It’s always nice to run into a BDSM store that caters to Dominant/submissive needs. ToBeHis creates luxury Day Collars and other jewelry – custom and stock for the BDSM community.
What impressed dievca is the availability of 14K Gold options – costly to stock if you are not a large outfit.
The Gold “very heavy” Eternity Ring Chain will run around $5K and the lock dievca admires is about $1.5K. Lovely for every day to honor your Sir or Madame.
dievca hasn’t offered any suggestions for Collars and Leads in a long time.
she ran into this elegant Versace Medusa set on MyTheresa for sale –
but only the small is available.
You can find Medium and Larges on other sites.
Very elegant for your submissive.
Fashioned in Black Leather, featuring gleaming golden hardware that includes iconic Medusa head studs, it comes with a adjustable buckle fasten on the doubled collar, allowing you to adjust the fit for your submissives’s comfort.
materials: brass, leather, fabric
size & fit
Length of size S = 59cm-23″
Length of size M = 65cm-25.5″
Length of size L = 74cm-29
Fashion in the submissive’s favor – Spring Summer 2021 Louis Vuitton is offering elegant collars with padlocks and chunky chains:
#1 – The polished LV Edge necklace Cadenas presents an iconic Louis Vuitton signature while embracing a contemporary feel. This piece features a large padlock pendant meticulously engraved with the LV Initials, suspended from a thick link chain. The pendant is opened and closed by pushing the lock.
#2 – With slightly smaller chain links than its sister pieces in the line, this LV Edge necklace MM makes a subtler, though no less striking impression. On this scale, the meticulousness of the Monogram engravings in rows along the links is truly exceptional. An LV Initials-engraved lobster clasp makes a secure and elegant closure.
A bold statement of showing your BDSM leanings in public without anyone the wiser.
Often times a leather or chain body harness connects to a Collar:
A recent trend in lingerie is to have the neck harness as a part of the lingerie, itself.
What do you think?
dievca prefers her Master’s Collar.
Perhaps not subtle – but an elegant way to honor your Sir or Madam with Style. Something that can be a signature piece with a hidden BDSM message. Ranging from 100 Euro to 500 Euro. Made in France.
A Parisienne of South African heritage, Annelise Michelson founded her eponymous brand in 2012, immediately positioning herself as a free spirit in the highly codified world of high-end jewelry. Couture-esque, her collections are at once glamorous and sculptural… An artist first and foremost, she sees her pieces like talismans, loaded with beauty and channeling strength and self-confidence. Her jewels aren’t just ‘accessories’, they are designed to dress the wearer, placing design and inspired volumes firmly in the spotlight. From the very beginning, Annelise’s bold vision resonated with many including the likes of Rihanna, Juliette Binoche, Zoe Kravitz, Robin Wright, and Leandra Cohen, allowing the house to blossom quickly. Constantly evolving and growing, today Annelise Michelson counts more than ten collections to its name including the evocatively titled Drapée, Déchaînée, Wire and Vertigo capsules.
A bold statement of submission.
additional items of dress or equipment, or other items carried or worn by a person or used for a particular activity.
Perhaps you need to accessorize your Lingerie, be it ‘Vanilla with an edge’ or BDSM.
A Lock in BDSM:
- a tool used in bondage
- a symbol of a relationship between Dominant and submissive
- a subtle message of being owned
- Designed by Milton Glasser in 1975, at the request of the New York Commerce Commission
- The most successful effort to brand a destination.
- The logo has appeared on hundreds of millions of items
- Offered July 15, 1977
- The original drawing is held in the Museum of Modern Art in Manhattan.
Not only can jade save you from disaster, but it is purportedly that it can protect you from evil, attract love and, of course, bring good luck… Jade is an ornamental stone, considered the imperial gem in ancient China and used for centuries to make weapons, tools, jewelry and other decorative pieces
Now offered as a Collar: from Loren Stewart:
Loren Stewart LA – Jade Link Choker $640 (click link)
Definition of jade
the process or result of joining two or more things together to form a single entity.
If your Sir or Madame is looking for a special piece for their collared submissive.
