dievca finally saw her Orthopedic Surgeon after traveling. Apparently, she arrived at the office after a number of older, non-athletic patients. The Doctor was thrilled with his work and dievca’s range of motion, ability to walk, etc. He didn’t think she had swelling, but he didn’t bother to look at her other knee to compare either…. When he said, “I don’t think you need Physical Therapy”, dievca nearly jacked him up against the wall.
(Side note: we all know dievca as Master’s — this is an example of why dievca needs to “switch” modes to submissive. Growing up with older brothers in a blunt family has taught her to stand up for herself – no problem.)
dievca was polite but emphatic that PT was in her best interests.
(“What f*cking planet are you on?” – was thought but not said.)
she got the script and started this week – her objectives being: getting the quadricep that atrophied to fire, getting the knee swelling down to be fitted for a custom unloader brace, to be able to walk up and down stairs, to make sure both knees are working effectively.
Look, your dievca is amazing (sometimes) – but a PT will help (a lot).
“and she was famously blunt and outspoken.”
“That’s the downside of trying to sidestep conflict. Smoothing over problems will only make them come back with greater fierceness, until you invariably explode.”
dievca’s the type to rip the band-aid off. Get the pain over with immediately, so it doesn’t linger.
she’s surrounded by people who are amazed at her bluntness and tend to avoid conflict. OK, let’s be honest, most people avoid conflict. Got it.
Look, dievca doesn’t thrive on being blunt, she was just raised in a blunt household and has watched things fester when you don’t face them…it’s not pretty.
she doesn’t want things festering in her Soul.
Address the issue and move on.