Finally something good – or so she thought
Posted: November 27, 2021 Filed under: Dresses, lingerie | Tags: Advertisement, Agent Provocateur, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, expensive, Presentation Outfit, Shopping, submissive 1 Comment
dievca spotted this lovely photo from an Agent Provocateur email. she was excited to see an edge and presetntation that has been missing from the company’s recent offerings. she misses the quirk, sassiness and humor they used to offer.
Then she clicked through to see the item…
What dievca thought was a body suit or soft corset turn out to be a dress with mini ruffles and lace. At $1545 only the back is of interest. Yawn~
Agent Provocateur Peachy Dress
Dress the Part
Posted: November 24, 2021 Filed under: Clothing, Discussion, Dresses | Tags: BDSM, closet, D/s, Life, positive mental attitude, Presentation, submissive, work Leave a comment
dievca has a Navy Blue Silk Dress that makes her feel amazing. Its’s not the most expensive dress nor the most fashionable, but she likes to wear it whenever she needs to clean up and present to humans. she can dress the outfit up or down with shoes/boots and accessories – any way it goes on it – she feels great.
dievca stands taller.
A lot of people argue that what you wear isn’t important, or that it is unfair to suggest that people should buy clothes to boost their self-esteem. If we are being realistic about the working world or IRL, we have to point out the truth: How you present yourself is important. You don’t need to have a closet full of expensive clothes to get ahead, but you will feel a lot better if you have one or two outfits you absolutely love that you can wear whenever you need a pick-me-up.
dievca doesn’t wear the silk dress because it will impress other people — she wears it because it makes her feel ready to take on the world!
(roll over a photo to see the item description)
The First Option
Posted: October 9, 2021 Filed under: Accessories, Dresses | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, dinner, Elegant, Life, Master, NYC, Presentation Outfit, submissive, warm weather 1 Comment
dievca is starting to think through the outfits she might wear to Le Pavillon:
- Jade by Johnny Was Angelo Easy Dress
- See by Chloe Block Heel Ankle Strap Sandals
- Zimmerman 14K Aloha Beaded Hoop Earrings
- Jack Gomme Light Lami Cerise Backpack
This 100% silk dress is easy to throw on and works if its warm out. Master thought it was a good choice.
Fanciful Unicorn
Posted: August 17, 2021 Filed under: Dresses | Tags: BDSM, colorful, D/s, dievca, Littles, Presentation, Relationships, ShopBop, Shopping, submissive, Unicorn Leave a commentOn a lighter note – but following the childhood innocence theme – the La Double J Mini Swing Dress in Giungla brings color and clean lines to Life. Might be a good choice to indicate your interest in being a Little or a Unicorn.
- Fabric: Lightweight, non-stretch silk twill
- Rainforest print
- Jewel neckline and short sleeves
- Hidden zip at back
- On-seam hip pockets
- Shell: 100% silk
- Unlined
- Dry clean
- Made in Italy
- $520
Master laughed
Posted: July 11, 2021 Filed under: Dresses, Fashion | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, green, Humor, Life, Master, monochromatic, Presentation Outfit, submissive, Summer Leave a commentdievca was a vision in green with the Xirena Aiden cotton gauze dress in Juniper:
The dress wasn’t the problem – it was that she added these two items to the mix:
What grounded the Green Monster? Nike Thea Print Comic:
the Summer Scoop
Posted: June 25, 2021 Filed under: Dresses | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, inexpensive, Life, NYC, Scoop NYC, Shopping, submissive, Summer, Weather Leave a commentNow that NYC has moved into a new climate zone…
New York City, after years of being considered a humid continental climate, now sits within the humid subtropical climate zone. The classification requires that summers average above 72 degrees Fahrenheit — which New York’s have had since 1927 — and for winter months to stay above 27 degrees Fahrenheit, on average.
A simple 100% Cotton Summer Dress is a necessity.
Wal-Mart bought the rights to a NYC brand which personified beach style to Millennials.
In 2016:
Scoop NYC, the boutique chain that billed itself as “the ultimate closet,” announced last week that it was closing its 15 remaining shops.
