Old FavoritesPosted: February 25, 2023 Filed under: Collars, Dresses, Shoes, submissive | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Ease, Elegant, erotic, Go-Bag, Life, Master, practical, Presentation Outfit, Salvatore Ferragamo, Vivienne Westwood, Wolford Leave a comment
When the schedule is packed and you are rushing around –
it helps to know that you have the “old favorites” in a Go-bag.
All readily available to make an elegant Presentation for Master:
- Vivienne Westwood “Orgie” Dress in Orange
- Salvatore Ferragamo Black Leather Heels
- Wolford black Thigh-Hi Stay-up stockings
- Hartman Rose Collar and Lead in Gold Lether
- Chanel Red Allure Lipstick
Elegant Italian PresentationPosted: May 14, 2022 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, Collars | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, MatchesFashion, Presentation Outfit, Saint Laurent, submissive, Summer, Zimmerman Leave a comment
How lovely for the Sweep of Summer.
Chain Collars from Saint Laurent, Outfit from Zimmerman.
Your Master of Mistress would be proud. XO
From Matches Fashion:
Curated By Marie-Louise Sciò
Who better to showcase enviable looks for a Roman holiday than the CEO & Creative Director of the Pellicano Hotels Group and ISSIMO, as she tours her hometown with her close friend and stylist, Robert Rabensteiner?
Spring: sprucing up your submissivePosted: April 9, 2022 Filed under: Accessories, Collars, Submission | Tags: BDSM, cuffs, D/s, dievca, Dominant, erotic, handmade, Leather, restraints, Shopping, Spring, submissive Leave a comment
thecollarshop.com: Every time you buy from The Collar Shop you know that you are buying a handcrafted, custom piece made to your specifications. All items have adjustability built-in, so please be sure to read the FAQ on how to properly measure and order.
Versace Vixen – a stylish submissivePosted: February 11, 2022 Filed under: Accessories, Collars, Submission | Tags: BDSM, collar, D/s, D/s relationships, dievca, Elegant, lead, Leather, Sexy, submissive, Versace Leave a comment
dievca hasn’t offered any suggestions for Collars and Leads in a long time.
she ran into this elegant Versace Medusa set on MyTheresa for sale –
but only the small is available.
You can find Medium and Larges on other sites.
Very elegant for your submissive.
Fashioned in Black Leather, featuring gleaming golden hardware that includes iconic Medusa head studs, it comes with a adjustable buckle fasten on the doubled collar, allowing you to adjust the fit for your submissives’s comfort.
materials: brass, leather, fabric
size & fit
Length of size S = 59cm-23″
Length of size M = 65cm-25.5″
Length of size L = 74cm-29
dievca’s Holiday wishlistPosted: November 20, 2020 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, Collars | Tags: BDSM, Coats, D/s, dievca, fashion, Gifts, Holiday 2020, jewelry, Shopping, submissive 2 Comments
Do you have a wishlist this year?
Sky’s the limit on a couple of items. XO
(click on the photos for links to purchase)
Not Quite – but very nice, indeed.Posted: August 5, 2020 Filed under: Collars, Jewelry | Tags: BDSM, bondage, Collier, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Kink, Master, Shopping, Slave, submissive Leave a comment
dievca is still on the hunt for Chrissie Hynde’s Collar.
In the meantime, this BLUE NILE sterling silver padlock necklace can add a hint of BDSM to one’s daily Life.
This edgy, BLUE NILE, sterling silver necklace has a working padlock that functions as the clasp.
Wear it layered or on its own, this necklace is a fun and stylish flair in your wardrobe.
luxurious bondagePosted: July 18, 2020 Filed under: Collars, Submission | Tags: BDSM, bondage, Coco de Mer, Collier, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Kink, Leather, Shopping, Slave, submissive Leave a comment
Explore bondage play at its most opulent with The Model Traitor’s hand-finished pleasure tools. Crafted from sumptuously soft Italian leather, each delectable item is finished with a soft fur upper and shimmering brass hardware for a beautifully tactile bondage experience.
