In Living Color with Rose Assoulin and Miu Miu
Posted: January 20, 2023 Filed under: Dresses, Shoes | Tags: BDSM, Color, D/s, dievca, Elegant, formal gown, gala, Presentation Outfit, rainbow, Sandals, Shopping, submissive Leave a comment
Rosie Assoulin Rainbow Embroidered Gown ($6995) with Miu Miu Leather platform Sandals ($1120) would put some Spark into January and a crimp on your wallet!
Gracefully with Personality: Vivienne Westwood at YOOX and dievca’s closet
Posted: December 31, 2022 Filed under: Body Type, Dresses, Fashion, Shoes | Tags: aging, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Honor, Life, Love, Master, Presentation Outfits, Shopping, Vivienne Westwood Leave a comment
The first 7 Vivienne Westwood dresses are available at YOOX.
The second 8 Vivienne Westwood items are in dievca’s closet (starting at the 2nd green dress). she’s missing photos of her indigo “Hangover” dress that has been worn to the woof and her “go to” jersey funeral dress in a very dark burgundy.
When Century 21 was open in NYC – dievca would haunt the Vivienne Westwood racks and if they had a sample sale – she was there. The items are cut for curvy in mind and ladylike enough for Master, quirky enough for His dievca.
dievca will be wearing the sequin dress for New Year’s Eve.
Obviously dievca did not know Vivienne Westwood, but she admired her boldness in growing old gracefully with personality. May we all grow older gracefully with personality!
XOXO-OOOOOOO
Posted: November 29, 2022 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Dresses | Tags: Anniversary, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dominant, Elegant, Humor, Life, Loewe, Love, Master, Shopping, submissive Leave a comment
The Loewe “Hug” Dress
Are you covering your assets or is your Mistress giving you a hug from behind?
dievca will be giving Master a HUG and more – its their anniversary.
Cut it Out!
Posted: November 16, 2022 Filed under: Dresses, Fashion | Tags: AREA, BDSM, bodycon, Cut Out Dress, D/s, dievca, erotic, Holiday 2022, Mugler, Party, Presentation Outfits, Sexy, Shopping Leave a comment
Mugler Cut Out Mini Dress from
MyTheresa $1370 – take off 30%
The Look For Less version?
AREA for $780 – no discount
Last minute invite – a Gala
Posted: October 27, 2022 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, Dresses, Jewelry, Shoes | Tags: BDSM, Cocktail Attire, D/s, dievca, Elegant, gala, Life, options, planning, practical, Presentation, simple Leave a commentAt, 3:42 pm yesterday, dievca received an invitation to a show, cocktail party and dinner as a fundraiser tonight. she has 1 hour to get dressed at work, then to the theatre. The good news is dievca’s hair is a blunt cut bob which won’t take much fiddling, she can get her face washed and made up in five minutes. It’s what to wear that is the challenge.
The 2nd piece of good news is that the fundraiser does not require “heavy duty” glamour…but the weather has been unpredictable…
(all items in this post are labelled – click on the photo for a good look and the Brand)
Here are dievca’s 1st thought “easy” options:
Adding Shoes:
At this point in her Life, dievca will need two not very glamourous items:
No time for a Mani/Pedi, but no one goes wrong with a good Lipstick:
Who knows which way the jewelry will go:
Clutch options are easy:
But the coat or wrap depends upon the weather:
Wish dievca luck!
Fitted Fetish Dress: Balenciaga
Posted: October 1, 2022 Filed under: Dresses | Tags: Balenciaga, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dominatrix, Elegant, erotic, Fetish, Leather, Presentation Outfit, Sexy Leave a comment
The name of the dress made dievca laugh, but…
Matrix-esque Fitted Leather
Cracking the Whip
Peeling out of the Dress
Soft Lambskin
Very sensual!
Available (on sale) at FWRD
Self: 100% lambskin
Lining: 100% cupro
Made in Italy
Professional leather clean only
Fully lined
Hidden back zip closure
Mockneck
Lunching with Master
Posted: September 27, 2022 Filed under: Dresses, Entertainment, Home and Garden | Tags: aftercare, BDSM, Birthday, dievca, Dominance and submission, ladylike, Love, lunch, Master, Metropolitan Museum, Presentation Outfit Leave a comment
Master is taking His dievca to the Met and to lunch for her Birthday.
she has to work in the morning, but will head uptown afterward.
dievca is planning on wearing her Anthropologie Somerset Maxi Dress in Dark Purple. It will allow her to wear comfortable shoes, look ladylike, and hide her knee brace if she needs to wear it.
