Something of Use: Glass Carafes
Posted: May 22, 2020 Filed under: Accessories, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, glassware, Life, practical, Shopping, submissive, water Leave a comment
Tablecraft Authentic 1.5 Liter Recycled Green Glass Water Bottle Carafe with Stopper
(click photo for link)
Are you drinking too much coffee? Wine? Gin & Tonics? more Wine?
Keeping water cool in the refrigerator and easily available on the tabletop during meals helps you drink more water.
Or maybe you need that water carafe bedside + aspirin after you drank a bit much…
Toyo Sasaki Glass Night Carafe $79 (click photo for link)
dievca is using both and trying to go easier on the coffee🍮 and vino🍷. XO
Wearing a Man’s shirt (a dievca disaster)
Posted: March 1, 2020 Filed under: Disasters, submissive | Tags: BDSM, cock worship, D/s, dievca, Humor, Life, Love, Master, masturbation, Men's Clothing, perimenopause, practical, submissive Leave a comment
dievca looked great upon arrival to Master’s (see below).
Too bad she forgot the food and presentation lingerie…
she did remember a collar, vibrator (shmoo), anal plug, penis gag, and hood.
Priorities? Or perimenopause….
dievca asked Master for one of His button-down dress shirts
she rinsed off, inserted the anal plug, put on Master’s Collar, added lipstick, buttoned the shirt up over her naked body and sauntered out to the living room.
she then asked Master if He would be willing to watch His dievca masturbate on the chair across the room. Master was game.
dievca unbuttoned the top of the shirt to give a hint of cleavage, lifted the hem and draped a leg over the arm of the chair to give Master a clear view of her pussy. Master smiled as she broke out the shmoo and placed it on her clit.
Something was missing.
dievca strapped the penis gag to her mouth and explained to Master that she would like to imagine she was sucking Master’s Cock as she masturbated. Master’s Cock grew large as He watched His dievca.
Something was still wrong.
dievca took off the penis gag and asked Master if He would be willing to allow dievca to suck His Cock instead of watching. He agreed.
A ‘performance’ is fun, but audience participation is much more exciting.
And Master’s shirt was an excellent piece of Lingerie, dievca doesn’t understand why people think it is demeaning to wear a Man’s shirt….
Racked Article:
Do Women Actually Wear Men’s Dress Shirts After Sex?
Where does this trope come from, what does it mean, and does anyone really do it?
dievca’s arrival outfit for a cold blustery day:
Clear Eye’s – Sunny Skies (something of use)
Posted: February 28, 2020 Filed under: Accessories, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, cleaning, D/s, dievca, eyeglasses, Life, photo, practical, Shopping, Slave, submissive, useful, Wal-Mart 1 Comment
Do you remember being a kid with dirty glasses?
dievca does.
Then she smartened up in High School and started using dish soap to wash her eyeglasses.
Finding a sink and soap is not very convenient on the fly – so dievca moved on to lens wipes.
Too bad they aren’t environmentally friendly…
- one use
- non-recyclable
Something of use that lessens the environmental impact, isn’t as messy as soap/water, can be carried in a bag and offers the cleanest vision dievca has found:
Wal-Mart’s Equate Lens Cleaner at $2.88.
This brand is dievca’s favorite. The solution is good for glasses, camera lenses, phone screens/lenses, computer screens, etc. – all at an excellent price.
An 8 oz. bottle lasted dievca about a year with a clean rag/towel doing the wiping.
Argh – dievca is out~
dievca will have to make a trip to New Jersey to visit a Wal-Mart…there’s none in Manhattan.
Hey “Fluffball”! (something of use)
Posted: February 21, 2020 Filed under: Accessories | Tags: BDSM, D/s, definitions, dievca, fluffy, keychain, practical, Shopping, submissive, tactile 2 Comments
Dog groomed by Yoriko Hamachiyo, click photo for link to the ‘Insider’ article
fluffball. Noun. (plural fluffballs)
- A ball of fluff, or a creature that resembles one.
- Soft things like animals that are cute and /or fun to pet.
- Someone who is or acts like they have their head in the sky.
- Someone who purports to have technical experience in their chosen field, but lacks a fundamental understanding of concepts beyond anything that isn’t the buzzword of the month.
dievca’s definition:
The object attached to her keys so she can find them in her dark backpack interior by feel. dievca’s is real fur. Others. which are faux fur, are easily available.
Note: dievca didn’t realize how much she depends on her sense of touch for the keychain until she gave her 4-year-old messy one to the puppy adoption place along with old towels.
Yves Salomon–Fox fur Pompom Keychain $110 (click photo to purchase)
Faux fur options (click photo to purchase, more colors available):
Amazon Faux Fur Fluffball Key Chain $8.99
Under or Over? Garter belts
Posted: January 30, 2020 Filed under: Accessories, Disasters, lingerie | Tags: advice, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Fetish, practical, Presentation Outfits, Sexy, stockings, submissive 3 Comments
Stella Stevens standing wearing Floral Lingerie in Black and White
Master loves garter belts and stockings. dievca has avoided wearing panties in that role because the few times she did, she put the panties under the garter belt for looks and then everything has to come off for access. Seeing the photo above….she’s been doing it wrong!
