Posted: May 16, 2020 Filed under: Accessories, Discussion | Tags: BDSM, D/s, definitions, dievca, Gifts, Littles, Opening Ceremony, Relationships, Shopping, Unicorn
Definition 1 of Unicorn related to the BDSM Lifestyle:
There’s a term nearly everybody in the Swinger world, the BDSM world, and the Polyamorous world is familiar with, summarized in one neat, pretty, sparkly mental image of one word: Unicorn. On the surface it’s a simple term, relating to the mythical creature of lore that is rumored to exist but is nearly impossible to find. Furthermore, once found, it’s nearly impossible to keep, for, after all, nobody can really own a unicorn. (credit absinthepassion.wordpress.com )
Colloquial; Synonym for hot or Bi babe or HBB, often derogatory, condescending, or ironic. A bisexual person usually though not always female, who is willing to join an existing couple, often with the presumption that this person will date and become sexually involved with both members of that couple, and not demand anything or do anything which might cause problems or inconvenience to that couple.
The term is often used to be dismissive of a couple seen to be only superficially polyamorous. Because of the demands that this type of couple places on the woman (that she be single and not take on any additional partners, and become involved with both members of the couple equally, and often “complete” their family as a surrogate mother and housekeeper and/or breadwinner and not do anything that may threaten or disrupt the existing couple), many in the poly community call this type of woman a ‘Unicorn’, as in mythical and not likely to be found, even though there are plenty of bi-poly women around.
Sometimes the unicorn is expected to not develop any emotional attachment and is strictly there for a sexual relationship (equally distributed to both members of the dyad) and/or is prescripted as a secondary. This term is used as a reminder that bi-poly women are people with their own desires, needs, and pre-existing lives, and not fantasy figures or pets.
(credit Urban dictionary.com).
If you are looking for a Unicorn buying this Pouch might be a great deal easier.
And it is a lovely item for the Little in your life. XO
Opening Ceremony UNDERCOVER Unicorn Pouch
Printed leather front
White leather back
Zip back closure
On sale for $60 with further discounts available
Opening Ceremony is closing their stores and temporarily closing their website. The sale is quite good.
Posted: May 6, 2020 Filed under: Accessories, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Floral, Gifts, Life, Love, Mother's Day, ShopBop, Shopping, submissive, Toolkit
When is the Super Flower Moon?
May 2020’s full moon phase occurs at precisely 10:45 Universal Time on Thursday, May 7 — a global time that translates to 6:45 a.m. ET and 3:45 a.m. PT. That’s the moment of 100 percent illumination – seeing it before or after that time will offer you a chance to shake your wallet at the moon to come into money! May your skies be clear. XO
Maybe, instead, you can shake your floral tools at the Super Moon and all your DIY projects will be completed...
Note: this is the last Super Moon for 2020
April Showers bring May Flowers in more ways that one.
Something lovely for all the handy Mothers in the World on Mother’s Day (May 10th, 2020).
Something handy for those Non-Traditional Mother’s and Goddess’, too.
Ms. Fix It Floral Tool Kit $55.00 from ShopBop @Home
- Includes: Scissor, 10 ft tape measure, four-in-one screwdriver, hammer with a screwdriver
- Floral print
- Spot clean
- Imported, China
- Pouch shell: 100% polyester
Length: 9.75in / 25cm
Height: 5.5in / 14cm
Depth: 1.75in / 4.5cm
Tackle that lingering household project in style with this convenient toolset, which is extra charming and eye-catching with a vivid floral print.
Posted: January 24, 2020 Filed under: Accessories, Entertainment, Fashion, Jewelry | Tags: BDSM, Chinese New Year 2020, D/s, dievca, fun, Gifts, Life, luck, Shopping, Winter
“Heavy Metal Rat” (Click photo to buy on eBay.)
Welcome to the year of the Rat!
When a Rat Year comes, it generally delivers new experiences with favorable outcomes for all of the signs. The Metal element aspect also indicates success, as this is the element of production. Metal is strong, determined, and resolute.
click on photos for brand
Posted: January 19, 2020 Filed under: Home and Garden, Relationships | Tags: bakery, BDSM, comfort, D/s, dievca, elderly parents, Family, Food, Gifts, Life, Love, submissive
So, dievca’s cousin said she didn’t think the Church had orechovnik (nut roll) available, but another cousin said he knew a bakery in Ohio which does mail-order and is quite good.