Master said He would like to finish the day at His apartment, so dievca is bringing Him peach crumble as a treat during Aftercare.
It turned out well!
Photo: dievca Fresh Peach Crumble NYC 09/2022
Presenting in the Pink of the Moment
Posted: September 23, 2022 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, Dresses | Tags: BDSM, bold, confidence, D/s, dievca, fashion, Love, pink, Presentation Outfits, Shopping, Submission, submissive Leave a comment
It’s everywhere – its not subtle.
A POP of color to bring Joy.
Is there such a thing as a BOLD submissive?
Yes, when Presenting for your Master or Mistress
(click on photos for brands)
What color is Blue Atoll?
Posted: September 2, 2022 Filed under: Dresses | Tags: BDSM, beach, Blue, crochet, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Party, Presentation Outfit, Retrofete, Sequins, Shopping, submissive Leave a comment
The Retrofete Mira Dress. This mini dress takes the textile a step further with light-catching sequin embellishments throughout and a dramatic open back. Layer it over your favorite bikini. Or over nothing for your Master or Mistress- 100% Viscose Knitted
- Made in India
- Blue Atoll
- $485
Dreamy Dress
Posted: August 21, 2022 Filed under: Dresses | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, ladylike, Presentation Outfit, Saks Fifth Avenue, sale, Shopping, silk, submissive, Summer Leave a comment
Christopher John Rogers Dress
A chance to look ladylike for Master, again! XO
On sale at Saks 5th Avenue:
Fit-and-flare midi-dress with chevron color blocking at neckline.
- V-neckline
- Adjustable spaghetti straps
- Side seam pockets
- Concealed back zip
- Trim: 100% silk
- Lining: 100% silk
- 51% acetate/49% cotton
- Approximately 50 inches from shoulder to hem
- Dry clean
- Made in USA
- MSRP $2795
Crafty submissive
Posted: August 2, 2022 Filed under: Dresses | Tags: arts and crafts, BDSM, creative, D/s, dievca, domestic, fabric dye, Grace Jones, practical, Raquel Allegra, rayon, sale Leave a commentdievca does repair Master’s clothing via needle and thread or clean items via soaking, etc. This is just normal Life stuff for a domestic dievca from the Midwest. In a past life, she did sew items with the sewing machine, quilts, dresses, hemming, etc. The creativity dropped off with moving to NYC. Not enough room and the sewing machine lived at her parents house -and is now in the Midwestern storage unit.
Anyways, dievca bought this dress:
The Raquella Allegra Grace Dress in Apple.
100% Rayon
Originally $370 on sale for $99.90
The Grace Dress is inspired by the one-and-only Grace Jones. You’ll love the relaxed fit with dramatic blouson sleeves in lightweight stain. Wear yours with leather sandals and a petite bag.
Fits true to size, take your normal size
Model is 5’8″ and is wearing a size 2
Mini length
Relaxed fit
Blouson sleeves
100% Rayon
It looks like a super bright color which is lovely for Summer. Yes, it might be too much for dievca… but she has a plan to dye the dress if she hates the color. Rayon fabric takes dye very well, though the fabric becomes delicate when wet. dievca is inspired by this current Raquel Allegra Dip-dyed Grace Dress in Indigo ($475):
And if it ends up a “dievca disaster” its only $99 – not an emergency.
dievca will let you know what happens!
Beat the Heat in White~
Posted: July 26, 2022 Filed under: Dresses | Tags: Banana Republic, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, hot weather, Life, Presentation, Shopping, submissive, Summer heat Leave a commentFor dievca to recommend white in New York City – tells you that she is desperate to feel cool.
And that she is not taking the subway.
Banana Republic has some lovely offerings in Cotton Gauze, Linen and Ramie – ranging from $39.97 to $250. Click on the photos for a closer view and the prices:
Simple elegance in Latex
Posted: July 14, 2022 Filed under: Dresses, Latex | Tags: Autumn, bodycon, Coco de Mer, Elegant, erotic, latex, Lingerie, Presentation Outfit, Rubber Fetish, Shopping, Submission, submissive Leave a comment
Coco de Mer Latex dress – no longer available.
But in the Autumn – the latex offerings come forward.
Inspiring.
