Posted: March 10, 2021 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, D/s Relationship | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Gifts, Holiday 2020, ideas, Life, Love, Master, Shopping, submissive
Naadam Black Cashmere Hoodie
Raeburn Shark Scarf
Theory Black Leather Braided Belt
Lucky Brand Boxer Briefs
Dark Chocolate and Cashew Snappers
Rowing Blazers Wool Mask
her Christmas gifts for Master.
All were a “hit” except for the Christopher Raeburn scarf – it was a bit too “hip” 😎
Master chose something from dievca’s list and added four bottles of wine:
Paco Rabanne Peter Saville Lose Youself Tee on sale $144 Net-A-Porter
Kind of a COVID-appropriate exchange – wouldn’t you say?
Posted: January 23, 2021 Filed under: Accessories, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, breasts, D/s, dievca, erotic, Fetish, Gifts, Humor, kitchen, tea towel
All Shapes of Beauty Tea Towel $18 Uncommon Goods
Your eyes do not deceive you—there are ta-tas on this tea towel, and not the off-the-rack A-B-C kind, either. This lively print celebrates our breast friends in all their wonderful, natural variety, from bountiful bells to adventurous east-west and a many-hued gallery of shapes and sizes in between. Sure to cause a few double- or triple-takes, this piece shares a low-key message about loving ourselves as we are and—bonus!—it might just give some folks an all-new enthusiasm for doing dishes. Designed in Savannah, Georgia. Made in China.
(click photo to purchase)
Posted: December 10, 2020 Filed under: lingerie | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Gifts, Holiday 2020, Presentation Outfits, Sexy, Shopping, submissive, Undergarments
Posted: December 5, 2020 Filed under: Accessories | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Gifts, Holidays 2020, ideas, Make-up, Secret Santa, Shopping, submissive, work
So, your workgroup decided to do a gift exchange and the limit is $20 – dievca found the gift:
BeautyBlender Zodiac Make-up Sponge $20
dievca really hopes someone gets her one because the reviews on the BeautyBlender Sponge are phenomenal and with the zodiac sign it will make the gift “hers”. XO
OK, so your giftee is male. He might like the make-up sponge, but in case he flows away from make-up, perhaps a Swiss Army Walker kit will do it:
Swiss Army Walker
Posted: November 27, 2020 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, Relationships | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, fashion, Gifts, Hi-Tech, Holiday 2020, Life, Love, Masculine, Master, Shopping
Giorgio Armani waterproof backpack $1295
LarQ Self-cleaning bottle $95
Lexon Designs Oblio Wireless Charger with UV sanitizer $80
Transparent Sound small Speaker $550
Orvis Green Mountain Fleece $129 minus$25
Native Union Maison Kitsume airpod case $30
Missoni 3-pack wool socks $135
This Works 8.4oz hand cleaner $15
Orvis Merino Wool Zipneck $119 minus $25
Sassy Bitch sweet heat hot sauce $16Lexon
Stio Wilcox Vest $129
Orvis Country Twill Shirt $89
Ugg Men’s Polartech Bluetooth Earmuffs $65
Shinola 43mm Detrola watch $395
Bang & Olufsen Speaker $250
Mark Weldon Ace Pants $79
Orvis Broken-Herringbone Cashmere Sweater $269 minus $50
Luckies Apocalypse Kit $25
Alessi 9 cup Moka Induction Cofffee Maker $155
Ugg Giffor Fleece-lined Lounge Pants $85
Shinola 42mm The Duck watch $650
Interior of Luckies Apocalypse Kit $25
Nadaam Cashmere Zip Hoodie $225 take 40% off
Xoopar Wireless Earphones $119
Peter Millar Perth Terry Quarter Zip Sweater $125
Lexon Design Mini Speaker $50
Tom Ford blue light blocking optical glasses $695
Stio Azura Jacket $219
Lexon Design Nomaday Digital Fingerprint Lock $50
Canada Goose Leather Workman Gloves $125
29 ideas for the Men in your Life. Click on the photo for the brand and price of the item. Some of the items are on sale with Black Friday. The item dievca bought Master for Christmas is among the mix. XO
Posted: November 20, 2020 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, Collars | Tags: BDSM, Coats, D/s, dievca, fashion, Gifts, Holiday 2020, jewelry, Shopping, submissive
Do you have a wishlist this year?
