fugly
Posted: May 21, 2023 Filed under: Shoes | Tags: BDSM, CHEREVICHKIOTVICHKI, D/s, dievca, Humor, Knee Surgery, Labucq, Life, Sandals, Shoe fetishism, Shopping, Summer, Zimmerman 1 Commentfug·ly
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very ugly or unattractive.“we all thought he was fugly”
dievca has refused to wear Birkenstocks or Crocs because she thinks they are absolutely “fugly”. Then she had knee surgery and had to whittle her elegant, no padding sandals and ended up with three pair that look like this:
Apparently, she is doing “fugly”, too. Yeah…
And it worked to the best of her ability~
Posted: April 28, 2023 Filed under: Dresses, Fashion, Shoes | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, disaster, Elegant, friendship, Funeral, Humor, Life, travel, traveling Leave a commentTwo outfits for the viewing and funeral – flew in at 4:30 pm, viewing at 6 pm, dressed and did make-up in the car backseat which scandalized prudish friends. Deal with it.
The viewing:
dievca has not said the Rosary in years – she finally realized that its a form of meditation.
The funeral Mass:
The black Stuart Weitzman 50/50 boots were a challenge to dievca’s right foot. she had to solicit help to get it on – a 7 minute process of pulling out the heel out from being crushed, getting it over her heel bone and profusely sweating. she donated the boots to a Gen Z who admired them and had a smaller foot after the funeral.
Flying back now – a < 36 hour go~
Stepping Out with Rene Caovilla
Posted: April 26, 2023 Filed under: Shoes, submissive | Tags: BDSM, crystal embellished, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, heels, Shoe fetishism, Shopping, slingbacks Leave a commentGorgeous and out of this submissive’s budget for 2023….ah, well.
Mavette: Nola d’Orsay
Posted: March 22, 2023 Filed under: Fashion, Shoes | Tags: BDSM, d'Orsay, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, heels, Leather, Shoe fetishism, Shopping, submissive Leave a comment- Integrated All Day Comfort Technology
- Adjustable ankle strap
- Athletic grade cushion at the toe box
- Suede upper
- Leather lining
- Leather sole with anti-slip
- 3-inch (85mm) heel
- Hidden platform at the toe box
- Handmade in Italy
- $480
Yesterdays fun~made Master laugh
Posted: March 18, 2023 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, Shoes | Tags: BDSM, Black, boots, D/s, D/s relationships, dievca, Dominant, green, Humor, Life, Love, Master, NYC, Presentation Outfit Leave a commentdievca’s touches of GREEN in a sea of NYC black made her Master laugh. XO
OTT with Aminah
Posted: March 4, 2023 Filed under: Shoes | Tags: Aminah Abdul-Jillil, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, feature, fun, heels, Shopping, submissive Leave a commentOld Favorites
Posted: February 25, 2023 Filed under: Collars, Dresses, Shoes, submissive | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Ease, Elegant, erotic, Go-Bag, Life, Master, practical, Presentation Outfit, Salvatore Ferragamo, Vivienne Westwood, Wolford Leave a commentWhen the schedule is packed and you are rushing around –
it helps to know that you have the “old favorites” in a Go-bag.
All readily available to make an elegant Presentation for Master:
- Vivienne Westwood “Orgie” Dress in Orange
- Salvatore Ferragamo Black Leather Heels
- Wolford black Thigh-Hi Stay-up stockings
- Hartman Rose Collar and Lead in Gold Lether
- Chanel Red Allure Lipstick
Walking in LA
Posted: February 12, 2023 Filed under: Entertainment, Fashion, Shoes | Tags: 1980's, BDSM, boots, d-s, dievca, Life, Los Angeles, Missing Persons, music videos, pink, R13, travel Leave a commentdievca’s heading to LA as Master heads to San Francisco – two different paths – both a bit colder than desired.
Let’s get dievca’s end rolling with a fabulous LA Band and a pair of killer Boots from R13!
Here comes the Michelin Lady!
Posted: February 4, 2023 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, Shoes | Tags: BDSM, body heat, Cold Weather, D/s, dievca, down coats, Life, Shopping, submissive, Uniqlo, work Leave a comment It’s windy and dievca will be walking to work in temperatures below freezing she is not worried about looks, she wants to stay warm for a long day and make it home, again, without a chilled body.
Gameplan:
Uniqlo: Marni Collaboration Down Coat, Brown Fleece, Brown Heattech Turtleneck, Brown Faux Fur Neck Warmer, Brown Cashmere Beanie, Black Heattech Leggings
Handmade Down Pants black
Smartwool Socks multi
Cougar Boots black
Outdoor Research Down Mittens black
Should be ok!
