Ready to Push Onward with coffee and a poemPosted: December 19, 2022 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden, Poetry | Tags: BDSM, Christmas, coffee, D/s, dievca, Holidays 2022, Life, Love, Monday, Morning, poem, positive mental attitude Leave a comment
May the Xmas joy percolate into your mind
May the Xmas love blend into your heart
May his grace filter down to your soul
And like a well made coffee let it revitalise your life
Merry Christmas to everyone
What you would really like — then reality returnsPosted: December 13, 2022 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, D/s Relationship, Jewelry | Tags: BDSM, Christmas, D/s, dievca, Gifts, Holiday 2022, Master, Shopping, submissive, wishlist Leave a comment
Master asked His dievca what she would like for Christmas. A loaded question…
dievca would love these earrings as a gift for anything:
They are the 302 Fine Jewelry “Stay Flirty” Natural Diamond & Rainbow Gemstone Graduated Dangle Earrings 14K Yellow White Rose Gold at a whopping $3714.99
Which brings us to the Reality part of dievca’s Christmas Wishlist (click on the photos for descriptions):
Other options dievca offered to Master:
- A Facial – the average price of a facial in NYC is $150
- Cafe Grumpy or Dunkin’ Donuts/Starbucks gift card for traveling
- Dinner/Lunch out after seeing the FIT Shoes: Anatomy, Identity, Magic exhibit
- Nike Air Max 97 or 98 (either model works) size Women’s 7.5 – open to any color. Works for the knee. On sale is good.
Knowing Master – it will be something completely different and just as awesome.
Dinner problems…Posted: December 4, 2022 Filed under: Accessories, Body Type, Clothing | Tags: aging, awareness, Christmas, eating, Food, Friends, Holidays 2022, Humor, Life, outfit, perimenopause Leave a comment
dievca had a lovely evening – but she is learning that her body changes include how much her stomach can hold. she though she was being mindful with the amount of rich food she was eating. she didn’t eat before she arrived. she had done a good amount movement throughout the day, but the amount of food and drink she consumed killed her. It might have been the full glass of water and two generous pours of wine. Perhaps one has to be even more mindful, next time.
The good news was that the rain stopped, plus dievca’s Host and Hostess had no idea of her distress.
Again, a lovely evening – not quite as formal as dievca thought, and dievca got to trim a full Christmas Tree!
Remember, dievca has a Charlie Brown Tree in her apartment…
What dievca wore:
Something for the Christmas StockingPosted: December 2, 2022 Filed under: Accessories | Tags: BDSM, Christmas, cycling, D/s, dievca, Holiday, inexpensive, Life, Lights, practical, Running, safety, something of use Leave a comment
Something for Holiday Giving
dievca’s had these velcro/elastic band lights for a couple of years. They are rechargeable, easy to add and remove when needed. she puts them on her arm, her backpack, her bike, her ankle – whatever needs to be seen. Runners, Cyclists, Strollers, Kids, Adults can use them.
$12.95 for two on Amazon
Something of Use
Christmas Eve with Ann MargretPosted: December 24, 2021 Filed under: Entertainment | Tags: Ann Margaret, BDSM, Christmas, D/s, dievca, fun, Holiday 2021, mood, music, Sexy Leave a comment
Setting the mood:
Might add to delays due to X-mas logistics~Posted: December 21, 2021 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, Chelsea, Christmas, D/s, dievca, Elf, Holiday 2021, Humor, Life Leave a comment
Photo: dievca – a Mini who hit an elf in NYC 12/2121
Christmas curmudgeonPosted: December 11, 2021 Filed under: Entertainment, Musings | Tags: anti-Christmas, BDSM, Christmas, D/s, dievca, dinner, grumpy, Holiday 2021, Holiday Decor, Life, submissive 4 Comments
dievca is NOT feeling it.
Normally she embraces the Holidays and decorates at the beginning of December. The tree is in storage, the decorations are in storage, the Christmas Cards for the tips are not done, she is NOT motivated…
Except friends are coming over for dinner and they have children. Tomorrow morning, dievca will schlep her a** to storage and dig everything out, then clean house and set-up the Christmas decorations before making dinner.