Featuring a sumptuous suede-lined leather handle and durable brass chain, this lead connects to your favorite collar or restraint for sensual BDSM exploration. The strong, multi-directional brass lobster clip keeps your plaything firmly in place, and can be quickly unclipped should you wish to change to something new.
The Model Traitor is a London-based collaborative collection by renowned corsetry designer Sian Hoffman, and fine artist Valentina Piras. Every single piece is expertly crafted at their London Discipline Atelier and distinguishable by its use of irresistible materials and polished brass hardware.
Model Traitor O-Ring Collar and Lead can be found at Coco de Mer.
Bits and PiecesPosted: July 11, 2020 Filed under: Collars, D/s Relationship | Tags: BDSM, bondage, D/s, dievca, Dominance and submission, Fleet Ilya, Life, Love, Master, submissive Leave a comment
The remnants of Master and dievca’s Power Exchange bring a sense of peace.
Photos: dievca, Fleet Ilya collar with silver curb chain lead
Protection via a Submission Day Collar: Loren StewartPosted: October 1, 2019 Filed under: Collars, Jewelry, Submission | Tags: BDSM, collar, Collier, D/s, dievca, Elegant, jade, Loren Stewart, Master, Shopping, Slave, submissive 5 Comments
Not only can jade save you from disaster, but it is purportedly that it can protect you from evil, attract love and, of course, bring good luck… Jade is an ornamental stone, considered the imperial gem in ancient China and used for centuries to make weapons, tools, jewelry and other decorative pieces
Now offered as a Collar: from Loren Stewart:
Loren Stewart LA – Jade Link Choker $640 (click link)
Definition of jade
Dom/sub joining personified = Hermès FusionPosted: September 20, 2019 Filed under: Collars, Neighborhood Anecdotes (NYC), Submission | Tags: BDSM, bondage, Chain, collar, D/s, dievca, fashion, Hermès, Life, Relationships, Shopping, Slave, submissive Leave a comment
the process or result of joining two or more things together to form a single entity.
If your Sir or Madame is looking for a special piece for their collared submissive.
The joining personified.
Something exceptional = Hermès Fusion
Leave it to Hermès to totally reinvent the idea of the chain for high-jewelry. The Enchaînements Libres collection gives a big and bold new spin to an old jewelry staple while still representing the codes of the Maison as a harness-maker and saddler—as well as a nod to its ties to the nautical world. While the collection debuted last summer, the pieces were brought to New York for the first time to be shown to clients. To present the stunning collection, Pierre Hardy, Hermès’ creative director of high-jewelry, took to the stage during a presentation at Jazz at Lincoln Center, where modern dancers, choreographed by Christian Rizzo, opened a show that looked more like a ready-to-wear runway than a high-jewelry presentation. A series of models clad only in black appeared afterward in the new jewels, allowing guests to get up-close to the pieces at the end of the presentation. ~ Robb Report
A hint of BDSM: Open House ProjectsPosted: July 19, 2019 Filed under: Collars, Jewelry | Tags: BDSM, bondage, collar, D/s, dievca, Dominance and submission, Elegant, fashion, NYC, Shopping, Slave, submissive 2 Comments
cuff, collar, o-ring
Simple, elegant -a hint of BDSM
Open House Projects Jewelry
Open House Projects jewelry is designed by Monika Wyndham in New York. Designs usually start their lives as sketches on paper and are eventually carved in wax somewhere between the Catskills and New York City. New work is often made at odd hours, and sometimes in hotels, on picnic benches, and in cars. Open House jewelry often features moving parts, pieces that fit together in satisfying ways, and design elements with utility like handmade clasps and closures. Our aim is to make design objects with integrity that feel good to wear and are nice to interact with. We respect the inimitable nature of something that is made by hand.