Sky’s the limit on a couple of items. XO
(click on the photos for links to purchase)
FarFetch Pomellato 18K Chainlink Bracelet $23,000
N. Peal Cashmere Ribbed Gloves FarFetch $88
Alice + Olivia Julian Paisley Oversized Puffer $795
Ivy Park Adidas Three Stripe Green Beanie – price varies StockXX around $40
Closed Italian Wool Fabric Coat Archive Blue $565
Oh! Ball Foot Massager $35
Herno Blue Fur Puffy Jacket on sale $466 FarFetched
Julian Snelling Red Crystal Buttplug 49 Euro
Moschino Prince of Wales Plaid Coat with Bleached Flowers $1260
Paco Rabanne Peter Saville Lose Yourself Tee on sale $144 Net-A-Porter
Uniqlo Cashmere Knit Beanie Dark Brown $29.90
Planet E Mesh Produce Bag $13.99 Amazon
SPINELLI KILCOLLIN Daphnie Ring $569 Matches Fashion
Tory Burch bandana towel green on sale $99 at Tory Burch
Trader Joes almond butter $15.99 at Amazon
RooTote Woodstock Sleeping Deli Bag – unknown, lurk on resale sites…
Celine High Neck 100% Cashmere Sweater 1980 Euros Grey
Ganni recycled rubber Wellies $245 out-of-stock lurk on resale sites
Peter Do Mixed Media Silver Chains Choker $675
Posted: September 27, 2020 Filed under: Fashion, Jewelry | Tags: BDSM, bondage, chains, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Fetish, Gifts, Life, Love, Master, Shopping, Slave, submissive
dievca saw the following photo somewhere – liked the outfit and then focussed on the necklace.
Chains, chunky, YES!
Getty Images: Katie Holmes 07/2020
So, dievca went hunting for the necklace and found it could be pre-ordered at http://www.ShopMachete.com
Master was looking for a Birthday gift for His dievca and she told him about the necklace. she also mentioned an anklet.
The chains can be interchanged. The Gold large link can be removed, the anklet added to make a larger necklace – interchangeable parts to make things interesting.
- Heavyweight. 14k Gold & Sterling Silver Plated Brass
- Handmade and engraved logo
- Removable links to add and subtract for a longer necklace or create a bracelet
Some other pieces from the brand:
Silver and Gold large link bracelet
Located in Atlanta, Georgia, MACHETE is a line of eco-conscious, affordable jewelry & accessories for everyday wear. MACHETE is frequently featured with Vogue, Bazaar, Instyle, Atelier Doré, and throughout publications worldwide.
Known for our Tortoise acetate disc earrings and patterns, the cellulose acetate & bio-acetate we source is high quality and non-petroleum based. Cellulose acetate and bio-acetate are natural and renewable materials, providing an eco-friendly alternative to petroleum-based materials. All of our jewelry is stored and shipped in custom, eco-friendly UVA zip bags for convenient storing & organizing your MACHETE collections.
Due to the high quality and natural material of our tortoise shell, each pattern is unique and may vary. All of our metals are comprised of recycled brass & ethically sourced silver & gold. Our earring posts are made from hypoallergenic stainless steel, sterling silver, or solid gold.
Jennifer J Matchett, Founder, Designer, and Creative Director of MACHETE, graduated with a degree in Art History from Gainesville, Florida. Inspired by her collections of antique and vintage jewelry, she began creating pieces out of vintage Italian acetate. Jennifer quickly became widely known for her Tortoise acetate disc earrings and was profiled with Vogue in 2017. She currently works alongside her husband Cale, and their small team in the Atlanta area.
MACHETE and its team proudly contribute continued support to the following organizations:
The CFDA Foundation, Atlanta’s High Museum of Art, SCAD Design for Sustainability Scholarship, Every Mother Counts, Human Rights First, Global Fund For Women, Center for Reproductive Rights, The Joyful Hearts Foundation, Safe Horizon, End the Backlog, Women’s March, Everytown for Gun Safety, EarthJustice, National Parks Foundation, 1% for the Planet.
