Missing Master
Posted: August 8, 2020 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Submission | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dominance and submission, erotic, Life, Master, Sexy, Slave Leave a comment
A 🍑 plan for your Sir or Madame
Posted: August 6, 2020 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden, lingerie | Tags: Ass, baking, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Life, Love, Master, Peach Butt, submissive, Summer Leave a comment
dievca’s plan to be a feast for the eyes and the tummy came to fruition, last week.
she offered up her peaches to her Master. Perhaps you might be interested, too.
First up was the ICONE VeraCruz lingerie set:
Followed by a peach bottom:
Finishing with fresh-baked peach crisp:
Click photo for recipe
A fitting Summer send off for your Sir or Madame!
dievca’s Master loved it.
Not Quite – but very nice, indeed.
Posted: August 5, 2020 Filed under: Collars, Jewelry | Tags: BDSM, bondage, Collier, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Kink, Master, Shopping, Slave, submissive Leave a commentdievca is still on the hunt for Chrissie Hynde’s Collar.
In the meantime, this BLUE NILE sterling silver padlock necklace can add a hint of BDSM to one’s daily Life.
This edgy, BLUE NILE, sterling silver necklace has a working padlock that functions as the clasp.
Wear it layered or on its own, this necklace is a fun and stylish flair in your wardrobe.
Metal
Sterling Silver
Chain Length
18.0 inches
Width
1/4 inch
Approximate Weight
29.03 grams
MSRP $195.00
Who’s that Lady?
Posted: July 19, 2020 Filed under: Entertainment | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Life, Love, Mamie van Dorn, Master, music, submissive Leave a comment
or maybe you prefer the original
What type of Sex Bomb are you? (click)
PS. The lady is Mamie van Doren
Aftercare = whole body and mind care
Posted: July 17, 2020 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Discussion, Entertainment | Tags: ball gag, BDSM, body, bondage, D/s, dievca, Dominant, health benefits, Life, Love, Master, submissive Leave a comment
A graphic of a BDSM ‘win-win’!
Sexually active older adults tend to have less inflammation
and, in turn, a higher quality of life, suggests a recent Journal of Sexual Medicine study.
Avocados are a great source of healthy monounsaturated fat and antioxidants,
which can dampen your body’s inflammatory response.
In fact, the anti-inflammatory properties of avocados are so strong
that they may actually offset less healthy food choices.
Master and His dievca are catching up for a little playtime and lunch today.
They’ve been sharing a Lenwich Vegetarian sandwich during aftercare:
Photo from Lenwich Instagram
Avocado,
Green Leaf Lettuce,
Tomato,
Carrot,
Cucumber,
Alfalfa Sprouts,
Shredded Red Cabbage,
Sweet Peppers,
Honey Mustard
Aftercare = whole body and mind care
Reaping the benefits of a Quarantine
Posted: July 14, 2020 Filed under: Analysis, Body Type, submissive | Tags: BDSM, body awareness, COVID-19, cycling, D/s, dievca, healing, Health, Life, Master, NYC, submissive Leave a comment
Have you gained anything positive from the Quarantine?
We know the bad news:
People have died. People have been very ill, lost jobs, been furloughed.
Businesses closed, economies collapsing.
Loneliness. Depression.
Has anything positive happened?
CO2 emissions dropped.
Wildlife came back to heavily used and populated spaces. One can hear the birds chirping at 4:30 am in NYC.
Some businesses which were on the verge of collapse received a reprieve with Federal Aid or were able to file for bankruptcy in a less messy manner.
In NYC, Animal Shelters had most of their animals adopted.
Some Family and Friends grew closer than they ever expected.
dievca’s body has been healing.
Yes, there are age issues and lurking injuries that won’t disappear, but their impact has lessened – immensely.
dievca has been able to assess, have the time to fix and strengthen her body.
The time in quarantine has been a godsend to dievca and she feels a bit guilty about it. Catholic guilt.
