Memorial Day and the Indy 500 2023Posted: May 29, 2023 Filed under: Entertainment | Tags: BDSM, car racing, D/s, dievca, Honor, Indiana, Memorial Day Weekend, Military, Photos, remembrance, travel Leave a comment
Enjoy your Memorial Day and if you have a moment – a prayer to the winds for fallen Military would be appreciated whatever Gods you choose.
Here’s the “Go Fast – Turn Left” portion of the weekend.
dievca and 320,000 of her close friends…
Let’s just say the Indianapolis 500 was a crazy car race in 2023!
Photos: dievca Indianapolis 500 05/2023
In Nature – IndianapolisPosted: May 28, 2023 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden, Uncategorized | Tags: BDSM, Birds, boat ride, conservation, D/s, dievca, Life, Love, peaceful, Photos, travel, USA Leave a comment
Oiy! Trying something new…Posted: May 27, 2023 Filed under: Accessories | Tags: aging, BDSM, D/s, dievca, experiences, friendship, Humor, Life, sports, Think Royln, travel Leave a comment
dievca will be trying her hand at Pickleball, today. she’s thinking that if she can keep it lowkey and wear the brace – her knee should hold up fine. dievca has played tennis in the past, but this should be interesting. (Note: this goes hand-in-hand with her experience of the Indy 500 Party she went to last night with friends. They belong to a “Country Club” and that entails random socializing, golf, tennis, pickleball, swimming, mahjong, etc. Something that dievca’s parents avoided and dievca hasn’t sought – now she remembers why. Nice for a weekend, but its not the type of socializing she is in to…)
Pickleball Bag from Think Royln in Green $218
Something of a smilePosted: May 26, 2023 Filed under: Analysis, Relationships | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dominant, fun, Humor, Life, Love, Master, quotes, retro, submissive Leave a comment
“He’s very good looking and very sexy and all of those things, but all of that goes out the window and what is finally left is, if you can make somebody laugh … And he sure does keep me laughing” -Joanne Woodward
the completed seaglass projectPosted: May 25, 2023 Filed under: Body Type, Fashion | Tags: BDSM, Color, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Life, Love, nail polish, Nails, Presentation, submissive, Summer Leave a comment
Interesting, right? Its the “French Blue” Jelly Color with the Matte top coat. Apparently, the color has been renamed as “Morningtide”. Two ladies stopped on the sidewalk to comment on dievca’s nails as she took the photo. They liked the combination…
Fleet Week NYC 2023Posted: May 24, 2023 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Fleet Week 2023, Life, Love, Memorial Day Weekend, Military, NYC, photo, submissive Leave a comment
dievca finished her swim this morning and caught sight of the Fleet Week ships entering into NYC on the Hudson River. Note the haze from the wildfires out west. If you would like to watch a timelapse of the Fighter Planes, Helicopters, and Ships – https://www.fox5ny.com/video/1225154
Indianapolis 500 car #6 (1947 vs. 2023)Posted: May 23, 2023 Filed under: Analysis, Entertainment | Tags: BDSM, car racing, D/s, dievca, fun, History, Indy 500, learning, Memorial Day Weekend, technology Leave a comment
dievca is heading to Indiana this weekend for the Indianapolis 500. she’s a neophyte when is comes to Indy Car racing “Go Fast, Turn Left”… so she is reading up on the race and trying to choose her driver. The advancement of car technology is amazing!
Caffeine at the pool on a Monday morning~Posted: May 22, 2023 Filed under: Home and Garden, submissive | Tags: apartment, BDSM, coffee, D/s, dievca, Early Bird, Hudson River, Life, Monday, Morning, NYC, Sunrise, swimming Leave a comment
Forward Crawl and Backstroke doing well. The dolphin kick was a bit of a mess. Not using the quads enough to match the top and bottom kicks – working on it.
Today dievca’s building is shutting down the elevators from 5 am to 7 am for a full fire inspection. dievca has a plan for coffee on the sundeck to watch the sunrise and an early swim. How packed are the elevators going to be at 4:45 am? Who knows – worst case scenario, dievca has coffee at home and she cancels the swim reservation.
