A Moment to Take a Load Off~


Sometimes the Power Exchange Merges


Happy Social Media Day!

Did dievca tell you, “Thank You” for coming on her ride?
Thank you.

Social Media Day is observed annually on June 30th. In its short life, social media has redefined how people interact, communicate, and share with family, friends, and the world. With the launch of Friendster in 2002 and MySpace in 2003, social media had become mainstream.

In its most basic sense, social media is a shift in how people discover, read, and share news, information, and content. Technologies include blogs, picture-sharing, vlogs, wall-postings, email, instant messaging, music-sharing, crowdsourcing, and voice over IP, to name a few.

And Master has never minded that dievca has shared pieces of their Life on the blog.


Simple, direct


Exactly where your Sir wants you to be


BDSM breakfast service


Morning coffee for your Sir or Madam.
(dievca’s service will begin at 8 am)


Let’s take a drive


Out of the City
Up the Interstate
No panties to hold the wet

A place to park
Private and green
Somewhere to pet and suck

Stockings remain
Climax on the hood
The perfect Sunday drive


Restraints

If you are tied up, anything can happen. Even if nothing happens beyond kissing, the physical nature of being bound heightens everything.

With extra time on hand, dievca took a BDSM test for giggles (www.bdsmtest.org) – her results are above. she was taken aback by “Rope Bunny” being the highest percentage – especially since rope bondage (shibari) is really not one of her or Master’s interests.

she’s been pondering the high percentage ever since.

The aha! moment came yesterday after meeting and playing with Master.  Master created various cuff and strap connections during play, in response dievca switched submissive and moved all in.

Master asked her about being restrained afterward and she had a hard time verbalizing exactly why she is able to let go fully.
The gist is that dievca isn’t interested in full bondage for beauty or complete limitation of movement.
she is interested in being restrained to place full trust in Master and take away control from pieces of her body to focus fully on Master and other bodily responses. The energy from the restraints can be pushed elsewhere.

Does that make sense?


Physical Health, Mental Health


Comfort food.
Sitting at home.
Worry.

Time to slip away,
To your Sir or Madam.
Focus.

Don’t forget the healthy aftercare


Not really a problem in D/s


People always talk about Trust in a BDSM relationship.
Communication.
If it works well, the embarrassment factor of any activity disappears.
Your Sir or Madam has seen or will see all realms of awkwardness if you are adventurous.
Sexually or just within the Power Exchange.

The good news is with Trust you will look at your Dominant or submissive and think,
“Oh-Yes, I want to do that again!”


D/s dreaming

A hint of the dream lingers
throughout the day.

A smell, a touch,
a glimpse of satiation.

Collected wisps and pieces
solidify elusive memories.

Enough captured
to create an Orgasm.


Stop and smell the flowers – update.


A pretty sight, right? The pink flowers match the lingerie from yesterday. dievca didn’t get a photo of the flowers before the post. Here’s the order of activities:

  1. A two-CD mix made for dievca’s Mother took a full day to source and collect songs, then find a burner for the CD’s. Her Dad is failing badly, so she asked the Caregivers to play the music from “Carmen Jones” and “Das Boot” via YouTube on the tablet for expedience. The CD’s are for the stereo – both of dievca’s parents are going deaf.
  2. The next day after work, dievca took a 1.5-hour walk around the City – to get out of the apartment. The wind was brutal-you can see the birds fighting the chop on the Hudson River. she found one place to walk up to buy coffee – it was a treat tasting a different flavor than her coffee.
  3. The 3rd day, dievca biked up the Hudson River Park trail in the rain to get to Master. Master’s windows offered an elegant view of two Magnolia trees in bloom.
    And she shared dinner and wine with Master after a little D/s play.

If dievca’s Dad dies – she won’t be able to get to her mother for the funeral. There is a two-week quarantine for New Yorkers heading out of State via air travel. dievca hasn’t been sick, but she would prefer to be careful. Understandably, as dievca’s Mom wouldn’t make it through a bout of COVID-19 under Hospice care.

Photos: dievca 04/2020 NYC - graphic from a good friend.

Fade Into You – where do you go?

Where do you go when the World gets a little crazy?
What habits, activities, processes happen?
dievca is still working, but when she has a chunk of open time after wiping down the refrigerator….three things may occur:

    1. The vintage 1990’s Champion Sweats appear, cosy and worn in
    2. Alexa plays Classic Cassette Era Rock, 1970’s Pop, 1980’s New Wave, 1990’s Alternative
    3. dievca’s nose gets stuck in a Sci-Fi / Fantasy novel

Master just laughs at His dievca when she hides from the World – He knows she’ll come back to Reality with Him.


But Master isn’t here and dievca has slipped into her 90’s Alternative Universe with Mazzy Star.  Yes, she has her Champion Reverseweave Sweatshirt on:

What do you do to slip away?