Well – with dievca’s healing – she’s dusted off her road bike and has started cycling Central Park with Master.
Joyce Barry Australian Cyclist
dievca’s bike was in storage, but the other ‘bits and bobs’ had to be bought
(click photos for brands):
If you want to know why dievca bought certain items – just ask.
Bits and Pieces
Posted: July 11, 2020 Filed under: Collars, D/s Relationship | Tags: BDSM, bondage, D/s, dievca, Dominance and submission, Fleet Ilya, Life, Love, Master, submissive Leave a comment
The remnants of Master and dievca’s Power Exchange bring a sense of peace.
Photos: dievca, Fleet Ilya collar with silver curb chain lead
What Macy’s is doing with their Fireworks~
Posted: July 1, 2020 Filed under: Entertainment, Neighborhood Anecdotes (NYC) | Tags: 4th of July, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Fireworks, Life, Love, Master, NYC, photo, submissive, Summer Leave a comment
Getting the Party Started! (a slideshow)
dievca had the unexpected pleasure of looking out of her window to see two Macy’s barges offering a personal Fireworks display. she and Master had a conversation about the fireworks just that afternoon – Master thought they would cancel it all. dievca thought that the fireworks needed to be used and wasn’t sure of a solution.
Apparently, the Macy’s barges will be offering fireworks around the city along the Hudson and East Rivers (Harlem River?) in smaller and more personal displays. An absolutely lovely and elegant solution for limiting the crowds, yet still bringing Joy to NYC.
Photos: dievca Hudson River 06/2020
Happy Social Media Day!
Posted: June 30, 2020 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Discussion, Entertainment | Tags: BDSM, Blogging, D/s, dievca, Humor, Life, Love, Master, Relationships, Social Media Day, submissive Leave a commentDid dievca tell you, “Thank You” for coming on her ride?
Thank you.
Social Media Day is observed annually on June 30th. In its short life, social media has redefined how people interact, communicate, and share with family, friends, and the world. With the launch of Friendster in 2002 and MySpace in 2003, social media had become mainstream.
In its most basic sense, social media is a shift in how people discover, read, and share news, information, and content. Technologies include blogs, picture-sharing, vlogs, wall-postings, email, instant messaging, music-sharing, crowdsourcing, and voice over IP, to name a few.
And Master has never minded that dievca has shared pieces of their Life on the blog.
Simple, direct
Posted: June 24, 2020 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Submission | Tags: BDSM, cock worship, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Master, Sexy, submissive Leave a comment
Exactly where your Sir wants you to be
Desperate for a Dress
Posted: June 14, 2020 Filed under: Dresses, submissive | Tags: cotton, COVID-19, D/s, dievca, ladylike, Life, Master, Presentation Outfits, Shopping, Summer, sunbathing Leave a commentAnd the Sun…
It’s hard to wear a dress when biking up to Master’s place,
but dievca is getting sick of practical athletic shorts and pants.
she did a little summer splurging on the MatchesFashion.com sales pages:
Rhode Jasmine Floral shirred cotton mini dress
Merlette Tuileries white cotton drawstring Dress
Etro Fantasy Print red side-tie Bikini
Should work out with the RE/done upcycled Levi’s denim mask:
Master triggered the start of a Fantasy
Posted: June 13, 2020 Filed under: Entertainment, Musings | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dominance and submission, Dominant, erotic, Fantasy, Kink, Life, Master, outdoors, Sex, Spring, submissive Leave a comment
Anita Ekberg La Dolce Vita Trevi Fountain
Master told His dievca a story about D/s in the outdoors.
Anita Ekberg and Marcello Mastroianni – La Dolce Vita
Thoughts floated around in her head for a while and she fixated on the fountains around NYC.
dievca doesn’t know where her fantasy may go during nighttime dreaming, but her practical side has acknowledged the logistical nightmare D/s play in a NYC fountain might offer: dirty water, too many people, temperature, slipping, clothing – or lack of, legalities, voyeurs – might be a bonus, etc.