Good Morning! have a lovely week.
fuglyPosted: May 21, 2023 Filed under: Shoes | Tags: BDSM, CHEREVICHKIOTVICHKI, D/s, dievca, Humor, Knee Surgery, Labucq, Life, Sandals, Shoe fetishism, Shopping, Summer, Zimmerman 1 Comment
very ugly or unattractive.“we all thought he was fugly”
dievca has refused to wear Birkenstocks or Crocs because she thinks they are absolutely “fugly”. Then she had knee surgery and had to whittle her elegant, no padding sandals and ended up with three pair that look like this:
Apparently, she is doing “fugly”, too. Yeah…
A lowkey start to SaturdayPosted: May 20, 2023 Filed under: Entertainment | Tags: Andy Stott, BDSM, D/s, dievca, dub, music, photo, submissive, Techno Leave a comment
Have a fabulous weekend and send dievca good vibes as she works. XO
Sea glass for SummerPosted: May 19, 2023 Filed under: Body Type, Fashion | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, fresh start, Life, nail polish, Presentaion, sea glass, submissive, Summer, trend Leave a comment
dievca is not a “nail goddess”, she’s not going to be on the cover of a magazine showing off her manicure (each of her nails is a different shape)
dievca is interested in this nail trend for Summer – “Sea Glass”
“Sea glass” is physically and chemically weathered glass found on beaches along bodies of salt water. These weathering processes produce natural frosted glass.
Is there a difference between sea glass and beach glass?
“Genuine sea glass” can be collected as a hobby and is used for decoration, most commonly in jewelry. “Beach glass” comes from fresh water and is often less frosted in appearance than sea glass. Sea glass takes 20 to 40 years, and sometimes as much as 100 to 200 years, to acquire its characteristic texture and shape.
Sea glass nails are exactly what they sound like: a semi-sheer, cool-toned manicure with a matte finish like a piece of glass that has been swept around in the ocean for months, if not years.
Jelly polishes, which give nails a sheer, translucent wash of color reminiscent of Jell-O, are ideal for creating the see-through charm of sea glass. Jelly colors are what makes sea glass nails unique from other pastel manicures. The finish is sheer so one can still see through it after two coats. dievca plans to use Cirque Colors Jelly in Aqua, Jade and French Blue, finishing with Orly Matte Topcoat to complete the sea glass look (Note: its recommended that you use a fast dry top coat before the matte coat for longer wear).
dievca has everything ordered from online and will let you know how the “sea glass nails” step out goes!
Photo: sea glass nails from IMARNINAILS @instagram A "Thank You" to the website BYRDIE for guiding dievca to a cool trend!
“Laughter is the shortest distance between two people.” —Victor BorgePosted: May 17, 2023 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Entertainment | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dominant, Humor, Life, Master, positive mental attitude, quotes, Relationships, Sexy, submissive Leave a comment
“If I can’t joke around with a guy and hold at least a decent conversation, there is no way sex will ever be on the table.” —Julia
Both genders prefer a partner with a sense of humor, believing that it is important not only in flirting and dating, but also within an enduring relationship. However, whereas men tend to look for a partner who appreciates their sense of humor, women tend to look for a man who makes them laugh. These tendencies are complementary. Indeed, research suggests that when two strangers meet and the man succeeds in making the woman laugh, the chances of her becoming interested in forming a relationship increase (Hall, 2015; Cassata, 2016).
Humor crops up in various forms between Master and His dievca – makes for diversity and is a Joy.
Dealing with drag ~ in the physics sensePosted: May 16, 2023 Filed under: Disasters, Entertainment | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Humor, Life, physics, Shopping, swimming, swimsuit, water aerobics Leave a comment
In fluid dynamics, drag (sometimes called fluid resistance) is a force acting opposite to the relative motion of any object moving with respect to a surrounding fluid. This can exist between two fluid layers (or surfaces) or between a fluid and a solid surface.
Unlike other resistive forces, such as dry friction, which are nearly independent of velocity, the drag force depends on velocity.
Drag forces always tend to decrease fluid velocity relative to the solid object in the fluid’s path.
So, dievca wore this swimsuit to WaterWorks class today:
The class was canceled, last minute, and dievca decided to swim laps instead. The Bleu by Rod Beattie “Walk the Line” swimsuit above has a scoop neck and an underwire “bra” which is great for bouncing in the pool, not so good for swimming laps… The scoop neck, scooped up water and the underwire kept it in the suit longer – almost like a solid creating drag. Let’s just say that dievca was pretty darn slow. But, she looked good sunning herself on the sundeck after her swim!
TMIPosted: May 15, 2023 Filed under: Accessories, Entertainment | Tags: BDSM, bowel movement, coffee, coffee cup, D/s, dievca, good wishes, Humor, Life, Monday, Morning Leave a comment
As dievca rushes to the restroom, she wishes you the best for your week!
