Simple, direct


Exactly where your Sir wants you to be


BDSM breakfast service


Morning coffee for your Sir or Madam.
(dievca’s service will begin at 8 am)


Showing the Shoes some BONDAGE love~

Fraulein Kink gold ankle restraints $335
(click photo to buy)

Description

Handmade in Berlin, the FRAULEIN KINK (Fräulein Kink) Leather Bondage Ankle Restraints are the epitome of elegance, both in and out of the bedroom. The detachable leather leads and ankle restraints can pair with your favorite heel and be used to restrain you to a chair or bed. Detachable leads can also be used separately as handcuffs.

  • Metallic Gold Stitched Leather Straps
  • SWAROVSKI® Light Colorado Topaz Gold Crystal Rivets
  • Detachable Gold Leather Ankle Restraint Leads
  • Engraved Kink Heart Detailing

Note: Boots NOT included


Chained – embellishment

Dries van Noten crystal-embellished chain choker

A bold statement of submission.

 


After work — for your Sir/Madam


Keep it simple and clean.
Sexy will shine through.


Inexpensive Symbolism

14K over sterling silver and brass, on sale $29.99 24″ chain, working lock (click the photo)

A Lock in BDSM:

  • a tool used in bondage
  • a symbol of a relationship between Dominant and submissive
  • a subtle message of being owned

 


Espresso – Sir/Madam?


For the submissive in your Life!

‘This is Ground’ leather cord taco $9.99

Sharing their BDSM leanings with the World in a useful manner. XO

 


Giving Thanks – D/s

Would you consider using your restraints on your submissive?
Maybe filling all of her holes?
Teasing her clit so she squirts?
Playing with and clipping her nipples?
Grow large in her mouth?
Pound deeply so the bed moves?
Dominate her any way you would like?
If so, she will be ever so Thankful.

A cozy upgrade – something of use.

Floor to ceiling windows make for a great view,
but dievca’s apartment doesn’t warm-up quickly before the morning sun.

Enter a gift received over 3 years ago:

Ugg Duffield Blanket Home Collection (click photo to purchase the latest version)

  • 50″ x 70″
  • 100% polyester with 95% cotton, 5% spandex trim
  • Machine wash cold, tumble dry low
  • $98

Fuzzy, cozy, light and wash machine friendly, the throw has been extremely useful, but not super stylish.

Enter Missoni Home:

Missoni Home Jocker Throw Multi (dievca bought hers on sale at Yoox, click photo for a place to purchase the throw)

  • Material: 80% wool, 20% polyamide
  • Dimensions: 130x190cm
  • Soft chunky weave
  • Neutral colors with multi colors in between
  • Made in Italy
  • $523

dievca thought she would upgrade with Missoni and donate the Ugg to Goodwill. Instead, she’s been using both throws consistently, one on the sofa and one in the bedroom.

 


Flying across the pond…


Your submissive is waiting.


Protection via a Submission Day Collar: Loren Stewart

Not only can jade save you from disaster, but it is purportedly that it can protect you from evil, attract love and, of course, bring good luck… Jade is an ornamental stone, considered the imperial gem in ancient China and used for centuries to make weapons, tools, jewelry and other decorative pieces

Now offered as a Collar: from Loren Stewart:

Loren Stewart LA – Jade Link Choker $640 (click link)

jade

noun 

\ ˈjād  \

Definition of jade

1either of two tough compact typically green gemstones that take a high polish:
aJADEITE
bNEPHRITE
2a sculpture or artifact of jade
3: JADE GREEN

OR

1a broken-down, vicious, or worthless horse
2aa disreputable woman
2ba flirtatious girl

Dom/sub joining personified = Hermès Fusion

FUSION
noun
the process or result of joining two or more things together to form a single entity.

Hermès Fusion necklace, with rose gold, titanium, and brown diamonds Photo: Hermes

If your Sir or Madame is looking for a special piece for their collared submissive.
The joining personified.

Something exceptional = Hermès Fusion

Leave it to Hermès to totally reinvent the idea of the chain for high-jewelry. The Enchaînements Libres collection gives a big and bold new spin to an old jewelry staple while still representing the codes of the Maison as a harness-maker and saddler—as well as a nod to its ties to the nautical world. While the collection debuted last summer, the pieces were brought to New York for the first time to be shown to clients. To present the stunning collection, Pierre Hardy, Hermès’ creative director of high-jewelry, took to the stage during a presentation at Jazz at Lincoln Center, where modern dancers, choreographed by Christian Rizzo, opened a show that looked more like a ready-to-wear runway than a high-jewelry presentation. A series of models clad only in black appeared afterward in the new jewels, allowing guests to get up-close to the pieces at the end of the presentation. ~ Robb Report


Feeling a Need


Master would laugh….

