Other people’s energy and a long ThursdayPosted: February 3, 2023 Filed under: Discussion, Entertainment | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, energy, exhaustion, Humor, Life, positive mental attitude, regroup, submissive, work Leave a comment
Did dievca in…
How was your Thursday?
How does it look for today?
Go get’em Tiger. XO
Ready to Push Onward with coffee and a poemPosted: December 19, 2022 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden, Poetry | Tags: BDSM, Christmas, coffee, D/s, dievca, Holidays 2022, Life, Love, Monday, Morning, poem, positive mental attitude Leave a comment
May the Xmas joy percolate into your mind
May the Xmas love blend into your heart
May his grace filter down to your soul
And like a well made coffee let it revitalise your life
Merry Christmas to everyone
Good Morning from NYCPosted: December 12, 2022 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, Chelsea, coffee, D/s, dievca, Life, Love, Monday, Morning, NYC, photo, positive mental attitude, Snoopy Leave a comment
Photo: dievca – Chelsea NYC 12/2022
Happy 4th of July! Renewal of faith in the USAPosted: July 4, 2022 Filed under: Home and Garden, Musings | Tags: 4th of July, BDSM, coffee, D/s, dievca, Faith, Life, Monday, Morning, positive mental attitude, traveling, United States 2 Comments
Recently, I’ve been disappointed and disillusioned in the USA. Perhaps that has to do with my own failings and regrouping. But, as I drive through the Midwest and see how gorgeous my country is ~ as I witness NY State working to protect “Pro Choice” rights and view a “Pro Choice” rally in front of Lambeau Field (Home of the Green Bay Packers football team located in a heavily Catholic/Christian community) I am starting to believe in the USA doctrine, again. We can disagree, we can argue, we have smart people and morons living together – we will do stupid things – we are human. But, we, as United States Citizens, can state our feelings for good or bad. Then stumble along to address those issues.
One on one.
The people in the midwestern hotel – dressed in biker gang gear – are kind, holding the door for a gimpy dievca and asking how she is doing.
This place isn’t perfect by any means, but its mine.
Happy Independence Day~
in the Pink of well-beingPosted: April 24, 2022 Filed under: Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, beauty, champagne, D/s, dievca, Elegant, gift, Health, Life, Love, pink, positive mental attitude, Shopping Leave a comment
A box of mental, beauty, and well-being as a $499 treat!
La Box en Pink
La Box en Pink: A Must-Have from Harper’s Bazaar! Our appreciation of the Parisian It Girl runs deep, which is why we’re thrilled to present La Box en Pink. This limited-edition collection of rosy-hued must-haves from iconic brand Champagne Laurent-Perrier and emerging French labels celebrate effortless style and joie de vivre.
Wine Gift Set Includes:
- Laurent-Perrier Cuvee Rose
The Cuvée Rosé from Laurent-Perrier is the most recognized rosé champagne in the world. The house uses its proprietary maceration technique and the wine is crafted for a fragrance and not mixed for a color. Held in an elegant bottle inspired by King Henri IV, it has been widely acknowledged for its consistent high quality for more than 40 years, and it is the benchmark for rosé champagne around the world.
Laurent-Perrier Cuvée Rosé is truly remarkable for its highly expressive bouquet, stemming from the very careful preservation of fresh fruit aromas during the winemaking. Made with 100% Pinot Noir from 10 different “crus ” (or villages), from the North and South areas of the Montagne de Reims, as well as the famous village of Bouzy. Grapes from carefully selected plots are meticulously sorted and de-stemmed before going into the vats, and the controlled maceration helps with the color extraction and the development of the full aromatic richness of the Pinot Noir.
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Rated 96 Points: Connoisseurs’ Guide
- La Box en Pink
La Box en Pink is comprised of a 750ml bottle of Laurent-Perrier Cuvée Rosé, a crepe de chine scarf by ba&sh, Delina Hair Mist, Feminine Discovery Set, and votive candle by Parfums de Marly, Le Stylo in Emilie and Les 4 Rouje cream lip palette in Chaleur by Rouje, and a pink quartz necklace by Bôneur, and French Glow supplement and a Simple Skin Mini Routine Set by Aime.