Sunday MorningPosted: May 14, 2023 Filed under: Entertainment, Poetry | Tags: automobile, BDSM, British, D/s, dievca, Humor, photo, poem, Sunday 1 Comment
Down the road someone is practising scales,
The notes like little fishes vanish with a wink of tails,
Man’s heart expands to tinker with his car
For this is Sunday morning, Fate’s great bazaar;
Regard these means as ends, concentrate on this Now,
And you may grow to music or drive beyond Hindhead anyhow,
Take corners on two wheels until you go so fast
That you can clutch a fringe or two of the windy past,
That you can abstract this day and make it to the week of time
A small eternity, a sonnet self-contained in rhyme.
But listen, up the road, something gulps, the church spire
Open its eight bells out, skulls’ mouths which will not tire
To tell how there is no music or movement which secures
Escape from the weekday time. Which deadens and endures.
Net ValuePosted: May 13, 2023 Filed under: Accessories, Analysis, Fashion | Tags: BDSM, crochet, D/s, dievca, Life, pravtical, Shopping, Summer, Tote Leave a comment
Clare V., J. Crew, Amazon, Shein, Old Navy, etc. offering a Woven Tote for Summer ($22-$145). dievca is really shopping her closets before buying, here’s what she has:
OK, not quite the “net” look, but dievca thinks she has an olive green cotton net bag for grocery shopping in a drawer…
A little help from sciencePosted: May 12, 2023 Filed under: Body Type, Discussion, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, body awareness, D/s, diet, dievca, Food, Health, hormone replacement therapy, Life, submissive Leave a comment
dievca ran track through high school (sprinter, high jump) and the school trainer was a very kind man who assisted injured athletes from various sports. He had a pat answer for the tricky question female athletes would ask about dieting in the 1980’s —>
This comment came back into dievca’s mind as she cruised through perimenopause and into menopause, she felt like she was eating everything she saw – like a seagull.
Now, dievca is ending her second week of Estradiol (HRT) and her appetite has dropped and is much more under control. Yes, her breasts may get larger, hopefully her weight may shift out of her belly – but its the feeling that her joints are moving more freely (#1) and her overwhelming desire for food has diminished (#2) that is making her feel very
Note: the addition of progesterone will happen in 2 weeks. (helps protect from breast cancer and helps with sleep)
Is this a placebo effect? Who knows, who cares – its a positive change in dievca’s life.
Illustration by “Beast Flaps” a UK artist who has books available on the Amazon UK site.
Well, someone likes the weather we’ve been having!Posted: May 10, 2023 Filed under: Home and Garden, Neighborhood Anecdotes (NYC) | Tags: BDSM, Color, D/s, dievca, Flowers, Hudson River, Joy, Life, NYC, photo, Spring, submissive 1 Comment
The azaleas are gorgeous this Spring. An explosion of Joy!
Photo: dievca azaleas Hudson River 05/2023
Last Minute GalaPosted: May 9, 2023 Filed under: Accessories, Dresses, Jewelry | Tags: BDSM, closet, D/s, dievca, Elegant, gala, Generation X, grumpy, Life, loner, pushing through, Vivienne Westwood Leave a comment
Under protest, dievca got roped into a fundraising Gala. The weather was lovely, the crowd was muttering about how to remember to put make-up on and dievca was just trying to slide on by….
dievca cannot figure out if she is a curmudgeon or has gone back to her loner Generation X roots or what~ she needs to get it together and just have fun at these events rather than whining.
Yeah, ok, next week she will try again. And another week in June.
Is there anything you are pushing through?
Good Morning, Sexy!Posted: May 8, 2023 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, coffee, D/s, dievca, erotic, Life, Love, Monday, Morning, Sexy, submissive Leave a comment
Have a good week!
30,000 of your closest friends : 5 Boro Bike TourPosted: May 7, 2023 Filed under: Neighborhood Anecdotes (NYC) | Tags: BDSM, bike tour, cycling, D/s, dievca, Life, NYC, tourists, traffic Leave a comment
Today, more than 30,000 participants from all over the world will meet in Lower Manhattan, before cycling the NYC Five Boro Bike Tour. The route is 65 kilometres (40 miles) long and has been made completely car-free for this event.
dievca’s Dutch friend would really like to ride this tour – dievca isn’t interested in joining the 30K for joy. The race makes for some interesting traffic patterns in Manhattan and the Special Olympics race through the Lincoln Tunnel made for some interesting traffic patterns in NJ. Just a weird traffic weekend overall.
toccata and fugue in d minor with Vanessa MaePosted: May 6, 2023 Filed under: Entertainment | Tags: BDSM, Classical, D/s, dievca, Joy, Life, Love, Morning, motivation, music videos, submissive, Vanessa Mae, Violin, work Leave a comment
Starting out the morning with Grand Drama and a “giddy up- get it together” prod.
