Shopping for the Holidays (focus on Him)

Searching Gifts for the Men in your Life can be challenging. Here’s some options dievca ran across along the way. Ranging from $4 to $2750 — you might find something:

Remember Bass Weejun Penny Loafers? dievca found that the G.H. Bass website seemed to have the best options for small odds and ends.  (click here for the G.H. Bass website)
The site is running a 20% off deal.

Eddie Bauer used to have some cool and useful gifts. Not as many, but a few inexpensive pieces and if you need some fleece/outerwear, they are a good source. (click here for the Eddie Bauer website)
The site is running 50% off everything.

dievca bought the Pistachio Pedestal for her brother who loves pistachio nuts. Uncommon Goods has some other nice options for gifts. (click her for the Uncommon Goods website)

The most expensive item on the list is from Bottega Veneta — a designer known for woven leather goods. This backpack comes in amazing colors and will cost you… (click here for the Bottega Veneta website)

It was a week…+SantaCon…

20171203_221430.jpg Don’t let the door hit your ass on the way out!

Good Morning! Ready to dig in for the Season?

Let’s have that first cup before the chaos known as December begins~

A Cold Nose and the Full Moon

Tonight’s Moon is the last full moon of the year and it should be a good one.

dievca caught the moon, yesterday evening, after walking home from sharing Ramen with a friend. (
It was very close to full!

Photo: dievca 12/02/2017 NYC

December’s full moon is called the Cold Moon.
Tonight’s full moon will be a supermoon, and the only visible supermoon in 2017.

During her city wandering, dievca was wearing:


The moon becomes totally full at 10:47 a.m. EST (1547 GMT).

The best time to see a supermoon is just after sunset. Something called the “moon illusion” makes the moon appear even bigger: The closer it is to the horizon, the larger it looks. No one knows exactly why this happens, but it is probably has something to do with our eyes.

For those living in the mainland United States, the supermoon will rise at 4:29 p.m. local time in San Francisco and 5:26 p.m. in New York City. If you are in Honolulu, head outside at 6:25 p.m. Those in Anchorage, Alaska, can catch the moonrise at 4:28 p.m.

Find the sunrise and sunset times for your location click here.

dievca will be wishing you good health and joy on the Moon!

Hermès Fouet (repost)

Hermes Fouet

Behold a platinum whip.
Set with 3699 diamonds, from Hermès.
Fully articulated.

It is designed as a necklace, unsurprisingly named “Fouet”
and includes the Alligator-leather case.

May dievca offer a view of some other items in the collection?

Hermes Fouet Ring


Hermes Fouet Earrings


Hermes Fouet collection together

(Available upon special order at Hermès stores. 1-800-441-4488 or

And if the jewelry is too dear — you can always download the whip screensaver at

Hermès whip screen saver

A repost from March 4th, 2014

Happy Thanksgiving (repost)

Happy Thanksgiving!

Bird in Bondage

Nov. 28th, 2013

Pallets: Furniture with BDSM possibilities. (repost)

Originally posted on Sept. 3rd, 2014 — a Fan Favorite!
dievca’s #1 post, thanks to reblogging. XO

Pallet DIY

Where dievca’s mind goes~

dievca receives e-mail notices for a blog:

Marinella is an Italian Architect and Interior Designer and her blog scans fashion, interiors, lifestyle items, etc.

This post arrived in dievca’s inbox :

It was a post showing the use of Pallets as furniture.  Now, dievca is eclectic and could fit a Pallet piece in her Apartment, but it is not something that she would normally seek out….until she thought of the BDSM applications… dievca loves to be restrained by Master’s cuffs or chained by Master’s collar to a point in a room. Restraints could be connected to ALL theses pieces. Pallets have holes and slots available and some of the tables have wheels – they could be modular and moved. Very Interesting. A way to hide the BDSM oriented furniture and bring it out when needed. Stealth.

Let me offer some photos or take a look at Marinella’s post and see what you think.

The Bedroom:

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The Living Room:

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The Kitchen:

Pallet Wine Rack 64-Creative-Ways-To-Recycle-A-Pallet_52

Outside in the Fresh Air:

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When the Kids are at Camp:

Pallet Play House

And when serving a cocktail:



Could you imagine hosting a D/s party and the subs could be connected as the Doms / Dommes go about their business — released to serve and then connected, again? Perhaps on display?

As dievca was scanning the photos, all she could think of was “Maybe Master would connect me here, put my hands up there, spread me out completely, wrap me around, bend me over” – OK, you get the idea. The Good News is some of these products can be purchased or if you or your Sir/Madame is handy — an inexpensive DIY project.  The padded pieces of furniture look to be more comfortable but perhaps pain, humiliation, or exhibitionism is part of your process — again, dievca thinks you can see the options.

dievca prefers the outdoor pieces. she is not an exhibitionist but would love to be connected to or spread for Master in the fresh air. Played with or left alone as He desires. she loves that there are many ways to be attached without killing the furniture and the padded portions offer Master comfort outside as he works, ignores or focuses on dievca.