Eight Candles surround me
Offering a soft glow
Linking Night to the Morn
Silence loud in absence
The healing has begun
Looking back carefully
Confident glance forward
Sometimes we are a small speck in the wide World.
But Joy can still shine through.
Love to you in this challenging time of the Year.
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an instance of opposition or contrast between two concepts or two aspects of something; a dualism.
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- Designed by Milton Glasser in 1975, at the request of the New York Commerce Commission
- The most successful effort to brand a destination.
- The logo has appeared on hundreds of millions of items
- Offered July 15, 1977
- The original drawing is held in the Museum of Modern Art in Manhattan.
Floor to ceiling windows make for a great view,
but dievca’s apartment doesn’t warm-up quickly before the morning sun.
Enter a gift received over 3 years ago:
- 50″ x 70″
- 100% polyester with 95% cotton, 5% spandex trim
- Machine wash cold, tumble dry low
Fuzzy, cozy, light and wash machine friendly, the throw has been extremely useful, but not super stylish.
Enter Missoni Home:
- Material: 80% wool, 20% polyamide
- Dimensions: 130x190cm
- Soft chunky weave
- Neutral colors with multi colors in between
- Made in Italy
dievca thought she would upgrade with Missoni and donate the Ugg to Goodwill. Instead, she’s been using both throws consistently, one on the sofa and one in the bedroom.
dievca hasn’t gone to Mass in a long while. she’s no longer a practicing Catholic. The drift happened many years ago and started with an unwelcoming Diocese and misuse of funds from a family Parish.
Oddly, Saint Patrick’s Cathedral in NYC is welcoming enough to allow anyone to offer up a Mass. One does not need to be a Parishioner of the Church. A Mass card can be sent as an acknowledgment of passing by anyone of any Religion or Church. A chance to have a devout group add their prayers to dievca’s more secular wishes.
It’s pretty much the first time since dievca’s Theology courses in College, the Catholic Church has shown her a form of tolerance and inclusiveness. Granted a donation is involved – but whatever works.
The Gentleman at the Parish House now knows dievca’s face and name, she’s been in 11 times this year. Family members, friends, friend’s family members have passed and dievca had a Mass said and sent a Saint Patrick’s Cathedral Mass Card.
What to Say When Someone Dies
- When in doubt, reach out
- Show up in person
- Send a Sympathy Card
- Consider sending a gift
- Anticipate their needs
- Don’t try to “fix” their grief
- Don’t avoid saying the deceased person’s name
- Keep checking in
- Don’t worry about getting it 100% right
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but it looks awfully fun!