Casual Dress: dining in Chelsea

cakeSo, the Birthday dinner ended up at a local Chinese Food restaurant in Chelsea (Grand Sichuan).  A bit of a dump, but the company was good and the birthday cake from Le Bergamote was spectacular!

It was raining lightly, so dievca dressed to bike (click on photos to see the brands):

The Party continued at a wine bar up by Times Square – but dievca tapped out.  she had worked a full day and had PT before the dinner.  

dievca thought her Sunday would be free and clear, but it turns out that she has been scheduled to meet friends for dinner. Thank Goodness they texted to ask what the dress code is for Cookshop otherwise she would have forgotten…

The dress code is stated as Casual Dress: With “casual dress”, anything goes. Let your comfort and the weather be your guide. Still, it’s important to use your best judgment. No matter how casual the dress, everything you wear should fit you well at your current weight, and be in good clean condition.

So, dievca is diving back in to her closet for something to wear (64F = 18C, no rain):


Speaking of Spring with Cynthia Rowley

dievca has an upcoming Fundraising Event on a boat. She’s looking into wearing this Cynthia Rowley dress with a jeans jacket and her Dries van Noten chunky green platform sandals Her hair is cut in a bob and will blow everywhere, but the  red lipstick and green drop earring will keep it together. 
Cynthia Rowley Isla Dress Red Preint $525
The Ultimate Pretty Meets Sporty! Sleek and sporty lycra with silk twill skirt.

  • Scoop neckline
  • Scoop back
  • Side pockets
  • Fabric content:
    • Top: 67% nylon, 33% spandex
    • Bottom: 100% silk
  • Care instructions: dry clean recommended

Fit: model is 5’8″ and wears a size S.

Size Small measurements:

  • Length from shoulder: 52″

MSRP $545


End of Season Elegant – Faux Leather

Good America Wide Leg Faux Leather Drawstring Pants

Good American Wide Leg Faux Leather Pants

dievca has gotten many compliments and much use out of her Good American Faux Leather Wide Leg Pants. They are slippery and do run warm (faux leather doesn’t breath), so you need to be aware of when and where to wear them.

dievca’s success prompted her to keep an eye on an expensive faux leather dress from Proenza Schouler White Label – original price $650.  The dress is sleeveless,  has a full  two-way zipper,  drawstring waist and is currently on sale – $280 at ShopBop, but dievca was able to price match with Saks 5th Avenue for $185.

It was non-returnable, so dievca was nervous – but it has turned out to be lovely and something different – she’ll be wearing it with boots and a hat for Master this weekend to attend  Fresh, Fly and Fabulous at FIT.


Pink Lady

Pink Ladies Greasedievca is not a “Pink Lady” – she doesn’t disdain the color pink,

but she doesn’t have much of the color in her closet. 

she can only think of:

eliza-faulkner-sissy-dress

Eliza Faulkner Cotton Sissy Dress

It took awhile, but dievca finally stopped avoiding the dress because

Melania Trump wore a Pink Dress….

Recently, she has now seen an outfit she would be interested in wearing with some flashes of pink

by Rag & Bone:

Rag and Bone Pink top and boots

Who wouldn’t want to wander around NYC in a pink tank and matching boots?

(Tank $95, Boots $550)

Add a Pink Lady cocktail and a Pink Lady apple – Voilà!

Pink Lady Drink Recipe

  • 1 1/2 ounces of gin
  • 1/2 ounce applejack
  • 1/2 ounce lemon juice, preferably fresh
  • 1 egg white
  • 1/5 ounce (or a couple of dashes) of grenadine

Combine all your ingredients in a shaker without ice. Shake it, shake it, shake it to get the egg well mixed. Now add ice and shake some more. Strain into a cocktail glass and garnish with a cherry. You can spear the cherry, stick it on the edge of the glass, or just drop it down in.


Baby Got Back~

Which item of clothing shows off the A** best?

Corset BackLace AssPolka Dot Ass

  1. Corset (Photo by Ellen Von Unwerth)

  2. Lace Slip

  3. Polka Dot Dress


Building an outfit from Master’s gift.

Vintage Brass Cylinder Necklace Etsy

Brass Cylinder Necklace etsy – dievca’s from Nallik

Master traveled to Europe and brought His dievca a clean-lined simple necklace which He considers “subtle BDSM”.
dievca considers it a lovely piece of Master. she has worn this necklace exclusively since Master returned home. It’s perfect for Summer.

dievca will be traveling soon and she had to attend a dinner with work colleagues. dievca didn’t want to take off Master’s necklace, so she built her outfit around it. It turned out that the necklace and the shoes were the highlights of the evening.

Here’s the rest:

Joe Fresh™ for JCPenney Sleeveless Cowlneck Dress Navy

Joe Fresh™ for JCPenney Sleeveless Cowlneck Dress Navy

Sundance Catalog Copper Crescent Earrings

Sundance Catalog Copper Crescent Earrings

Midwest Alchemy Pearl Copper Ring

Midwest Alchemy Pearl Copper Ring

CHRISSIE MORRIS - zena cross-front platform Navy Stingray brown suede

CHRISSIE MORRIS – Zena cross-front platform navy blue Stingray and brown suede

Straightened hair (the humidity dropped enough to straighten it) in a  low ponytail, light make-up – subtle sheen pale pink eyes with black eyeliner, berry lips, pale pink shimmer toe nails.

Comfortable and Cool, but dressed up enough for dinner. Organic and Edgy = Eclectic. Bingo!


An ass made for spanking, but sometimes hard to dress.

An ass made for spanking, but sometimes hard to dress.

Hourglass. Curvy. Athletic. Voluptuous. Zaftig.

dievca’s body has an ass made for spanking and other pleasurable activities. The body belongs to Master and Thank Goodness he savors my build. But, dievca desires to dress nicely for Master and it becomes a challenge when Fashion leans towards less curvy builds.

After many years of dressing the ass, dievca can offer up some thoughts on dressing the body attached to it:

  • Be honest with yourself when you look in the mirror. If it doesn’t fit, it doesn’t fit. Even if you got that Isabel Marant piece at the Barneys Warehouse Sale for a steal.
  • Dress for your body type. If the Retro 1950’s look is best for your curves – wear it. That 1960’s shift dress belongs on a straight body. A well-fitted dress never goes out of style.
  • Don’t obsess about a size. Size is just an assigned number. Blue Jeans are cut in stacks, the size assigned to a lot can vary widely.
  • Try on a variety of clothing and sizes to learn your best styles and fit. That ugly dress on the hanger just might be fabulous on you. Be open.
  • Be confident. Confidence can mask a multitude of sins.
  • You don’t have to spend a fortune to be well dressed. But if you have a fortune, there is a dress from Dolce and Gabbana that dievca would like you to buy for her!

In the end, if all else fails, you can wear your own variation of Master’s favorite outfit:

dievca naked in a pair of heels wearing Master’s collar. Kneeling. Ready to serve.

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