Maybe the Hamilton Fountain in Riverside Park — ok, it’s a horse trough.
Let’s see what dievca dreams up this evening.
Might be fabulous – might be a dievca disaster…
shine on (lingerie)
Posted: June 11, 2020 Filed under: lingerie, Poetry | Tags: BDSM, cock worship, D/s, dievca, erotic, Master, music, Only Hearts, Pink Floyd, Presentation Outfits, Sequins, submissive, Undergarments 3 CommentsClick here to set the mood: David Gilmour – Shine On You Crazy Diamond (Live At Pompeii)
drift out softly
bare feet silent
sink to your knees
grasp Master gently
close your eyes
worship to the music
Only Hearts ‘shine on’ lingerie
BDSM breakfast service
Posted: June 5, 2020 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Submission | Tags: BDSM, bondage, coffee, D/s, dievca, Master, service, Slave, submissive Leave a comment
Morning coffee for your Sir or Madam.
(dievca’s service will begin at 8 am)
Let’s take a drive
Posted: May 31, 2020 Filed under: D/s Relationship | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Life, Master, NYC, submissive Leave a comment
Out of the City
Up the Interstate
No panties to hold the wet
A place to park
Private and green
Somewhere to pet and suck
Stockings remain
Climax on the hood
The perfect Sunday drive
Restraints
Posted: May 23, 2020 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Musings | Tags: BDSM, bondage, D/s, dievca, erotic, Kink, Life, Love, Master, Submission Leave a comment
If you are tied up, anything can happen. Even if nothing happens beyond kissing, the physical nature of being bound heightens everything. 
With extra time on hand, dievca took a BDSM test for giggles (www.bdsmtest.org) – her results are above. she was taken aback by “Rope Bunny” being the highest percentage – especially since rope bondage (shibari) is really not one of her or Master’s interests.
she’s been pondering the high percentage ever since.
The aha! moment came yesterday after meeting and playing with Master. Master created various cuff and strap connections during play, in response dievca switched submissive and moved all in.
Master asked her about being restrained afterward and she had a hard time verbalizing exactly why she is able to let go fully.
The gist is that dievca isn’t interested in full bondage for beauty or complete limitation of movement.
she is interested in being restrained to place full trust in Master and take away control from pieces of her body to focus fully on Master and other bodily responses. The energy from the restraints can be pushed elsewhere.
Does that make sense?
The way to look professional in a Mask.
Posted: May 12, 2020 Filed under: Accessories, Entertainment | Tags: BDSM, COVID-19, D/s, dievca, Elegant, fashion, Life, Mask, Master, Nili Lotan, relief efforts, Shopping, submissive, Vida Leave a comment
President of Slovakia, Zuzana Caputova – rocking her new color-coordinated accessory, the COVID-19 mask.
dievca didn’t follow the matching vision from Slovakia….
she just bought a black mask for Master and the checkered for herself:
Maybe she’ll collect her sewing machine at her Mother’s and start color coordinating.
VIDA masks – click photo to purchase
10% of profits from the masks will be donated to SF-Marin Food Bank and Food Bank NYC.
This Protective Mask is made of 2 layers of 100% cotton, easily adapts to different sizes with adjustable straps, and features an integrated metal nose-piece to ensure a snug fit. Each mask comes with a multi-layer PM2.5 Filter featuring 2 layers of Meltblown Filter and 1 layer of Carbon Activated Fabric. Filters should be replaced every 7 days.
You can buy a 5 pack of the filters, designed to effectively block airborne contaminants.
Fits adults and kids ages 5 and up.
dievca also bought some simple spare masks from Nili Lotan:
Nili Lotan Face Masks – click photo to purchase
100% of proceeds go to NYU Langone.
