Purple Passion (BDSM style)

KOKMO set at Amazon $37.10- click photo

Purple People Eater, Barney, Violet Beauregarde

The meaning of the color Purple”
Purple combines the calm stability of blue and the fierce energy of red. The color purple is often associated with royalty, nobility, luxury, power, and ambition. Purple also represents meanings of wealth, extravagance, creativity, wisdom, dignity, grandeur, devotion, peace, pride, mystery, independence, and magic.

Do you want all that represented during BDSM?


Vinyl Vixen

noun. a female fox. an ill-tempered or quarrelsome woman.
a woman considered to be sexually attractive.

LaQuan Smith leopard bustier dress PVC Spring RTW 2020

Click photo to purchase the LaQuan Smith bustier dress at fwrd.com


Something of Use + Fantasy: Sexy in an Apron

Do you own an apron? Do you use it while BBQ-ing or baking?
dievca has never owned one. she’s not sure of what she is missing Her friends have laughed at her and asked what she does for dinner parties.
she cooks, changes, and hopes for the best afterward.

What about an Apron as a D/s Presentation Outfit?

Hmm, could be interesting but one might need to be careful when sitting or leaning against the countertop.

dievca found the apron she wants:

The RE/DONE | Levi’s Denim Apron is created from scraps of vintage Levi’s, reducing production waste and creating functional, machine washable, and collectible kitchen-wear. Each apron is upcycled using a waterless process from unique vintage materials and is completely one-of-a-kind.

The shades of indigo will differ from the product image due to each item being one-of-a-kind. Twenty percent of sales will be donated to the Restaurant Workers’ Community Foundation. RE/done


with or without THORNS

Ardour red roses with thorns flogger – click photo

The phrase ‘there is no rose without thorns‘ means that in order to enjoy something that is beautiful and pleasurable, you must endure something that is difficult or painful.

Ardour leather red roses flogger – no thorns (click photo)


Dreaming of a different Mask


Cagey Floral (lingerie)

Contemporary and classic all at once, the CAGE BRA has additional straps that form a pattern resembling a cage, either in the front or back or both sides.. It looks fantastic on any size bust because it appears to give ample support to any cup size. Caged bras look awesome on goth girls, bondage mistresses, and fans of Fifty Shades of Grey. Conversely, those who prefer a more traditionally feminine style can rock a caged bra when they fancy flaunting an edgy look.

Despite its name, wearing a cage bra doesn’t mean you’re locking up your bust. The cage bra gets its name from multiple straps that spread above or below the cups for an elegant look. Coverage: Cage bras vary in coverage, but usually they favor showing off your curves and sexy cleavage rather than full coverage.

Liquid Red Floral Cage Bra on sale for $24,99 one size (click photo for link)

Elegant Floral Lace Harness Cage Bra Lingerie piece. This is a stretchy designer harness top that will compliment your black, color, or nude bra or wear alone with pasties or topless depending on how much of a bold statement you’re looking for at an affordable price! It is one size fits most.

PS. Something to wear for the next Super Floral Moon appearance!


Strappy


Bordelle around 2011 and 2012 offered these strappy pieces. dievca is feeling the need.

 


Happy Secretary Administrative Assistant Day!


To those who work through the challenges of others.

Keep the World running
and look sexy to boot!

Many fantasies have been developed over the job title.

The Secretary: Kate Slyvester 2002 Fashion


Wiggle Worm Moon

A big, bright Full Worm Moon will appear in the east on Monday, March 9th.
It might make your Sir’s worm wiggle…

Although the Super Worm Moon officially reaches 100-percent illumination at 1:48 p.m EDT and 10:42 p.m PDT, it’s much more impressive if viewed as it appears low on the horizon.

In New York, sunset is at 6:57 p.m. EDT and moonrise is at 5:56 p.m. EDT, while in Los Angeles sunset occurs at 6:56 p.m. PDT, followed by moonrise at 6:14 p.m. PDT.

