If you are wishing for a Unicorn

Definition 1 of Unicorn related to the BDSM Lifestyle:
There’s a term nearly everybody in the Swinger world, the BDSM world, and the Polyamorous world is familiar with, summarized in one neat, pretty, sparkly mental image of one word: Unicorn. On the surface it’s a simple term, relating to the mythical creature of lore that is rumored to exist but is nearly impossible to find. Furthermore, once found, it’s nearly impossible to keep, for, after all, nobody can really own a unicorn. (credit absinthepassion.wordpress.com )

Definition 2:
Colloquial; Synonym for hot or Bi babe or HBB, often derogatory, condescending, or ironic. A bisexual person usually though not always female, who is willing to join an existing couple, often with the presumption that this person will date and become sexually involved with both members of that couple, and not demand anything or do anything which might cause problems or inconvenience to that couple.

The term is often used to be dismissive of a couple seen to be only superficially polyamorous. Because of the demands that this type of couple places on the woman (that she be single and not take on any additional partners, and become involved with both members of the couple equally, and often “complete” their family as a surrogate mother and housekeeper and/or breadwinner and not do anything that may threaten or disrupt the existing couple), many in the poly community call this type of woman a ‘Unicorn’, as in mythical and not likely to be found, even though there are plenty of bi-poly women around.

Sometimes the unicorn is expected to not develop any emotional attachment and is strictly there for a sexual relationship (equally distributed to both members of the dyad) and/or is prescripted as a secondary. This term is used as a reminder that bi-poly women are people with their own desires, needs, and pre-existing lives, and not fantasy figures or pets.
(credit Urban dictionary.com).

If you are looking for a Unicorn buying this Pouch might be a great deal easier.
And it is a lovely item for the Little in your life. XO

Opening Ceremony UNDERCOVER Unicorn Pouch
Printed leather front
White leather back
Zip back closure
On sale for $60 with further discounts available
Opening Ceremony is closing their stores and temporarily closing their website. The sale is quite good.


What part of “no”….

These will make someone happy, out there….just not dievca.

Opening Ceremony and Birkenstock Collaboration (click the photo)

PS. Men’s sizes available.


Took a moment…..

I wouldn’t say “shocked”, just caught off-guard when I saw this t-shirt.

Eric Schlösberg Tee Opening Ceremony $275 (click on photo to purchase)

I love to swallow, but the phrase and the price?

Too hard to swallow.


Racing Along~

dievca’s ‘hood.
The one new subway stop that is relatively clean and empty in NYC.

She’ll be seeing this New York City Ballet piece, next week, at the recommendation of a friend.
Cheap seats, sitting high and by herself. If she waits to schedule with someone, it might not get done and she really trusts this friend when it comes to dance performances.

The Times Are Racing, Justin Peck – Ensemble

dievca finds it interesting how ballet companies are working to bring contemporary pieces to the masses via music, costumes and choreography, while Opera seems stagnant. (but, dievca is not an aficionado of opera.)

Speaking of costumes — they were designed by Opening Ceremony.  Yes, dievca has a couple of pieces.

Justine Clenquet x Opening Ceremony

Justine Clenquet x Opening Ceremony Joe Hoops

Opening Ceremony Turtleneck See-thru Bodysuit, black with purple


BDSM mynx wearing her Sir’s O-ring on her mini-Lynx

Opening Ceremony Mini Lynx Ink

Opening Ceremony Mini Lynx Ink close-up

Opening Ceremony Mini Lynx Ink top view

Opening Ceremony
mini-Lynx
Crossbody Bag
in Ink
$495.00


Subtle BDSM

  • Stamped logo at handle.
  • Polished silvertone hardware.
  • Lined with logo-jacquard fabric. Slip pocket at interior.
  • Flat leather round handles. Detachable, adjustable flat leather strap.
  • Top zip closure.
  • 6″ height x 7″ width x 4″ depth (approximately).
  • 2″ handle drop, 21″ to 23″ strap drop (approximately).