(looking for a little motivational push through) Put One Foot in Front of the OtherPosted: January 2, 2022 Filed under: Musings | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, elderly parents, Family, help, Life, motivation, Music Lyrics, positive mental attitude, travel Leave a comment
Put one foot in front of the other
And soon you’ll be walking ‘cross the floor
Put one foot in front of the other
And soon you’ll be walking out the door
You never will get where you’re going
If you never get up on your feet
Come on, there’s a good tailwind blowing
A fast walking man is hard to beat
If you want to change your direction
If your time of life is at hand
Well don’t be the rule, be the exception
A good way to start is to stand
If I want to change the reflection
I see in the mirror each morn (Oh you do!)
You mean that it’s just my election (Just that!)
To vote for a chance to be reborn
It worked~improving a mood.Posted: December 14, 2021 Filed under: Discussion, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Friends, help, Holiday 2021, Joy, Life, mental health, motivation, positive mental attitude Leave a comment
They always have suggestions for improving a mood and in dievca’s case 6 out of these 34 suggestions worked.
- De-clutter. Getting organized can help us feel instantly calmer. Just five to ten minutes is enough to tackle a small project, like a desk or the kitchen table.
- Rearrange some furniture. Changing an environment can help us feel refreshed, enabling us to bust out of a negative mood.
- Get some sun. A boost of vitamin D can keep the blues at bay. Head outside for a brisk walk around the block. If that’s not possible, station yourself near a window for a few minutes.
- Spend time with Friends. If you want to be happy and calm, spend time around calm, happy people.
- Celebrate good times. Look at happy photos or spend a minute or so thinking back on positive memories (that first 5K finish line, a group trip to the waterpark, that amazing scone from a no-name coffee shop)—nostalgia can trigger happiness.
- Eat for a positive mood. We are what we eat, so step away from the unhappy meal. Instead, try out these meals to boost your mood. Up the happiness quotient by setting a nice place for yourself, lighting a candle, and giving thanks for the meal.
dievca allowed herself to decorate the apartment lightly – she felt less stressed when she decided that she didn’t have to do the full Christmas blowout. Holiday Hints throughout the apartment has made it feel festive for guests and herself. Having dinner with lovely people completed her mood change.
What works for you?
Photos: dievca home decor 12/2021
Gird Your LoinsPosted: November 29, 2021 Filed under: Entertainment | Tags: BDSM, coffee, D/s, dievca, Holiday 2021, Humor, Life, Monday, Morning, organization, positive mental attitude Leave a comment
We are in the midst of the 2021 Holiday Season
- For the USA – Thanksgivng happened last Thursday,
- Hanukkah started last night,
- We pushed through Black Friday
- Cyber Monday is today
- Christmas, Kwanzaa and New Year’s are upcoming
That means Holiday Coffee:
Peppermint, Pumpkin, Whipped Cream, Gingerbread, Apple Cider, Cardamom, Sugar Cookie, Egg Nog, etc.
dievca wants a black coffee. Keep it simple.
Just incase you wanted to know how to “Gird Your Loins” – or “prepare for battle”, here is a diagram:
Dress the PartPosted: November 24, 2021 Filed under: Clothing, Discussion, Dresses | Tags: BDSM, closet, D/s, Life, positive mental attitude, Presentation, submissive, work Leave a comment
dievca has a Navy Blue Silk Dress that makes her feel amazing. Its’s not the most expensive dress nor the most fashionable, but she likes to wear it whenever she needs to clean up and present to humans. she can dress the outfit up or down with shoes/boots and accessories – any way it goes on it – she feels great.
dievca stands taller.
A lot of people argue that what you wear isn’t important, or that it is unfair to suggest that people should buy clothes to boost their self-esteem. If we are being realistic about the working world or IRL, we have to point out the truth: How you present yourself is important. You don’t need to have a closet full of expensive clothes to get ahead, but you will feel a lot better if you have one or two outfits you absolutely love that you can wear whenever you need a pick-me-up.
dievca doesn’t wear the silk dress because it will impress other people — she wears it because it makes her feel ready to take on the world!