If the sky isn’t clear on Monday, check again at dawn, when the moon will be setting in the west. In New York, sunrise is at 7:15 a.m. EDT and moonset 8:06 a.m. EDT, while in LA, sunrise is at 7:09 a.m. PDT and moonset 7:58 a.m. PDT.


booty enhancing, butt lifting, junk building, derriere increasing underwear

According to the American Society of Plastic Surgeons, there has been an astounding 80% increase in butt implant surgeries since 2001.

dievca came ‘eye-to-eye’ with a non-invasive shapewear solution in K-Mart:

Anya Hindmarch “Earl Bottom Pinch” Tote/Shopper

Hmmm, right?

So, if someone pinches your bottom – do you react? What if one glute slips to the side? How do you gracefully take off your butt for Sex?

Well, dievca’s a** is very solid and large enough – no butt lift procedure or shapewear in her future.

XO 🍑


Football and Groundhog Day 2020.


Two typically American Psuedo Holidays…Groundhog Day and Super Bowl Sunday.

Punxsutawney Phil (the groundhog in PA) saw no shadow, predicts early spring. For many in the Lower 48, it’s been a year without a winter. Temperatures have stayed well above average, while snow has been scarce. It sounds like the mosquitos will be fierce this summer.

As for the Super Bowl? The two teams are not of interest to dievca – Kansas City Chiefs and the San Francisco 49ers. She’s making Rotel Dip and rooting for Kansas City, just to be social at a friend’s Super Bowl Party.

If you are going or hosting a party, have fun!


Under or Over? Garter belts

Stella Stevens standing wearing Floral Lingerie in Black and White

Master loves garter belts and stockings. dievca has avoided wearing panties in that role because the few times she did, she put the panties under the garter belt for looks and then everything has to come off for access. Seeing the photo above….she’s been doing it wrong!

Here’s what the internet said:

Panties on top if you’re wearing them for functional reasons (to suspend your stockings). Panties beneath if you are wearing them just to look sexy. If you want to actually HAVE sex in the garter belt and stockings, panties on top. I’ve always worn my garter belts over my panties because it looks better.
~ TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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I believe in the garter belt and stockings. I read some statistics, and it’s the most requested lingerie article that prostitutes hear.

Another tip I always say when wearing garter belts, you wear your underwear over your garter belt for easy access. I believe in wearing lingerie because we love it, I don’t believe in putting it on for a man. I believe that we wear it for us, and if someone is lucky enough to be in our presence and experience that, so be it. But the ultimate seductress is one who realizes in everyday practice the cultivation of your sensuality, and how it radiates to other people. That’s what makes others want to be around you.
~ Dita von Teese

Aha! An old dog has just learned a new trick. How about you? XO


Star sign = Sexual Play

Aquarius (Jan 20 – Feb 18)

You’re into rubber play. You love rubber in the bedroom so much that it feels like a second skin.

Best of all, it can help you have another identity when getting down to business. If you haven’t tried it before, best to start small and work your way up.

 

Pisces (Feb 18 – Mar 20)

With the imagination you’ve got, you’re into role play. Because of this, you can delve into any fantasy.

It makes sure that things are never boring in the bedroom, and you can tap into anyone’s desire.

 

 

Aries (Mar 20 – Apr 20)

Authority turns you on. That’s why you’re so into rough play. Think Fifty Shades of Grey in reality.

Things are intense, animalistic and you’ll have a deeper connection than your average sex session. Kinky.

 

Taurus (Apr 20 – May 21)

You’re all about the physical, and that’s why you’re into body play. You don’t need toys or gadgets to stimulate you, it’s all about the touch, taste, feel and smell.

You also know how to build up to things, and you know exactly where the most sensitive parts are.

 

Gemini (May 21 – Jun 21)

While Pisces have the imagination, Gemini is into one specific thing. Uniform play. With you, it’s about authority without the pain.

Or you also like it playful and exciting. So much choice.