 

Mazzy Star – Fade Into You – 10/2/1994 – Shoreline Amphitheatre (Official)


Fade Into You
Mazzy Star
I wanna hold the hand inside you
I wanna take the breath that’s true
I look to you and I see nothing
I look to you to see the truth
You live your life, you go in shadow
You’ll come upon and you’ll go black
Some kind of night into your darkness
Close your eyes with what’s not there
Fade into you
Strange you never knew
Fade into you
I think it’s strange you never knew
The strange light comes on slowly
A stranger’s heart is out of home
You put your hands into your head
And your smiles cover your heart

Songwriters: David Roback / Hope Sandoval


Stretching in the Sun~


Good Morning!


Blinded by Science

Cafe Press Fabric Shower Curtain $64.23
(click photo)

dievca has found herself reading Reddit Chemistry and Physics threads, lately…
Something about wishing to be a student, again?
Who knows.

This might be an inspiration for a Presentation Outfit:

Foreigner’s ‘Blinded by Science’ doesn’t have a video to inspire, but Thomas Dolby does!

  • Thick intelligent glasses
  • Lab coat
  • Pusssy bow blouse
  • Circle midi skirt
  • Black heels
  • Pencil in bun

After work — for your Sir/Madam


Keep it simple and clean.
Sexy will shine through.


Coffee packet for the road~


Always desperate for good coffee at my Parents’,
M. gave me a coffee packet for the trip.

The name made me laugh like heck!
We’ll see how those caramel notes soothe stressed nerves.
XO d.


Ummm, busy, please call back later.


Mlouye Handbags: Architecture in Color

Mlouye Naomi Belt Bag $285

Mlouye Mini Woven Bag $295

Mlouye Wave Wallet $195

Mlouye’s founder and creative director Meb Rure hails from an industrial design background. In 2015, Meb decided to change gears and turn her energy towards Mlouye, a collection of exceptional handbags. Focusing on quality material, good design, craftsmanship and sustainability, Mlouye reflects the epitome of quality over quantity.

Meb was highly inspired by the Bauhaus Movement’s artists and architects. From Mies van der Rohe’s works to Kandinsky’s paintings, to Aalto’s furniture, she acquired a rationalist vision of design by gleaning how they served a utilitarian purpose in a cleverly simple way. Mlouye merges industrial design and fashion, creating functional handbags made of luxurious and honest materials to improve people’s lives in small but important ways.

Innovation being the key factor alongside aesthetic, Mlouye has brought unexpected shapes with smart details, functionality and a new luxury feel with a contemporary price point.

Istanbul is where Mlouye was born, the company’s headquarters is now split between the US, the UK and Turkey.

Naomi Belt Bag – Spice


an intimate coffee to start the week


Sharing coffee with your Sir or Madam can be the start of a beautiful week.


So, has there been any D/s activity?

Yes.
In modified modes.

It’s not been all comfort food…
Master has been really cognizant about His dievca’s mental and physical state.
Back issues? Certain positions.
Torn Calf? Gentle maneuvering.
Mental meltdown? Coddling before shifting..
Need for oblivion? Heavy D/s subspace.

In return, dievca has been serving Her Master to the best of her abilities.
It’s amazing how they flip to D/s without much coaxing.
One cannot ask anything more than that in D/s relationship. Right?


Winter Sun

Eva Rubenstein – Couple, NYC 1971


Giving Thanks – D/s

Would you consider using your restraints on your submissive?
Maybe filling all of her holes?
Teasing her clit so she squirts?
Playing with and clipping her nipples?
Grow large in her mouth?
Pound deeply so the bed moves?
Dominate her any way you would like?
If so, she will be ever so Thankful.

A pop of pop! Jonathan Adler

Jonathan Adler – when dievca 1st moved to NYC she knew more about his partner, Simon Doonan, because of Barney’s. Then in 2013, Happy Chic items were offered at JC Penney’s and dievca picked up a simple vase which made her….well, happy.

Since then she’s found the Jonathan Adler UWS store and she keeps here eye’s peeled for fun pieces.

A couple of nightlights have saved the day for Baby Shower gifts:
Amazon is offering his “Now House” line and these bright Vertigo Coasters and tray added some pop to dievca’s decor while the Convex Grid Accent Table filled a gap in dievca’s home.

Something Happy!


And sometimes a submissive gets lucky…

dievca grew up with a great family. she’s well-educated and has a great job.
she’s had and has a solid social life, no abusive partners, no financial issues.
It might seem like she is lucky, but she has worked hard for her World.

dievca doesn’t need to have a Dominant in her Life, but having one whom she trusts fully and can submit to has given her a chance to place a missing link.

Master would not state that He is stronger than His dievca.
He would state that their trust for each other is equal and that makes their power exchange fluid. They both want similar things out of their relationship.

