Maybe only people with Elderly Parents understand

It was a day before 10 am.
Dad hadn’t a movement in 8 days….with softners, prunes and trying to get him to drink as much water as possible, etc..

It took an Army.
Daughter, Caregiver, Nurse, Home Aid – suppository, prune juice & butter, manipulations, tummy rubbing, squat positioning being held up.

All while two people maneuvered Mom into the bathtub. 
Then the arguing about taking a shower began – 5 weeks of Sponge Baths in a row doesn’t cut it.

It was a hell of a Birthday for Dad – but he’s loose and clean!

We ALL needed a drink by Noon.

Mom and Dad just took a nap~


Do you see the light?

NYC Subway Jackson Heights 7 Line – from LGA

dievca’s brother did a phenomenal job of finding three excellent and local caregivers to take care of their Parents.  dievca’s second brother is MIA (“Call me with updates” — yeah, FU – I’ll drop everything to call you with updates…).

dievca helped get her Mom’s colitis under control and Dad eating more calories/water to function (something about not wanting to urinate more). It’s not perfect, but a good start.

As in all systems, dievca predicts breakdowns:

  • dievca’s Dad being an a** to the caregivers and they quit
  • or the caregivers finding another position
  • Mom’s colitis driving everyone batty
  • Their own Family/Home challenges
  • Etc.

But dievca isn’t going to borrow trouble for the moment, she’s going to milk this respite for all its worth. That, and figure out the brand of pillow she slept on – her neck felt better and her arms didn’t go numb at her Parent’s house…

Good Morning to you and may you see the Light of Day, too. XO