Note: dievca is the youngest of a SLEW of older cousins with an 8-year gap between her and the nearest in age – you know those Catholics, no birth control. 🙄
click photo for website link
Hungarian Apricot Kolaches
dievca ordered a bunch of orechovnik and koláče for her parents and her one brother who is celebrating his birthday. Everything arrived on time and in excellent condition. The koláče went over very well with dievca’s brother and her Mother. Dad prefers his orchnovnik. They froze two extra nut rolls for when dievca arrives in February.
If you read the bakery’s history, it tells about when they decided to focus on one location and online presence – they trimmed their offerings to the most popular items. That ended up being mostly eastern European baked goods.
Apparently a good choice.
Posted: December 26, 2019 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, Boxing Day, D/s, dievca, Gifts, Holiday 2019, Humor, Life, photo, Shopping, submissive
Squirrels Fighting over berries Canadian photographer Andre Villeneuve 2013
The New Boxing Day Sport – Shopping
Another ‘sport’ to emerge in recent years is shopping. Sales used to start in January, post-New Year, but the desire to grab a bargain and for shops to off-load stock means many now begin on Boxing Day.
So, do you fight over a bargain on Boxing Day?
Posted: December 23, 2019 Filed under: Entertainment | Tags: BDSM, coffee, D/s, dievca, Gifts, Holiday 2019, Life, Love, Monday, Morning, submissive
❤Did you get my Christmas Card? ❤
Posted: December 14, 2019 Filed under: Accessories, Submission | Tags: BDSM, bondage, D/s, dievca, Fetish, Gifts, Humor, Kink, Life, Shopping, Slave, submissive
‘This is Ground’ leather cord taco $9.99
Sharing their BDSM leanings with the World in a useful manner. XO
Posted: December 13, 2019 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Family, Gifts, Holiday 2019, Life, Love, Master, Men, Shopping, submissive
Click on each photo, a link to buy the item is set if wanted.
Orvis Merino Wool Zipneck Sweater Ocean $119
CB2 Double Loop Knot $60
32BarBlues Juke Joint in my House boxer briefs $24
Orvis personalized leather-bound Atlas Series $49
Annie B. sea salt caramels 10 pc bag $6
Pendleton Avalanche Coat $295
Orvis Gentleman’s Pocket Knife $159
Prana Journeyman T-shirt Bear Hug $35
Prana Journeyman T-shirt Wolfpack $17.50
Uncommon Goods Paper Bag Recycling Bin $58
CB2 10 foot Indigo Night Cable $33.99
CB2 Drop Wireless Indigo Charger $47.96
Stio Men’s Shot 7 Down Jacket $549
Olympia Provisions Summer Sausage $24
Carbon2Cobalt Black Serendipity Sweater $99
CB2 Heritage Brown Leather Jump Rope
CB2 Men’s Cotton Gauze Lightweight Grey Bath Robe $49.95
CB2 Daily Calendar Pad 6 Months $24
ASOBU Black Kool Brew Coffee Maker $39
Naked Cashmere Riley Unisex Sweater $250
CB2 Wire Tassel Grey Horsehair Keychain $38.25
Outdoor Element Flint Multi-Tool Carabiner $14.95
32BarBlues Jersey Knit cotton sweater $114
Everyone is doing a suggestion list (Have you seen Buzzfeed?) dievca’s is from magazine/catalog clippings she has kept throughout the year – thinking of the men in her Life. Right now she is stuck on her Dad – he needs “gummy” in the waist of his pants…the comfort-waist runs a bit larger than his svelte (very) 30″ waist (28″ maybe). He IS eating. Wish her luck!
Posted: August 27, 2019 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Master, Musings | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dominant, erotic, Gifts, Orgasm, Presentation Outfits, Sexy, Slave, submissive, Undergarments
Is it a present if a submissive offers their Sir or Madam a chair orgasm?
A front-row view of masturbation in sexy underpinnings?
