How’s the weather?
Posted: June 23, 2017 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, erotic, Life, Master, NYC, Relationships, sleep, submissive, Summer heat 7 Comments
M.
Starfished nude on the bed.
No covers and just a fan moving the air.
Wafting it past my moist skin, causing my nipples to pucker.
It’s hot in the City.
d.
between the lines (elfje)
Posted: June 19, 2017 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Master, Poetry | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dominant, Life, Master, mood, Relationships, submissive, traveling 3 Comments
words
tell tales
you are tired
read between the lines
home
Photo: Alamy, tired-traveller-Beijing-International-Airport-China
Fetish? All in your definition…
Posted: June 11, 2017 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Master, Musings, Submission | Tags: BDSM, D/s, Dominant, erotic, Fetish, flags, Kink, Life, Master, NYC, Submission, submissive 9 Commentsfet·ish
ˈfediSH/
noun
1. a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.
dievca and Master have had talks about BDSM and fetishes.
dievca made the statement that she loves to be connected, via a chain or restraints and she thought that the desire for connection was a “fetish” (there is even a flag below)
Master disagreed.
Master’s definition of a fetish comes from past submissives He connected with along the way. His point was that being chained was not “needed” by dievca. Being restrained was not necessary for the relationship to exist or proceed. It is just something dievca enjoys very much. But dievca really enjoys changing it up, too — she doesn’t need her restraints to “get off”. Master had connected with some people who had to do the same thing in the same pattern to be fulfilled. It was not His thing.
“diversity, dievca, diversity” — hmm, maybe that is Master’s fetish…
These musings were prompted because dievca was looking up the date for the Pride Parade in NYC (June 25th, 2017 9:00 am) and a side bar on the website offered some flags:
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| Age Play Fetish | Androgyne Fetish | BDSM Fetish | Bear Fetish | Boi Fetish | Boot Fetish |
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| Drag Fetish | Fat Fetish | Feather Fetish | Fisting Fetish | Foot Fetish | Freak Fetish |
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| Mask Fetish | Gay Goth Fetish | Goth Fetish | Intersex | Leather Fetish | Leather Eagle Pride |
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| Leather Girl Pride | Leather Queer Pride | Long Hair Fetish | Military Fetish | Muscle Fetish | Ownership Fetish |
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| Puppy Play Fetish | Rubber Latex Fetish | Slave Fetish | Switch Fetish | Twink Fetish | Watersports Fetish |
Looking forward to Summer…
Posted: June 10, 2017 Filed under: D/s Relationship | Tags: BDSM, car, cock worship, D/s, dievca, Dominant, Elegant, erotic, Life, Master, Relationships, Sex, Slave, submissive, Summer 10 Comments
Master and dievca
Posted: May 26, 2017 Filed under: D/s Relationship | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dominance and submission, Dominant, erotic, Life, Master, NYC, Orgasm, photo, Stanley Kubrick, submissive 8 Comments
“Why is it,” he said, one time, at the subway entrance,
“I feel I’ve known you so many years?”
“Because I like you,” she said,
“and I don’t want anything from you.”
Photo: 1946 Stanley Kubrick
It’s been awhile ~ (a dievca disaster)
Posted: May 17, 2017 Filed under: Body Type, D/s Relationship, Disasters, Latex | Tags: 1950's Household Kink, bondage, D/s, dievca, Dominant, Elegant, erotic, Fetish, Kink, Master, Presentation Outfits, submissive 11 Commentsdievca and Master have been immersed in Life. Aging family members, young family members, guests visiting, work, etc. That made for more traditional “daytime” outfits (work, downtown chic) with simple lingerie lying beneath.
So, when Master called at 7 am and said “I’ll be over in an hour.” dievca panicked.
Everything was tucked away from having guests visit.
she needed to dig for a corset, play collar, stockings, heels and a skirt, clean-up her body and make sure the apartment was tidy and the shower was clean.
Argh!
Crazy Lady!
dievca was “on it” except for the skirt she wanted. she couldn’t find the easy answer. So, she grabbed the Daniel James London box. The box which contained her black latex hobble skirt. she knew it was going to be touchy without practice.
Master arrived 10 minutes early and walked through the door as dievca was all fumble fingers with the corset hooks. Until she realized she needed to put the high-waisted latex skirt on 1st and then the corset over it.
“Master, I’m out of practice – please give me a moment.”
A deep breath, a slow down of process and the pieces came together.
- Floral Corset (red)
- Latex Hobble Skirt, full zip (black – Daniel James)
- Stay-Up Tights (nude – Wolford)
- Stiletto Heels (flame – B. by Brian Atwood)
- Anal plug (silver crystal)
- Leather Collar (silver – Hartman Rose)
- Leather Lead (silver – Hartman Rose)
- Stud Earrings (silver)
Sort of…
dievca stepped out of the bedroom and Master was in His chair, waiting…and as dievca knelt to Master, she knew the latex skirt was about to become a “live, uncontrollable partner” in her offerings.
All went well with the offering of dievca’s lips and breasts, it went south with Master’s pussy and ass. Let’s just say the two-way zip on the skirt had a mind of its own. It wouldn’t re-zip and then the top waistband wouldn’t let go for removal, this was after the point that the corset was set over the top of the skirt and needed to be lifted up (remember the steel “whale bones” in a corset?) for the skirt to be removed.
After contortions, unflattering squishing, and a bit of embarrassment and laughter — dievca was set “free” in her corset, stockings and heels. Master decided to join her in the bottomless condition which offered a great deal more access and in dievca’s mind – more fun. XO
What can dievca say? It’s been awhile~
The BDSM Holy Grail
Posted: May 16, 2017 Filed under: Clothing, D/s Relationship | Tags: BDSM, Clothing, D/s, dievca, Fetish, Kink, polyamory, Relationships, Shopping, submissive, Unicorn, Wildfox 10 Comments
From Wildfox, click photo for purchase
Definition – What does Unicorn mean?
Colloquial; A unicorn in polyamory, BDSM or swinging lifestyles is usually a bisexual single female who is willing to have sex or serve or enter into a relationship with an established couple. Although unicorns are usually female, this term can apply to persons of other genders.
Note: The Unicorn is willing to date both members of the existing couple, agree not to have any relationships other than the ones with the couple, agree not to be sexually involved with one member of the couple unless the other member of the couple is present or has given permission, and/or agree to move in with the couple. Because this type of person is hard to find, they are akin to the rare, mythical unicorn.
(dievca modified the definition from Kinkly and More Than Two)
dievca thought because they are so hard to find — maybe wearing this Sweatshirt would make the connection easier. XO
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Description: Knit cotton-blend hoodie
- Attached hood with adjustable drawstring
- Graphic front
- Kangaroo pocket
- Banded cuffs and hem
- Tonal topstitching and panel seaming
Measurements: * 44″ in circumference at bust; 24″ from shoulder to hem; taken from a size L * Model’s height is 5’9″
Material: 70% cotton and 30% polyester
Care: Hand or machine wash cold
Brand: Wildfox
Origin: United States
