Body Language – legs open while sitting

When we talk about sexual interest, expressive men have the “crotch display” – sitting with the legs wide apart to signal virility and availability. These men usually signal that they feel dominant, strong and even a little smug – this position takes a lot of space and exposes their groin for the World to see. The position can easily offend others (on the Subway) or entice them.

You Sit: With legs wide open
It means: Arrogance, combative, sexual posturing

Open legs tell us that a woman is either easy, trying to look that way, or doesn’t realize she’s being improper. Maybe she is careless about her sitting postures. In other words, legs wide open says she’s a bit sloppy, regardless of her true intention.
OR MAYBE ITS CALCULATED..

Or the legs are spread open by your Sir or Madam.


misogynistic

mi·sog·y·nis·tic
/məˌsäjəˈnistik/
adjective
strongly prejudiced against women.

Oh, so that’s what that word means.

Wow!  dievca hasn’t really run into this in her Life.
she’s lucky, she’s surrounded by some wonderful Men.

That said she had an issue with one of her building’s maintenance men.

Photo: Michael Goldman Woman Doing the Dishes

It all started with the dishwasher breaking. The maintenance guy truly did not listen to what was happening and just told dievca that she’s using the wrong soap (Cascade?!?!). The guy didn’t touch the dishwasher, nor did he come back to work on it – then he closed the work order, that evening, citing that dievca agreed there wasn’t a problem.

What?!?!?
There’s black water in the bottom – it’s not draining.

(Note: dievca has seen this maintenance man having deep discussions with Men in the building, never a Woman. she didn’t get to say a word and she thinks it was more than just a bad day.)

dievca re-opened up that work order so fast, your head would’ve spun and she hit up a couple of doormen and maintenance crew with her ire.

It was noticeable when they sent another person the next day. The sink needed snaking for a blockage and he listened to a cycle of the dishwasher —  and determined that the pump is burned out.

Put dievca on the list for a new dishwasher!

The work order is still open and apparently dievca is not a lunatic.
Oh, and using Cascade is ok.

Looks like dievca will be washing dishes in the nude until the new machine arrives!


Loungewear

Gisele Bundchen for Intimissimi

Definition of loungewear – casual, comfortable clothing suitable for wearing at home.

We spend almost half of our time asleep, so it seems sensible to give bedtime equal attention style-wise. Pajamas are a major player when it comes to loungewear. Yes, you can include silk robes and slinky slips, but the basics are a shirt and pant combo.

Sexy for wandering the home. (Or so dievca thinks…she needs to get Master’s opinion)

These are not pieces to wear in public, unless:

  1. You are very bold.
  2. Your Sir or Madame told you to~

XO


What happens on Boxing Day!


borrowing from the cyclists: bonked

Kate Upton nude on a bed, from the photo book Culo, by Raphael Mazzucco.

bonk
/bäNGk/
INFORMAL
verb
past tense: bonked; past participle: bonked
1.
knock or hit (something) to cause a reverberating sound.
“he bonked his head on the plane’s low bulkhead”
2.
have sexual intercourse with (someone).
3.
(of a cyclist or runner) reach a point of exhaustion that makes one unable to go further.
“I bonked and couldn’t pedal another stroke”

dievca is done, she has bonked.


Exhausted…

Photo: Exhausted by Mez Sampson

“Exhausted and alone, my resources are gone, I need your strength to carry me on.”
The original was slated for a charity auction benefiting women’s shelters. The auction was canceled by the organizers making it available. It is matted (3″)and signed by myself and the model. Click here to purchase.

A low-key lighting set up of Keira Grant in an emotive artistic nude pose.


Get out there and VOTE!

Abraham Lincoln

“Elections belong to the people. It’s their decision. If they decide to turn their back on the fire and burn their behinds, then they will just have to sit on their blisters.”
― Abraham Lincoln

Whatever your Party, whatever your views – Get Out and VOTE!

European friends want to talk about Trump, ask questions, analyze and they get irritated when dievca won’t engage…dievca is pretty much apolitical. dievca’s Dutch friend, who is very interested in Politics, came to stay with her and finally realized why dievca has shut down.  Her friend turned the TV off after a while, too.

That said — if you want change, you need to be present and use the Rights that were fought for at the beginning of our Nation (and for Women – about 100 years ago)

So, dievca will fight her apathy and Vote.

How about you?