sit on His lap.
Perhaps His hands will wander up her mini-skirt.
We will see!

HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY. 💋 Sending my 💌 to you.

Charlotte Olympia Heart Saying Persplex Clutch

Christopher Kane Embroidered Guipere Heart red Mini Dress

Saint Laurent Heart Embellishment Pencil Skirt

Charlotte Olympia Queen of Hearts Clutch

A Toast!

Markus Lupfer Kate Embellished T-shirt $215

To dievca’s new apartment, using her mid-century modern glassware:

Holmegaard ‘Canada’ cocktail glasses by Per Lutken

Champagne Glass

Will you join her?

Channeling your Inner Domme with Alexander McQueen

Whipstitch and Leather.

Taking a look from the other side.

Hairy Caterpillar – 1990’s Flashback

dievca spotted a young adult looking adorable in a Forever 21 Chenille Sweater. (left photo)

Welcome to the 1990’s Flashback which caused dievca to desperately hunt for something cosy and fuzzy — and is causing her to currently lust over a color she cannot wear (bottom).

What is Chenille?



  1. a tufted, velvety yarn used for trimming, embroidery, etc.
  2. a fabric filled or woven with such yarn, used for rugs, bedspreads, etc.

Origin of chenille

French, literally, hairy caterpillar from Classical Latin canicula, diminutive of canis, dog (see hound): from its hairy pile.


the symbolic meaning of a Caterpillar deals with pure potential. Symbolizing the promise of the new life dwelling in their bodies. Eventually a caterpillar is going to go into cocooning stage, after which it will birth into an entirely new creature (moth or butterfly).

OK, got it! dievca wanted to be cosy, she wanted to symbolize potential and she was able to curb her Chenille Flashback in an inexpensive way at J Jill and

The options have been well received and comfortable…but of course dievca ran into these Creatures of Comfort pieces and desire (not need) drives her thoughts, until she remembers that yellow is a rotten color on her…

Are you or your partner currently wearing a hairy caterpillar?

Webster’s New World College Dictionary, Fifth Edition Copyright © 2014 by Houghton Mifflin Harcourt Publishing Company.

Oh My! something necessary

(click photo to pre-order)

(Something for the Littles or anyone who is feeling the Joy! Cinn? XO)