MACHETE is committed to being ecologically and environmentally responsible. We work to reduce our impact on the environment by practicing waste reduction in our offices and production area.
Posted: September 25, 2020 Filed under: Accessories, Body Type, Home and Garden, Relationships | Tags: aging, Birthday gift, body, COVID-19, friendship, Gifts, gym, Humor, Life, Love, Shopping, submissive, vibrator, workout
OK, it is a vibrating roller – but it still falls in the vibration causes pleasure category!
dievca should explain…
she is a huge fan of the Power Plate Machine at her gym. It’s helped her strengthen her body.
More importantly, it helped her loosen her insanely tight quads, glutes, calves, feet, and hamstring muscles.
(Note the roller…)
When COVID-19 hit, dievca was out-of-luck with using the Power Plate machine at her gym. she had to depend on her heating pad, foam roller and heavy-duty time consuming traditional stretching. Not a worry when you have time to spare, but the results were not as euphoric as using the vibrating plate with a roller.
NYC is expecting COVID-19 to hit, again.
dievca’s access to the Power Plate will disappear.
But, it is not a problem anymore. dievca’s friend bought her a vibrator.
In the form of a Vibrating Foam Roller:
Next Roller vibrating foam roller $99 from Amazon (click photo for link)
- Three speeds of vibration
- One Year Warranty
Looks like a good solution for tight muscles in quarantine or any other time.
It works well, dievca used it immediately.
An amazing birthday gift, right?😍
Posted: August 25, 2020 Filed under: Accessories, Musings | Tags: BDSM, body awareness, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Gifts, Humor, Judith Leiber, Life, Love, Shopping, submissive
As dievca sits here with a heating pad on her calves and ice on her knee…
wouldn’t it be lovely to just take a pill to make it better?
What is it?
Judith Leiber Prescription Crystal Pillbox SAKS $795 (click photo)
Posted: May 16, 2020 Filed under: Accessories, Discussion | Tags: BDSM, D/s, definitions, dievca, Gifts, Littles, Opening Ceremony, Relationships, Shopping, Unicorn
Definition 1 of Unicorn related to the BDSM Lifestyle:
There’s a term nearly everybody in the Swinger world, the BDSM world, and the Polyamorous world is familiar with, summarized in one neat, pretty, sparkly mental image of one word: Unicorn. On the surface it’s a simple term, relating to the mythical creature of lore that is rumored to exist but is nearly impossible to find. Furthermore, once found, it’s nearly impossible to keep, for, after all, nobody can really own a unicorn. (credit absinthepassion.wordpress.com )
Colloquial; Synonym for hot or Bi babe or HBB, often derogatory, condescending, or ironic. A bisexual person usually though not always female, who is willing to join an existing couple, often with the presumption that this person will date and become sexually involved with both members of that couple, and not demand anything or do anything which might cause problems or inconvenience to that couple.
The term is often used to be dismissive of a couple seen to be only superficially polyamorous. Because of the demands that this type of couple places on the woman (that she be single and not take on any additional partners, and become involved with both members of the couple equally, and often “complete” their family as a surrogate mother and housekeeper and/or breadwinner and not do anything that may threaten or disrupt the existing couple), many in the poly community call this type of woman a ‘Unicorn’, as in mythical and not likely to be found, even though there are plenty of bi-poly women around.
Sometimes the unicorn is expected to not develop any emotional attachment and is strictly there for a sexual relationship (equally distributed to both members of the dyad) and/or is prescripted as a secondary. This term is used as a reminder that bi-poly women are people with their own desires, needs, and pre-existing lives, and not fantasy figures or pets.
(credit Urban dictionary.com).
If you are looking for a Unicorn buying this Pouch might be a great deal easier.
And it is a lovely item for the Little in your life. XO
Opening Ceremony UNDERCOVER Unicorn Pouch
Printed leather front
White leather back
Zip back closure
On sale for $60 with further discounts available
Opening Ceremony is closing their stores and temporarily closing their website. The sale is quite good.