Please let dievca know, she’s got the bones of a plan and would love to ‘flesh’ it out.
Posted: July 13, 2019 Filed under: Clothing, Fashion, Relationships | Tags: BDSM, D/s, definitions, dievca, fashion, Fetish, Gifts, Humor, Life, Shopping, submissive
Christopher Kate Black Intarsia Special Sweater
dievca really wants to buy this sweater for a close friend. It would be given with a great deal of humor.
Because dievca is returning to Scandinavia for work, she’s been running around buying hair dye, allergy meds, Coach items, etc. Some are items people have requested and the rest are gifts dievca has found for friends.
One of her very close friends speaks excellent English. But sometimes words take a different meaning in another country. Like the word “Special” – here’s the Mirriam-Webster definition:
spe·cial | \ ˈspe-shəl \
1: distinguished by some unusual quality especially:: being in some way superior our special blend
2: held in particular esteem a special friend
3a: readily distinguishable from others of the same category: UNIQUE they set it apart as a special day of thanksgiving
b: of, relating to or constituting a species: SPECIFIC
4: being other than the usual: ADDITIONAL, EXTRA
5: designed for a particular purpose or occasion
1: one that is used for a special service or occasion caught the commuter special to work
2: something (such as a television program) that is not part of a regular series
3: a featured dish at a restaurant the specials of the day
None of these definitions apply to how, dievca’s friend uses the word, “Special”. The friend uses the word to describe someone who is high maintenance and demanding or a little bit crazy. Someone who is a pain-in-the-neck. that one? she’s special
The word is said with an inferred eyeball roll.
OK – its sarcasm.
Wouldn’t this sweater be great for someone who is (wait for it….) special herself? dievca’s friend would laugh so hard if she received this sweater as a gift.
Do you know anyone who is…..Special?
Posted: July 10, 2019 Filed under: Accessories, Master, submissive | Tags: BDSM, bondage, cur, Curly Hair, D/s, dievca, Gifts, Life, Shopping, submissive, Summer, Tort Hairware
dievca went with the Catherine Deneuve swept-back bob throughout the winter when she could control her hair.
Summer brings on NYC’s heat and humidity and the curls attached to dievca’s head start to spring out.
Master is pleased. He loves His dievca’s curls and D/s play has a way of making those curls explode with Joy.
That extra hair explosion is tough to control in a glamorous way and tucking dievca’s hair in a baseball cap doesn’t work with a bike helmet.
Thank goodness that hair accessories are making a HUGE comeback.
Now, dievca has used the lovely piece Master gave her for her birthday:
Lauren Landa Wisconsin Moonstone Hairpin
That hairpin is fabulous for an “earthy” look,
but dievca needs some contemporary options to present in.
Tort Hairware from the UK offers those interesting options:
Tort Luna Hairclips
Tort is your hair’s best friend. The item you reach for when you want to feel cute, need to make your day (or outfit) better, or hate everything in your wardrobe. Think of us as a jewellery box for your locks.
Long, short, afro, curly, weave, black, blonde, pink, grey: we don’t discriminate. Our clips have been tested on all hair types meaning there’s something for everyone.
Tort was founded in London by Mona Ghafoori in 2019 after demand from her friends for clips that both hold well, and look cool. The clips are named after powerful women in her life, from a septuagenarian style icon to a trendsetting two-year-old. Life’s too short to have boring hair.
Posted: June 7, 2019 Filed under: Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, gardening, Gifts, green, herbs, Joy, Life, Love, Master, NYC, Shopping, submissive
click photo to purchase the kit at Uncommon Goods
Well, the Mason Jars work!
Master’s gift to dievca is a winner. she’s starting to use the herbs. The basil is amazing in a Caprese Salad. The plants are adding a touch of green to dievca’s apartment,
plus, they don’t take up much space.
Something of use for those with a
Posted: April 3, 2019 Filed under: Home and Garden, Musings, Vintage | Tags: 1950's Household Kink, Audrey Hepburn, BDSM, D/s, definitions, dievca, garden, Gifts, herbs, Joy, Life, Love, photo, Spring, submissive
Photo: Philippe Halsman, Audrey Hepburn jumping
be full of the joys of spring
to be very happy:
She bounced into the office, full of the joys of spring.