All purchases of NL Face Masks help keep their employees working while contributing to the well-being of some of New York’s most vital essential workers.
It’s been a long time…
Posted: May 1, 2020 Filed under: Body Type, Disasters, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, body hair, COVID-19, D/s, dievca, erotic, Humor, Life, Master, shaving, submissive, waxing 5 Comments
and dievca is out of practice.
Not really a problem in D/s
Posted: April 29, 2020 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Musings | Tags: 1950's Household Kink, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dominant, erotic, Kink, Love, Master, Slave, submissive 3 Comments
People always talk about Trust in a BDSM relationship.
Communication.
If it works well, the embarrassment factor of any activity disappears.
Your Sir or Madam has seen or will see all realms of awkwardness if you are adventurous.
Sexually or just within the Power Exchange.
The good news is with Trust you will look at your Dominant or submissive and think,
“Oh-Yes, I want to do that again!”
Master has been productive, dievca hasn’t
Posted: April 28, 2020 Filed under: Analysis, submissive | Tags: BDSM, Blogging, burnout, D/s, dievca, Humor, Life, Master 1 Comment
Granted dievca has had a lot on her mind and in her Life — and its effect on writing shows.
she might take a little break OR NOT because she knows if she stops – she won’t come back.
Well, something to think about other than her Mother. XO
Comics from Writer's Digest 1952
Finding Sexy, again.
Posted: April 21, 2020 Filed under: Dresses, submissive | Tags: BDSM, COVID-19, D/s, dievca, Dominance and submission, Elegant, fashion, Life, Master, Presentation Outfits Leave a comment
WFH – takes a chunk out of your sexiness factor.
dievca’s digging through her closet for a great dress.
Master might be surprised after her biking attire.
Have you dressed up lately? Just to get the fires going?
Might be time to try it.
XO
stream of consciousness “Orange Whip”🍊 to (something of use)🍍
Posted: April 17, 2020 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden, Musings | Tags: BDSM, body odor, D/s, dessert, dievca, Disney, erotic, Humor, Life, Love, Master, Orgasm, recipe, Sex, submissive Leave a commentIt all started with the movie, Blues Brothers, and this scene:
How do you make an Orange Whip?
That photo prompted the thought that a Pineapple Whip might be a better choice sexually – why?
Yes, ladies — and men too, for that matter — drinking a good-sized glass of pineapple juice a couple of hours before the deed can help make your bodily fluids taste and even smell better. Fruits, in general, are good because they contain acids and sugars. May 31, 2005 NBC News
Does pineapple make your VAG sweeter?
Pineapple and citrus fruits are associated with a sweeter taste, Schmit said. … The result: Participants whose partners ate 200 grams of pineapple a day reported that the pineapple eaters did, in fact, taste sweeter. According to Schmit, vegan and vegetarian diets could also lead to a sweeter taste. Jul 12, 2016
How long after eating pineapple will you taste better?
“It doesn’t seem to matter whether the pineapple is fresh, canned or juiced,” Helmenstine explains. “The effect is not noticeable immediately after eating a few bites of pineapple. Most respondents saw a definite effect after eating pineapple for several days. Jul 10, 2018
Hmmm~so a Pineapple Whip rather than an Orange Whip
Disney’s Dole Whip was introduced to the Walt Disney World and Disneyland resorts in 1986, the pineapple soft serve has achieved a beloved status.
Disney Dole Whip Recipe
Dole Whip Ingredients:
- 1 scoop of vanilla ice cream
- 4 ounces of pineapple juice
- 2 cups of frozen pineapple
How to Make a Dole Whip:
Add all 3 ingredients to a blender, and blend it until it’s smooth. You can serve it as-is, but Disney suggests putting the blended mixture into a piping bag and piping a swirl into your bowl for the soft-serve look. Top with a cocktail umbrella for an extra tropical touch.
Something of use – a dose of Pineapple for you and your partner – a lovely treat!