Posted: May 6, 2020 Filed under: Accessories, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Floral, Gifts, Life, Love, Mother's Day, ShopBop, Shopping, submissive, Toolkit
When is the Super Flower Moon?
May 2020’s full moon phase occurs at precisely 10:45 Universal Time on Thursday, May 7 — a global time that translates to 6:45 a.m. ET and 3:45 a.m. PT. That’s the moment of 100 percent illumination – seeing it before or after that time will offer you a chance to shake your wallet at the moon to come into money! May your skies be clear. XO
Maybe, instead, you can shake your floral tools at the Super Moon and all your DIY projects will be completed...
Note: this is the last Super Moon for 2020
April Showers bring May Flowers in more ways that one.
Something lovely for all the handy Mothers in the World on Mother’s Day (May 10th, 2020).
Something handy for those Non-Traditional Mother’s and Goddess’, too.
Ms. Fix It Floral Tool Kit $55.00 from ShopBop @Home
- Includes: Scissor, 10 ft tape measure, four-in-one screwdriver, hammer with a screwdriver
- Floral print
- Spot clean
- Imported, China
- Pouch shell: 100% polyester
Length: 9.75in / 25cm
Height: 5.5in / 14cm
Depth: 1.75in / 4.5cm
Tackle that lingering household project in style with this convenient toolset, which is extra charming and eye-catching with a vivid floral print.
Posted: January 24, 2020 Filed under: Accessories, Entertainment, Fashion, Jewelry | Tags: BDSM, Chinese New Year 2020, D/s, dievca, fun, Gifts, Life, luck, Shopping, Winter
“Heavy Metal Rat” (Click photo to buy on eBay.)
Welcome to the year of the Rat!
When a Rat Year comes, it generally delivers new experiences with favorable outcomes for all of the signs. The Metal element aspect also indicates success, as this is the element of production. Metal is strong, determined, and resolute.
click on photos for brand
Posted: January 19, 2020 Filed under: Home and Garden, Relationships | Tags: bakery, BDSM, comfort, D/s, dievca, elderly parents, Family, Food, Gifts, Life, Love, submissive
So, dievca’s cousin said she didn’t think the Church had orechovnik (nut roll) available, but another cousin said he knew a bakery in Ohio which does mail-order and is quite good.
Note: dievca is the youngest of a SLEW of older cousins with an 8-year gap between her and the nearest in age – you know those Catholics, no birth control. 🙄
click photo for website link
Hungarian Apricot Kolaches
dievca ordered a bunch of orechovnik and koláče for her parents and her one brother who is celebrating his birthday. Everything arrived on time and in excellent condition. The koláče went over very well with dievca’s brother and her Mother. Dad prefers his orchnovnik. They froze two extra nut rolls for when dievca arrives in February.
If you read the bakery’s history, it tells about when they decided to focus on one location and online presence – they trimmed their offerings to the most popular items. That ended up being mostly eastern European baked goods.
Apparently a good choice.
Posted: December 26, 2019 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, Boxing Day, D/s, dievca, Gifts, Holiday 2019, Humor, Life, photo, Shopping, submissive
Squirrels Fighting over berries Canadian photographer Andre Villeneuve 2013
The New Boxing Day Sport – Shopping
Another ‘sport’ to emerge in recent years is shopping. Sales used to start in January, post-New Year, but the desire to grab a bargain and for shops to off-load stock means many now begin on Boxing Day.
So, do you fight over a bargain on Boxing Day?
Posted: December 23, 2019 Filed under: Entertainment | Tags: BDSM, coffee, D/s, dievca, Gifts, Holiday 2019, Life, Love, Monday, Morning, submissive
❤Did you get my Christmas Card? ❤
Posted: December 14, 2019 Filed under: Accessories, Submission | Tags: BDSM, bondage, D/s, dievca, Fetish, Gifts, Humor, Kink, Life, Shopping, Slave, submissive
‘This is Ground’ leather cord taco $9.99
Sharing their BDSM leanings with the World in a useful manner. XO
Posted: December 13, 2019 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Family, Gifts, Holiday 2019, Life, Love, Master, Men, Shopping, submissive
Click on each photo, a link to buy the item is set if wanted.