Stay warm…XO
In Living Color with Rose Assoulin and Miu Miu
Posted: January 20, 2023 Filed under: Dresses, Shoes | Tags: BDSM, Color, D/s, dievca, Elegant, formal gown, gala, Presentation Outfit, rainbow, Sandals, Shopping, submissive Leave a commentRosie Assoulin Rainbow Embroidered Gown ($6995) with Miu Miu Leather platform Sandals ($1120) would put some Spark into January and a crimp on your wallet!
Back to the OG!
Posted: January 18, 2023 Filed under: Home and Garden, Shoes | Tags: BDSM, cozy, D/s, dievca, Etsy, Family, History, Life, Love, Pier One, sharing, slippers, something of use, wool Leave a commentdievca had a large project to complete by 11:59 PST – she made it and slept in to 6:30 am this morning. Watching the dawn break across the city is a cozy experience. she’s wearing the fourth rendition of inexpensive Afghan Slipper Socks and thinking of her family.
dievca bought three pairs from Pier One in college as gifts for her Mom, her Aunt and herself. She wore out her pair, wore out her Aunt’s pair (taken when her Aunt died from Cancer) and wore out her Mom’s when Mom could no longer wear them because of slipping.
A 30 year process.
Pier One stores have closed and the J. Crew rendition ripped in the heel after 3 years. dievca didn’t know where to get her next pair of slippers…until she looked on Etsy!
Back to the OG!
Simple in the City
Posted: January 11, 2023 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, Fashion, Shoes | Tags: BDSM, clean lines, comfotable, D/s, dievca, Life, NYC, Outfits, practical, submissive Leave a commentAfter a few years of taking care of aging parents, COVID and body changes – dievca lost interest in Fashion or even a closet revamp. she’s been coming out of her shell and leaning towards a more practical closet. Things seem to be coming together because she feels like she can reach in to the closet and find something to wear. That’s the point, right?
(click on the item to see a larger image and the brand)
Gracefully with Personality: Vivienne Westwood at YOOX and dievca’s closet
Posted: December 31, 2022 Filed under: Body Type, Dresses, Fashion, Shoes | Tags: aging, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Honor, Life, Love, Master, Presentation Outfits, Shopping, Vivienne Westwood Leave a commentThe first 7 Vivienne Westwood dresses are available at YOOX.
The second 8 Vivienne Westwood items are in dievca’s closet (starting at the 2nd green dress). she’s missing photos of her indigo “Hangover” dress that has been worn to the woof and her “go to” jersey funeral dress in a very dark burgundy.
When Century 21 was open in NYC – dievca would haunt the Vivienne Westwood racks and if they had a sample sale – she was there. The items are cut for curvy in mind and ladylike enough for Master, quirky enough for His dievca.
dievca will be wearing the sequin dress for New Year’s Eve.
Obviously dievca did not know Vivienne Westwood, but she admired her boldness in growing old gracefully with personality. May we all grow older gracefully with personality!
when encrusted Thai rubies break the bank
Posted: December 23, 2022 Filed under: Clothing, Fashion, Shoes | Tags: BDSM, bling, crystal embellished, D/s, dievca, Dolce & Gabbana, Elegant, Humor, New Year's Eve, Shopping, submissive Leave a commentDolce and Gabbana embellishment looks like the affordable option
for New Years Eve!
The Aqua Blue sequin and Swarovski Crystal Boots are 60% off at MyTheresa!
Ticking the boxes for Autumn 2022 by shopping your closet
Posted: November 11, 2022 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, Jewelry, Shoes | Tags: Autumn, BDSM, closet, D/s, dievca, fashion, Life, Love, practical, working with what you have Leave a commentHere are dievca’s offerings:
√√ Wide Leg Faux Leather Pants
√ Fair Isle Sweater
√ Chunky Shoes
√ Camera Bag
√ Wood Eyeglass Frames
√ Cashmere / Wool Baseball Cap
√ Over-sized Coat
√ Over-sized Chain Necklace
√ Pearls
What’s in your closet that works for 2022?
dievca bets that there are some fabulous pieces!
Venturing out – Shopping in SoHo
Posted: October 30, 2022 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, Shoes | Tags: 1980's, 1990's, BDSM, d-s, dievca, friendship, Humor, Life, practical, Shopping, SoHo, spending Leave a commentYou can tell two items:
- Master is traveling and out of the picture, so dievca doesn’t feel submissive – she’s not running “ladylike”.