L’IndécisePosted: May 4, 2023 Filed under: lingerie, Vintage | Tags: 1930's, aging, BDSM, Brassai, D/s, dievca, dreaming, Humor, Life, Life Changes, photo, Shopping Leave a comment
Subject: “L’Indécise” (Indecisive)
Date Of Print: 1939 (80+ year old print)
Printmaker/Engraver: Desfossés-Néogravure, Paris, France.
Paper: Medium weight, matte finish.
Print Origin: France
Approximate Image Size: 5 x 3.75 inches
Tough submissivePosted: May 3, 2023 Filed under: Jewelry | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, downtown chic, Elegant, O-ring, Rock and roll, Shopping, sterling silver, tough Leave a comment
Tiered band ring in antiqued antiqued sterling silver.
· Curb chain detailing and graphic at face
· Logo engraved at back
Supplier color: Silver
925 sterling silver.
Made in Italy.
M is for Masturbation, N is for…Posted: May 2, 2023 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Entertainment, submissive | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, erotic, Life, Love, Master, masturbation, Orgasm, self-pleasure, travel Leave a comment
…Nipples, O is for Orgasm
Master is traveling so His dievca is flying solo. XO
dawn coffeePosted: May 1, 2023 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, coffee, D/s, dievca, disaster, Life, Monday, Morning, Rain, Spring, Weather Leave a comment
After two days of non-stop rain and dievca having to travel in it all weekend; subway delays, wild-a** bus rides, a flat bicycle tire in Times Square where the tourists walk 5 abreast with umbrellas, and wearing full rain gear…the sun has appeared. dievca is enjoying her coffee in its lovely rays. Have a good week.
Reason for the RhymePosted: April 29, 2023 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden, Poetry | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, History, Life, Rain, rhyme, Spanish Armada, Spring, Weather, work Leave a comment
Rain, rain, go awayCome again some other day We want to go outside and play Come again some other day
The rhyme remembers the fiasco of the Armada from the English point of view. A version very like the one we know was written about by a famous diarist called John Aubrey in 1687. He said little children used it to charm away rain so they could play outdoors.
Its thought the song dates back to the reign of Queen Elizabeth I of England, over 450 years ago. At the time, there was a rivalry between England and Spain, and the Spanish planned to invade England with an enormous fleet of ships.
In 1588, the Spanish set off with over 130 huge ships called galleons. Each galleon needed 2,000 oak trees to build, cost the equivalent of several million pounds and needed a crew of more than 200 men. It was a huge investment for Spain.
The Armada ran into the English, who had faster ships, and then a terrible storm that scattered the galleons. Only 65 made it home. The rhyme remembers the fiasco of the Armada from the English point of view.
dievca just has to get through the workday and PT – the rain is going to be a pain-in-the neck…will it please go away?!?!
And it worked to the best of her ability~Posted: April 28, 2023 Filed under: Dresses, Fashion, Shoes | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, disaster, Elegant, friendship, Funeral, Humor, Life, travel, traveling Leave a comment
Two outfits for the viewing and funeral – flew in at 4:30 pm, viewing at 6 pm, dressed and did make-up in the car backseat which scandalized prudish friends. Deal with it.
dievca has not said the Rosary in years – she finally realized that its a form of meditation.
The funeral Mass:
The black Stuart Weitzman 50/50 boots were a challenge to dievca’s right foot. she had to solicit help to get it on – a 7 minute process of pulling out the heel out from being crushed, getting it over her heel bone and profusely sweating. she donated the boots to a Gen Z who admired them and had a smaller foot after the funeral.
Flying back now – a < 36 hour go~
One Perfect RosePosted: April 27, 2023 Filed under: Dresses, lingerie, Poetry | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dorothy Parker, Elegant, embroidered, erotic, Humor, Rose, sheer clothing, submissive 2 Comments
A single flow’r he sent me, since we met.
All tenderly his messenger he chose;
Deep-hearted, pure, with scented dew still wet—
One perfect rose.
I knew the language of the floweret;
“My fragile leaves, ” it said, “his heart enclose.”
Love long has taken for his amulet
One perfect rose.
Why is it no one ever sent me yet
One perfect limousine, do you suppose?
Ah no, it’s always just my luck to get
One perfect rose.
— Dorothy Parker
Stepping Out with Rene CaovillaPosted: April 26, 2023 Filed under: Shoes, submissive | Tags: BDSM, crystal embellished, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, heels, Shoe fetishism, Shopping, slingbacks Leave a comment