Orvis Merino Wool Zipneck Sweater Ocean $119
CB2 Double Loop Knot $60
32BarBlues Juke Joint in my House boxer briefs $24
Orvis personalized leather-bound Atlas Series $49
Annie B. sea salt caramels 10 pc bag $6
Pendleton Avalanche Coat $295
Orvis Gentleman’s Pocket Knife $159
Prana Journeyman T-shirt Bear Hug $35
Prana Journeyman T-shirt Wolfpack $17.50
Uncommon Goods Paper Bag Recycling Bin $58
CB2 10 foot Indigo Night Cable $33.99
CB2 Drop Wireless Indigo Charger $47.96
Stio Men’s Shot 7 Down Jacket $549
Olympia Provisions Summer Sausage $24
Carbon2Cobalt Black Serendipity Sweater $99
CB2 Heritage Brown Leather Jump Rope
CB2 Men’s Cotton Gauze Lightweight Grey Bath Robe $49.95
CB2 Daily Calendar Pad 6 Months $24
ASOBU Black Kool Brew Coffee Maker $39
Naked Cashmere Riley Unisex Sweater $250
CB2 Wire Tassel Grey Horsehair Keychain $38.25
Outdoor Element Flint Multi-Tool Carabiner $14.95
32BarBlues Jersey Knit cotton sweater $114
Everyone is doing a suggestion list (Have you seen Buzzfeed?) dievca’s is from magazine/catalog clippings she has kept throughout the year – thinking of the men in her Life. Right now she is stuck on her Dad – he needs “gummy” in the waist of his pants…the comfort-waist runs a bit larger than his svelte (very) 30″ waist (28″ maybe). He IS eating. Wish her luck!
Posted: August 27, 2019 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Master, Musings | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dominant, erotic, Gifts, Orgasm, Presentation Outfits, Sexy, Slave, submissive, Undergarments
Is it a present if a submissive offers their Sir or Madam a chair orgasm?
A front-row view of masturbation in sexy underpinnings?
Please let dievca know, she’s got the bones of a plan and would love to ‘flesh’ it out.
Posted: July 13, 2019 Filed under: Clothing, Fashion, Relationships | Tags: BDSM, D/s, definitions, dievca, fashion, Fetish, Gifts, Humor, Life, Shopping, submissive
Christopher Kate Black Intarsia Special Sweater
dievca really wants to buy this sweater for a close friend. It would be given with a great deal of humor.
Because dievca is returning to Scandinavia for work, she’s been running around buying hair dye, allergy meds, Coach items, etc. Some are items people have requested and the rest are gifts dievca has found for friends.
One of her very close friends speaks excellent English. But sometimes words take a different meaning in another country. Like the word “Special” – here’s the Mirriam-Webster definition:
spe·cial | \ ˈspe-shəl \
1: distinguished by some unusual quality especially:: being in some way superior our special blend
2: held in particular esteem a special friend
3a: readily distinguishable from others of the same category: UNIQUE they set it apart as a special day of thanksgiving
b: of, relating to or constituting a species: SPECIFIC
4: being other than the usual: ADDITIONAL, EXTRA
5: designed for a particular purpose or occasion
1: one that is used for a special service or occasion caught the commuter special to work
2: something (such as a television program) that is not part of a regular series
3: a featured dish at a restaurant the specials of the day
None of these definitions apply to how, dievca’s friend uses the word, “Special”. The friend uses the word to describe someone who is high maintenance and demanding or a little bit crazy. Someone who is a pain-in-the-neck. that one? she’s special
The word is said with an inferred eyeball roll.
OK – its sarcasm.
Wouldn’t this sweater be great for someone who is (wait for it….) special herself? dievca’s friend would laugh so hard if she received this sweater as a gift.
Do you know anyone who is…..Special?
Posted: July 10, 2019 Filed under: Accessories, Master, submissive | Tags: BDSM, bondage, cur, Curly Hair, D/s, dievca, Gifts, Life, Shopping, submissive, Summer, Tort Hairware
dievca went with the Catherine Deneuve swept-back bob throughout the winter when she could control her hair.
Summer brings on NYC’s heat and humidity and the curls attached to dievca’s head start to spring out.