Pick which Christmas Curmedgean fits….
A moment this week…Posted: December 10, 2021 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, Christmas, D/s, dievca, Holiday 2021, Humor, Life, Santa Leave a comment
Shopping Suggestions Holiday 2021Posted: December 5, 2021 Filed under: Accessories, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, Christmas, D/s, dievca, Family, Friends, Gifts, Holiday 2021, Life, Masculine, practical, Relationships, Shopping, submissive Leave a comment
dievca shops year round for her Holiday gifts. That said, she also keeps an eye out for items that might be of interest to people of the Masculine persuation ~ or those who like practical and streamlined items. she has the following suggestions for the Holiday 2021 season (UO = Urban Outiftters, top items until the Yellow Submarine Towel – the second set of items are from Huckberry – a great Masculine driver space, Google Image search a photo and it should take you to the item webpage, last two items from Theragun):
Santa Lingerie – a discussionPosted: December 2, 2021 Filed under: Analysis, Discussion, Entertainment, lingerie | Tags: BDSM, Christmas, Cosplay, D/s, dievca, erotic, Holidays 2021, Humor, Presentation Outfit, Santa, sassy, Sexy, submissive Leave a comment
Santa lingerie has permeated our culture. You can probably picture the garments in question: cherry-red babydoll nightie with white fur trim lining the hem, paired with matching thong, or maybe a red satin and white fur teddy.
How did lingerie evoking Santa, a wholesome and kindly childhood figure whose presence signals a religious virgin birth, get so popular?
Undergarments for women have long been costume-like, and were often meant to dramatically alter female silhouettes. (Whalebone corsets, giant hoops worn under crinoline skirts, a bustle.) Bloomers and petticoats might look dowdy and utilitarian, but eroticizing lingerie isn’t a new trend. Lingerie really started becoming more decorative and luxurious in the late 19th and early 20th centuries.
In1898, after noting a “mania” for colourful, decorative and seductive lingerie throughout Europe, the French journalist Octave Uzanne wrote, “the last remains of feminine modesty sunk out of sight.”
But underwear as a costume is a newer phenomenon. It might be linked with the provocative “underwear as outerwear” period of the 1980s and 90s. At the end of the 20th century, seeing visible underwear became more shocking than the nude body. An example is Madonna’s “Blonde Ambition” cone bra.
That’s the culture that led up to the “fast fashion” lingerie that was so popular in the early 2000s. And the inexpensive “Halloween Slutty” and “Santa Baby” costumes multiplied.
Santa may be a wholesome concept, but he is asking people to sit on his lap, he’s keeping a naughty and nice list, there are songs about Santa kissing women when he comes to visit, people are getting cozy with fur and sitting by a fire, and let’s not forget the unknown quantity of Ms. Santa Claus. Perhaps people who buy Santa lingerie are buying into the commercialized, sexualized lens of those forces~
“No man is a failure who has friends.”Posted: December 25, 2019 Filed under: Home and Garden, Relationships | Tags: 1950's Household Kink, BDSM, Christmas, cooking, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Friends, Holiday 2019, Life, Love 3 Comments
dievca is worried about this happening at Christmas dinner:
But she has fantastic friends, so dinner should be more elegant:
It doesn’t matter as long as everyone feels welcome and enjoys themselves.
Merry Christmas and Happy Hanukkah!
from dievca’s home to yours
Quote from 'It's a Wonderful Life'
Lights work!Posted: December 7, 2018 Filed under: Accessories, Entertainment, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, Christmas, D/s, dievca, Holidays 2018, Life, NYC, photo, submissive 3 Comments
Checking the Christmas Tree Lights
6th Ave. Midtown NYC 2018
dievca is…Posted: December 25, 2016 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden | Tags: Christmas, dievca, Family, Holiday 2016, Life, Love, Relationships 13 Comments
Cooking, cleaning, talking and fighting with her Parents. she wouldn’t miss it for the World. There is only so much time left to love them. Honestly, pain and joy? They’ve done her well.
Merry Christmas!Posted: December 25, 2015 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, Bettie Page, Christmas, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Fetish, Holidays 2015, Kink, submissive 10 Comments