Easy Come t-shirt Zoe Karsson

Master has trained his dievca well.
she Orgasms upon command.
Note – dievca is usually wet when around her Master – that helps
But, there is a back to the Tee:

Re/Done ‘easy come, easy go’ tee
dievca’s not sure what that means in the BDSM context.
Slate Article: Come or Cum – We ask the hard questions…


Finding the perfect piece of furniture~

Chained and restrained.
If your submissive loves to be chained or you would like to show a subtle nod towards your BDSM leanings via home decor:

Description

* Metal frame

* Wooden plank top

* Lacquered finish on the frame

* Unmarked

* Shows light signs of wear, with light scuffs to finish

Auction from Housing Works – ending at 10:00 pm EDT on 06/06/2019

dievca finds the piece to be a thing of beauty,
but we all know she loves to be chained.


Shifting


seeing the change in 5+ years


When dievca started this blog in 2013, there wasn’t a lot of elegance in BDSM options for a submissive to wear in private, or public. 50 Shades of Grey hadn’t come out in the movie theaters and Fetish Fashion wasn’t prevalent.

BDSM items were found on raw or shady websites, often cheaply made or repurposed from other venues:

elegant Dog Collars = elegant and sturdy Play Collars

Now, bondage is a staple of mainstream dressing – and you don’t have to check out dog collars to find an elegant Play Collar. Whereas dievca used to seek out offerings for blog posts about subtly showing your BDSM leanings – items are available from Alexander McQueen, Helmut Lang, Alyx, Maison Margiela, Alexander Wang, Lanvin, Acne Studios. Moschino etc.

The only problem? $$$

That’s why the comic above made dievca laugh…its true. XO


~Bound to you~


~tangible and intangible~


Ode to the Equinox

dievca is feeling reborn in her submission. The Spring Equinox and ‘Worm’ Supermoon have jump started her closet clear out and renewal of presentation outfits for Master.
she is feeling the call to serve her Dominant.

Come slowly – Eden!

BY EMILY DICKINSON

Come slowly – Eden!
Lips unused to Thee –
Bashful – sip thy Jessamines –
As the fainting Bee –

Reaching late his flower,
Round her chamber hums –
Counts his nectars –
Enters – and is lost in Balms.

Emily Dickinson, "Come slowly - Eden!" 
from (02138: The Belknap Press of Harvard University Press, )
Source: The Poems of Emily Dickinson Edited by R. W. Franklin 
(Harvard University Press, 1999)

The equinox will arrive at 5:58 p.m. ET on today, less than four hours before the full supermoon. In the Northern Hemisphere, the equinox is the official start of spring, but in the Southern Hemisphere, it marks the beginning of autumn.

March’s full moon is sometimes called the “worm moon,” because according to folklore tradition, it occurs at a time when the frosty ground is melting and earthworms start to emerge.

The moon reached its closest point to Earth on Tuesday at 3:47 p.m. ET, but the moon won’t be full until Wednesday at 9:43 p.m. ET. The moon is usually about 240,000 miles away from Earth, but at perigee this month, it will come within about 223,300 miles of our planet, according to NASA

But what is an equinox? It’s the year’s first “equal night,” meaning that on Wednesday, we Earth-dwellers will see about 12 hours of daylight and 12 hours of night.

On the equinox, the Earth will also begin to tilt so that the North Pole gets more sun, making it spring here in the Northern Hemisphere and fall in the southern.  It officially “marks the turning point when daylight begins to win out over darkness,” according to the Old Farmer’s Almanac.


I dream of it~

Can you imagine guiding my mouth to Your Cock,
while my hands are restrained.
My eyes covered in silk.
Me, under Your complete guidance and control?


Face Down

While waiting for my Master to arrive at my apartment, I fell asleep on my belly.  I must have looked like a starfish, all spread out in the sun. His Collar and Cuffs were on at His request.

Master had let himself in and must have quietly connected the straps to the corners of my bed and gently connected the straps to the ankle cuffs. I didn’t wake up until he place a vibrator directly on my clit. At that moment, I tried to roll over and my spread legs wouldn’t let me, Master said, “Stay on your belly” and used the vibrator to cause an orgasm.

I felt lube drip on to my ass and Master worked it into my asshole with his finger. He popped in an anal plug, then left to wash his hands.

” Get on your hands and suck me, dievca”, I worshiped His cock in that awkward spread position until it was hard.

Master placed two pillows under my hips, grabbed my ass and plunged into my wet pussy.

Going deep and pressing on the anal plug. I shuddered once, twice and orgasmed. Master kept moving in/out and stopped to tell me to move on His Cock. He snaked His hand around my ass to my clit and played with it until I orgasmed, again. This orgasm was so hard the anal plug went flying out.

I felt Master put lube on His thumb and he started to play in my ass. I felt the larger glass anal plug replace the first plug. Stretching me open.

Master washed His hands and Cock, only to return for me to suck Him hard and put a condom on. He unclipped my ankles, removed the glass plug, added lube and guided His Cock into my ass, one inch at a time.

By now I was dripping and my asshole was opening up.