Master is pleased. He loves His dievca’s curls and D/s play has a way of making those curls explode with Joy.
That extra hair explosion is tough to control in a glamorous way and tucking dievca’s hair in a baseball cap doesn’t work with a bike helmet.
Thank goodness that hair accessories are making a HUGE comeback.
Now, dievca has used the lovely piece Master gave her for her birthday:
Lauren Landa Wisconsin Moonstone Hairpin
That hairpin is fabulous for an “earthy” look,
but dievca needs some contemporary options to present in.
Tort Hairware from the UK offers those interesting options:
Tort Luna Hairclips
Tort is your hair’s best friend. The item you reach for when you want to feel cute, need to make your day (or outfit) better, or hate everything in your wardrobe. Think of us as a jewellery box for your locks.
Long, short, afro, curly, weave, black, blonde, pink, grey: we don’t discriminate. Our clips have been tested on all hair types meaning there’s something for everyone.
Tort was founded in London by Mona Ghafoori in 2019 after demand from her friends for clips that both hold well, and look cool. The clips are named after powerful women in her life, from a septuagenarian style icon to a trendsetting two-year-old. Life’s too short to have boring hair.
Posted: June 7, 2019 Filed under: Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, gardening, Gifts, green, herbs, Joy, Life, Love, Master, NYC, Shopping, submissive
click photo to purchase the kit at Uncommon Goods
Well, the Mason Jars work!
Master’s gift to dievca is a winner. she’s starting to use the herbs. The basil is amazing in a Caprese Salad. The plants are adding a touch of green to dievca’s apartment,
plus, they don’t take up much space.
Something of use for those with a
Posted: April 3, 2019 Filed under: Home and Garden, Musings, Vintage | Tags: 1950's Household Kink, Audrey Hepburn, BDSM, D/s, definitions, dievca, garden, Gifts, herbs, Joy, Life, Love, photo, Spring, submissive
Photo: Philippe Halsman, Audrey Hepburn jumping
be full of the joys of spring
to be very happy:
She bounced into the office, full of the joys of spring.
Speaking of the Joys of Spring – the gift from Master.
The start of dievca’s Garden.
Posted: February 10, 2019 Filed under: Accessories, D/s Relationship, Master | Tags: anal plug, BDSM, Coco de Mer, collar, D/s, dievca, Dominant, Elegant, erotic, Gifts, Kiss, Love, Marla Aaron, Master, Submission, submissive, Valentine's Day
AHH Fornicouture Etna Anal Stimulator
- This gorgeous anal plug from Coco de Mer, cast in bronze – coated in 24K gold = £408.33
Marla Aaron Biker Chain and Baby Lock Collar
- An amazing Marla Aaron 15″ collar in sterling silver with a black rhodium finish, 14K gold loops with a 14K gold carabiner lock = $560.00
Theo James for Hugo Boss
- The best is Master’s Kiss, free with the offering of your trust and possibly your heart.
Posted: February 5, 2019 Filed under: Discussion, Entertainment | Tags: BDSM, Chinese New Year 2019, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Gifts, Good Luck, Life, Love, Pig, Relationships, Spring Festival, submissive
Posted: December 30, 2018 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, D/s Relationship, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dominant, fashion, Gifts, Holidays 2018, Life, Love, Master, Shopping, submissive, Undergarments
get for the Holidays?
Well those Aquazzura boots that dievca wanted were $800+, on sale. And the Chloe green leather Trench? $4K. So, both pieces were dreamy, but not realistic.
dievca asked for more simple items:
Uncommon Goods Mason Jar Indoor Herb Garden hydroponic planters (click photo)
she’s desperate to start a garden, again…
and something to carry her jewelry and Collar to Master’s in a slimfit line:
Sundance Catalog Luxurious Leather Jewelry Pouch (click photo)
Master? dievca went very practical after a closet clear-out, which Master loved:
Blue House Candies, Sea Salt Caramels
Bjorn Borg Boxer Briefs
Levi 511 Stretch Denim Jeans Black
Lucky Brand Fender T-shirt
Lucky Brand Boxer Brief Grey
Lands End Men’s Quarter Fleece black
Gap Sweatshirt Grey basic
Old World Christmas Blown Glass Ornament Cherry Pie
Cock Worship prior to dievca’s flight. Orgasms, too.
