Good Morning! Decision made~

A fully coherent Father made his choice, clearly and verbally, “I will do the feeding tube in the stomach and rehab.” I know that this elongates the process, but we were so relieved that the choice was taken out of our hands and put into the hands of the main participant. Today, after coffee, I will work with the people who will help my Mother stay in their (Mom and Dad’s) home.

All this has made me think….I have no children, I need to make these plans ahead of time for myself. I cannot wait. (But, it cannot be done today…)

Have a Lovely Morning!

Cage Fetish: Caged and Collared with Anndra Neen

Girl Dancing In A Cage at The Catacombs, South Africa circa 1960’s Photographed by Billy Monk


Gogo Dancers1960’s

What is a “Cage Fetish”?
A form of bondage which refers to a desire rooted in seeing or fantasizing about men and women caged in human cages. Or desiring to be caged as a submissive/slave.

It is a popular fetish crossing over from the BDSM community into the mainstream. Caged humans are not just common features in sex clubs. Dance clubs and other mainstream social venues will sometimes include caged dancers. 

Beautiful things from Anndra Neen and Bona Drag
To present your submissive side and cage fetish in public with elegance.


And if you want honor your cage fetish in color:

Umm, where dievca’s thoughts are with Vivienne Westwood

It all started with this clutch.

Apparently is was a gift to Rhianna from Vivienne Westwood in 2013.
It brought to mind the question, “Would I carry this clutch?”

dievca asks, “Would you carry this clutch?”
“Or wear any of these necklaces, cufflinks, bracelets, keychains, shoes, pins, etc.?”

In the end, this post did make dievca hungry for Master’s Cock.

Women’s March 2018

I forgot to share these photos from Europe.
Apparently the message this past Summer was Female Empowerment!

January 20th, 2018 is the NYC Women’s March
Before the march there will be a rally in Central Park (61st to 62nd Streets at Central Park West) at 11:30am. The procession begins at 12:30pm, and the route goes through Columbus Circle, then east on 59th Street and south on Sixth Avenue with exits at 45th, 44th and 43rd Streets. Registration is not required, but let the Women’s March Alliance know you’re attending via Facebook

Lip Fetish

To conceal anything from those to whom I am attached,
is not in my nature.
I can never close my lips where I have opened my heart.
~Charles Dickens

A submissive’s lips are very important for serving their Mistress or Sir.

On Thursday, January 4th, noted editorial and runway makeup artist,Pat McGrath, presented a new leave-on treatment to repair, restore and replenish lips. Limited Edition.

An antioxidant, vitamin-rich, anti-aging formula which moisturizes and protects your lips from free radicals. The texture melts onto lips, hugging every curve with extreme softness and comfort.  It imparts a luxuriously lightweight, silky feel and sensuous subtle sheen.

Encapsulated in Mother’s bespoke white lacquered bullet, the alluringly addictive LIP FETISH is the captivating covert key to a killer kiss.

dievca has been using a great lip balm from the Swedish Military
(Master loves it,too)

Försvarets Hudsalva Original Military Balm works miracles on chapped lips, but, the military green packaging is a bit more masculine. Not so elegant for application at an elegant restaurant or Gala.

It was created for the Swedish Army in the 1950s as a blister balm for chafing caused by army boots.

It has tallow and peanut oil, among other things. Because it is water-free it is suitable for preventing and treating frostbite and chapped skin. It is so pure you can actually fry food with it and spread it on your sandwiches. You can use it as a ski wax or to treat leather. It tastes like vanilla.

Multi-heavy duty-all-purpose!

Sexy and Feminine, click here.

Masculine and effective, click here.


So, I was thinking about frostbite…

Photo: dievca 33rd /8th 12/28/17

But I don’t live in Wisconsin…

It’s cold. No, it’s not Montana, North Dakota, Canada cold – but it’s enough to worry about windchill when you ride a bike to work and the wind comes off the river and whips through the buildings.  dievca was pedalling at a standstill today.

This chart is her friend:

Today’s (Thursday’s) temps in Celsius were -11C (low) to -7.22C (high) winds running at 5-10 mph with gusts at 22 mph. Fahrenheit 12F (low) to 19F (high). It will continue to be cold through the New Year.

dievca’s ride is less than 30 minutes, so she has been good.  But, it makes for tears, frozen breath, and ridiculous-looking layered outfits. When its cold, fashion goes out the window….
Apparently that is the theme, this week, safety first.