The Last Days of Scoop – NY Times
The store relives as a Brand at Wal-Mart and is offering a simple summer dress, on sale for $28.50
Scoop
Women’s Strapless Asymmetric Midi Sundress
Channeling Elizabeth Taylor
Posted: June 3, 2021 Filed under: Dresses, Vintage | Tags: 1950's Household Kink, BDSM, d-s, dievca, Elegant, Etsy, ladylike, Party, Presentation Outfits, retro, Shopping Leave a comment
Stunning 1950’s Red Silk Chiffon Cocktail Party Dress Designed for “Pavion” by David Barr!
This vintage dress just screams out Elizabeth Taylor!
Made of a soft crimson-colored red silk chiffon fabric trimmed with red silk satin detailing- the dress features sheer chiffon sleeves, the body of the dress lined in silk satin, the collar is notched and offers a deep plunge neckline with matching fabric buttons down the front. The waist is cinched and the the skirt on this beautiful piece has tons of small pleats for a super full mid-calf length skirt.
The dress has wonderful movement when you walk or dance!
Excellent Vintage Condition, $250 on Etsy – click photo for link
Size Small
Bust -34″
Waist -25″
Hip -Free
Length -41″
So trite…
Posted: June 1, 2021 Filed under: Analysis, Clothing, Dresses | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, economy, Humor, humot, inexpensive, Life, Presentation, Rain, Shopping Leave a comment-
(of a remark, opinion, or idea) overused and consequently of little import; lacking originality or freshness.
dievca ended up in a Mall after that Beach Memorial Mass. There wasn’t much creativity offered from any of the retailers (H&M, Aritzia, Uniqlo, Lululemon, Brooks Brothers, Zara, Kate Spade, Coach, Muji, Sephora).
dievca was bored – though Banana Republic offered this ramie peasant top dress in green. Something with pockets and short is always welcome to dievca’s closet. she was befuddled by the sizing in the stores – sometimes she needed a large, other times a small…strange. 
Note: An Honorable Mention award should be given to the H&M LemLem collaboration’s Lyocell-blend Kaftan Dress. The dress is sold out online and dievca didn’t get to try it on (H&M is not allowing people to use the dressing rooms) and the line to purchase items was very long. she got out of there fast~
Has anyone else had a Mall experience? Maybe something more exciting and successful than dievca’s ride?
Elegance with Alexander McQueen
Posted: May 8, 2021 Filed under: Discussion, Dresses | Tags: BDSM, COVID-19, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Floral, formal gown, gala, Presentation Outfit, Shopping, Spring, submissive Leave a comment
Is anyone else seeking elegance?
The year plus of sweatsuits has taken a toll for dievca, it took her awhile to gather an outfit for that event.
she used to be able to grab something and get ready in 30+ minutes. Maybe this McQueen dress could inspire a ‘quick change’? Too bad there isn’t anywhere to wear it at this point. Day dresses, maybe – formal dresses, not yet.
It is still a beautiful dress.
Could Chuck Taylors and a jeans jacket dress it down?
(Click photo to purchase)
Shopping the closet worked…
Posted: May 4, 2021 Filed under: Accessories, Dresses, Fashion | Tags: BDSM, closet, COVID-19, D/s, dievca, Elegant, gala, hot weather, Love, practical, Presentation Outfit, Spring, style, submissive Leave a comment
dievca didn’t look pregnant and received multiple compliments on the dress. Note – its been long enough since Melania Trump wore the Big Pink Dress (2017) and its still in style. Plus, it was the perfect choice for an outdoor event.
Wipe the sweat off that brow – whew!
In a Panic…
Posted: May 2, 2021 Filed under: Dresses | Tags: BDSM, Body Type, closet, clothing size, COVID-19, D/s, dievca, frustration, gala, perimenopause, submissive 2 Commentsdievca has an outdoor event to attend. The 1st of its kind in a year +.
Even after the never-ending process of reducing her closet – she has a number of items available to wear – IF THEY FIT WELL. Health and movement-wise, dievca is in pretty good shape. Deep sleep (physical recovery sleep) and perimenopause-wise, her body shape has shifted – a belly has appeared. Her closet hasn’t shifted to keep up with it because she wants to see what happens with menopause and HRT.