- dievca’s knee is feeling better because she is more willing to walk the City.
This Sunday? Shopping in SoHo with a friend – dievca is supposed to be the responsible human who helps her friend put on the brakes for spending. Really? dievca’s not sure that she is the best person for this job description…
Weather today: a high of 63 F (17 C) and sunny.
Sounds like Sweater weather with option to strip off layers – dievca is going “old school” with a late 80’s early 90’s College vibe: (And, yes, the knee brace is an accessory – it fits under her jeans and helps dievca walk longer).
Her leg may never be straight, but~
Posted: October 26, 2022 Filed under: Shoes | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, expensive, heels, Platforms, Purple, Shoe fetishism, Shopping, Valentino Garavani Leave a commentshe does think she will be able to ROCK these shoes with all the PT!
dievca desires (no, not that – clothing)
Posted: October 4, 2022 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, Fashion, Shoes | Tags: BDSM, clear out, closet, D/s, dievca, downtown chic, Life, Love, new season, resale, Shopping, submissive Leave a commentdievca is selling off her closet to revamp her selections. she is up to $1500 via eBay and continuing the process — here is what she is considering for purchase:
Here’s the good news – things that she already owns that work with this year’s trends:
Anticipation of a reissue with ALAÏA
Posted: July 10, 2022 Filed under: Shoes | Tags: ALAÏA, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, ertotic, heels, Master, nude, Patent Leather, Shopping, submissive, vintage design Leave a commentThe heel originally was designed in 1991 by Alaïa and Raymond Massaro,
a French boot-making legend.
An explicit homages to Azzedine Alaïa by his design successor,
Pieter Mulier, during the brand’s latest fashion show.
dievca wants to know when it will be available!
(dievca hopes she can wear them for Master.)
saying Good-Bye to her sandals
Posted: May 29, 2022 Filed under: Shoes | Tags: BDSM, clear out, closet, D/s, dievca, Goodwill, injury, Life, recycling, Sandals, Shoe fetishism Leave a commentdievca’s right foot grew a half-size and her knee won’t last long with unpadded sandals.
So, the closet has gained some space.
The good news is that dievca has a friend who wears the same size sandals!
The rest will go to Goodwill.
The only replacement pair that dievca bought is … fugly:

Zimmerman Chunky Studded Sandals $475
Dancing with Dolce & Gabbana
Posted: May 5, 2022 Filed under: Shoes | Tags: BDSM, crystal embellished, D/s, dievca, fun, Humor, OTK Boots, Sequins, Sexy, Shoe fetishism, Shopping, submissive 1 Comment



Well? Why not?
The knee may be sh*t,
but if it is going to go – GO BIG!
and then she gets it right
Posted: April 3, 2022 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, Shoes | Tags: BDSM, Cocktail Attire, comfortable, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Justine Clemquet, Khaite, Life, NYC, Opening Ceremony, Presentation Outfits, Sies Marjan, submissive, Zero + Maria Cornejo Leave a commentBack on her home turf – dievca attended that Event that required “Cocktail Attire” The weather was warmer than the fully sequinned velvet dress could handle, but cool enough to handle a velvet corduroy.
So, dievca wore:
- Sies Marjan Velvet Corduroy Dress
- Khaite OTK Black Patent Leather Boots
- BREE Black Patent Leather Clutch
- Spinelli Kilcollin Ring
- Justine Clenquet X Opening Ceremony Earrings
- Zero + Maria Cornejo Black Corduroy Bea Coat
- Chanel Red Lipstick
- Simple make-up because of dievca’s slight tan from Miami
- Straight hair to frame the earrings
dievca felt very comfortable which always allows someone to present better. It was nice to get out. Oh, yeah – the mask for the Uber:
- Judith Leiber Grey Swarovski Crystal Mask
Even the gods love jokes. ~Plato: Poisson d’Avril
Posted: April 1, 2022 Filed under: Accessories, Shoes | Tags: April Fool's Day, BDSM, Charlotte Olympia, d-s, Dominant, Elegant, erotic, fashion, Kink, Master, Slave, submissive Leave a commentREPOST from 2014
April Fool’s Day sometimes called All Fools’ Day, is one of the most light-hearted days of the year. Its origins are uncertain. Some see it as a celebration related to the turn of the seasons, while others believe it stems from the adoption of a new calendar.
Ancient Cultures, including those of the Romans and Hindus, celebrated New Year’s Day on or around April 1. In medieval times, much of Europe celebrated March 25, the Feast of Annunciation, as the beginning of the new year.