Speaking of the Joys of Spring – the gift from Master.
The start of dievca’s Garden.
Posted: February 10, 2019 Filed under: Accessories, D/s Relationship, Master | Tags: anal plug, BDSM, Coco de Mer, collar, D/s, dievca, Dominant, Elegant, erotic, Gifts, Kiss, Love, Marla Aaron, Master, Submission, submissive, Valentine's Day
AHH Fornicouture Etna Anal Stimulator
- This gorgeous anal plug from Coco de Mer, cast in bronze – coated in 24K gold = £408.33
Marla Aaron Biker Chain and Baby Lock Collar
- An amazing Marla Aaron 15″ collar in sterling silver with a black rhodium finish, 14K gold loops with a 14K gold carabiner lock = $560.00
Theo James for Hugo Boss
- The best is Master’s Kiss, free with the offering of your trust and possibly your heart.
Posted: February 5, 2019 Filed under: Discussion, Entertainment | Tags: BDSM, Chinese New Year 2019, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Gifts, Good Luck, Life, Love, Pig, Relationships, Spring Festival, submissive
Posted: December 30, 2018 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, D/s Relationship, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dominant, fashion, Gifts, Holidays 2018, Life, Love, Master, Shopping, submissive, Undergarments
get for the Holidays?
Well those Aquazzura boots that dievca wanted were $800+, on sale. And the Chloe green leather Trench? $4K. So, both pieces were dreamy, but not realistic.
dievca asked for more simple items:
Uncommon Goods Mason Jar Indoor Herb Garden hydroponic planters (click photo)
she’s desperate to start a garden, again…
and something to carry her jewelry and Collar to Master’s in a slimfit line:
Sundance Catalog Luxurious Leather Jewelry Pouch (click photo)
Master? dievca went very practical after a closet clear-out, which Master loved:
Bjorn Borg Boxer Briefs
Blue House Candies, Sea Salt Caramels
Lucky Brand Boxer Brief Grey
Levi 511 Stretch Denim Jeans Black
Old World Christmas Blown Glass Ornament Cherry Pie
Cock Worship prior to dievca’s flight. Orgasms, too.
Gap Sweatshirt Grey basic
Lands End Men’s Quarter Fleece black
Lucky Brand Fender T-shirt
Posted: December 15, 2018 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, Home and Garden | Tags: Amazon, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Gifts, Holidays 2018, last minute, Life, Shopping, Slave, submissive
dievca normally buys Holiday Gifts throughout the year. This year, she is running a bit late….hence the Christmas Gift Post for Him on December 15th. All of the items on this page can be bought at Amazon and have Prime shipping available. Hope this list helps you out. XO
(Click on the photos to purchase an item.)
JBL Clip 2 Waterproof Speaker Bluetooth
que Bottle – Designed for Travel and Outdoor. Collapsible Water Bottle – 20oz
32 Degrees Men’s down packable down vests black
Old World Christmas Blown Glass Ornament Coffee Pot
YETI Rambler 18oz Stainless Steel Vacuum Insulated Bottle with Cap
Thule Pack ‘n Pedal Commuter Backpack
Swiss Army Knife – Tourist
Blue House Candies, Sea Salt Caramels
Posted: November 2, 2018 Filed under: Accessories, Analysis, Home and Garden | Tags: Baggu, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Gifts, Life, Master, NYC, practical, Shopping, submissive, usable goods
#1 Baggu Nylon Shopping Tote
dievca is on a kick to streamline her closets and hidden spaces. It’s not Maria Kondo: KonMari Method, but it is the “try everything on” (clothing) – “wear everything once to make sure before discarding” (handbags, accessories, shoes) and decide if it is going to useful in 5 years.
dievca has been known to keep something unused for 5+ years and then use it till its falling apart the next 5 years. “I know why you bought that” is a common statement via dievca’s Mother, dievca’s friends and Master when sorting her stuff.
dievca does not own crap…. so this is an editor’s edit.
Sometimes it takes 5 rounds before something goes, or not.
dievca hates the thought, “I should have kept that _________ (fill in the blank).”