A Mature Moment – Modehus
Posted: July 8, 2022 Filed under: Clothing, Dresses, Relationships | Tags: aging, BDSM, D/s, dievca, friendship, girlfriends, Humor, Life, Love, sharing, Shopping, travel Leave a commentdievca’s Swedish friend laughs at her because dievca always has to visit two stores in a small town. One is an optical shop that sells great eyeglass frames and the second is, well, yeah – a “Mature Women’s” shop . A modehus that her friend does not step into unless dievca is visiting. Let’s put it this way – dievca saw a pair of cropped pants in the store and then saw them on her friend’s Mother-in-Law an hour later.
Whatever. dievca stops in because she always finds a gem.
Two trips ago, the gem was a dress made by a Danish designer upcycling vintage Sari silk. dievca still wears the dress. dievca bought a similar dress on her last trip, but she felt that the arms were too snug and she passed it on to her Dutch friend. Her friend loves the dress so much and has worn it a number of times that she had to wash it.
dievca received this photo in response:
You have to appreciate a fabric care tag telling it like it is!
What did dievca buy this trip?
Well, TWO pairs of eyeglass frames – but they will appear in another post and a “Made in Italy” linen top which was a tunic but dievca’s friend’s Mother cropped it for our short dievca:
It looks clean and crisp with white jeans and the Zimmerman sandals:
Look for Less –> Wal-Mart
Posted: June 7, 2022 Filed under: Dresses | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, inexpensive, Life, Look for Less, Love, Shopping, submissive, Summer, sundress, Wal-Mart Leave a commentSo, dievca completed that New Jersey Wal-Mart run this weekend and she took time to wander around their clothing department. Why? Years ago, dievca’s favorite T-shirt came from Wal-Mart for $2.58 – she wore it to the woof~ so she always takes a moment to wander Women’s clothing for another inexpensive find.
Two items came to view!
A Linen-Blend White Wide Sleeve Shirt Dress by Free Assembly ($28).
Imagine dievca having a full-blown conversation with the sales lady at 7:30 am – all about the Free Assembly line and how it is selling out quickly. The fabric of this dress is amazing. The conversation informed dievca about what’s hot at a New Jersey Wal-Mart and what’s not. dievca loves to listen to people who are passionate about their jobs.
The second Dress is from their Scoop line. SCOOP NYC was a store in NYC and surrounding areas. It was “hot in the aughts”. They decided to close (Pre-COVID) and dievca still has some of their cashmere sweaters in her closet rotation. Anyways…the Scoop owners have been designing capsule collections for Walmart and every piece that dievca has picked up has been good (shorts, t-shirt, pants). Granted the quality is not as nice as the original SCOOP NYC, but the price is much better. This time, dievca choose their Black Linen-Blend Sundress with smocking ($40):
Two Summer Dresses for $68? Flattering fits? Nice Fabric?
Well Done!
Sushi on the Rooftop
Posted: May 24, 2022 Filed under: Accessories, Dresses | Tags: BDSM, casual clothing, D/s, dievca, dinner, hot weather, Life, Master, Presentation Outfit, Shopping, submissive, Summer heat Leave a comment
Temperatures hit 91 F (33 C) on the day dievca and Master met for sushi, but the evening was cooler and as the sun went down the temperature was lovely.
dievca had dressed for comfort in a hand-blocked organic cotton caftan + red sneakers for her knee.
Click on the photos for the brands
10K anyone?
Posted: May 11, 2022 Filed under: Dresses | Tags: BDSM, Chloé, crochet, D/s, dievca, expensive, fun, ladylike, Life, Shopping, submissive Leave a comment
Chloé Crochet Dresses – each running at $10,500.
dievca loves the dresses,
but which interesting person would be willing to buy them?
Available at Net-A-Porter
Tangerine Dream – a gentle Saturday start
Posted: April 16, 2022 Filed under: Dresses, Entertainment | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Life, music, Presentation Outfit, Shopping, submissive, video, Vince, weekend Leave a comment
Walking the City on a Weekend calls for
Tangerine Dreams
Lady-like for your Master/ Madame
Vince TENCEL™ Lyocell-blend dress $425 Net-A-Porter
Tangerine Dream is a German electronic music band founded in 1967 by Edgar Froese. The group has seen many personnel changes over the years, with Froese having been the only continuous member until his death in January 2015.
dressed wrong (a dievca disaster)
Posted: March 29, 2022 Filed under: Disasters, Dresses, Entertainment | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Florida, Humor, Life, linen, Love, Master, Saloni, Shopping, South Beach, submissive, Sun, sundress, The Webster, travel Leave a commentSooooo…..dievca didn’t pack well for the South Beach crowd. she didn’t have bodycon dresses, sparkles, running shorts with crop tops, and glamorous nails. she forgot her jewelry and a purse. Square sunglasses are the rage and with dievca’s square face – they were a disaster.
dievca rocked her breezy cotton gauze, silk maxi dress, wide-leg terry pants, Jackie-O round sunglasses with verve. Enough so, that she caught people looking at her because she was just different from the crowd. Was it a good different or a bad different? dievca does not know.
she didn’t bother to shop because she was parked on the beach — until she had enough of the sun.