In 1582, Pope Gregory XIII ordered a new calendar, the Gregorian Calendar, to replace the old Julian Calendar. The new calendar called for New Year’s Day to be celebrated Jan. 1. That year, France adopted the reformed calendar and shifted New Year’s day to Jan. 1. According to a popular explanation, many people either refused to accept the new date, or did not learn about it, and continued to celebrate New Year’s Day on April 1. Other people began to make fun of these traditionalists, sending them on “fool’s errands” or trying to trick them into believing something false. Eventually, the practice spread throughout Europe.
There are problems with this explanation: 1.) This doesn’t fully account for the spread of April Fools’ Day to other European countries. The Gregorian Calendar was not adopted by England until 1752 and April Fools’ Day was already well established. 2.) We have no direct historical evidence for this explanation, only conjecture, and that conjecture appears to have been made more recently.
Either way the French call April 1 Poisson d’Avril, or “April Fish.” French children sometimes tape a picture of a fish on the back of their schoolmates, crying “Poisson d’Avril” when the prank is discovered.
With a Spring in her step~
Posted: March 23, 2022 Filed under: Fashion, Shoes | Tags: Air Jordan, BDSM, comfort, D/s, dievca, Humor, Life, Nike, Shoe fetishism, Shopping, Sneakerhead, sneakers, Spring, Street Style, Trendy 1 Comment
Jordan Air Mae Dutch Green
dievca is embracing more green.
(the elusive Jordan’s arrived after two cancelled orders)
XO
dievca has a male Puerto Rican friend who absolutely delights in dievca’s hidden aspirations towards being a Sneakerhead… she has gotten stopped on the streets of NYC with people commenting on her kicks. Not bad for a 50-ish old school throwback.
Packing for the Beach
Posted: March 22, 2022 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, Shoes | Tags: BDSM, beach, D/s, dievca, Life, Miami, planning, practical, travel, Vacation, weekend Leave a comment~First thoughts~
(Click on the photos for a closer look)
Pink Lady
Posted: March 11, 2022 Filed under: Clothing, Entertainment, Fashion, Shoes | Tags: BDSM, boots, cocktail, D/s, dievca, downtown chic, Dress, Humor, Life, pink, Rag & bone, recipe, Shopping, Tank Top Leave a comment
dievca is not a “Pink Lady” – she doesn’t disdain the color pink,
but she doesn’t have much of the color in her closet.
she can only think of:

Eliza Faulkner Cotton Sissy Dress
It took awhile, but dievca finally stopped avoiding the dress because
Melania Trump wore a Pink Dress….
Recently, she has now seen an outfit she would be interested in wearing with some flashes of pink
by Rag & Bone:
Who wouldn’t want to wander around NYC in a pink tank and matching boots?
(Tank $95, Boots $550)
Add a Pink Lady cocktail and a Pink Lady apple – Voilà!
Pink Lady Drink Recipe
- 1 1/2 ounces of gin
- 1/2 ounce applejack
- 1/2 ounce lemon juice, preferably fresh
- 1 egg white
- 1/5 ounce (or a couple of dashes) of grenadine
Combine all your ingredients in a shaker without ice. Shake it, shake it, shake it to get the egg well mixed. Now add ice and shake some more. Strain into a cocktail glass and garnish with a cherry. You can spear the cherry, stick it on the edge of the glass, or just drop it down in.
Sparkle on a sludgy day…
Posted: March 9, 2022 Filed under: Dresses, Shoes | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, green, heels, Party Dress, Purple, rhinestones, sassy, Shoe fetishism, Shopping, Sparkle, Weather Leave a comment
Amina Muaddi Lilac Giorgia Heels

Retrofete Apple Green Dress

Retrofete Apple Green Dress
The rain turned into thick, wet, messy snow. Showing some sparkle and skin would be a treat.
One for the $
Posted: January 26, 2022 Filed under: Discussion, Fashion, Shoes | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Elvis, erotic, poem, sassy, Shoe fetishism, Shopping, submissive Leave a commentOne for the money, two for the show is half of a rhyme used as a countdown to begin a task. The entire rhyme is: one for the money, two for the show, three to make ready and four to go. Children have used this little poem since the mid-1800s as a countdown to starting a race or competition. A famous variation of the rhyme is found in the 1955 popular song Blue Suede Shoes written by Carl Perkins: “Well, it’s one for the money, two for the show, three to get ready, now go, cat, go.”