Posted: December 15, 2018 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, Home and Garden | Tags: Amazon, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Gifts, Holidays 2018, last minute, Life, Shopping, Slave, submissive
dievca normally buys Holiday Gifts throughout the year. This year, she is running a bit late….hence the Christmas Gift Post for Him on December 15th. All of the items on this page can be bought at Amazon and have Prime shipping available. Hope this list helps you out. XO
(Click on the photos to purchase an item.)
JBL Clip 2 Waterproof Speaker Bluetooth
que Bottle – Designed for Travel and Outdoor. Collapsible Water Bottle – 20oz
32 Degrees Men’s down packable down vests black
Old World Christmas Blown Glass Ornament Coffee Pot
YETI Rambler 18oz Stainless Steel Vacuum Insulated Bottle with Cap
Thule Pack ‘n Pedal Commuter Backpack
Swiss Army Knife – Tourist
Blue House Candies, Sea Salt Caramels
Posted: November 2, 2018 Filed under: Accessories, Analysis, Home and Garden | Tags: Baggu, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Gifts, Life, Master, NYC, practical, Shopping, submissive, usable goods
#1 Baggu Nylon Shopping Tote
dievca is on a kick to streamline her closets and hidden spaces. It’s not Maria Kondo: KonMari Method, but it is the “try everything on” (clothing) – “wear everything once to make sure before discarding” (handbags, accessories, shoes) and decide if it is going to useful in 5 years.
dievca has been known to keep something unused for 5+ years and then use it till its falling apart the next 5 years. “I know why you bought that” is a common statement via dievca’s Mother, dievca’s friends and Master when sorting her stuff.
dievca does not own crap…. so this is an editor’s edit.
Sometimes it takes 5 rounds before something goes, or not.
dievca hates the thought, “I should have kept that _________ (fill in the blank).”
OK, short version.
Weekly, dievca would like to offer pieces that make it through the rounds of editing and have been really useful in NYC. she suspects that they will be useful to others, too.
In no particular order:
Baggu Black Leather Tote
#1: Baggu Reusable Shopping Bags
Can be carried in your hand or over your shoulder. Holds 2-3 plastic grocery bags worth of stuff.
Folds into a flat 5 in. x 5 in. pouch. Holds 50 lbs.
25.5 in. H x 15.5 in. W x 6 in. D.
100% ripstop nylon.
There are larger and smaller options, if you are interested. (click the link above)
dievca has bought these as gifts for New Yorkers, male and female, knowing they fit into a handbag or backpack easily. They are great for shopping, carrying garbage out of a park, collecting papers – anything you need to schlep in the City. The patterns change seasonally and can make a statement.
Yes, Master has some via dievca.
dievca’s Baggu nylon bags are going on 11 years old. she bought her first ones when the company started in 2007. They hold up and wash well.
dievca also has two Baggu leather bags, but that is more a statement on a classic casual handbag shape.
One in brown, one in black.
Posted: October 2, 2018 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden, Musings | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Flowers, Gifts, Life, meanings, Memories, NYC, photo, Shopping, submissive
A lovely gift to bring someone. Male or Female. A very Dutch gift.
Do you bring flowers that you love? Especially if you don’t know what flowers the giftee loves?
Do you try to guess what they might like?
Or would you think about the flower’s meanings? Send a message?
In dievca’s High School, clubs would sell Carnations on Valentine’s Day to raise money for their activities:
A White Carnation meant “Friends”
Red meant “Lovers”
Pink meant “Secret Admirer”
For 50 cents, you would pre-order and send the flowers with a message to the classroom where you knew your “target” was sitting. The pink carnations were quite desirable.
Hmm, fun to remember that~wonder if they still do it.
dievca received three sets of flowers for her Birthday.
Which bouquet of flowers do you think is her?
White rose: purity, innocence, reverence, a new beginning, a fresh start.