 

 

Cancer (Jun 21 – Jul 23)

This cheeky star sign is into one simple thing – mouth play. While it might not necessarily be a fetish, it’s definitely something they love.

It’s not just about one simple thing either, they’re into anything to do with the mouth and they have plenty of fun doing it.

 

Leo (Jul 23 – Aug 23)

A fiery star sign that likes to dominate, Leo’s are into power play. They like to be submissive to their partner, and also like to take control.

It’s all about having that power over someone else, very appropriate for the lion.

 

Virgo (Aug 23 – Sep 23)

They’re all about the excitement, so it’s no surprise that they love toy play. Why not surprise them with your skills with tools?

Virgo’s most likely have a collection of things to play with, so you can be sure they’re never out of new ideas for sex.

 

Libra (Sep 23 – Oct 23)

It’s all about the response with this star sign, so no prizes for guessing they enjoy sensation play.

For this silky sign, it’s all about the different materials used. Feathers, silk, and fur will all go down a treat.

 

Scorpio (Oct 23 – Nov 22)

Intensity is the name of the game with a Scorpio, and they’re very into temperature play.

In a world of extremes, Scorpio’s like it either really hot or really cold – there’s no middle ground with these guys. Just don’t play with fire!

 

 

Sagittarius (Nov 22 – Dec 22)

Daring situations are the thing, and with that in mind, it’s all about outdoor play. With the chance of being caught, this only brings more excitement.

Senses are heightened and things are more immediate. So fun.

 

 

Capricorn (Dec 23 – Jan 20)

Are you a climber, or are you just a Capricorn? Because they’re really into rope play.

Whether that means being tied up or being suspended from a height – or something even kinkier – it’s all about the skill with this one.

 

So, are the suggestions correct for your or your partner’s sign?

A “Thank You” Cosmo and to Laura Lyne of the Mirror.


Mlouye Handbags: Architecture in Color

Mlouye Naomi Belt Bag $285

Mlouye Mini Woven Bag $295

Mlouye Wave Wallet $195

Mlouye’s founder and creative director Meb Rure hails from an industrial design background. In 2015, Meb decided to change gears and turn her energy towards Mlouye, a collection of exceptional handbags. Focusing on quality material, good design, craftsmanship and sustainability, Mlouye reflects the epitome of quality over quantity.

Meb was highly inspired by the Bauhaus Movement’s artists and architects. From Mies van der Rohe’s works to Kandinsky’s paintings, to Aalto’s furniture, she acquired a rationalist vision of design by gleaning how they served a utilitarian purpose in a cleverly simple way. Mlouye merges industrial design and fashion, creating functional handbags made of luxurious and honest materials to improve people’s lives in small but important ways.

Innovation being the key factor alongside aesthetic, Mlouye has brought unexpected shapes with smart details, functionality and a new luxury feel with a contemporary price point.

Istanbul is where Mlouye was born, the company’s headquarters is now split between the US, the UK and Turkey.

Naomi Belt Bag – Spice


Accoutremonets – BDSM

ac·cou·tre·ment
/əˈko͞odərmənt,əˈko͞otrəmənt/
  1. additional items of dress or equipment, or other items carried or worn by a person or used for a particular activity.

Perhaps you need to accessorize your Lingerie, be it ‘Vanilla with an edge’ or BDSM.


Greenleaf Classics

Paperback Sex Novels –
what Kindle manages to hide.

The Artwork is Classic.

dievca is not too sure about the storylines.  If you are humored here is the link to the website which has documented these …. lost classics.


Sexy Lingerie Fabric = Satin

Marilyn Monroe satin slip lingerie

Satin Definition

Satin is not a raw material. It is a type of weave with a complex structure. Made by floating several warp yarns across the weft before going under 1 weft thread, and beginning the cycle again. Having fewer interlaces leads to a smooth lustrous surface.