OK, short version.
Weekly, dievca would like to offer pieces that make it through the rounds of editing and have been really useful in NYC. she suspects that they will be useful to others, too.
In no particular order:
Baggu Black Leather Tote
#1: Baggu Reusable Shopping Bags
Can be carried in your hand or over your shoulder. Holds 2-3 plastic grocery bags worth of stuff.
Folds into a flat 5 in. x 5 in. pouch. Holds 50 lbs.
25.5 in. H x 15.5 in. W x 6 in. D.
100% ripstop nylon.
There are larger and smaller options, if you are interested. (click the link above)
dievca has bought these as gifts for New Yorkers, male and female, knowing they fit into a handbag or backpack easily. They are great for shopping, carrying garbage out of a park, collecting papers – anything you need to schlep in the City. The patterns change seasonally and can make a statement.
Yes, Master has some via dievca.
dievca’s Baggu nylon bags are going on 11 years old. she bought her first ones when the company started in 2007. They hold up and wash well.
dievca also has two Baggu leather bags, but that is more a statement on a classic casual handbag shape.
One in brown, one in black.
Posted: October 2, 2018 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden, Musings | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Flowers, Gifts, Life, meanings, Memories, NYC, photo, Shopping, submissive
A lovely gift to bring someone. Male or Female. A very Dutch gift.
Do you bring flowers that you love? Especially if you don’t know what flowers the giftee loves?
Do you try to guess what they might like?
Or would you think about the flower’s meanings? Send a message?
In dievca’s High School, clubs would sell Carnations on Valentine’s Day to raise money for their activities:
A White Carnation meant “Friends”
Red meant “Lovers”
Pink meant “Secret Admirer”
For 50 cents, you would pre-order and send the flowers with a message to the classroom where you knew your “target” was sitting. The pink carnations were quite desirable.
Hmm, fun to remember that~wonder if they still do it.
dievca received three sets of flowers for her Birthday.
Which bouquet of flowers do you think is her?
White rose: purity, innocence, reverence, a new beginning, a fresh start.
Red rose: love, I love you
Deep, dark crimson rose: mourning
Pink roses: grace, happiness, gentleness
Yellow rose: joy, friendship, the promise of a new beginning
Orange rose: desire and enthusiasm
Lavender rose: love at first sight
Coral rose: friendship, modesty, sympathy
Celosia (Cockscomb) – Boldness/Courage or Affection, Singularity, Silliness.
Gerber Daisy (Gerbera): Innocence, Purity
Carnation (red): Love, Admiration, Friendship, Pride, Passion
Carnation (yellow): Disappointment, Rejection, Disdain
Hydrangea (foliage and flowers): Thank You for Understanding, sometimes Heartlessness
Rose (red): love, I love you
Mums (yellow): Happiness, also Slighted Love, Dejection
Mums (white): Truth, Hope, Loyal Love, Pure & True Affections
More importantly, which flowers are you?
|Farmer’s Almanac Symbolic Meanings of Herbs, Flowers and Other Plants
||Healing, protection, affection
||Symbol of Love, Daintiness
|– Red carnation
||My Heart Aches, admiration
|– White carnation
||Innocence, pure love, women’s good luck gift
|– Pink carnation
||I’ll never forget you
|– Yellow carnation
||Disdain, disappointment, rejection
||Think of me
||Resignation and good-bye
||Powerful against evil
||Sincerity, humility; also, magic and bonds of love
||True love memories
||Encouragement, good fortune
||Bonds of love
||Games and sport, playfulness, rashness
|– Blue Hyacinth
||Constancy of love
|– Purple Hyacinth
||Sorrow, forgiveness, regret
|– Yellow Hyacinth
|– White Hyacinth
||Loveliness, prayers for someone
||Gratitude for being understood; frigidity and heartlessness
||Joy of youth
||Chinese emblem for mother
||Purity, enlightenment, self-regeneration, and rebirth
||Love of nature
||Despair, grief, jealousy
||Joy and happiness
||Good luck and love in a marriage
||Bashful, happy life
||Love, I love you.
|Rose, dark crimson
||Purity, heavenly, I’m worthy of you
||Jealousy, decrease of love
||Grace, clear vision
||I think of you
||Passion, declaration of love
||Sunshine in your smile
||Loyalty, devotion, faithfulness, modesty
||Faithfulness in adversity
||Thoughts of absent friends
A more complete table can be found here.
