Ladylike

graceful, polite, and behaving in a way that is thought to be socially acceptable for a woman:.

In dress, it is controlled, elegant, classic and conservative:

Master’s favorite look.

dievca has gotten away from it. The process takes time and patience. A consistency of body-size.

Worrying about elderly parents, travel, aging takes its toll. A general tendency towards quirky and downtown chic pulls dievca when given a choice to spend money on clothing…
Master does like to see His dievca in her downtown chic plumage, but D/s-wise He prefers “ladylike”.

Why does this matter?

dievca has been clearing and revamping her closet – she’s sold a great deal on the RealReal, eBay and at Buffalo Exchange. Her money has not gone towards any ladylike items…

she’s gone more practical, focusing on items that she desired during the past year, which went on sale:

Sies Marjan Bessie Alpaca Coat

I.am.Gia black cargo pants

Sies Marjan Parker Sweater Purple

Sies Marjan Parker Sweater Orange

Sosken Greta Faux Patent Rain Jacket

Ports 1961 Mulit-Lace Sneakers

Alexander Wang Attica Soft Shoulder Bag

Dagne Dover 365 Dakota Medium Neoprene Backpack Dark Moss

I.am.Gia Cobain Pants

she will have to ask Master how He feels about her negligence of ladylike dressing. He is entertained by her eclectic closet and He knows her focus has been on Family/Life items.

The luxury of being “Ladylike” will just have to wait until dievca can refocus.