Here are dievca’s cold weather standbys:

dievca wishes you luck and stay warm.

Green-eyed Monster

The Merchant of Venice, 1596:

How all the other passions fleet to air,
As doubtful thoughts, and rash-embraced despair,
And shuddering fear, and green-eyed jealousy! O love,
Be moderate; allay thy ecstasy,
In measure rein thy joy; scant this excess.
I feel too much thy blessing: make it less,
For fear I surfeit.

Othello, 1604,

O, beware, my lord, of jealousy;
It is the green-eyed monster which doth mock
The meat it feeds on; that cuckold lives in bliss
Who, certain of his fate, loves not his wronger;
But, O, what damned minutes tells he o’er
Who dotes, yet doubts, suspects, yet strongly loves!

dievca is tired and jealous. Jealousy is not as glamorous as Shakespeare’s writing~

The guilt arrives as she feels she has no right to be jealous.

Wait! It’s not jealousy…it’s envy. Green with envy~

dievca should be happy about other people’s good fortune, right?

The people around her travel to Miami, Maine, Cape Cod, California, Copenhagen, Belize, Argentina, Philadelphia, Switzerland, Vietnam, Montreal, Colorado, Scotland, Iceland, Cuba for pleasure trips…

dievca’s last three trips were for family and taking care of their needs or working 13 hour days for two weeks.  The next trip will be back to her Parents, again. It’s not relaxing. And dievca gets this: “It’s so much easier when you are around, when are you coming back?” or “I’m only going to be around so long.” or “Can you eBay the two exercise machines for me? I know that X,Y,Z is nowhere near NY, but you eBay and I don’t” — how should dievca feel?

Note: dievca tries to make sure she does something she likes during those trips, plus she tries to remember that the trips are for people she loves….but a weekend getaway, a college football game, a stop at the beach purely for herself wouldn’t go amiss.

dievca just cannot bring herself to do it…and that is her fault.

Just let her whinge, ok?  The clothes coming up are worth it.

Remember those people who were traveling for fun? dievca gets a bit resentful when those same people come home and complain about how they are behind on work or their bodies aren’t working well because they missed yoga…really, dievca’s heart is bleeding for you – having five days off was tough.

They could have brought her a bottle of wine or a little gift, right?

she (dievca) is a shitty person, huh?
she is really tired and cranky…

Vintage Pin Up Fred Rodewald Green Raincoat

Look how sexy the pin-up is in green –
If dievca can’t travel, maybe a little green Retail Therapy would help easy her jealousy~

NEW YORK, NY – DECEMBER 07: Rita Ora seen on the streets of Manhattan on December 7, 2016 in New York City. (Photo by James Devaney/GC Images) Coat by Emilio Pucci

Yves Saint Laurent green patent leather easy bag

Draped emerald-green silk dress by Lanvin

COS green ribbed cashmere hat

COS green cashmere scarf

Alyx Green Cargo Pants

Liebeskind Stanford Velvet Backpack Green $228

Green jacket By Saint Laurent

VALENTINO GARAVANI Leather Shoulder Bag green

Lanvin Green Silk Satin One-shouldered Dress

Gianfranco Ferré runway show. Fall Trends, Green Gloves

Anndra Neen cage bag green ShopBop


Grass Green Hoodie Wool Cape Etsy

Proenza Schouler green PS1 medium suede tote

Coach Green leather gloves rabbit interior

Jimmy Choo Darylin suede and patent-leather pumps ($695) green

Lanvin Spring 2004 Green Dress silk

Clingy Wallet In Green Patent Leather by 49 Square Miles

Chloe leather trench coat green

Etsy Green Banana Leaf Midi Skirt Custom $71.00

Moschino Cheap and Chic Green paillettes Dress

H & M Green Sweater with Appliques

H & M dark green v-neck t-shirt

Proenza Schouler Green Lux Leather PS1 Tiny Satchel Bag

Lili Pepper Dark Green Coin Purse

J. Peterman 1940’s Cord Dress Green