Posted: September 27, 2018 Filed under: Body Type, Entertainment, lingerie | Tags: Anniversary, BDSM, Birthday, celebrate, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Gifts, Lauren Landa, Life, Love, Master, NYC, Presentation Outfits, Relationships, submissive, Undergarments
For 5 years (WordPress Anniversary – Thank You) and I have gotten a year older.
I was trying to think what piece of lingerie do I own that makes me feel absolutely fabulous on the lingerie Thursday~ and what I would wear for you, if we were celebrating together.
I came up with the orange Wolford dress and the navy Agent Provocateur silk slip:
Mind you, I do enjoy corsets and latex, but if I am choosing for me and not Master – I go flowy or stretchy, curve-friendly, comfortable, quirky and easy.
What is your “go to” lingerie if its your choice, not your Sir or Madame?
And the lovely item that Master bought for my additional year of Life:
Lauren Landa Wisconsin Moonstone Hairpin
From Bona Drag. (click photo)
Posted: August 28, 2018 Filed under: Accessories, D/s Relationship | Tags: BDSM, beach, blanket, Crete, D/s, dievca, Gifts, Life, Master, ShopBop, Shopping, Summer, towel, travel
Πετσέτες : petseta-pestemali or makropetsa
Are the names for the towels woven on house-looms for housekeeping needs in Crete. Pesstemal for Turkish hamans, futah in France and Tunisia, sarong, kikoy, kangas, shukas…One towel for the World!
Master bought dievca a simply lovely one from the brand:
The link above will get you to the same company in Crete — but it might be easier….
ShopBop is offering a lightweight, woven Beach Blanket, too:
click on photo to purchase $50.00
Las Bayadas beach blanket detailed with colorful stripes.
Fabric: Lightweight weave.
40% cotton/30% acrylic/30% polyester.
Width: 80.25in / 204cm
Length: 70.5in / 179cm
Posted: April 21, 2018 Filed under: Home and Garden | Tags: D/s, dievca, Dominant, Elegant, Gifts, Housewarming, lamp, Life, Master, Museum of Modern Art, NYC, Relationships, Shopping, submissive, Valentine's Day
“I have not failed 700 times.
I have not failed once.
I have succeeded in proving that those 700 ways will not work.
When I have eliminated the ways that will not work,
I will find the way that will work.”
Shedding some light on the situation, Master bought His dievca the Block Lamp from MoMa.
(A Valentine’s Day + housewarming gift.)
Finnish designer Harri Koskinen was inspired by industrial glass bricks when he created the Block Lamp (1996), which is featured in the Museum’s collection. Two hand-cast glass blocks conceal a E14, 15-watt bulb within a matte sandblasted bulb shape, creating the illusion of a common light bulb encased in glass. This anniversary edition features a red woven cord and can be placed on a floor or table for ambient lighting.
(click here if you are interested in buying the lamp)
Posted: December 20, 2017 Filed under: Accessories | Tags: Barneys, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Eugenia Kim, fashion, Gifts, Lola Hats, NYC, Shopping, Slave, submissive, Winter, Wommelsdorff
NYC is getting colder and dievca is seeing chunky knit hats on the streets. Barneys seems to have a great selection if you need to pick-up a beautiful last-minute gift for the dievca in your Life.
Wommelsdorff, Eugenia Kim and Lola Hats (dievca’s pick down below).
Eugenia Kim Marley Wool Black
Lola Hats Hopscotch Alpaca Blend Blaze
Wommelsdorff Jenna Wool Gree
Eugenia Kim Marled Wool Coral
Wommelsdorff Allie Striped
Wommelsdorff Clint Beanie
Wommelsdorff Milou Striped Wool
Lola Hats Hopscotch Alpaca-Blend Beanie Grey
Wommelsdorff Jenna Wool Red
Wommelsdorff Bella Wool
Lola Hats Hopscotch Alpaca-Blend Fuschsia
Eugenia Kim Marley Wool Ivory
dievca tried on a bunch, but she like the Lola’s Hats Alpaca/Wool Blends:
Me – Lola Hats Hopscotch Pink
Me- Lola Hats Hopscotch orange
Her coat is this:
Army by Yves Salomon Anorak
Master and a good friend weighed in….which hat do you think won?
Posted: December 10, 2017 Filed under: Accessories, Home and Garden, Master | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dominant, Gifts, Holiday 2017, Life, Male, Shopping, submissive
Searching Gifts for the Men in your Life can be challenging. Here’s some options dievca ran across along the way. Ranging from $4 to $2750 — you might find something:
Remember Bass Weejun Penny Loafers? dievca found that the G.H. Bass website seemed to have the best options for small odds and ends. (click here for the G.H. Bass website)
The site is running a 20% off deal.
Eddie Bauer used to have some cool and useful gifts. Not as many, but a few inexpensive pieces and if you need some fleece/outerwear, they are a good source. (click here for the Eddie Bauer website)
The site is running 50% off everything.
dievca bought the Pistachio Pedestal for her brother who loves pistachio nuts. Uncommon Goods has some other nice options for gifts. (click her for the Uncommon Goods website)
The most expensive item on the list is from Bottega Veneta — a designer known for woven leather goods. This backpack comes in amazing colors and will cost you… (click here for the Bottega Veneta website)
Posted: August 30, 2017 Filed under: Accessories, Master, Shoes | Tags: D/s, dievca, Dominant, fashion, Gifts, Maison Martin Margiela, Master, Metropolitan Museum, NYC, Relationships, Shoe fetishism, Shopping, submissive, Tabi
A gift for the Sir or Madame who appreciates fashion.
dievca picked this up at the Met for her Master.
A small touch of Fashion insider knowledge –what is it?
A quirky leather bookmark inspired by Japanese footwear. Celebrating The Costume Institute exhibition Manus x Machina: Fashion in an Age of Technology at The Met, in which inventive creations by Maison Margiela were on view.
The cult fashion label expresses its creativity by recycling, transforming, and reinterpreting the quotidian in unexpected ways. The Tabi bookmark displays Maison Martin Margiela’s signature avant-garde sensibility. Handmade in France with the logo stamped in gold.
EDIT FROM OLIVIA KIM: “Always provocative and witty, Maison Martin Margiela accessories are fun and collectible. I love the Tabi bookmark, based on the insole from his iconic split-toe shoes. This is a perfect companion with the Manus x Machina exhibition catalog.”
And where does it come from?
The Footprint of the Iconic Tabi Boots –
A staple for Maison Margiela since A/W 1995-1996
dievca’s gift to Master for His last birthday. He reads, a lot.
Posted: May 6, 2017 Filed under: Clothing | Tags: Azzedine Alaia, BDSM, bondage, Bustier, Clothing, D/s, dievca, Dominant, Elegant, erotic, fashion, Gifts, Kink, Leather, Presentation Outfits, Shopping, Slave, submissive
STUNNING for presentation!
Available at Decades, Inc. for $2700
Posted: December 26, 2016 Filed under: Clothing, D/s Relationship, Master | Tags: BDSM, Belstaff, D/s, dievca, Dominant, fashion, Gifts, Life, Master, Relationships, Shopping, submissive
Belstaff Littlehurst Wool Cashmere Sweater
Blow, blow, thou winter wind
Thou art not so unkind
As man’s ingratitude;
Thy tooth is not so keen,
Because thou art not seen,
Although thy breath be rude.
Heigh-ho! sing, heigh-ho! unto the green holly:
Most friendship if feigning, most loving mere folly:
Then heigh-ho, the holly!
This life is most jolly.
Sears Metaphor Quilted Ponte Leggings
Freeze, freeze thou bitter sky,
That does not bite so nigh
As benefits forgot:
Though thou the waters warp,
Thy sting is not so sharp
As a friend remembered not.
Heigh-ho! sing, heigh-ho! unto the green holly:
Most friendship is feigning, most loving mere folly:
Then heigh-ho, the holly!
This life is most jolly.