God, what to wear without looking pregnant.
Before she goes digging deep – here is what she thinks will fit easily:
Eliza Faulkner Cotton Sissy Dress
Loup Charmant Hydrus Dress Cadmium Red
Faithfull the Brand Sonja Dress
Then there is the question of a matching mask~
Cross-fingers. dievca will let you know what she finally decides to wear.
Blood on Snow~ Bottega Veneta
Posted: December 8, 2020 Filed under: Dresses, Fashion | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, formal gown, Presentation Outfits, Sequins, Sexy, Slave, submissve, Winter 2 Comments
Quite a visual.
Haunting. Alluring.
Presentation, in a time of nowhere to go.
Sunday Brunch on the roof.
Posted: August 9, 2020 Filed under: Accessories, Dresses, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, fashion, Life, NYC, Presentation Outfits, submissive, Summer Leave a comment
Melissa Odabash Alicia Pink Crochet Tunic
Emily Wiser Initial Necklace from Master
Chan Luu Peacock Pearl Mix Barrette ShopBop
David Yurman Petite Tahitian Ring
Ancient Greek Sandals Zenobia brown natural
Omo Norma Kamali Cat Eye Sunglasses
Nannacay Cotio Straw Bag Multi
Be ready for whatever Summer throws at you~
Posted: July 8, 2020 Filed under: Dresses, Shoes | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, fashion, Life, Presentation Outfits, Shopping, submissive, Summer Leave a comment
Versatile Florals from Alice + Olivia
Dresses ready for sandals, heels, or sneakers. Etc.
1st foray as a human in the heat
Posted: July 5, 2020 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, Dresses | Tags: BDSM, COVID-19, D/s, dievca, fashion, heat, Life, NYC, Presentation Outfits, submissive, Summer Leave a commentFORAY
noun
2: an initial and often tentative attempt to do something in a new or different field or area of activity,
A brief excursion or attempt especially outside one’s accustomed sphere.
dievca decided to look like a human rather than a slouch when making a foray to the Eastside. she figured out a way to beat the heat, too:
Loup Charmant Dayo Cotton Dress
Jack Gomme Light Lami Cerise
Boss Orange Olive leather flip flops
Elizabeth and James Horatio Sun Glasses
Ippolita Cherish 18-karat gold ring
Melissa Joy Manning Earrings
Rebecca Minkoff Chevron Stacking Rings
Woldford Nude Tulle Bra
Wolford Nude Tulle Panties
Zazzle red orange turquoise blue Indian floral paisley cloth face mask
Vinyl Vixen
Posted: July 2, 2020 Filed under: Dresses, lingerie | Tags: BDSM, Bustier, D/s, dievca, erotic, Fetish, Kink, polyurethane, Presentation Outfits, Sexy, Undergarments 2 Commentsnoun. a female fox. an ill-tempered or quarrelsome woman.
a woman considered to be sexually attractive.
LaQuan Smith leopard bustier dress PVC Spring RTW 2020
Click photo to purchase the LaQuan Smith bustier dress at fwrd.com
You can’t cancel PRIDE – it’s in you.
Posted: June 28, 2020 Filed under: Dresses, Neighborhood Anecdotes (NYC) | Tags: BDSM, COVID-19, D/s, dievca, Gay Pride Parade, Life, Love, NYC, rainbow, Shopping, submissive Leave a commentThe NYC Gay Pride March scheduled for June 28, 2020, was canceled due to COVID-19. The march was inaugurated on June 28, 1970 – it would have been the 50th Year. There will be virtual celebrations and WABC in New York will be broadcasting NYC Pride programming the month of June.
“We are a community that thrives when we are united,” added Correa. “We may not fill the streets of New York City this year, but LGBTQIA+ people carry pride with them all year long.
I have no doubt that we will be together again soon.”