(roll over a photo to see the item description)
Every body is a poem ~Posted: July 18, 2021 Filed under: Clothing, Musings | Tags: BDSM, Body Image, body love, D/s, dievca, H&M, Life, positive mental attitude, Shopping, submissive Leave a comment
dievca ran into this sweatshirt at H&M in NYC. she agrees with the message.
“Work with what God gave you” and “rock it”, comes to mind.
Maybe the changes in one’s body due to age are the stanzas.
Or maybe one’s body is just a “Work of Art” in progress.
That seems to fit.
Happy Earth Day!Posted: April 22, 2021 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Earth, Elegant, Female Empowerment, nude, positive mental attitude Leave a comment
Give the World a Boost if you can!
“I surround myself with people that I want to be with. And I keep moving forward.”~ Sam BernPosted: February 27, 2021 Filed under: Entertainment, Relationships | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, friendship, Happiness, Humor, Joy, Life, Love, mental health, positive mental attitude, submissive Leave a comment
1. Positive people don’t confuse quitting with letting go.
2. Positive people don’t just have a good day – they make a good day.
3. For the positive person, the past stays in the past.
4. Show me a positive person and I can show you a grateful person.
5. Rather than being stuck in their limitations, positive people are energized by their possibilities.
6. Positive people do not let their fears interfere with their lives.
7. Positive people smile a lot.
8. People who are positive are great communicators.
9. Positive people realize that if you live long enough, there are times for great pain and sadness.
10. Positive people are empowered people – they refuse to blame others and are not victims in life.
“Fortran et haec olim meminisse juvabit.”Posted: December 19, 2020 Filed under: Accessories, Home and Garden, Musings | Tags: BDSM, Christmas ornament, COVID-19, D/s, dievca, Holiday 2020, hope, Humor, Life, Masks, Master, positive mental attitude 2 Comments
The sense of the phrase is: Someday, we’ll look back on even this and smile.
Master and dievca were talking about 2020 – it’s been – well you know. Master made the point that there is an end in sight. This follows the idea that Humans can endure many things as long as there is an end in sight, it’s when there is no relief on the horizon that things are seen as hopeless. dievca repeats – there is an end in sight. XO
Good Advice from the Fortune CookiePosted: May 19, 2020 Filed under: Musings, Neighborhood Anecdotes (NYC), submissive | Tags: BDSM, COVID-19, D/s, dievca, good fortune, Humor, Life, NYC, positive mental attitude, submissive Leave a comment
dievca had to run out to a smaller town in New Jersey for work.
BTW, groceries are cheaper.
And two Chinese Food Restaurants were open for delivery/pick-up.
(there are none open by dievca in NYC)
The monosodium glutamate (MSG) might kill you but
the taste of change and fortune is coming in a timely manner.
How are you holding up?
A Positive Attitude Improves Your Mental Health
Approximately one in five Americans suffers from a mental health issue like anxiety or depression at any given time. While a positive outlook can’t prevent all mental health conditions, it can reduce your risk of developing depression and anxiety.
The Silver LiningPosted: April 15, 2020 Filed under: Discussion, Entertainment | Tags: BDSM, cooking, COVID-19, D/s, dievca, Disney, Humor, learning, Life, positive mental attitude, submissive Leave a comment
of Staying Home.
You can play YOUR own music at almost any moment.
Your personal productivity increases with limited distractions.
The alarm doesn’t ring at 4 am.
You get a chance to work on unused skills.
You can attend dance or workout classes at any time.
You hear or connect to people you haven’t seen or heard from in years.
You have a chance to just “be”.
When you work on SaturdaysPosted: January 18, 2020 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Life, mantra, positive mental attitude, Saturday, submissive, sweater, Winter, work Leave a comment
20 minute back resetting flow
Yogurt with berries
Bundle up like an Eskimo
Bike into work
Ready to go
DO NOT KILL MY VIBE…
I am pounding through the day.