There was one store she wanted to stop by in Miami Beach – the Webster.
dievca was prepared to buy nothing — until she saw a ladylike dress for Master.
A linen A-line sundress from Saloni (the Rachel) – in an orange pattern.
So, something good comes out of dievca’s South Beach dressing disaster after all.
Sparkle on a sludgy day…
Posted: March 9, 2022 Filed under: Dresses, Shoes | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, green, heels, Party Dress, Purple, rhinestones, sassy, Shoe fetishism, Shopping, Sparkle, Weather Leave a comment
Amina Muaddi Lilac Giorgia Heels
Retrofete Apple Green Dress
Retrofete Apple Green Dress
The rain turned into thick, wet, messy snow. Showing some sparkle and skin would be a treat.
Draped – with Bottega Veneta
Posted: February 8, 2022 Filed under: Dresses | Tags: BDSM, curves, D/s, definition, dievca, drape, Elegant, erotic, lilac, Presentation Outfit, Shopping, submissive Leave a comment
drape
/drāp/
verb
past tense: draped; past participle: draped
arrange (cloth or clothing) loosely or casually on or around something.
“she draped a shawl around her shoulders”
adorn, cover, or wrap (someone or something) loosely with folds of cloth.
“the body was draped in a blanket”
Similar:
wrap, arrange, wind, swathe, sling, hang, let fall in folds, cover, envelop, shroud, decorate, adorn, array, deck, bedeck, festoon, bundle up, muffle up, blanket, overlay, cloak, veil, enfold, sheathe
let (oneself or a part of one’s body) rest somewhere in a casual or relaxed way.
“he draped an arm around her shoulders”
Well, that was a bust – Holiday Gala canceled
Posted: December 18, 2021 Filed under: Accessories, Disasters, Dresses | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dries van Noten, Elegant, gala, Holiday 2021, Life, Presentation Outfit, Shopping, simple Leave a commentAs Omicron moves into NYC – venues and events are being closed/canceled. dievca’s Holiday Gala was an early casualty. Too bad it was canceled after she had bought the dress…
Here was the plan:
–Dries van Noten Red Drape Dress
–John Galliano Heels
–Perrin Le Rond Bag Blue
–Ben-Amun Cabochon Earrings
–Vintage Emerald Ring
–Dainty Dagger Sapphire Ring
OK, Plan B – wear the dress to Master’s and have a smaller personal Gala!
Bordelle – Exclusive Bondage
Posted: December 16, 2021 Filed under: Dresses, lingerie | Tags: 24K Gold, BDSM, bondage, Bordelle, D/s, dievca, Elegant, exclusive, Holiday 2021, Presentation Outfit, reotic, Shopping, strappy 2 Comments
The Adjustable Bondage Angela is the ultimate in Bordelle bondage luxe, with total adjustability to flatter every curve. This piece is made up of over 150 24k gold-plated components. Each dress takes a whole day to make! Limited edition colourway – Eden. $1094.00
Details:
- Satin elastic dress in rich Eden
- Signature satin elastic strapping
- Adjustable through the back
- Includes suspender clips; wear with garters or stockings
- 24k gold plated zip fastening
- Made up of 140 24k gold-plated components
Care and Composition:
Elastic: 89% Polyamide, 11% Elastane.
Delicate hand wash separately.
Finally something good – or so she thought
Posted: November 27, 2021 Filed under: Dresses, lingerie | Tags: Advertisement, Agent Provocateur, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, expensive, Presentation Outfit, Shopping, submissive 2 Comments
dievca spotted this lovely photo from an Agent Provocateur email. she was excited to see an edge and presetntation that has been missing from the company’s recent offerings. she misses the quirk, sassiness and humor they used to offer.
Then she clicked through to see the item…
What dievca thought was a body suit or soft corset turn out to be a dress with mini ruffles and lace. At $1545 only the back is of interest. Yawn~
Agent Provocateur Peachy Dress
Dress the Part
Posted: November 24, 2021 Filed under: Clothing, Discussion, Dresses | Tags: BDSM, closet, D/s, Life, positive mental attitude, Presentation, submissive, work Leave a comment
dievca has a Navy Blue Silk Dress that makes her feel amazing. Its’s not the most expensive dress nor the most fashionable, but she likes to wear it whenever she needs to clean up and present to humans. she can dress the outfit up or down with shoes/boots and accessories – any way it goes on it – she feels great.
dievca stands taller.
