Ladylike

graceful, polite, and behaving in a way that is thought to be socially acceptable for a woman:.

In dress, it is controlled, elegant, classic and conservative:

Master’s favorite look.

dievca has gotten away from it. The process takes time and patience. A consistency of body-size.

Worrying about elderly parents, travel, aging takes its toll. A general tendency towards quirky and downtown chic pulls dievca when given a choice to spend money on clothing…
Master does like to see His dievca in her downtown chic plumage, but D/s-wise He prefers “ladylike”.

Why does this matter?

dievca has been clearing and revamping her closet – she’s sold a great deal on the RealReal, eBay and at Buffalo Exchange. Her money has not gone towards any ladylike items…

she’s gone more practical, focusing on items that she desired during the past year, which went on sale:

she will have to ask Master how He feels about her negligence of ladylike dressing. He is entertained by her eclectic closet and He knows her focus has been on Family/Life items.

The luxury of being “Ladylike” will just have to wait until dievca can refocus.


End of Summer meet and greet

Cuup ‘the scoop’ Bra in clay

Cuup ‘the bikini’ in clay

Dries van Noten Rust Orange Patent Pumps

dievca is back home and she caught up with Master for D/s, Gin & Tonics, and sushi.

A mental support moment before dievca flies to her Parents for the weekend.

Antik Batik Cotton Gauze Dress Navy

Merho Navy Blur Leather Sandal

Baggu Black Leather Tote

Master’s Vintage Chain

MJM Marriage Cuff

MJM silver/14K cuff

MJM Opal Cuff

MJM Light Sterling Cuff


A Present for Sir or Madam?

Is it a present if a submissive offers their Sir or Madam a chair orgasm?
A front-row view of masturbation in sexy underpinnings?
Please let dievca know, she’s got the bones of a plan and would love to ‘flesh’ it out.


Feeling a Need


Just hand her the damn coffee.

Cafe Grumpy T-Shirt

Master forgot how grumpy His dievca is in the morning
if she doesn’t have coffee.

He kept laughing at her and saying,
‘Boy, someone is really grumpy without her coffee…’

Umm, that doesn’t help.

Just hand her the damn coffee.
No comments, please.


no iPhone…

dievca doesn’t have an iPhone, she runs android.
she doesn’t watch TV ….
Obviously, she is disconnected.
Right?

dievca was ‘on it‘ when the Soffi Tukker “Batshit Crazy” song 1st came out because a close friend uses that term quite a lot, so the song caught her ear. Note: That friend has used the adjective to describe dievca on occasion. Apparently, Apple used the clean version for an advert in 2018.

Now the Sofi Tukker song, ‘Best Friend’ is on dievca’s radar late and she loves it. Not from the iPhone X commercial or the Grammy Awards, but from this video:

Look how adorable!

In a strange way, the lyrics apply to Master and dievca.

You ALL are more hip than Master and dievca, got any songs or artists you want to share with them?


Feeling…


Gorgeous.

Sometimes you need to check in with your feelings.
Do you ever wonder what your Sir or Mistress is feeling?