~ David A. Correa, Interim Executive Director Heritage of Pride
dievca has found her dress for this year’s celebration:
Banana Republic Gay Pride Dress $129.99 (click photo to buy)
Desperate for a Dress
Posted: June 14, 2020 Filed under: Dresses, submissive | Tags: cotton, COVID-19, D/s, dievca, ladylike, Life, Master, Presentation Outfits, Shopping, Summer, sunbathing Leave a commentAnd the Sun…
It’s hard to wear a dress when biking up to Master’s place,
but dievca is getting sick of practical athletic shorts and pants.
she did a little summer splurging on the MatchesFashion.com sales pages:
Rhode Jasmine Floral shirred cotton mini dress
Merlette Tuileries white cotton drawstring Dress
Etro Fantasy Print red side-tie Bikini
Should work out with the RE/done upcycled Levi’s denim mask:
Wrong, wrong, wrong – but wouldn’t it be fun?
Posted: May 27, 2020 Filed under: Body Type, Dresses, Fashion | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, gala, Life, Presentation Outfits, Sequins, Shopping, submissive Leave a commentRight about now, dievca should be attending the final fundraiser of the year.
Not happening for obvious reasons…
Its dievca’s habit to keep a lookout for outfits that fit the Gala bill.
she ran into this Riasa & Vanessa outfit that made her look twice and smile.
Then shake her head for the many ways it is just wrong for her build:
- Crop top at this age for formal wear?
- Pants that sweeping and long on a short body? (hard to hem)
- Short torso and curves trying to drape those sequins?
Well, this is what she had planned:
Her Black Halo Lucy Dress in Jellybean with these:
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- Stuart Weitzman Axis Sandals Black
- Chandelier Earrings
- Subversive +Target ribbon bracelet
- Garay vintage black fabric clutch
- French Luxe hair combs in black
- Bobbi Brown Art Stick Harlow red
Finding Sexy, again.
Posted: April 21, 2020 Filed under: Dresses, submissive | Tags: BDSM, COVID-19, D/s, dievca, Dominance and submission, Elegant, fashion, Life, Master, Presentation Outfits Leave a comment
WFH – takes a chunk out of your sexiness factor.
dievca’s digging through her closet for a great dress.
Master might be surprised after her biking attire.
Have you dressed up lately? Just to get the fires going?
Might be time to try it.
XO
Masochism Tango
Posted: November 20, 2019 Filed under: Dresses, Entertainment | Tags: BDSM, dievca, Dominant, erotic, Humor, Kink, Master, music, Presentation Outfits, submissive, Tango, Tom Lehrer 4 Comments
dievca was distracted by various Tom Lehrer videos: New Math, The Elements, Smut, etc. One video stood out from the pack and called for a Presentation Outfit. dievca is hoping to persuade Master to show off his Tango skills to the Masochism Tango (video below).
Mr. Lehrer is a retired American musician, singer-songwriter, satirist, and mathematician. He has lectured on mathematics and musical theater. He is best known for the pithy and humorous songs that he recorded in the 1950s and 1960s.
Here’s dievca’s outfit:
Etsy handmade Tango Dress and Greta Flora Tango Shoes
And here is the Masochism Tango:
Presentation Outfits…100 Years of Fashion in 2 minutes
Posted: November 17, 2019 Filed under: Clothing, Dresses, Vintage | Tags: BDSM, Clothing, D/s, dievca, Elegant, fashion, ladylike, Master, Presentation Outfits, retro, submissive Leave a comment
dievca was looking to be inspired for Presentation Outfits: she ran into this video and it made her smile and think about options for Master. It seems like the most ‘ladylike’ outfits are from the 1920s, 1930s, 1940s, 1950s and 1960s.
The 1910s are too covered and too involved for finding clothing pieces, the 1970s seem like novelty outfits – Disco-oriented, dievca lived the BIG HAIR era of the 1980s (she has a vintage Norma Kamali red satin dress…), the 1990s are back in style – now.
1920s Dress
1930’s Dress
1940’s Red Silk Cocktail Dress Ceil Chapman
CEIL CHAPMAN vintage 1950’s designer Bombshell Cocktail dress silk jersey
1960s Silk Beaded Rhinestone Cocktail Dress Ceil Chapman
Ceil Chapman was an American fashion designer who worked in New York City from the 1940s to the 1960s. She was noted for creating glamorous cocktail and party dresses and for working with celebrity clients including television and movie actresses.