A lot of people argue that what you wear isn’t important, or that it is unfair to suggest that people should buy clothes to boost their self-esteem. If we are being realistic about the working world or IRL, we have to point out the truth: How you present yourself is important. You don’t need to have a closet full of expensive clothes to get ahead, but you will feel a lot better if you have one or two outfits you absolutely love that you can wear whenever you need a pick-me-up.
dievca doesn’t wear the silk dress because it will impress other people — she wears it because it makes her feel ready to take on the world!
(roll over a photo to see the item description)
The First Option
Posted: October 9, 2021 Filed under: Accessories, Dresses | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, dinner, Elegant, Life, Master, NYC, Presentation Outfit, submissive, warm weather 1 Comment
dievca is starting to think through the outfits she might wear to Le Pavillon:
- Jade by Johnny Was Angelo Easy Dress
- See by Chloe Block Heel Ankle Strap Sandals
- Zimmerman 14K Aloha Beaded Hoop Earrings
- Jack Gomme Light Lami Cerise Backpack
This 100% silk dress is easy to throw on and works if its warm out. Master thought it was a good choice.
Fanciful Unicorn
Posted: August 17, 2021 Filed under: Dresses | Tags: BDSM, colorful, D/s, dievca, Littles, Presentation, Relationships, ShopBop, Shopping, submissive, Unicorn Leave a commentOn a lighter note – but following the childhood innocence theme – the La Double J Mini Swing Dress in Giungla brings color and clean lines to Life. Might be a good choice to indicate your interest in being a Little or a Unicorn.
- Fabric: Lightweight, non-stretch silk twill
- Rainforest print
- Jewel neckline and short sleeves
- Hidden zip at back
- On-seam hip pockets
- Shell: 100% silk
- Unlined
- Dry clean
- Made in Italy
- $520
Master laughed
Posted: July 11, 2021 Filed under: Dresses, Fashion | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, green, Humor, Life, Master, monochromatic, Presentation Outfit, submissive, Summer Leave a commentdievca was a vision in green with the Xirena Aiden cotton gauze dress in Juniper:
The dress wasn’t the problem – it was that she added these two items to the mix:
What grounded the Green Monster? Nike Thea Print Comic:
the Summer Scoop
Posted: June 25, 2021 Filed under: Dresses | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, inexpensive, Life, NYC, Scoop NYC, Shopping, submissive, Summer, Weather 1 CommentNow that NYC has moved into a new climate zone…
New York City, after years of being considered a humid continental climate, now sits within the humid subtropical climate zone. The classification requires that summers average above 72 degrees Fahrenheit — which New York’s have had since 1927 — and for winter months to stay above 27 degrees Fahrenheit, on average.
A simple 100% Cotton Summer Dress is a necessity.
Wal-Mart bought the rights to a NYC brand which personified beach style to Millennials.
In 2016:
Scoop NYC, the boutique chain that billed itself as “the ultimate closet,” announced last week that it was closing its 15 remaining shops.
The Last Days of Scoop – NY Times
The store relives as a Brand at Wal-Mart and is offering a simple summer dress, on sale for $28.50
Scoop
Women’s Strapless Asymmetric Midi Sundress
Channeling Elizabeth Taylor
Posted: June 3, 2021 Filed under: Dresses, Vintage | Tags: 1950's Household Kink, BDSM, d-s, dievca, Elegant, Etsy, ladylike, Party, Presentation Outfits, retro, Shopping Leave a comment
Stunning 1950’s Red Silk Chiffon Cocktail Party Dress Designed for “Pavion” by David Barr!
This vintage dress just screams out Elizabeth Taylor!
Made of a soft crimson-colored red silk chiffon fabric trimmed with red silk satin detailing- the dress features sheer chiffon sleeves, the body of the dress lined in silk satin, the collar is notched and offers a deep plunge neckline with matching fabric buttons down the front. The waist is cinched and the the skirt on this beautiful piece has tons of small pleats for a super full mid-calf length skirt.
The dress has wonderful movement when you walk or dance!
Excellent Vintage Condition, $250 on Etsy – click photo for link
Size Small
Bust -34″
Waist -25″
Hip -Free
Length -41″
dievca 