Just because truth is stranger than fiction

The write-up in Mashable:

Anal Spinner 2

Anal SpinnerThe handmade item can be purchased here. (etsy)

The above Creation was shared by someone who has a great sense of humor and is a lovely writer (and person). You can find her, here. Thanks, Ret!


You might want to try it~

Icicles Gold Elegant Bulb Glass Tailed Butt Plug

(Icicles Gold Glass Butt Plug with Tail)

Master hasn’t really been a Dom interested in orgasm denial.  dievca thinks it has something to do with her capabilities to offer multiple orgasms and being able to orgasm on command.  He knows that he has control, already.

So when He and dievca are separated for any length of time, dievca will ask for permission to take care of  herself and permission is granted easily.  This time, Master added a suggestion, “dievca, try masturbating with an anal plug inserted.”

Umm, can dievca just say, “Wow!”

dievca is clearing though her “drafts” (100+) and this was from a long time ago.  dievca has since taken Master’s advice on multiple occasions. May she suggest His suggestion for you?

It’s always good to share something pleasurable. XO


Meow. Pet Play

I have a Gumbie Cat in mind, her name is Jennyanydots;
Her equal would be hard to find, she likes the warm and sunny spots.
All day she sits beside the hearth or on the bed or on my hat:
She sits and sits and sits and sits–and that’s what makes a Gumbie Cat!

~The Old Gumbie Cat ( poem) – T S Eliot~

cat-lying-in-sun

Master and dievca are not into Pet Play
but in the interest of diversity
and in honor of one of dievca’s blog posts that gets a lot of hits
Feeling a Strange Moment Coming On…..
dievca bought:

Frisky Midnight Fox Glass Butt Plug with Tai Cat Ears Headband

she’s not too sure which clothing
or accessories
she is going to work with ~
but it should be silly fun!

MEOW.


Tutoring dievca: if she were to do it again~

NJOY Training Plugs

NJOY Training Plugs

NJOY_plugs_spec_web

dievca came to Master to let her submissive side shine.
she also arrived without a great deal of creative sexual experience. One of the first items Master addressed was Cock Worship. It was considered a necessity for the relationship to proceed and in the post Tutoring dievca: Camille Crimson and Fellatio, Master sent dievca on a wonderful tour of Cock Worship.

Anal Sex was another area that Master was interested in but it wasn’t a deal-breaker. Master touched upon it but never set-up a training program or game plan for dievca. dievca quietly took it upon herself to start training her anal sphincter to relax.

When she finally told Master what she was doing, He assumed that because His dievca was so physical and she had trained her bum a little – anal sex would be a breeze. Wrong. dievca wasn’t able to relax enough.

Master and His dievca discussed options for more training. 

SHHHH…dievca admits…she stopped listening to Master’s “advice” when it didn’t give enough baby steps to make sense to her.  dievca continued with the smaller sized plug she had used.  she wore it at home, multiple times, for longer periods to train her muscles to relax. Then dievca bought the next size plug when she felt she was ready. The plugs were a “mishmash” of styles chosen by trial and error, plus availability and wearing comfort.

The progression:

Silver clear crystal anal plugThis small plug hurt to wear for a long period of time, so dievca sought something more comfortable for training in the next size.

Bootie Plug and Sliquid Booty Lube Combo

Bootie Plug and Sliquid Booty Lube Combo

This black plug was the workhorse of dievca’s training, something she could wear comfortably for a long period of time.

Gold Anal Plug A medium-sized option was weightier and gave dievca a more “full” feeling.

The large crystal plug dievca bought was…too large.

This is the point where dievca asked Master if they could try anal sex, again.
It still didn’t work well. Master’s Cock doesn’t get small at the top like the plugs do — dievca’s sphincter muscles needed to stay open.

Glass Anal Plug dievca added a glass plug with a wider neck and a homeopathic muscle warmer to help with relaxation,  The effectiveness of the “warming” spray might have been just mental, but…Anal Sex is a “mental” sport.

It worked!

It worked beautifully. dievca gained so much pleasure from anal sex and she knows that Master was thrilled, as well.

Would dievca do it the training again? Absolutely, in a heartbeat — BUT she would choose the NJOY training set in metal with an “o”-ring pull (first photo). Why? They look nicer, the curved shape avoids angles, the plugs should be easier to pull out of the bum and the 100% seamless metal looks easier to clean.  dievca would then finish the training with a large neck glass plug to mimic Master’s girth.

diecva hopes that you are inspired and helped by her tail (whoops!) tale. It’s not as glamorous as her Cock Worship learning experience, but the results are just as good! XO

 


Ecstasy Bottle Stopper ~

In collaboration with Baccarat and Frederic Panaiotis for Ruinart.
philippe_di_meo Wine Stopper - Crystal

Souper Fin by Philippe Di Méo

Souper Fin is a collection of erotic tableware designed  in collaboration with legendary tableware companies like Baccarat, Goyard, Christofle and Orfèvrerie d’Anjou. For each item Philippe Di Méo called upon famous food creatives to each devise a dish that complements each of the Souper Fin utensils. The newly designed pret-a-porter series of Souper Fin will be presented for the first time during the Love Design exhibition. Eating has never been so sexy.

Philippe Di Méo is a French designer, founder of the RESO design agency. He lives and works in Paris, France. Photo ⓒ Reso Design.

dievca is all about DUALITY in this small NYC apartment!


Ahh, so that’s what it looks like from Your view.

Plug


Feeling a Strange Moment coming on ~Fascination with ‘Crystal Delights’

dievca is always looking for diversity to offer Master. Within that mission, she is trying to be open-minded and willing to offer sexy, silly, ugly and beautiful options.

This statement caught her eye during her web wandering for presentation outfits:

Our ethical use statement:

Our real fur tails come from U.S. companies that specialize in the “refuse parts” of animals typically thrown away. We at Crystal Delights do not condone the killing of an animal for its coat and we believe that some day the fur trade will be abolished, and we support that, but until that time, we believe that all parts of the animal should be used and not simply discarded as waste. Crystal Delights donates a portion of tail profits annually to animal charities in continuing support of our company’s charitable missions. 

Hmm~

OK — what is the site “Crystal Delights” offering?
Let’s take a look:

Plug-Black-Fox-Tail Plug-Large-Silver-Fox-Tail

Real Fur Tail Anal Plugs

Plug_Pink-Snow-Leopard-Faux-Tail Plug_Huskey-Faux-Tail

Faux Fur Tail Anal Plugs

Plug-Magnetic-White-Bunny-Tail-attached Plug-Magnetic-Pink-Bunny-Tail Plug-Magnetic-Black-Bunny-Tail-attached

Real Fur Bunny Tail Magnetic Anal Plugs

Plug_Lavender_RoseBud_Delight_WBG

Rosebud with Stem Anal Plug

Plug_Pink-Plug-with- Hello Kitty-Medallion Plug Colors Against Cancer -Frosted-Green-Plug

Colors Against Cancer Anal Plugs

Plug-5-Color-Faux-Pony-Tail-Plug

‘My Little Pony’ Anal Plug!

dievca knows that Master will be stunned silent with some of these offerings…
dievca is sitting here, silent.

But Master’s Voice is in her head, “Diversity, dievca, Diversity”