We are glad to work closely with family-owned businesses and skilled jewelers in New York City to take each of our designs from concept to completion. Our pieces are cast in certified recycled metals using the lost wax method
In case you were curious – dievca’s lingerie for todayPosted: February 14, 2019 Filed under: Collars, lingerie, Master | Tags: BDSM, collar, D/s, dievca, Dominance and submission, Elegant, Life, Love, Master, Presentation Outfits, submissive, Valentine's Day 7 Comments
dievca’s Lingerie for Valentine’s Day
Flora by Flora Nikrooz satin bellflower nightgown in scarlet red.
Gold Leather play collar and lead Hartman & Rose
And dievca’s card for Master by NewtonAndTheApple Etsy, below.
Change of Plans…Posted: January 1, 2019 Filed under: Clothing, Collars, D/s Relationship | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, EDM, Life, Love, Master, New Year's Eve, NYC, Party, Relationships, submissive 6 Comments
dievca was all ready to step into her sequins for champagne and dinner when Master called and said, “Change of Plans — just got on the list, we’re heading to a NYE EDM concert.”
Whoosh~ (house, progressive house, tech house, techno, progressive trance)
Clothing change needed to happen ASAP – those venues get HOT and sweaty…
No full sequin dress or tights.
Master’s clothing change was pretty easy:
dievca blanked out, a bit…then decided to keep it simple:
she was so pumped to wear Master’s Collar in public, comfortably.
A 2019 bonus!
HAPPY and HEALTHY NEW YEAR!
Pendu – “Post Fetish” elegancePosted: December 9, 2018 Filed under: Accessories, Collars, Fashion | Tags: art, BDSM, bondage, collar, Collier, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Fetish, Kink, Leather, Photos, Slave, submissive, Todd Pendu, Zana Bayne Leave a comment
dievca ran into a collection of leather goods from Todd Pendu & Zana Bayne called, “Magnum Opus” SS14. she purchased two items: a bracelet and a necklace which she modified slightly to make it a leather collar. How? she added holes at the buckles to tighten it and removed the attached triangle piece so Master could attach His lead.
The term “Post-Fetish” was coined by Todd Pendu as “decontextualizing traditional fetish gear into aesthetic accessories to be incorporated into everyday wear”.
Originally, dievca was focused on the person in the co-collaboration whose name was on the worked leather, Zana Bayne. But, she starting looking deeper into the gorgeous work of co-Creative Director, Todd Pendu after viewing some of his photographs.
Paz de la Huerta, lensed and styled by Todd Pendu
All wardrobe from the Zana Bayne “Moonbathers Collection”.
Shot in Los Angeles, August 2016
Todd Pendu is a multi-disciplinary artist and image-maker currently living and working in NYC and Los Angeles. PENDV JOURNAL is an online platform and portfolio for his creative projects and art/photographic works. He is the founder of DEVIL’S WHOREHOUSE STUDIO. He is also co-Creative Director at ZANA BAYNE.
Email: info @ pendvjournal . com
“I am a self-described ‘Duchampian Punk’ and a proponent for Libertine Culture. I work independently outside the Establishment. My art doesn’t always fit in to convenient aesthetic categories. I’m interested in personal freedom and expression. I do what I want. I create for those outside society – for those who live by their own rules – not for everyone, but for everyone else.” – Todd Pendu
Cheyenne, lensed by Todd Pendu
Shot in an apartment in Paris. March, 2017.
Todd Pendu is a multi-talented person who is able to walk the edge and create elegance. dievca would like to Thank him for allowing her to share some if his work. Please stop by His site and wander.
