Silly Love Songs, etc…Posted: September 10, 2022 Filed under: Discussion, Entertainment, Master | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Life, Love, love songs, Master, music gendre, Opinion, Paul McCartney Wings Leave a comment
Master laughs at His dievca’s music – she’s mentioned this previously.
she doesn’t understand why…
Who doesn’t like Cheesy Love Songs, 70’s Suave Grooves, 80’s Electronica, Classic Rock, Eurotrash?
Music should be — uhhh — accessible.
Harness Me~Posted: November 19, 2020 Filed under: lingerie | Tags: BDSM, collar, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Fetish, harness, Opinion, Sexy, Shopping, Slave, submissive, Undergarments 2 Comments
Often times a leather or chain body harness connects to a Collar:
A recent trend in lingerie is to have the neck harness as a part of the lingerie, itself.
What do you think?
dievca prefers her Master’s Collar.
Musing about Learning to Fail (or not)Posted: February 26, 2020 Filed under: Musings | Tags: 1980s USA Olympic Hockey Team, BDSM, D/s, dievca, failure, Life, old age, Opinion, submissive, success 1 Comment
Did you get the sh*t kicked out of you growing up?
Not literally, figuratively?
Did you fail?
Are you a better person for it or are you bitter?
Or are you from an ‘Everyone Gets a Trophy’ generation?
It started when dievca was thinking about Generation Z, Millenials, the Greatest Generation, and World War II. Her feeling is that we couldn’t drop everything and make a united effort to save the country. But the current World and warfare are different and require different skills – so maybe it would work out.
dievca moved on to pondering failing and recovery.
Midori Ito offers an excellent example of something going to sh*t and picking yourself up to keep going. Click the GIF and a link will take you to the better quality video.
dievca rewatched the movie Miracle to celebrate the 40th Anniversary of the 1980 USA Olympic Hockey Team winning Gold.
This flowed into thinking about the 1980’s Olympics (dievca went to watch) and she saw athletes, including hockey players, training hard. What about the people who didn’t make it through to the Olympics. What about the last two players who got cut from the 1980 USA Olympic Hockey team? Herb Brooks got cut from the 1960’s Olympics, he came back as a coach with a mission.
How did the two guys who got cut handle it?
One was devastated (UNH) and one was pissed (Harvard) – both turned out well.
The player who was devasted talked about how he got through it, with his Dad telling him about his experiences in WWII – how his daughter insisted that he watch the movie ‘Miracle’ movie with her in the theater and brought her whole University of Maryland Women’s Lacrosse team with her (35 girls) – which took the edge off the pain.
How he got an offer to play in Finland which taught him he still loved hockey and how he’s talked to kids about getting cut from an important team and helped them look forward. How he connected with Herb Brooks afterward.
The other guy just thinks Brooks had it out for him and never wanted to meet him, again. He moved on and lived his life — never saying anything bad, raising a good family, but never involving himself with the ‘Miracle’ story.
A good article about the last two players who were cut can be found – here.
dievca really believes that human beings need to know how to fail and push through adversity.
The ‘every kid gets a trophy’ mentality:
Curtails Character Development
Short-Changes Real-Life Preparation
Robs “Authentic” Self-Esteem
Devalues Real Success
Not a good start for the below-average, average or exceptional human being.
But, dievca is worrying about something as an ‘old fogie’ and the World will go on. Kids who are given a trophy and have helicopter parents/bulldozer parents will figure Life out at some point.
Those ‘latchkey’ Kids in GenX did…Uhh…maybe?