The joining personified.
Something exceptional = Hermès Fusion
Leave it to Hermès to totally reinvent the idea of the chain for high-jewelry. The Enchaînements Libres collection gives a big and bold new spin to an old jewelry staple while still representing the codes of the Maison as a harness-maker and saddler—as well as a nod to its ties to the nautical world. While the collection debuted last summer, the pieces were brought to New York for the first time to be shown to clients. To present the stunning collection, Pierre Hardy, Hermès’ creative director of high-jewelry, took to the stage during a presentation at Jazz at Lincoln Center, where modern dancers, choreographed by Christian Rizzo, opened a show that looked more like a ready-to-wear runway than a high-jewelry presentation. A series of models clad only in black appeared afterward in the new jewels, allowing guests to get up-close to the pieces at the end of the presentation. ~ Robb Report
A Sapphire Personality:
A Sapphire loves socializing, they’re the life of the party, and they are motivated by fun. They like to be around a lot of people.
They love variety interacting with others. They never see the negative side of a situation. They love recognition. In fact, they will work harder for recognition than they ever will for money.
From Sapphires, we can learn to not be so serious and that life can be fun if we let it.
However, Sapphires can improve by understanding not everyone is as positive as them. Sapphires often hurt other people’s feeling by seeming to not care, when really they’re just looking at the positive side of things
Sapphire is one of the two gem-varieties of corundum, the other being ruby (defined as corundum in a shade of red). The iron pigment in the corundum makes sapphire blue, while the chromium element in rubies makes them red. Sapphire actually has a range of colors, from blue to yellow to green to orange-pink including gray and black and they can be colorless. Colorless sapphires are occasionally used as a substitute for diamonds in jewelry. A pinkish orange variety of sapphire is called padparadscha.
Sapphire is said to be the wisdom stone, stimulating concentration, enhancing creativity and promoting purity and depth of thought. It is believed to focus and calm the mind as well as remove unwanted thoughts, depression and mental tension. It is known as the stone of new love and commitment and is claimed to be useful in encouraging faithfulness and loyalty. Sapphire is thought to bring peace of mind, serenity, and prosperity.
Sapphire (8.6 ct)
Made in the USA
Diameter: 4.25in / 10.5cm
Circumference: 13.35 inches
Available at Shopbop
ABOUT THE DESIGNER
Launched nearly 30 years ago as the result of what she calls “an accident”, Suzanne Kalan’s namesake fine jewelry label has nonetheless gone on to achieve worldwide renown. Though the brand is most well-known for its award-winning Fireworks collection, all Suzanne Kalan jewelry is rendered exclusively in the best available gold and gemstones. Thanks to her commitment to a fiercely independent artistic vision, Kalan’s work is, like that of all great designers, often imitated but never replicated.
dievca is born in September and the sapphire describes her personality. This lovely collar would express her Joy in D/s nicely. Too bad she has such a “thick” neck. XO
cuff, collar, o-ring
Simple, elegant -a hint of BDSM
Open House Projects Jewelry
Open House Projects jewelry is designed by Monika Wyndham in New York. Designs usually start their lives as sketches on paper and are eventually carved in wax somewhere between the Catskills and New York City. New work is often made at odd hours, and sometimes in hotels, on picnic benches, and in cars. Open House jewelry often features moving parts, pieces that fit together in satisfying ways, and design elements with utility like handmade clasps and closures. Our aim is to make design objects with integrity that feel good to wear and are nice to interact with. We respect the inimitable nature of something that is made by hand.
We are glad to work closely with family-owned businesses and skilled jewelers in New York City to take each of our designs from concept to completion. Our pieces are cast in certified recycled metals using the lost wax method
Can you imagine guiding my mouth to Your Cock,
while my hands are restrained.
My eyes covered in silk.
Me, under Your complete guidance and control?
While waiting for my Master to arrive at my apartment, I fell asleep on my belly. I must have looked like a starfish, all spread out in the sun. His Collar and Cuffs were on at His request.