Red rose: love, I love you
Deep, dark crimson rose: mourning
Pink roses: grace, happiness, gentleness
Yellow rose: joy, friendship, the promise of a new beginning
Orange rose: desire and enthusiasm
Lavender rose: love at first sight
Coral rose: friendship, modesty, sympathy
Celosia (Cockscomb) – Boldness/Courage or Affection, Singularity, Silliness.
Gerber Daisy (Gerbera): Innocence, Purity
Carnation (red): Love, Admiration, Friendship, Pride, Passion
Carnation (yellow): Disappointment, Rejection, Disdain
Hydrangea (foliage and flowers): Thank You for Understanding, sometimes Heartlessness
Rose (red): love, I love you
Mums (yellow): Happiness, also Slighted Love, Dejection
Mums (white): Truth, Hope, Loyal Love, Pure & True Affections
More importantly, which flowers are you?
|Farmer’s Almanac Symbolic Meanings of Herbs, Flowers and Other Plants
||Healing, protection, affection
||Symbol of Love, Daintiness
|– Red carnation
||My Heart Aches, admiration
|– White carnation
||Innocence, pure love, women’s good luck gift
|– Pink carnation
||I’ll never forget you
|– Yellow carnation
||Disdain, disappointment, rejection
||Think of me
||Resignation and good-bye
||Powerful against evil
||Sincerity, humility; also, magic and bonds of love
||True love memories
||Encouragement, good fortune
||Bonds of love
||Games and sport, playfulness, rashness
|– Blue Hyacinth
||Constancy of love
|– Purple Hyacinth
||Sorrow, forgiveness, regret
|– Yellow Hyacinth
|– White Hyacinth
||Loveliness, prayers for someone
||Gratitude for being understood; frigidity and heartlessness
||Joy of youth
||Chinese emblem for mother
||Purity, enlightenment, self-regeneration, and rebirth
||Love of nature
||Despair, grief, jealousy
||Joy and happiness
||Good luck and love in a marriage
||Bashful, happy life
||Love, I love you.
|Rose, dark crimson
||Purity, heavenly, I’m worthy of you
||Jealousy, decrease of love
||Grace, clear vision
||I think of you
||Passion, declaration of love
||Sunshine in your smile
||Loyalty, devotion, faithfulness, modesty
||Faithfulness in adversity
||Thoughts of absent friends
A more complete table can be found here.
Posted: September 27, 2018 Filed under: Body Type, Entertainment, lingerie | Tags: Anniversary, BDSM, Birthday, celebrate, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Gifts, Lauren Landa, Life, Love, Master, NYC, Presentation Outfits, Relationships, submissive, Undergarments
For 5 years (WordPress Anniversary – Thank You) and I have gotten a year older.
I was trying to think what piece of lingerie do I own that makes me feel absolutely fabulous on the lingerie Thursday~ and what I would wear for you, if we were celebrating together.
I came up with the orange Wolford dress and the navy Agent Provocateur silk slip:
Mind you, I do enjoy corsets and latex, but if I am choosing for me and not Master – I go flowy or stretchy, curve-friendly, comfortable, quirky and easy.
What is your “go to” lingerie if its your choice, not your Sir or Madame?
And the lovely item that Master bought for my additional year of Life:
Lauren Landa Wisconsin Moonstone Hairpin
From Bona Drag. (click photo)
Posted: August 28, 2018 Filed under: Accessories, D/s Relationship | Tags: BDSM, beach, blanket, Crete, D/s, dievca, Gifts, Life, Master, ShopBop, Shopping, Summer, towel, travel
Πετσέτες : petseta-pestemali or makropetsa
Are the names for the towels woven on house-looms for housekeeping needs in Crete. Pesstemal for Turkish hamans, futah in France and Tunisia, sarong, kikoy, kangas, shukas…One towel for the World!
Master bought dievca a simply lovely one from the brand:
The link above will get you to the same company in Crete — but it might be easier….
ShopBop is offering a lightweight, woven Beach Blanket, too:
click on photo to purchase $50.00
Las Bayadas beach blanket detailed with colorful stripes.
Fabric: Lightweight weave.
40% cotton/30% acrylic/30% polyester.
Width: 80.25in / 204cm
Length: 70.5in / 179cm