How’s the weather?

M.
Starfished nude on the bed.
No covers and just a fan moving the air.
Wafting it past my moist skin, causing my nipples to pucker.
It’s hot in the City.
d.


between the lines (elfje)

words
tell tales
you are tired
read between the lines
home

Photo: Alamy, tired-traveller-Beijing-International-Airport-China

Fetish? All in your definition…

fet·ish
ˈfediSH/
noun
1. a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.

dievca and Master have had talks about BDSM and fetishes.
dievca made the statement that she loves to be connected, via a chain or restraints and she thought that the desire for connection was a “fetish” (there is even a flag below)

Master disagreed.
Master’s definition of a fetish comes from past submissives He connected with along the way. His point was that being chained was not “needed” by dievca. Being restrained was not necessary for the relationship to exist or proceed. It is just something dievca enjoys very much. But dievca really enjoys changing it up, too — she doesn’t need her restraints to “get off”. Master had connected with some people who had to do the same thing in the same pattern to be fulfilled.  It was not His thing.
“diversity, dievca, diversity” — hmm, maybe that is Master’s fetish…

These musings were prompted because dievca was looking up the date for the Pride Parade in NYC (June 25th, 2017 9:00 am) and a side bar on the website offered some flags:

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Drag Fetish Fat Fetish Feather Fetish Fisting Fetish Foot Fetish Freak Fetish
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Mask Fetish Gay Goth Fetish Goth Fetish Intersex Leather Fetish Leather Eagle Pride
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Leather Girl Pride Leather Queer Pride Long Hair Fetish Military Fetish Muscle Fetish Ownership Fetish
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Puppy Play Fetish Rubber Latex Fetish Slave Fetish Switch Fetish Twink Fetish Watersports Fetish

Looking forward to Summer…


Master and dievca

“Why is it,” he said, one time, at the subway entrance,
“I feel I’ve known you so many years?”

“Because I like you,” she said,
“and I don’t want anything from you.” 

Photo: 1946 Stanley Kubrick


It’s been awhile ~ (a dievca disaster)

dievca and Master have been immersed in Life.  Aging family members, young family members, guests visiting, work, etc.  That made for more traditional “daytime” outfits (work, downtown chic) with simple lingerie lying beneath.

So, when Master called at 7 am and said “I’ll be over in an hour.” dievca panicked.

Everything was tucked away from having guests visit.
she needed to dig for a corset, play collar, stockings, heels and a skirt, clean-up her body and make sure the apartment was tidy and the shower was clean.
Argh!
Crazy Lady!

dievca was “on it” except for the skirt she wanted. she couldn’t find the easy answer. So, she grabbed the Daniel James London box. The box which contained her black latex hobble skirt. she knew it was going to be touchy without practice.

Master arrived 10 minutes early and walked through the door as dievca was all fumble fingers with the corset hooks. Until she realized she needed to put the high-waisted latex skirt on 1st and then the corset over it.

“Master, I’m out of practice – please give me a moment.”

A deep breath, a slow down of process and the pieces came together.

  • Floral Corset (red)
  • Latex Hobble Skirt, full zip (black – Daniel James)
  • Stay-Up Tights (nude – Wolford)
  • Stiletto Heels (flame – B. by Brian Atwood)
  • Anal plug (silver crystal)
  • Leather Collar (silver – Hartman Rose)
  • Leather Lead (silver – Hartman Rose)
  • Stud Earrings (silver)

Sort of…

dievca stepped out of the bedroom and Master was in His chair, waiting…and as dievca knelt to Master, she knew the latex skirt was about to become a “live, uncontrollable partner” in her offerings.

All went well with the offering of dievca’s lips and breasts, it went south with Master’s pussy and ass. Let’s just say the two-way zip on the skirt had a mind of its own. It wouldn’t re-zip and then the top waistband wouldn’t let go for removal, this was after the point that the corset was set over the top of the skirt and needed to be lifted up (remember the steel “whale bones” in a corset?) for the skirt to be removed.

After contortions, unflattering squishing, and a bit of embarrassment and laughter — dievca was set “free” in her corset, stockings and heels. Master decided to join her in the bottomless condition which offered a great deal more access and in dievca’s mind –  more fun. XO

What can dievca say? It’s been awhile~


The BDSM Holy Grail

From Wildfox, click photo for purchase

Definition – What does Unicorn mean?

Colloquial;  A unicorn in polyamory, BDSM or swinging lifestyles is usually a bisexual single female who is willing to have sex or serve or enter into a relationship with an established couple. Although unicorns are usually female, this term can apply to persons of other genders.

Note: The Unicorn is willing to date both members of the existing couple, agree not to have any relationships other than the ones with the couple, agree not to be sexually involved with one member of the couple unless the other member of the couple is present or has given permission, and/or agree to move in with the couple. Because this type of person is hard to find, they are akin to the rare, mythical unicorn.

(dievca modified the definition from Kinkly and More Than Two)

dievca thought because they are so hard to find — maybe wearing this Sweatshirt would make the connection easier. XO

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Description: Knit cotton-blend hoodie

  • Attached hood with adjustable drawstring
  • Graphic front
  • Kangaroo pocket
  • Banded cuffs and hem
  • Tonal topstitching and panel seaming

Measurements: * 44″ in circumference at bust; 24″ from shoulder to hem; taken from a size L * Model’s height is 5’9″

Material: 70% cotton and 30% polyester

Care: Hand or machine wash cold

Brand: Wildfox

Origin: United States