Fetish? All in your definition…

1. a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.

dievca and Master have had talks about BDSM and fetishes.
dievca made the statement that she loves to be connected, via a chain or restraints and she thought that the desire for connection was a “fetish” (there is even a flag below)

Master disagreed.
Master’s definition of a fetish comes from past submissives He connected with along the way. His point was that being chained was not “needed” by dievca. Being restrained was not necessary for the relationship to exist or proceed. It is just something dievca enjoys very much. But dievca really enjoys changing it up, too — she doesn’t need her restraints to “get off”. Master had connected with some people who had to do the same thing in the same pattern to be fulfilled.  It was not His thing.
“diversity, dievca, diversity” — hmm, maybe that is Master’s fetish…

These musings were prompted because dievca was looking up the date for the Pride Parade in NYC (June 25th, 2017 9:00 am) and a side bar on the website offered some flags:

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Ciao! “(I am your) slave”


Ruth Orkin: American Girl in Italy

Ciao comes from the Italian dialectal term schiavo which means “(I am your) slave,” or more colloquially “your humble servant.” It ultimately finds its roots in the medieval Latin sclavus meaning “slave.”

So, without further ado, dievca says:

Master’s Shirt

I was waiting for you in the Sun.
After raiding your closet for the perfect Presentation Outfit.
Your shirt
Your smell
Your Collar
Your dievča

The weather of the day calls for conservative skies and a slight chance of grumpiness. (risqué)


Maybe. Not really. After falling into bed, getting up at 4:00 am is almost close to normal for me.

The trip was lovely. Catching up with old friends, having fantastic weather in London (uhh, no rain…really!), visiting old and new spaces. The flight home? meh~ Thank you for asking.

Master had family in town from afar. He was not available to take care of me.

So, I walked to work early in the rain (bike was in the shop) and came home to unpack.

dievca: Misty Rain 03/2017

Grey Weather, my Mother isn’t eating, Grumpy. Needing to Orgasm.

Text to Master and His reply: “Go ahead, d.”

“The good thing about masturbation is that you don’t have to get dressed up for it.” — Truman Capote

In a grey T-shirt which says, “Caffeine Fix” and black Victoria Secret Panties, the first orgasm involved:

Lube, fingers, a towel and 10 seconds. Blink and you would have missed it. Obviously it had been too long and very much-needed.

I fell into a doze afterward.

Waking up after the snooze, I decided to try again.

The second orgasm was going take a bit more work so it was time to gather my favorite two vibrators and Master’s ball gag.

Putting on Master’s gag made me feel mindful about Master and how he loves to see me drool.

I laid down on my belly and inserted the long vibrator into my pussy with a pulsing vibration.  Raising my ass in the air slightly, I took the small vibrator and turned it up to a power steady rate and placed it on my clit. Closing my legs together, I pressed and thrust lightly onto the vibrators, the setting was as much as I could handle without falling into orgasm immediately.

Dancing on the edge of orgasm, I sucked on the ball gag like it was Master’s cock, drool dripping on to the towel underneath my body.

And went over the edge.

5 minutes later, I was up and cleaning the toys — with thoughts of getting things done.

My suitcase looked at me, but I needed to ice my foot. While icing, I decided to write about my orgasms – hoping to inspire someone with the sharing.

And as this post was developing, I was still horny and felt that a third orgasm was within reach.  I removed the ice from my foot and collected the clean vibrators and added an anal plug to the mix. The pussy vibrator causes the anal plug to vibrate, too — creating a delightFULL feeling.

Spreadeagled on the bed, I let the pussy vibrator press on the anal plug then played with my clit by hand and small vibrator.  The strongest setting with light touches teased me into feeling like I was going to squirt, but the towel was there to catch any fluids.

Nothing close to coming, but a feeling of contentment for about 3 minutes until I placed the vibrator more fully on my clit. With my hips gyrating and the feeling of squirting upon me, I orgasmed a 3rd time and squirted a little in the process.

Lounging on the bed, but realizing that time was really pressing, I needed to clean-up the toys, unpack and get back to my work items.

But, it was lovely to have multiple orgasms and share them with you.


The warm Spring weather is enticing…


Master wanted to put it to good use.

Alluring Presentation


Photo: Agent Provocateur Ad

dievca is waiting on the bed for You, Master.
Doing, as you told her.

Manolo, Tracy Watts, and the H&M Margiela collaboration

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Manolo Blahnik


Happy Year of the Cock:


Whoops! dievca misunderstood.

Happy Year of the Rooster!


2017 Chinese New Year:

Best Year for: Dragons

Amazing Year for: Rooster, Ox, Snake– Rooster gets along best with an Ox, a Snake and his own kind, for they are all dutiful and dedicated fighters who strive to scale great heights and conquer by their constancy and unfailing determination. These three are fixed in their views and given to thought and systematic planning. They are the most intellectual signs of the cycle.

Good Year for: Tigers, Rats

Mixed Year for: Pigs, Goats, Monkeys

Difficult Year for: Dogs, Rabbits, Horses – The Rabbit and the Rooster, however, should keep a lot of distance between them and their dealings or be ready to have chronic disagreements.

And a little Fireworks offerings from Thursday Night’s NYC Celebration for Chinese New Year’s. dievca was riding her bike home, a little tipsy, and stopped to watch the show. XO

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Photos: dievca Chinese New Year 2017