Stop and smell the flowers – update.
Posted: April 4, 2020 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Entertainment, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, COVID-19, D/s, dievca, elderly parents, Family, Life, Love, Master, music, NYC, photo, submissive 2 Comments
A pretty sight, right? The pink flowers match the lingerie from yesterday. dievca didn’t get a photo of the flowers before the post. Here’s the order of activities:
- A two-CD mix made for dievca’s Mother took a full day to source and collect songs, then find a burner for the CD’s. Her Dad is failing badly, so she asked the Caregivers to play the music from “Carmen Jones” and “Das Boot” via YouTube on the tablet for expedience. The CD’s are for the stereo – both of dievca’s parents are going deaf.
- The next day after work, dievca took a 1.5-hour walk around the City – to get out of the apartment. The wind was brutal-you can see the birds fighting the chop on the Hudson River. she found one place to walk up to buy coffee – it was a treat tasting a different flavor than her coffee.
- The 3rd day, dievca biked up the Hudson River Park trail in the rain to get to Master. Master’s windows offered an elegant view of two Magnolia trees in bloom.
And she shared dinner and wine with Master after a little D/s play.
If dievca’s Dad dies – she won’t be able to get to her mother for the funeral. There is a two-week quarantine for New Yorkers heading out of State via air travel. dievca hasn’t been sick, but she would prefer to be careful. Understandably, as dievca’s Mom wouldn’t make it through a bout of COVID-19 under Hospice care.
Photos: dievca 04/2020 NYC - graphic from a good friend.
PB&J Day is April 2nd
Posted: April 2, 2020 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden | Tags: aftercare, BDSM, celebration, chocolate, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Food, Life, Love, Master, submissive Leave a comment
Celebrate with
Peanut Butter and Jelly in dark chocolate.
Just enough for a Sweet Tooth.
dievca and Master love these bars for a sweet treat during aftercare.
Click the photo above to buy the bars.
The Original Lunchtime Dessert
A surprisingly delicate central texture of crispy peanut praline and sweet raspberry påte de fruit sandwiched between layers of 72% dark chocolate.
Bite by bite, these carefully positioned ingredients merge into the exquisite one-of-a-kind mouth feel that has come to define this signature creation.
From the Chef: Jean-François’ love affair with PB&J began at the age of fourteen when he spent several months in the United States as a foreign exchange student. One of the first American foods he tried was a peanut butter and jelly sandwich. In France, peanuts are only consumed with pastis, or small alcoholic beverages served before meals so he was relatively unfamiliar with the flavor. Jean-François enjoyed PB&J’s so much that when he returned to France he found a British supermarket that carried white bread so he could continue eating them at home.
Fade Into You – where do you go?
Posted: March 29, 2020 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Home and Garden, submissive | Tags: BDSM, behavior, comfort, COVID-19, D/s, dievca, habits, Life, Master, Submission Leave a commentWhere do you go when the World gets a little crazy?
What habits, activities, processes happen?
dievca is still working, but when she has a chunk of open time after wiping down the refrigerator….three things may occur:
-
- The vintage 1990’s Champion Sweats appear, cosy and worn in
- Alexa plays Classic Cassette Era Rock, 1970’s Pop, 1980’s New Wave, 1990’s Alternative
- dievca’s nose gets stuck in a Sci-Fi / Fantasy novel
Master just laughs at His dievca when she hides from the World – He knows she’ll come back to Reality with Him.
But Master isn’t here and dievca has slipped into her 90’s Alternative Universe with Mazzy Star. Yes, she has her Champion Reverseweave Sweatshirt on:
What do you do to slip away?