Master had let himself in and must have quietly connected the straps to the corners of my bed and gently connected the straps to the ankle cuffs. I didn’t wake up until he place a vibrator directly on my clit. At that moment, I tried to roll over and my spread legs wouldn’t let me, Master said, “Stay on your belly” and used the vibrator to cause an orgasm.
I felt lube drip on to my ass and Master worked it into my asshole with his finger. He popped in an anal plug, then left to wash his hands.
” Get on your hands and suck me, dievca”, I worshiped His cock in that awkward spread position until it was hard.
Master placed two pillows under my hips, grabbed my ass and plunged into my wet pussy.
Going deep and pressing on the anal plug. I shuddered once, twice and orgasmed. Master kept moving in/out and stopped to tell me to move on His Cock. He snaked His hand around my ass to my clit and played with it until I orgasmed, again. This orgasm was so hard the anal plug went flying out.
I felt Master put lube on His thumb and he started to play in my ass. I felt the larger glass anal plug replace the first plug. Stretching me open.
Master washed His hands and Cock, only to return for me to suck Him hard and put a condom on. He unclipped my ankles, removed the glass plug, added lube and guided His Cock into my ass, one inch at a time.
By now I was dripping and my asshole was opening up.
Master fully entered my ass and started to move, holding my hips. I orgasmed twice and started to ride Master’s Cock. Master handed me the vibrator and said, “Hold this to your clit.” After a bit of time, I began to buck violently with the strength of my orgasms, Master held my hips for the ride. I finally squeezed Master out and fell flat on my tummy with exhaustion. He went to remove the condom and wash His hands, then lay down to hold me.
After some time, I asked Master’s permission to suck Him. Permission granted, he grew large in my throat. He flipped me over, on to my back, and came into my pussy to orgasm. We passed out for 30 minutes, in the sun.
dievca’s Lingerie for Valentine’s Day
Flora by Flora Nikrooz satin bellflower nightgown in scarlet red.
Gold Leather play collar and lead Hartman & Rose
And dievca’s card for Master by NewtonAndTheApple Etsy, below.
- This gorgeous anal plug from Coco de Mer, cast in bronze – coated in 24K gold = £408.33
- An amazing Marla Aaron 15″ collar in sterling silver with a black rhodium finish, 14K gold loops with a 14K gold carabiner lock = $560.00
- The best is Master’s Kiss, free with the offering of your trust and possibly your heart.
dievca ran into a collection of leather goods from Todd Pendu & Zana Bayne called, “Magnum Opus” SS14. she purchased two items: a bracelet and a necklace which she modified slightly to make it a leather collar. How? she added holes at the buckles to tighten it and removed the attached triangle piece so Master could attach His lead.
The term “Post-Fetish” was coined by Todd Pendu as “decontextualizing traditional fetish gear into aesthetic accessories to be incorporated into everyday wear”.
Originally, dievca was focused on the person in the co-collaboration whose name was on the worked leather, Zana Bayne. But, she starting looking deeper into the gorgeous work of co-Creative Director, Todd Pendu after viewing some of his photographs.
Paz de la Huerta, lensed and styled by Todd Pendu
All wardrobe from the Zana Bayne “Moonbathers Collection”.
Shot in Los Angeles, August 2016
Todd Pendu is a multi-disciplinary artist and image-maker currently living and working in NYC and Los Angeles. PENDV JOURNAL is an online platform and portfolio for his creative projects and art/photographic works. He is the founder of DEVIL’S WHOREHOUSE STUDIO. He is also co-Creative Director at ZANA BAYNE.
Email: info @ pendvjournal . com
“I am a self-described ‘Duchampian Punk’ and a proponent for Libertine Culture. I work independently outside the Establishment. My art doesn’t always fit in to convenient aesthetic categories. I’m interested in personal freedom and expression. I do what I want. I create for those outside society – for those who live by their own rules – not for everyone, but for everyone else.” – Todd Pendu
Cheyenne, lensed by Todd Pendu
Shot in an apartment in Paris. March, 2017.