Master fully entered my ass and started to move, holding my hips. I orgasmed twice and started to ride Master’s Cock. Master handed me the vibrator and said, “Hold this to your clit.” After a bit of time, I began to buck violently with the strength of my orgasms, Master held my hips for the ride. I finally squeezed Master out and fell flat on my tummy with exhaustion. He went to remove the condom and wash His hands, then lay down to hold me.

After some time, I asked Master’s permission to suck Him. Permission granted, he grew large in my throat. He flipped me over, on to my back, and came into my pussy to orgasm. We passed out for 30 minutes, in the sun.


Vonnie for Valentine’s Day

RUDDOCK – VONNIE BANGLE

A close-fitting cuff which reminds you of the feel of your Master or Mistress’ BDSM cuffs?
Or hands gripping your wrists?

A lovely way to hold a piece of your submission during the day.

CAST IN 18 CARAT GOLD PLATED BRONZE. HAND CARVED AND FINISHED, POLISHED TO A HIGH SHINE.

ALSO AVAILABLE IN SOLID STERLING SILVER, OR ROSE GOLD PLATED BRONZE.

SIZE GUIDE   –   APPROX CIRCUMFERENCE WHEN CLOSED

S/M 17.5 CM (6.89 inches)

M/L 19 CM (7.48 inches)

(click on the photo below to purchase)


Lipstick Stamp

I’m thinking about my lips encircling Your Cock when You walk through the door. 
Me, going wet as Your Cock grows large.
Lipstick leaving a ring of submission.  
I shift, thinking only to serve my Master.
Photo: Getty Images

Faux Bondage by Moschino


What a tease for a submissive…
A Bondage Dress which does not bind, nor allow connection to anything.
Easy to get through a Metal Detector, though.
And it would be a public nod to your BDSM leanings.
Hmmm…
On sale at Yoox.

PS. There is a Men’s Sweater and Men’s T-shirt style available, too.


We are happy to serve you…something useful.

dievca remembers her Dad getting a “to go” coffee at  various restaurants and they came in a paper cup with greek designs on it.

The “Anthora” paper cup designed in 1963, features Greek motifs and two shields on which are written “WE ARE HAPPY TO SERVE YOU”. Millions of these cups had fed the caffeine addictions of New Yorkers during all those years. The sheer number of them coupled with their forty-year history has given the cup icon status along with the yellow taxis and the Statue of Liberty.

We weren’t in NYC, but apparently the coffee cups could be found west of I-95…

Here is a great piece about the design of the cup when the designer, Leslie Buck, passed away in 2010.

Photo: dievca 01/2019 NYC

In the photo above, dievca held her ceramic version of the Anthora cup up against a rainy backdrop on Sunday morning. The temperature dropped from 46 F (7.78 C) to 12 F (-11 C) this Monday morning and then lower. Welcome to New York City weather.

Anyways, as something useful,  the ceramic version of the Anthora cup never fails to make dievca smile – it reminds her of her childhood and, in her submission, she is happy to serve you.
Plus,

  • They stack well.
  • The cups fit into your hand comfortably.
  • It can be washed in the dishwasher (No, dievca’s dishwasher hasn’t been replaced, yet.)
  • They are microwave safe for reheating your coffee.
  • It’s been about 10 years for dievca’s cups and they are holding up well.
  • Click the photo to purchase

We (the Royal We) are happy to serve you — XO

A side note: 

The paper version of the Anthora cup had sales top out at 500 million cups in 1994. Twelve years later, it was discontinued as a stock item as popular coffee-house franchises began replacing diners as the take-out morning stop for coffee lovers.

Due to numerous requests from restaurant owners and distributors, Dart Container is bringing back the Anthora cup in 8 oz. and 10 oz. sizes in New York City and some northeastern states. 

 


couchante

Like a lioness couchante,
sated, yet stimulated
awaiting Master

“Female Nude Lying Down” Sanguine and white chalk on cream-colored paper Eric Bossik
click the graphic for the website


Carrying some Joy

Photo: Getty

Heading to Master,
dispersing the gloom with color and subservience.
Maybe a visit to the Met,
or maybe not.
Master’s choice.


An Enquiring Mind dances on a pinhead

Am I beautiful in my exuberance or awkward in my execution?

To be a voyeur during someone else’s masturbation:  Are you embarrassed by the awkward angles and contortions, do you get excited from the Joy that someone is achieving without you, or do you sit silent and absorb the energy expended? Is there a desire to join in with your touch?

Does it change if you are invited? Or not.

Is masturbation always a solo act and your viewing, an intense violation of privacy?

Your gain, my loss?

Did I move on without you?

And achieve more gratification from my personal choices than your sharing?

(A submissive gives fully to their Master or Mistress. Any way They want to reach pleasure and allow their submissive pleasure – it is Their choice. dievca’s Master prefers to participate and give His submissive pleasure. He’s not so into being a voyeur. What about your Master or Mistress?)

The pirouettes spun through my mind after an intense Masturbation moment upon return from Europe.


Incredibly Lovely!

sub card

ILLUSTRATION: ANJA SLIBAR

But, sometimes you are ready to return to normal.