Again, satin is a type of weave and not material. Silk, however, is a raw material produced by silkworms that are used to make fabric. You can use silk to make Satin.  Silk Satin fabric is an expensive type of Satin, so if you’re looking to mass-produce clothing or furnishings at an affordable rate, you can make Satin using polyester, nylon, rayon, or wool. Note that Silk Satin will still have the matte, dull reverse side, typical of any Satin weave fabric.

Its Advantages

  • Luxurious feel and aesthetic
  • Floaty drape
  • Versatile
  • Smooth, lustrous surface

Its Disadvantages

  • Frays easily
  • Prone to snagging
  • Tricky to sew
  • High maintenance

Satin is a very fluid and sexy material to wear, it seems like Rita Ora has been seduced by it:

Rita Sahatçiu Ora is an English singer, songwriter and actress. She rose to prominence in February 2012 when she featured on DJ Fresh’s single “Hot Right Now”, which reached number one in the UK. Her debut studio album, Ora, released in August 2012, debuted at number one in the United Kingdom. ~Wikipedia


David Samuel Menkes = leather god.

;Boy Meets Girl’ W Magazine David Samuel Menkes Collar

Jennifer Lopez Elle Magazine Cap, $125, DAVID SAMUEL MENKES

Dominique-Hollington-Louis-Daniel-Botha robe TRIPLE Err Pants David Samuel Menkes

Anna Ewers by Inez and Vioodh for Self Service FW 2017 – Calvin Klein leather shirt and pants, David Samuel Menkes leather skullcap, Lacrasia leather gloves

Lady Gaga Riffle Bra custom David Samuel Menkes

Cap DAVID SAMUEL MENKES PHOTOGRAPHY MARIO TESTINO FASHION ANDREW RICHARDSON MODEL SKY FERREIRA FASHION’S FAVORITE NEW M

Living in NYC you have a good chance of finding someone who can reweave a hole in a cashmere Missoni sweater or create a stunning one-of-a-kind dress.

David Samuel Menkes sounds like the gentleman to connect with for custom leather pieces. dievca offered a blog post which had photos using his work: BDSM in Haute Couture – Strict Magazine

If she ever becomes brave enough – she might stroll into his studio and ask if he can make a leather ‘Day Dress’ for her to wear presenting for Master.

 

Spirit And Flesh Magazine

DAVID SAMUEL MENKES
Interview by CYNTHIA ALTORISO
photography by DAVID CARLO

CYNTHIA ALTORISO: I met David Samuel Menkes by serendipity. I had gone to his building to visit the atelier of a neighboring bespoke tailor on his floor. When I noticed the wonderful quilted leather and studded door, I stopped in my tracks. Beyond the door was a pleasant-faced, blue-eyed and nosed-ringed man, who invited me in. To step inside David’s studio was akin to visiting Ali Baba’s cave of treasures!

There was David, at his heroic wooden work table, covered with beautiful leathers and interesting findings and tools. Behind him were steps leading to an outdoor Victorian quadrangle encompassing a secret garden unique for its exotic specimens and random classical statuary. This was only the beginning…
Appreciating my joy for his aesthetic, David pointed out the ‘walking stick corner’ which held a vast collection of wondrous vintage walking sticks, many of which I have had the good fortune to borrow for shoots.

Close by, above the wardrobe is a collection of marvelous old hats and hat boxes. Next, we moved into his bedroom with its’s centrally positioned canopy bed, draped with fine old paisley shawls.

One wall was covered in shelves holding antique sewing implements. Another wall held a vast collection of classical music covers, the many spines proudly proclaiming impressive works. And then there are the 2 drawers full of the bone button collection, the pleasure of which is to run one’s hands through. And there are the charming vintage children’s chairs. There’s more, much more, and, after these many years of knowing David, it has become a custom for me to bring visitors to experience this creative field trip.