Todd Pendu is a multi-talented person who is able to walk the edge and create elegance. dievca would like to Thank him for allowing her to share some if his work. Please stop by His site and wander.
dievca’s first post: “Eddie Borgo creates beauty for the submissive” was offering a cuff as an elegant solution for a submissive to wear in the pre- 50 Shades of Grey World. Wearing something symbolizing BDSM was an edgy choice and trying to find something subtle, yet elegant was hard.
Times have changed in the 5+ years and now BDSM clothing and jewelry options have expanded. The BDSM flavor has been on many runways and in various collections. Now, it is easier to find elegant BDSM pieces and easier to wear leather collars, o-rings, chains, etc. in public.
That doesn’t mean an elegant, yet direct BDSM reference jewelry piece is no longer sought out. One of the first jewelry designers offering a BDSM edge was Eddie Borgo and this thicker collar came out in 2015. The collar is still gorgeous to wear, either symbolizing your submission – or not.
And helping the Homeless of NYC via an auction is not a bad thing, too.
* Gold-plated metal or Rhodium-plated metal
* Thin, dangling link chain
* Lobster claw closure, adjustable
* Double-hinged opening
* Stamped on inside of cuff
* In new, unused condition
4.25″W x 4.5″D x .75″H
MSRP – $375
dievca is not sure how the measurements are taken, there are three settings. A circle with a diameter of 4.25 has a circumference of 13.35 inches. Note: dievca would like to mention that you should measure your neck before bidding – and keep in mind that you need a little room to swallow.
Auction ends at 10 pm EDT on December 15th (click on the photos above to bid)
But, sometimes you are ready to return to normal.
dievca ran into something interesting during the final day of the PRINTEMPS summer sale.
AGATHA Jewelry with a subtle BDSM theme. Not on Soldes but not too dear, either.
The pieces looked well made.
Remember when dievca said that she and Master were in the market for a new black leather collar?
she picked up this Fleet Ilya buffed leather choker in black.
- O-ring hardware.
- Logo embossed leather at back.
- Adjustable pin-buckle fastening.
- Silver-tone hardware.
- Height: 4.5cm (1.8 inches), Circumference: 38.5cm (18 inches)
The height makes the Collar almost a posture collar for dievca. The smell of the leather is divine. Well-made, sturdy, beautiful.
Originally $265, on sale for $101.
dievca will keep an eye out for the matching black leather lead.
No emergency, Master has a silver chain lead.
√ Body Lotion
√ Hair Product
√ Air Dryed Curls
√ Nail Polish
√ Facial Cream
√ Cat Eyes
√ Bold Red Lips
√ Vivienne Westwood Heels
√ Master’s Collar
A little Goovin’ for your Sir or Madame.
I Wanna Kiss You All Over (1978)
- Vintage Rust Dress – White Glove Vintage,
- Vintage Collar – Etsy,
- Gold Rose Sandals – Moschino
- Vintage item from the 1980’s
- Primary color: Black
- Secondary color: Gold
- Materials: Leather, Metal
- Ships worldwide from France
Two David Yurman Collars/Necklaces on Auction from Housing Works NYC, perhaps you Sir/Master will find them attractive for Their submissive/slave.
Or just something elegant to wear with your Summer Maxi Dress ~
(click on the Lot ID to bid – there is about 6 days left, as of 07/27/2016)
.5″w x 16″l
* Sterling silver construction
* Diamond accents
* Push-button clasp
* Marked on clasp
* Shows very little signs of wear
Necklace: 1/8″w x 18″l Pendant: 1/4″ x 5/8″h
* Sterling silver box chain necklace
* Sterling, 14 kt. gold, and pearl pendant
* Lobster claw clasp
* Marked by clasp and on pendant
* Shows very light signs of wear
a girl or young woman (often as a form of address).
“you rock, chica!”
Black Loop Choker
A Day Collar and Cuff to honor your Sir or Madam.
‘Wait with silent passion for one glance, one touch…’ ~Rumi
Dionea Orcini choker inscribed with “wait with silent passion, for one glance…” worn by Gemma Arterton in 2015 at the Olivier Awards.
Something Gorgeous to honor your Master.
(dress isn’t bad either)