Mazzy Star – Fade Into You – 10/2/1994 – Shoreline Amphitheatre (Official)
Fade Into You
Mazzy Star
I wanna hold the hand inside you
I wanna take the breath that’s true
I look to you and I see nothing
I look to you to see the truth
You live your life, you go in shadow
You’ll come upon and you’ll go black
Some kind of night into your darkness
Close your eyes with what’s not there
Fade into you
Strange you never knew
Fade into you
I think it’s strange you never knew
The strange light comes on slowly
A stranger’s heart is out of home
You put your hands into your head
And your smiles cover your heart
Songwriters: David Roback / Hope Sandoval
Master’s ‘helping hand’
Posted: March 25, 2020 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden | Tags: 1950's Household Kink, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Gil Elvgren, Life, Master, Pin Up Girl, Spring Cleaning, submissive Leave a comment
By Gil Elvgren
Master asked for help with Spring Cleaning.
Now is the time to do it.
Anyone else deep cleaning during this ‘pause’?
How about in the nude?
XO
Lingerie: Sexier On? Or Sexier Off?
Posted: March 19, 2020 Filed under: lingerie, Musings | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Life, Master, nude, Presentation Outfits, submissive, Undergarments 6 Comments
Master prefers ‘On’.
Which do you prefer?
Keeping it simple on Saint Patrick’s Day☘
Posted: March 17, 2020 Filed under: lingerie | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Life, Love, Master, Presentation Outfits, St. Patrick's Day, submissive Leave a comment
Moss Bridge in Ireland
Else Bare Sporty lingerie Moss green
———————————————————————————–Pubs aren’t open – no parade,
but fun can still be had on
Saint Patrick’s Day!
dievca’s presentation plan:
Reality VS D/s (bras)
Posted: March 6, 2020 Filed under: Clothing, lingerie | Tags: BDSM, Bra, D/s, daily wear, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Humor, Life, Master, Presentation Outfits, Sexy, submissive 3 Comments
“I ain’t exactly the Fleur du Mal or Agent Provocateur type. I like a friendly bra, not one that intimidates.”
dievca read a great article about how long you should keep your bras. It made her laugh.
Throw Out Your Bra, Already
An intimate look at our worst intimates.
(click top line for the link to the article)
dievca’s daily favorite bra?
Wolford teal bra 2011
Master’s favorite bra:
Black Satin Corset
Not quite comfortable for daily use. 😘
Wearing a Man’s shirt (a dievca disaster)
Posted: March 1, 2020 Filed under: Disasters, submissive | Tags: BDSM, cock worship, D/s, dievca, Humor, Life, Love, Master, masturbation, Men's Clothing, perimenopause, practical, submissive Leave a comment
dievca looked great upon arrival to Master’s (see below).
Too bad she forgot the food and presentation lingerie…
she did remember a collar, vibrator (shmoo), anal plug, penis gag, and hood.
Priorities? Or perimenopause….
dievca asked Master for one of His button-down dress shirts
she rinsed off, inserted the anal plug, put on Master’s Collar, added lipstick, buttoned the shirt up over her naked body and sauntered out to the living room.
she then asked Master if He would be willing to watch His dievca masturbate on the chair across the room. Master was game.
dievca unbuttoned the top of the shirt to give a hint of cleavage, lifted the hem and draped a leg over the arm of the chair to give Master a clear view of her pussy. Master smiled as she broke out the shmoo and placed it on her clit.
Something was missing.
dievca strapped the penis gag to her mouth and explained to Master that she would like to imagine she was sucking Master’s Cock as she masturbated. Master’s Cock grew large as He watched His dievca.
Something was still wrong.
dievca took off the penis gag and asked Master if He would be willing to allow dievca to suck His Cock instead of watching. He agreed.
A ‘performance’ is fun, but audience participation is much more exciting.
And Master’s shirt was an excellent piece of Lingerie, dievca doesn’t understand why people think it is demeaning to wear a Man’s shirt….
Racked Article:
Do Women Actually Wear Men’s Dress Shirts After Sex?
Where does this trope come from, what does it mean, and does anyone really do it?
dievca’s arrival outfit for a cold blustery day:
