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A bit crabby this morning…

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Hope your day is better than dievca’s.


dievca always wanted an outdoor shower, she got it in NYC.

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Not super private (in more ways than one), but the view is fun and the water is warm!

Photo: dievca Hudson River, NYC 09/2022


A true fan’s pain…

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Throughout dievca’s Life there have been ups & downs as a Chicago Sports Fan.

This gentleman has dievca beat, but she feels his pain (click on the link to see the video)
The best are the comments:

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Assessing the Practicalities

Master has a check-up scheduled,
do you think this is how the conversation will go?


Look Closely…

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Coffee and Cock – this submissive’s Monday Morning Dream.


Well said…

“People who believe prettiness equals beauty do not understand beauty,” she continued. “Pretty is easy on the eyes, partly because it’s a little bland, inoffensive. It’s easy to take in and easy to forget. Not so beauty. Beauty can be sharp. It can wound you and leave a scar. To perceive beauty you have to be able to SEE.”

“This is why I believe we get more beautiful with age,” she added. “We have earned our beauty, we understand what it is, and we can see it so much better. There is no such thing as ugly and old. Only shortsighted and ignorant.” — Paulina Porizkova

dievca’s WaterWorks class is leaning towards geriatric…  she looks at the participants and sees her future.  The Ladies?   Amazing.  Some in their 60’s and 70’s, a couple in their 80’s — they are moving and absolutely beautiful, plus (even better) kind.  They ask about dievca’s knee, her work, talk to her about their lives.  They are engaged in the World.  All in Swimsuits.

And none of the class looks like this:

Paulina Pori

RickARoo777 is a moron. Paulina is looking amazing and, yes, better than her younger self because she has lived.


Customer Service – a rant (sorry)

poor-customer-experience-online-customer-serviceCustomer Service – a dievca’s unreasonable expectations….

dievca has been in PT for the past 2 months for her knee. It has been going well.  She has been “on time”, has not missed an appointment, has not rescheduled an appointment and does her prescribed work.

The Physical Therapist schedules out the Month and this month dievca’s appointments shifted from M and Th to M and F.  No problem.

dievca arrived yesterday did her session with the Physical Therapist then had to stop at the front desk because there was a problem with her credit card for the co-pay.   Throughout the 1.25 hours no one mentioned that they were canceling her scheduled Friday appointments.  She had a Voicemail to that effect that she received in the taxi after the session.  So, she called back in to determine what the problem was:

  • The Physical Therapist is no longer coming in on Fridays
  • The Thursday timeframe where dievca was normally scheduled is blocked out
  • The only open time is on Weds Noon which dievca cannot make
  • The scheduler made it seem like it was dievca’s fault she had to be put on a “waitlist”

dievca may be wrong but she feels:

  • These are things that should have been dealt with Face-to- Face. dievca was there at the office.
  • The larger schedule change (losing Fridays) should have started in October, not the middle of the current month.
  • If that couldn’t happen all appointments should have been rescheduled immediately when the changes occurred – not as a last minute reaction.
  • The customer (dievca) should not be made to feel that it was her fault that the schedule changed and then be told “well, you just have to go on the waitlist”.

Yes, dievca understands that schedules change. Yes, dievca understands that she is just another “number” and they obviously have enough “numbers’ to be flippant.

An “I’m Sorry” or an acknowledgement of poor scheduling would go a long way to making the irritation more palatable. If you expect your clients to show up and be on time, you have to be consistent in return.

dievca suspects this will bite them in the a** at some point because she cannot be the only person who is irritated and she is sure that this has happened a number of times.

You know – customer service is really important.

An aside: other places with terrible customer service Adidas, the RealReal and 1stDibs.  Places with GREAT CUSTOMER SERVICE – PayPal, Discover, Garnet Hill, MyTheresa


Laying low today~

black catdievca is a walking mess this morning. she went to the Chicago Cubs/New York Mets game last night and got home late. That lack of sleep has made this day slightly dangerous (almost got hit on the bike, hit a pothole, almost slammed by the elevator doors, tripped on some stairs, etc.) – so she is lying low. Taking it easy. Nothing is a rush. She will try again tomorrow.


Hah!

So Master dropped His dievca a note:

Re: Music.
 
Here’s an early 1980’s song that I really like: the essence of garage rock.

 
On the whole, I’m not a “pop” guy.
dievca – who attended College in the 80’s was a little confused…this song was on Airplay ALL the time. Isn’t that the definition of Pop (Popular) Music? smile

Silly Love Songs, etc…

Master laughs at His dievca’s music – she’s mentioned this previously.
she doesn’t understand why…
Who doesn’t like Cheesy Love Songs, 70’s Suave Grooves, 80’s Electronica, Classic Rock, Eurotrash?
Harumph!
Music should be — uhhh — accessible.
Right?
XO


Organic

dievca is finding that she is starting to furnish her apartment with softer, organic items. Perhaps to blunt the edge of the City. The newest addition is the large Candle from Anthropologie ($178 on sale for $49.99).

  • Mangowood Table – Miami, FL
  • Felt Plant Holders used as Storage from Aveva – Malmö, Sweden
  • Pillow from ConcreteWall – Norway
  • Amber Lewis for Anthropologie large Candle – Made in Vietnam

First Day of School

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It’s the First Day of School here in NYC.
Kids are either celebrating or bemoaning their fate.
Maybe the Teachers are, too~

Halloween is coming up soon – a little Cosplay “Hot for Teacher” anyone?

PS. Does anyone have Van Halen’s “Hot for Teacher” in their head?