David’s skills are not limited to the demimonde. For a project I was doing with Amy Arbus, he made a Picasso clown suit, for a shoot with Alan Cumming he made a spy’s binocular case, and for a shoot with Ellen von Unwerth, he crafted a lovely muzzle. I also arranged for a custom-made leather jacket, with the Union Jack, for Zombie, Rod Argent. Too many to list here, David has made or lent me many cunning pieces and accessories…the random eyepatch, the leather corset, the riding crops, etc., etc.

David is an old school artisan lovingly plying his trade, making up one of New York’s living, creative treasures.
I call him ‘The Leather Master’.

David Samuel Menkes Spirit and Flesh Magazine

David Samuel Menkes established Custom Leatherwear in 1980. After graduating from Carnegie-Mellon University/ BA Costume and Scenic Design, he arrived in NY with theater dreams but soon found the Leather Scene more interesting. Applying a certain theatrical flair allowed for a wide range of designs within a strict code of dress. Developing a specialty in leathercraft also brought Fashion and Theater projects, as well as crafting for Artists, Interior Designers, Performers, and private customers, with projects ranging from Dog Muzzles to covering a giant head of Stalin with a hood!

Fashion Fetish: The Leather of David Samuel Menkes

Interview Magazine David Samuel Menkes


Low Key NYC and trying to get it moving~

dievca’s Parents wiped her out on her last visit. she came back a disaster health-wise and didn’t have much mental bandwidth left for nice, but needy people. As a result, she passed on two Holiday Parties and has been laying low in her ‘hood.

Pulling the introvert in recovery-mode option.

Working, running small errands, wrapping Holiday gifts, feeding her cold/sinus infection with homemade soup, reading, etc. The furthest she’s been from her pad is Master’s – and that was for coddling and assisting Him with buying and wrapping family gifts.

Well, the momentary introvert will be turning back into an extravert on Monday evening for a Holiday Party she cannot miss – workplace politics-wise…

Turn it on, dievca!

dievca’s skin has recovered, her eyes are de-puffed, Pedi/Mani in place – but she is eschewing sparkles – opting for leather and chains.

Wolford Lace Top Black Thigh Hi Stockings

Blush Polkadot bra and panties with suspenders

Alaia Grommet Bootie

Sonia Rykiel Red Pave Bag

Master’s Vintage Chain

Vintage Sterling Silver Bracelet

Baublebar Constellation Earrings

Herno Layered Tan Cashmere down coat

Neiman Marcus leather grommet gloves

dievca knows it is going to take her a bit more to get into the Glitzy end of Holiday Cheer,
cough, cough,
she IS showing up….


For the submissive in your Life!

‘This is Ground’ leather cord taco $9.99

Sharing their BDSM leanings with the World in a useful manner. XO

 


PVC lingerie

VelvetRebelLingerie Oracle Set Etsy $115.85
(click photo)

PVC fetishism is closely related to rubber fetishism, with the former referring to shiny clothes made of the synthetic plastic polyvinyl chloride (PVC) and the latter referring to clothes made of rubber, which is generally thicker, less shiny, and more matte than latex. PVC is sometimes confused with the similarly shiny patent leather, which is also a fetish material. Latex or rubber fetishists sometimes refer to themselves as “rubberists“. Gay male rubberists tend to call themselves “rubbermen“.

Why latex or other tight shiny fabrics may be fetishized is perhaps that the garment forms a “second skin” that acts as a surrogate for the wearer’s own skin. Thus, wearers of skin-tight latex or PVC garments may be perceived by the viewer as being naked, or simply coated in a shiny substance like paint. Latex and PVC can also be polished to be shiny and can also be produced in bright colors, adding further visual stimulus to add to the physical sensations produced by the material.

The tightness of the garments may also be viewed as a kind of sexual bondage.

Some rubberists also enjoy the idea of exhibitionism and some fantasize about going out in public wearing fetish attire. Some do this, especially in the more liberal areas of the World.