A Collar for Christmas: Eddie BorgoPosted: December 5, 2018 Filed under: Collars, Jewelry | Tags: BDSM, bondage, collar, Collier, D/s, dievca, Dominance and submission, Eddie Borgo, Elegant, erotic, fashion, Fetish, Kink, Shopping, Slave, submissive 3 Comments
dievca’s first post: “Eddie Borgo creates beauty for the submissive” was offering a cuff as an elegant solution for a submissive to wear in the pre- 50 Shades of Grey World. Wearing something symbolizing BDSM was an edgy choice and trying to find something subtle, yet elegant was hard.
Times have changed in the 5+ years and now BDSM clothing and jewelry options have expanded. The BDSM flavor has been on many runways and in various collections. Now, it is easier to find elegant BDSM pieces and easier to wear leather collars, o-rings, chains, etc. in public.
That doesn’t mean an elegant, yet direct BDSM reference jewelry piece is no longer sought out. One of the first jewelry designers offering a BDSM edge was Eddie Borgo and this thicker collar came out in 2015. The collar is still gorgeous to wear, either symbolizing your submission – or not.
And helping the Homeless of NYC via an auction is not a bad thing, too.
* Gold-plated metal or Rhodium-plated metal
* Thin, dangling link chain
* Lobster claw closure, adjustable
* Double-hinged opening
* Stamped on inside of cuff
* In new, unused condition
4.25″W x 4.5″D x .75″H
MSRP – $375
dievca is not sure how the measurements are taken, there are three settings. A circle with a diameter of 4.25 has a circumference of 13.35 inches. Note: dievca would like to mention that you should measure your neck before bidding – and keep in mind that you need a little room to swallow.
Auction ends at 10 pm EDT on December 15th (click on the photos above to bid)
Perhaps, getting a little wet~Posted: September 12, 2018 Filed under: Accessories, Collars | Tags: BDSM, bondage, Coco de Mer, Collier, cuffs, D/s, dievca, Dominance and submission, Elegant, erotic, Fetish, Kink, Leather, Master, Shopping, Slave, submissive 11 Comments
Coco de Mer’s collection of luxurious bondage pieces offer both visual and tactile delights to inspire exploration, excitement and enjoyment. Crafted from sumptuous cow hide, butter soft lamb’s leather, plush suede and beautifully polish wood, each item has been created for unbridled eroticism after dark.
Why do I have to wear them after dark?
They look so beautiful I want to wear and use them in public.
In the sunlight.
Chanel Chain and Velvet Collar – AuctionPosted: July 3, 2018 Filed under: Collars, Fashion, Jewelry | Tags: Auction, BDSM, bondage, Chanel, Collier, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Housing Works NYC, Kink, Master, Shopping, Slave, submissive Leave a comment
* Silver toned metal
* Velvet ribbon woven through
* Lobster claw clasp
* Made in Italy
* 22″ including extender
* 2013 Collection
* Great condition
AUCTION ENDS AT 10:00 PM, July 3rd EDT
Feeling a strong need…Posted: June 15, 2018 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, Collars | Tags: BDSM, bondage, D/s, dievca, Dominance, erotic, fashion, Fetish, Kink, Leather, Presentation Outfits, Shopping, Slave, Submission, submissive 5 Comments
to be Dominated.
The collar doesn’t lock,
but is forms a seamless tubular ring.
The ‘Louis Vuitton’ submissive~Posted: May 11, 2018 Filed under: Accessories, Collars, Submission | Tags: BDSM, bondage, Collier, Cuff, D/s, dievca, Dominance and submission, Elegant, erotic, fashion, Fetish, Kink, padlock, Presentation Outfits, Shopping, Slave, submissive 6 Comments
If you are looking to up your BDSM elegance game
you and your Madame/ Sir are label conscious:
Maybe the designer locks on your collar and cuffs are not enough, you can add the Louis Vuitton Baxter collar and lead. (note: you need to have a thin neck, max circumference 11.4 inches/29 cm) The collar and lead are about $300+ each.