Needed a moment (again) to regroup

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A long weekend – a college friend has chosen not to operate on their cancer due to quality of Life and has five years. This is where you find out what speaks to you in Life and you do it.

Photo: Vivienne Westwood Lingerie BDSM

Still traveling:


Enjoy the Holiday

What does Labor mean in the United States?
Where are we?
Where are we going?


The Workhorses

Older, Extending, Taking extra weight.
These feet are the workhorses of dievca’s body.

Honestly, after sitting next to six Men
In a Hell’s Kitchen Nail Salon
dievca’s feet look amazing for half a century + ~

OPI Cajun Shrimp on the Toes


As Summer Fades

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The humidity drops
Temperatures cool

Why do I find myself sad after all the uncomfortable misery?

Photo: dievca – Hudson River NYC 08/2022


Need a Moment, Wednesday

Today wasn’t planned this way – but this is what/when you:

Need a Moment
Close Friend’s 20-Something has cancer and surgery within 24 hours.

When it’s your older brother who smoked cigars and Stage 2 – expected.
Young Adult, not expected.
Need a minute.


Wholesome on a Monday


Just something sweet to start your week. XO


Peaceful on a Sunday morning~

20220828_063548The tide and ships roll in.

Master always says he would never get anything done working in my apartment –
he would be too busy watching the World roll by.

Photo: dievca – Hudson River NYC 08/2022


Do they ever get mixed? An Edible

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Is there such a thing as a Weed FroYo Milkshake?

(Photo: dievca – Times Square NYC)


“Cicadas.”

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Finally, after nine years
of snouting through darkness
he inches up scarred bark
and cuts loose the yammer of desire:

the piercing one note of a jackhammer,
vibrating like a slow bolt of lightning
splitting the air
and leaving a smell like burnt tar paper.

Now it says Now it says Now
clinging with six clawed legs
and close by, a she like a withered ear,
a shed leaf brown and veined,
shivers in sync and moves closer.

This is it, time is short, death is near, but first,
first, first, first
in the hot sun, searing all day long
in a month that has no name:

this annoying noise of love. This maddening racket.
This – admit it – song.

Poem: Margaret Atwood

Photo: Wil Hershberger, Annual Cicada Emergent
Swamp Cicada, Tibicen chloromea, sheeding
the last juvenile exoskeleton and emerging as an adult. Princeton, New Jersy, USA.


Not my obligation

AnnoyedJust because you want me to help you with your Work Orphans
does not mean I am obligated to do it.
Please stop asking.

dievca works with an 82 year old colleague who is doing well,
but is starting to ask for too much assistance for sh*t clients
and is getting demanding about it.

Its not a matter of money, its time.

dievca will give assistance to Age,
but not interested in holding them up.


Feeling the End of Summer

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End of Summer:
Long, curly hair with gold amongst the silver from the sun and chlorine.
Toasty brown skin moisturized via suntan lotion and aloe.
Give it a month or two and it will be back to a blown dry bob under a hat.
Fair skin refinished with retinol and heavier UV protection.

This is the first summer in years where dieca’s healing situation has allowed her to revert back to childhood behaviors of Sun, Swim, Play (PT) and Laziness. It’s been a gift she will treasure.

How was/is your Summer?


Recombobulation

John was bck from extended leave, but he hadn't quite got in the swing of things yet.

dievca is working this Saturday – just a little bit… she’ll be going full blast in September and expects to be a little discombobulated.

She’ll need this in her Life:

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Here’s what it means:

Recombobulation


Looking for Lingerie

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Your Master/Mistress has arrived home from a long trip —
you’re digging frantically for something fabulous!

Then you realize that you have to work, run to Physical Therapy
and immediately afterward ride your bike uptown.

What can you get away with in that scenario?

Something practical that makes your Sir or Madam smile
(and pack your lingerie incase you get lucky with a shower):

Outdoor Voices Exercise Dress

Outdoor Voices Exercise Dress $100


Swim : dievca & Waterworks (she wishes)

Photographed by Francesco Scavullo
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Debbie Dickinson
Vogue, May 1977




red sheets

red sheetsAfter dievca finished her call with Master, she was inspired to masturbate.

dievca gathered the yellow banana and double prong vibrators, along with a towel, lube, anal plug, black hood and cock gag.

she lay the towel down on her bed hanging over one side in case she squirted, and set the vibrators to the right.  Stepping into the bathroom she washed her hands after moistening her pussy and anus with lube then inserting the anal plug.

Arriving back in the bedroom, dievca stood next to the bed to put on the hood and opened her mouth to insert the cock gag. she leaned over the side of the bed, spread-eagling her legs.

dievca then felt her way to the vibrators, picked-up the yellow banana, turned it on low and used the tip to spread the lube on her clit. Afterward, the banana easily slipped into her pussy . dievca patted the bed to find the double prong vibrator with her other hand and turned it on to the medium setting. With one hand holding the banana inside her pussy, dievca use the other vibrator to tease her clitoris, while imagining that Master’s Cock was in her mouth.

The bent over position, images of Master’s Cock, and vibrators took dievca to that glorious EDGE of arousal but not quite orgasm. dievca sat on that edge of pleasure, squeezing her pussy and clenching her asshole. After about three minutes, she increased both vibrator’s intensity and flowed into a fog of Master’s presence. Riding that edge for another two minutes – dievca orgasmed HARD and found that she had drooled all over the cock gag and hood.

Not quite as good as serving her Master – but a lovely start to the week.

(why “red sheets”? the submissive in the photo is built like dievca)


Coffee and a chat with Master

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Master has been traveling for about 4 weeks — dievca caught up with Him this morning. 

Might require a masturbation moment.