Denim Dynamics – Trucker Dress
Posted: November 10, 2019 Filed under: Dresses, Musings | Tags: BDSM, D/s, denim, dievca, fashion, jeans fabric, Life, Presentation Outfits, Shopping, submissive, trucker dress Leave a comment
Cotton Citizen Caballo Denim Dress $440 (click photo)
A denim dress never goes out of style. Why? Denim by itself is considered to be a timeless fabric that works for different weather conditions and occasions. There are classic denim dresses, as well as modern styles with sexy cuts and mini lengths. A denim dress can be styled with all kinds of shoes, starting from sneakers, flats and wedge sandals to sexy stilettos and classy pumps.
The Fabric:
Denim is a sturdy cotton warp-faced textile in which the weft passes under two or more warp threads. This twill weaving produces a diagonal ribbing that distinguishes it from cotton duck. While a denim predecessor known as dungaree has been produced in India for hundreds of years, denim itself was first produced in the French city of Nîmes under the name “serge de Nîmes”.
The most common denim is indigo denim, in which the warp thread is dyed, while the weft thread is left white. As a result of the warp-faced twill weaving, one side of the textile is dominated by the blue warp threads and the other side is dominated by the white weft threads. This causes blue jeans to be white on the inside. The indigo dyeing process, in which the core of the warp threads remains white, creates denim’s signature fading characteristics. ~Wikipedia
The Dress:
The Trucker style of denim dress takes its cue from the Levi’s Type III jacket with some distinctive features to look for:
- Cropped cut that ends at the waist
- Slim, tailored cut
- Buttons at sleeve, pocket, and front
- Chest pockets with pointed flaps
- Generally, two slanted (or “V-shaped”) seams that run from chest pocket to waist
- A point collar
Add some length and you’ve got a Denim Trucker Dress:
Though dievca loves the look of the Cotton Citizen Caballo Dress (photo – top of post), she is rocking the less expensive Lucky Brand Trucker Dress.
Why? 100% cotton vs. some lycra.
dievca always goes with the stretch! she’s planning on snakeskin boots with the dress or maybe tights and OTK boots for winter. Hmmm, a casual presentation for Master…time to think on it.
Romantic Retro – inspired by Batignolles
Posted: October 22, 2019 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, Dresses | Tags: 1950's Household Kink, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, fashion, HVN, Jamin Puech, ladylike, Presentation Outfits, retro, Shopping, submissive Leave a comment
Inspiration:
Jamin Puech Bag
The Batignolles is a bouquet whose beauty will remain eternal. It brings a touch of elegance and freshness to your style. Decorated with silk flowers each adorned with a brilliant pearl.
Details
Small handbag
Leather strap
Vintage-inspired metal clasp
Also available in Black, Blue, and Tan
490 Euro
Weight: 485 g
Dimensions: 15x15x7 cm
Composition: 50% rayon; 50% cotton
Add:
HVN Moon Maria Dress silk
MiuMiu Peep-Toe Pumps with Bow
Princess Seam 1940’s Vintage Coat
18K Gold Plated Cuff
Vintage Bulgari Ear Clips
Chloe Sunglasses 2147
And that is where dievca is going for Master’s future Ladylike looks. Hello HVN!
What to wear? What to wear?
Posted: October 11, 2019 Filed under: Accessories, Dresses, Jewelry, Shoes | Tags: BDSM, Clothing, D/s, dievca, fashion, Life, lunch, Master, Metropolitan Museum, NYC, Presentation Outfits, Submission, submissive 3 Comments
Jan 5, 1954, Pierre Auguste Cot’s “The Storm” was hung at the Metropolitan Museum
A lunch date at the Met.
What does a submissive wear?
What will Master’s dievca wear?
she cannot think…
she’s out of practice…
she just cleared out her closet…
Not to panic, there has to be something in there:
No. 6 Eclipse Trapeze Dress in Raisin
Isabel Marant Clogs
Agnes b. Blue North Coat
Anya Hindmarch Earl Valentine Tote
1970’s Vintage Gold Mesh Collar
1970’s Vintage Gold Mesh Cuff
Lauren Klassen Tiny Key earring 14K
Lauren Klassen Tiny Padlock earring 14K
Lauren Klassen Padlock Ring 14K
Tort Luna Hairclips
Simone Perele, Eden Chic Full Bust Half Cup Bra in Orange and shorts
Thanks for helping dievca think it through.