Got it!Posted: January 17, 2018 Filed under: Collars | Tags: BDSM, bondage, collar, Collier, D/s, dievca, Dominance and submission, Elegant, erotic, fashion, Fetish, Fleet Ilya, Kink, Leather, Shopping, Slave, submissive 5 Comments
Remember when dievca said that she and Master were in the market for a new black leather collar?
she picked up this Fleet Ilya buffed leather choker in black.
- O-ring hardware.
- Logo embossed leather at back.
- Adjustable pin-buckle fastening.
- Silver-tone hardware.
- Height: 4.5cm (1.8 inches), Circumference: 38.5cm (18 inches)
The height makes the Collar almost a posture collar for dievca. The smell of the leather is divine. Well-made, sturdy, beautiful.
Originally $265, on sale for $101.
dievca will keep an eye out for the matching black leather lead.
No emergency, Master has a silver chain lead.
Sometimes You are Ready: Dreaming of a new Play Collar and LeadPosted: October 17, 2017 Filed under: Collars | Tags: Charlotte Olympia, Collier, Cuff, D/s, Dominance and submission, Elegant, erotic, Fetish, Kink, Leather, Master, Shopping, Slave, Submission, submissive 4 Comments
BDSM leans towards black leather, studs, locks
– serious accouterments.
Master and dievca came at dievca’s presentation and their playing with a more lighthearted approach. Colorful or embellished Play Collars, elegant chokers for Presentation in public.
Master and dievca have beautiful play collars and leads:
Sometimes you just need a plain black collar for Presentation.
(Are you seeing a theme with the combat boots? What is up with dievca?)
It has been years since dievca has treated Master and herself to a new (and more durable) black play collar. Master happily approved of her plan. So, she’s started her search with:
LEATHER COLLAR IN BLACK (1.625″)
Hand crafted in premium genuine leather, this simple and elegant leather collar design is both comfortable and durable.
1.625 inches (41mm) thick. Fits neck sizes up to 16 inches (41cm). Includes a retainer pin, but can be locked with a small padlock (sold separately).
Each collar is hand-made from premium quality double-back belting leather, and then lined with a padded, ultra-soft hand-bag leather. The edges are folded for maximum comfort and sewn with oversized nylon thread for superb durability. The retaining pin is designed to fit a small padlock (not included $18.00).
Matching Lead is $55.00
If you have a suggestion for a black play collar, dievca would love to hear about it!
Bold submissive Day Collar: Jennifer FisherPosted: September 18, 2017 Filed under: Collars | Tags: BDSM, bondage, chains, Collier, D/s, dievca, Elegant, fashion, Jennifer Fisher, Shopping, Slave, submissive 4 Comments
Can you be BOLD and a submissive at the same time?
Can you wear a BOLD symbol of your ownership in public?
Gold-plated and Silver-plated Chain Collars by Jennifer Fisher available at the OutNet.
And if you would like more subtle offerings:
It’s CHANEL, Sir/Madame : submissive Day CollarPosted: August 22, 2017 Filed under: Collars, Vintage | Tags: BDSM, bondage, Chanel, collar, Collier, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Etsy, Kink, Master, Shopping, Slave, submissive 2 Comments
Vintage CHANEL Dog Collar from Etsy
- Vintage item from the 1980’s
- Primary color: Black
- Secondary color: Gold
- Materials: Leather, Metal
- Ships worldwide from France
Double Dip with David Yurman Day CollarsPosted: July 27, 2017 Filed under: Collars, Jewelry | Tags: Auctions, BDSM, bondage, collar, Collier, D/s, dievca, Dominance and submission, Elegant, erotic, Housing Works NYC, Kink, Shopping, Slave, submissive 2 Comments
Two David Yurman Collars/Necklaces on Auction from Housing Works NYC, perhaps you Sir/Master will find them attractive for Their submissive/slave.