Its the trust between a Dominant and submissive that needs to be strong.

 


It was a ‘yes’!


NYC weather took a 27 degree (F) drop from 55F to 28F (13C to -2C). dievca pulled out her soft fuzzy Japanese Cashmere Sweater by Side Slope and wore it to Master’s apartment. BDSM play was not the focus of the meet,  but a moment to touch and chat on the bed inspired dievca to strip everything off except the sweater.

The sweater was long enough to cover her pussy and offered hints of curves and nipples.
Soft enough for cuddling and sensation play.

It was a hit!

Peek-a-boo fuzziness and fun spilled into a strong D/s finish.
The final action answered dievca’s question on the original Fuzzy Sweater Post.

does Cosy/Snuggly = Sexy?

Master said, ‘yes’!

 


Halloween Hardware


A leather “lookbook” for your Halloween Bondage needs!


“You missed a spot”


dievca grew up washing the interior windows of her house, weekly.
she’s good~
So, Master asked for help with cleaning His windows as a present
.
It’s a two-man…uh…one Dom and one sub job.
Maybe dievca can show Master her pipe-cleaning skills, too.
XO

here’s a little window cleaning fun:


Bringing it back – Master’s request

Auburn Cheerleaders at the 1972 Georgia game.

About 5 years ago, dievca developed a Cosplay Fantasy for Master – focusing on the fact Master never dated a cheerleader. It turned out to be a lot of fun. dievca had forgotten about the cheerleading uniform, but Master had not…

So, dievca went digging in storage and found the uniform and pompons. Hah! The cheerleading uniform was a bit too small, so safety pins had to come to the rescue. On the other hand, dievca is more flexible than 5 years ago 😘.

Master enjoyed flipping into the role of Professor, tutoring his student in Human Anatomy. dievca needed to work her way around His anatomy to get the ‘A’.

Here’s the original post with outfit at the end:

A SENSE OF FUN! (repost)

Master has mentioned that sometimes the BDSM crowd takes themselves very seriously — protocol, rules, discipline, punishment, titles, labels, dungeons, etc. A little bit dark and without humor.

Now, I’ve read some great posts from people who are very open to different manifestations of D/s dynamic. Their offerings sound more lighthearted  — one aspect was a Cosplay element. Of course, Cosplay is a World unto its own –but slipping a little into our D/s relationship sounded interesting.

A while ago, Master and dievca talked about their High School and College years.  dievca teased Master and asked Him if He was the BMOC (Big Man On Campus) and if He dated all the cheerleaders. He replied that He never dated a cheerleader. pom-pon girl or something similar.

Hmmm….

Master grew up on the West Coast –what if dievca showed up as a USC Song Girl?

USC Song Girls

Photo by Alix Drawec – sports photos

 

White is a tough color to wear — but o.k.  dievca began her search….no USC uniforms to be found. The closest turtleneck uniform top she found was from the University of Iowa – Hawkeyes. They sell their spare stuff on eBay — too much $ for dievca to spend.

USC Song Girls Back End...

On to Plan B

vintage cheerleaders (3) vintage cheerleaders (2)

Vintage HS Cheerleading Uniforms…a flashback for Master.
Nothing. Those saddle shoes must have deteriorated with age.

vintage cheerleaders (12) 

On to Plan C

eBay HS Cheer Uniform

eBay HS Cheer Uniform

Pom Pons

Pom Pons

Retro Pom-Pon Socks

Retro Pom-Pon Socks

White Leather Tretorns

White Leather Tretorns

French Braids

French Braids

Bow Hair Ties

Bow Hair Ties

eBay and Texas comes through. The southern States take their cheerleading seriously and many organizations/schools sell their old equipment on eBay. dievca was able to pick up a HS Cheerleading Uniform with matching pompons for a good price ($30). The sizing is “Kids” so she tried to go by measurements. The uniform was a bit snug, but perhaps that is not a bad thing… Accessorized with retro socks, white shoes, hair bows, braids and some cheers/dances swiped from youtube. voilà!

Ahhh, so much fun.  Master flipped into a side that dievca hadn’t seen, an actor.  He moved into the role of a Technology Geek who is a potential donor for a new engineering wing at a University.  dievca was the newbie cheerleader who was a science major sent to show Him a good time.

The Cheerleading uniform and cheers were a Huge Hit.
dievca will leave it to your imagination what happened after the game.
(Just remember: there are ways to keep your virginity intact!)
😀

Spelling note: Pom-Pon vs. Pom-Pom, the 1st is correct- but 2nd has taken over…

A Water Sign

Artist Katarina Marković – Photography Body

Water slipping, sensually
caressing
molding
holding
Master’s hands, fluid

 


Just so we are all on the same page.


Good Morning, Good Week, Safe BDSM.


Flying across the pond…


Your submissive is waiting.