And Master just reminded dievca – no toys in the bag. Bag check. XO
“There’s a real power in heels and a good dress.”
Posted: October 6, 2019 Filed under: Dresses, Shoes | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, fashion, NYC, Presentation Outfits, Sexy, Shoe fetishism, Shopping, submissive 2 CommentsThere’s a real power in heels and a good dress.
~ Talulah Riley
They describe themselves as “girls who design shoes for girls who know how to walk in heels and who want to be super sexy and feminine.” So don’t expect to see this duo take on the sneaker trend. Micchetti and Alessandri acknowledge that they’re a rare breed as female shoe designers, especially in Italy, and being able to test styles gives them the proverbial leg up.
The Italian expression nelle vene—which loosely translates to “it’s in the blood”—rings especially true for Alevì Milano founders Valentina Micchetti and Perla Alessandri. Not only were Micchetti’s grandparents cobblers, but Alessandri’s family currently owns the factory where they produce Alevì luxury shoes. These were the steps, you could say, they were born to take.
~Barneys Window
So here’s dievca’s suggestion for sexy heels,
Alevi Milano Stella T-straps
And the dress suggestion for the shoes, ALC Haley Dress in Poppy:
Atlanta in Autumn
Posted: September 18, 2019 Filed under: Accessories, Dresses, submissive | Tags: BDSM, Clothing, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Friends, hot weather, Life, Presentation Outfits 3 CommentsIts still Warm in ATL
Thursday through Sunday
82-89 F (28-32 C) with 50% Humidity.
Wedding.
dievca is planning on this:
Haute Hippie Blush Faux Wrap Dress
With these:
Alice + Olivia Rochelle Pumps Pink
Adding a wrap for the church and the evening chill:
Sundance Garden of Earthly Delights Wrap
Something to dance in:
Women’s Saucony Jazz Original Vintage Retro Pink
With gold accessories:
Alexis Bittar Collar
14K Gold Studs
C Wonder Bangle
Rebecca Minkoff Rings
18K Gold Plated Cuff
Hugo Boss Clutch
Anne Sportun 18K
Feeling a bit Pretty in Pink
a colorful fête
Posted: September 11, 2019 Filed under: Dresses | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, fashion, Party, Presentation Outfits, Retrofete, Shopping, Slave, submissive 4 Comments
Retrofête – Gabrielle Robe Dress
A color for everyone!
Master does say that he likes diversity and if it fits well…
one in every color.
$615
Fwrd.com
plum·age
Posted: July 9, 2019 Filed under: Clothing, Dresses, Fashion | Tags: Attico, BDSM, Bustier, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Fetish, Presentation Outfits, Sexy, Shopping, Slave, submissive 5 Comments
/ˈplo͞omij/
noun
a bird’s feathers collectively.
ATTICO OSTRICH FEATHERS TOP BUSTIER and DRESSES
Well, this would take care of….
Posted: July 7, 2019 Filed under: Dresses, Fashion, submissive | Tags: AREA brand, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Life, Presentation Outfits, Shopping, Slave, submissive Leave a commentPresentation Outfit problems:
Ruched Ruffle Dress. AREA
Stretch, via elastic and lycra, goes a long way towards forgiving a body. XO
DETAILS:
$895
Color: Cerulean
Self: 44% cotton, 31% polyamide, 21% poly, 4% elastan
Lining: 95% poly 5% spandex
Made in USA
Dry clean only
Fully lined
Smocked elastic fabric detail throughout
Asymmetrical ruffled trim on front
Stretch fit
Metallic lurex fabric
And if you forget to bring Master or Mistresses’ Collar and Lead:
AREA Crystal Choker Strap Mini Dress in Graphite
DETAILS:
$695
Color: Graphite
Self: 44% cotton, 31% polyamide, 21% poly, 4% elastan
Lining: 95% poly 5% spandex
Made in USA
Dry clean only
Fully lined
Hidden back zip closure
Metallic threading detail throughout
Crystal-embellished shoulder strap
Both dresses available at http://www.fwrd.com
dievca 