A compelling reason that people are turned on by wearing rubber is its transformative abilities. As with any costume, a rubberist can imagine themselves having a new identity, especially one that permits a different code of behavior. (adapted from Wikipedia)

Below: Lisa Marie Fernandez stretch-PVC lingerie and swimwear from Net-A-Porter


Halloween Hardware


A leather “lookbook” for your Halloween Bondage needs!


Lovesick = Heartsick = Retail is Tough

Lovesick Corrective Apparel was formed in the spring of 1995, by Andrea Johnson. Andrea’s formal background includes a Bachelor of Fine Arts Degree from the Emily Carr College of Art and Design /Open University (1991) and diplomas in Pattern drafting, Construction Techniques and Fashion Design from the Fashion Arts Certificate Program at VCC (1995). Her natural deviance combined with a love and hatred of fashion to create an outlet for ideas born from 1950’s fetish magazines, case histories, and thrift store curiosities.

The site offers sections: Corsets, Restraints, Undergarments, and Gifts.  Corsets can be bought ‘off-the-rack’ or custom made.

Looks very interesting, right?

dievca called the Ontario number on the site – it is disconnected. The last blog information was offered around 2006. The Lingerie Addict cited the website in 2011. Purple Passion NYC is not offering the brand on their website.  It looks like a fun and interesting retail BDSM website is done.  If this isn’t true, please let dievca know.


soft, fuzzy, sexy? sweaters as lingerie


As Autumn approaches, the chill in the air signals ‘Sweater Weather’. dievca always has fantasies of being peeled out of her sweaters like an onion, one layer at a time.

But does Cosy/Snuggly = Sexy?

dievca thinks “yes”! Master might think “no”… she will have to ask.


Just take a look at Linda Evangalista in her Jumper:


Lingerie via Zodiac Sign

(click logo for website)

Astrology gives people an excuse for their less than positive traits or actions – “It’s not my fault I’m bad at decision-making, it’s just because I’m a Libra,” someone might say.

Or “I can’t help being emotional right now – the full moon is in Cancer.”

~Independent UK

Yandy Lingerie is choosing lingerie for you via your Zodiac Sign.
Are you listening?
Click the photos below to find your suggested lingerie.
dievca doesn’t prefer her Sign’s offering, but would she buy another Sign’s lingerie?

Maybe…


Nicola INDELICATO exploring Men’s Lingerie

The touch of refined materials gave birth to unknown, previously unexplored sexual desires and a craving apetite for male body exploration.


(click on a style to enlarge it)

Nicola Indelicato = graphic styles that are both humorous and overtly sexual, perhaps with the extra removable cock ring as needed.

After finalizing his MA in fashion design in Florence at Polimoda, where he also shares his experience as a design teacher, Nicola Indelicato got trained at Vivienne Westwood and gained significant experience at the Italian fashion house, Roberto Cavalli. Combining cultural, applying fast sex – and testosterone elements in combination with the confrontation of historical living forms of the Italian Renaissance give him roots in Italian tailoring of oversized silhouettes and innovative cuts with the sensitivity of molding fabrics.


Interesting from the back – lingerie

Red Elastic Harness Lingerie Etsy (click photo to purchase)

A bit frightening from the front (hearts).
The boots are separate.

dievca knows one thing —
this lingerie would be a Disaster waiting to happen for her.

❤❤❤

 


Presentation Inspiration – Longline Corset

Standard Corset = Long at the front but not the sides: Standard length corsets work for women with a torso length of about 8″ or more (seated measurement).

Long Corset = Long or “longline” corsets will need a torso length of about 11″ or more (while seated) to allow the wearer to sit while corseted.

Glynis Johns – Longline Corset and Stockings

Thinking of a Presentation Outfit for Master.
He has a deep fondness for corsets.

This is a longline black lace corset with stocking and cage heels. Curled hair and a deep-colored lip. The only problem? dievca has a short waist, so she may not be able to sit down.

Time to get searching.


hills and valleys – elfje

Photo: Nue Galerie

Firm
Fingers Squeeze
Climb a Hill
Slide into the Valley
Delight