Smartwool Popcorn Socks
Gap + Pendleton ballcap – blue plaid
Gap + Pendleton utility tote – blue plaid
Étoile Isabel Marant Anthracite Faux Fur Coat
Cougar Pillow Boot
Gap + Pendleton brushed wool scarf – blue plaid
Master’s Gifts are the Belstaff Sweater and Gap x Pendleton Blue Plaid Scarf
dievca isn’t wearing the scarf.
The other pieces are what dievca is wearing in the Midwest…..
Posted: December 20, 2016 Filed under: Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dominant, drumming, Gifts, Life, Master, sensation play, Shopping, submissive, Uncommon Goods
is a drummer.
Rhythms are kept at the dinner table with his fingers and when he really enjoys his meal, he hums.
I’m guessing he drums at work, too.
He has children.
Children always need access to pencils.
The perfect gift:
Drumstick Pencils Uncommon Goods $8.00 (click photo to purchase)
One gift down.
(OK, dievca knows that she mentioned children in this post…but wouldn’t those pencils be fun in the blindfold/tactile sensation BDSM sense? Hmmm, must tell Master.)
PS. dievca heard a really cool mash-up of Ravel’s Bolero and Little Drummer Boy at the Lesbian & Gay Big Apple Corps Symphonic Band concert, this year. It puts an interesting twist on two tedious favorites. Keep an ear out.
Posted: December 9, 2016 Filed under: Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dominant, Gifts, Holidays 2016, Kink, Life, Master, Shopping, Slave, submissive
dievca gets ready for the Holidays through out the year.
she starts on Dec. 26th.
dievca knows that other people don’t do that and that they don’t enjoy giving gifts as much as she does.
she thought she could help by offering some suggestions for things she thought were “cool” or “fun”:
ORU BAY folding Kayak $1575.00: (Showing your Trust/Bondage)
You never know when you need to cross a body of water…you will be ready!
This Is Ground – Venture Backpack $750 (Gorgeous for carrying BDSM “tools”)
Very handsome and the technical accessories are great, too.
The Land of Nod offers some fun pieces for kids(and Littles):
The S’more the Merrier Campfire Set
JellyCat Sloth and Crested Dog
Restoration Hardware Faux Fur Ushanka $41.00 (Sensation Play)
OK, it’s not so cold in NYC…but something fun for other parts of the country.
The rest of these items are from RESTORATION HARDWARE:
Wooly Plush animals including Unicorns, Elephants and dievca’s favorite — Hedgehogs. (For the Kids and Littles)
Folding Keyboard with Blue Tooth $30.00 (Communication)
Silver Screen Sleeping Mask $11.00 (Sensation Play)
Bike Repair Kit $10.00 (practical for dievca)
Locksmart mini keyless Bluetooth Padlock $69 (Bondage)
German Goggles $12 (STEAMPUNK cosplay)
Triple Beam Headlamp $14 (Doctor Fetish)
Wrist ruler $10 (Stingy Spanking)
Mobile “Foodie” Survival Kit $14.00 (Sensation play)
The Gentleman’s Deck $9.00 (Gentleman Dom)
Artist Notebooks (set of four) $10.00 (To Do list)
Edible Chemistry Set $9.00 (a gift for dievca – Sensation Play)
Children’s Card Games $8.00 (Kids and Littles)
Whatever you end up doing for the Holidays,
gifts – no gifts.
dievca is sending you wishes of No Stress and Joy. XO
Posted: November 17, 2016 Filed under: Accessories | Tags: BDSM, bondage, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Gifts, Hermès, Life, Master, Shopping, Slave, submissive
dievca is so sorry…..Holiday / Gift Giving Season is about to begin. she is here to offer you some elegant, yet, simple gifts from Hermès that might help with your Host/Hostess gifts or something for those Sirs and Madams who have everything.
Leather Pocket Screw
Leather Silver Pocket Cigar Cutter
Red & Green Rope Playing Cards
Red & Grey Playing Cards
Pelouse Chevre Zulu Coin Purse
Pelouse Chevre Zulu High Coin Purse
Jules Lambskin Pouch
Good Luck to you for the Season. XO
(All items were on Gilt.com, but may have sold out. Just some ideas.)