Or just something elegant to wear with your Summer Maxi Dress ~
(click on the Lot ID to bid – there is about 6 days left, as of 07/27/2016)
.5″w x 16″l
* Sterling silver construction
* Diamond accents
* Push-button clasp
* Marked on clasp
* Shows very little signs of wear
Necklace: 1/8″w x 18″l Pendant: 1/4″ x 5/8″h
* Sterling silver box chain necklace
* Sterling, 14 kt. gold, and pearl pendant
* Lobster claw clasp
* Marked by clasp and on pendant
* Shows very light signs of wear
Hey Chica –no, Chika KisadaPosted: July 18, 2017 Filed under: Collars | Tags: BDSM, bondage, collar, Collier, D/s, dievca, Dominance and submission, Elegant, erotic, fashion, Fetish, Master, masturbation, Shopping, Slave, submissive 4 Comments
a girl or young woman (often as a form of address).
“you rock, chica!”
Black Loop Choker
Karma Collar and Cuff: ManiaManiaPosted: July 15, 2017 Filed under: Collars | Tags: BDSM, bondage, collar, Cuff, D/s, dievca, Dominance and submission, Elegant, erotic, fashion, Fetish, ManiaMania, Master, Shopping, Slave, submissive 2 Comments
A Day Collar and Cuff to honor your Sir or Madam.
Mainstream?Posted: June 5, 2017 Filed under: Clothing, Collars | Tags: BDSM, bondage, Carven, D/s, dievca, Dominance and submission, erotic, Fetish, Kink, Master, Shopping, Slave, submissive, t-shirt 2 Comments
When they take a play collar and place it on a t-shirt, perhaps BDSM has gone “mainstream”.
What do you think?
Belt-style choker adds edge to crewneck tee
About 23″ from shoulder to hem
Full price at InterMix and IFCHIC ($290), on sale at Neiman Marcus and Bergdorf Goodman ($174), sold out at Saks Fifth Avenue ($174) even though they just came out for the Season…hmm…dievca guesses that BDSM (D/s) is not going mainstream, yet~
Rumi: A submissive’s CollarPosted: May 2, 2017 Filed under: Collars, Jewelry | Tags: BDSM, collar, Collier, D/s, dievca, Dionea Orcini, Elegant, erotic, Master, Presentation Outfits, Shopping, Slave, Submission, submissive 6 Comments
‘Wait with silent passion for one glance, one touch…’ ~Rumi
Dionea Orcini choker inscribed with “wait with silent passion, for one glance…” worn by Gemma Arterton in 2015 at the Olivier Awards.
Something Gorgeous to honor your Master.
(dress isn’t bad either)
Precious submssive daytime Collar -14KPosted: March 12, 2017 Filed under: Collars, Jewelry | Tags: 1950's Household Kink, Betony Vernon, Collier, D/s, dievca, Dominant, Elegant, erotic, fine jewelry, Master, Sarah and Sebastian, Shopping, Slave, submissive 12 Comments
dievca is very happy with Master’s submissive daytime Collars.
They have hinted at BDSM in a very subtle way.
Master’s exquisite simple sterling silver collar has been on-trend and gorgeous
(even though it got her stopped by security going in to the NYC Ranger’s Game….).
dievca has been wearing more delicate 14 K yellow gold jewelry, lately.
She has the chain and Pomalleto Dodo jewelry from Master,
but no formal Collar shape in 14K.
Yes, this Betony Vernon 18K collar, would be used daily until dievca dies —
but the cost is beyond dievca’s dreams.
And truly, the Sarah and Sebastian Collar is not something that dievca needs either….
Master has been more than generous.
Though with the delicate 14K wire, diamond and o-ring –
it is something to be admired and desired.
Available at Need Supply, $1700
Alluring PresentationPosted: February 21, 2017 Filed under: Collars, Submission | Tags: BDSM, collar, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Master, Presentation Outfits, submissive 17 Comments
dievca is waiting on the bed for You, Master.
Doing, as you told her.
Manolo, Tracy Watts, and the H&M Margiela collaboration