Here’s what the internet said:
Panties on top if you’re wearing them for functional reasons (to suspend your stockings). Panties beneath if you are wearing them just to look sexy. If you want to actually HAVE sex in the garter belt and stockings, panties on top. I’ve always worn my garter belts over my panties because it looks better.
~ TheGirlSurvivalGuide
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I believe in the garter belt and stockings. I read some statistics, and it’s the most requested lingerie article that prostitutes hear.
Another tip I always say when wearing garter belts, you wear your underwear over your garter belt for easy access. I believe in wearing lingerie because we love it, I don’t believe in putting it on for a man. I believe that we wear it for us, and if someone is lucky enough to be in our presence and experience that, so be it. But the ultimate seductress is one who realizes in everyday practice the cultivation of your sensuality, and how it radiates to other people. That’s what makes others want to be around you.
~ Dita von Teese
Aha! An old dog has just learned a new trick. How about you? XO
Something of use – luggage: Roller vs. Spinner
Posted: September 13, 2019 Filed under: Accessories, Analysis | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, fashion, Life, luggage, practical, Sexy Advertisements, Shopping, submissive, travel 4 Comments
dievca’s bag fell apart on her way to Europe. The zipper pull came off and dievca was worried that it would start to unzip as her trip continued via walking, subway, plane, train, car – etc.
So, she had the bag wrapped at the airport and prayed that security wouldn’t see the need to unwrap it.
When she was in Sweden, she ran out to the local luggage/bag shop in a small town and found one rolling duffle-esque bag.
American Tourister Road Quest Large
Everything else was the “spinner” suitcases.
dievca stuck with what she knew and bought the roller bag.
she was super happy with the choice when she saw how much trouble people were having with their spinner bags on the cobbled streets and hills in Lisbon, Portugal.
That said, she tried a cheap spinner when traveling to her parent’s house in the Midwest. No cobbled hills, flat surfaces, elevators, and a rental car.
Using a spinner was very easy.
Travelers Club Chicago expandable hard side spinner 20 inch
Which One Should You Buy?
Getting a spinner or a roller depends largely on where and how you travel.
Spinners often weigh a bit more and the wheels stick out and are counted in the luggage measurement, so you lose precious space. Also, the more moving pieces, the more opportunities for something to go wrong.
Rollers put pressure on your joints and wrists. You’ll have a tendency to trip people behind you while walking and you can only roll in one direction. Measurement-wise the wheels are inset and do not take as much room.
If you’re an easy-going traveler, or you’re the type who often goes on business trips, spinners will be great. You can walk through miles of airport halls or office buildings without much trouble as most of the weight is taken off your burden. For as long as you will be traveling on predictable terrain, spinners will be your best bet.
Rollers are great for people who travel to many different places. Rollers are more likely to survive a rugged trip. It can survive many terrains and will be easier to pull through city sidewalks, on gravel, across train platforms, onto buses, or even onto ferries.​
dievca finds herself keeping two pieces of luggage for the different types of travel she experiences. The good news is her spinner fits into her rolling duffle for storage.
Some suggestions for your future luggage purchases:
Spinner:
Away Luggage – Limited Edition ‘Flour Shop NYC’ colors (click photo to purchase)
Roller Duffles:
Timberland Mountain View Roller Duffles (click photo to purchase)
Bon Voyage! cashmere travel set – something useful
Posted: July 26, 2019 Filed under: Accessories | Tags: BDSM, blanket, cashmere, clean, D/s, dievca, Elegant, eye mask, Life, practical, Shopping, submissive, travel 3 Comments
BARNEYS NEW YORK Cashmere Blanket Travel Set
“The only fresh blankets I ever saw were on an originating first flight in the morning in a provisioning city.” ~Â a Flight Attendent
Don’t be fooled by any plastic packaging over those blankets either. In the year 2000, the Union of Needletrades, Industrial, and Textile Employees accused some of its clients of repackaging their blankets without ever cleaning them, Bravo reported. A few years later, The Wall Street Journal released a report explaining that most airlines only clean their blankets every five to 30 days.
And, in 2017, comedian Nicole Byer shared the horrifying tale of her flight on Delta when she found a piece of human feces inside her first class blanket.
Moral of the story, if you really want to stay warm on your next flight it may be best to bring your own blanket. Here are three easy to pack blankets to ensure you’re only covering yourself in your own germs.
via Travel + Leisure, STACEY LEASCA
Lisa Perry Coloblocked Cashmere Travel sets in Orange and Green
(dievca has green)
BARNEYS NEW YORK Camouflage Cashmere Travel Throw & Eye Mask set
Items available at Barneys Warehouse
Beyond travel? The eye mask can be used for your D/s play and the blanket for aftercare.
