the completed seaglass project
Posted: May 25, 2023 Filed under: Body Type, Fashion | Tags: BDSM, Color, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Life, Love, nail polish, Nails, Presentation, submissive, Summer Leave a commentInteresting, right? Its the “French Blue” Jelly Color with the Matte top coat. Apparently, the color has been renamed as “Morningtide”. Two ladies stopped on the sidewalk to comment on dievca’s nails as she took the photo. They liked the combination…
Hera by Coco de Mer
Posted: December 15, 2022 Filed under: lingerie | Tags: BDSM, Coco de Mer, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Gifts, Lace, Presentation, Shopping, submissive, Undergarments Leave a commentThe Coco de Mer HERA lace line can be found here.
Its interesting that an elegant and erotic lingerie is named after a Goddess who is depicted as matronly.
Hera (/ˈhɛrə, ˈhɪərə/; Greek: Ἥρα, translit. Hḗrā; Ἥρη, Hḗrē in Ionic and Homeric Greek) is the goddess of marriage, women and family, and the protector of women during childbirth. In Greek mythology, she is queen of the twelve Olympians and Mount Olympus, sister and wife of Zeus, and daughter of the Titans Cronus and Rhea. One of her defining characteristics in myth is her jealous and vengeful nature in dealing with any who offend her, especially Zeus’ numerous adulterous lovers and illegitimate offspring.
Her iconography usually presents her as a dignified, matronly figure, upright or enthroned, crowned with a polos or diadem, sometimes veiled as a married woman. She is the patron goddess of lawful marriage. She presides over weddings, blesses and legalizes marital unions, and protects women from harm during childbirth. Her sacred animals include the cow, cuckoo and the peacock. She is sometimes shown holding a pomegranate, as an emblem of immortality. Her Roman counterpart is Juno.
Master is back!
Posted: November 8, 2022 Filed under: lingerie, submissive | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, grooming, Life, Master, OPI, Pedicure, Presentation, Purple Leave a commentThe temperature hit 76 F (25 C), dievca’s back was sweating from her backpack while cycling to the Dermatologist. After getting a clear Skin Cancer Screening – dievca stopped by a Nail Salon for a Mani/ Pedi to pretty up her tootsies for Master.
Now, dievca doesn’t always follow the season’s “hot” colors – she chooses what speaks to her in the moment. This color was created by OPI in 2012: Suzi and the 7 Dusseldorfs.
We’ll see if Master appreciates the grooming or the lingerie. XO
Top Photo: dievca’s tootsies 11/2022
Bottom Photo: Blush Lingerie Demi-Chemise, ash grey with purple.
Happy Halloween!
Posted: October 31, 2022 Filed under: Entertainment, lingerie | Tags: Ass, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Halloween, Presentation, Pumpkin, Sexy, submissive, thong Leave a commentTime to Caress and Carve that Pumpkin!
Camellia by Coco de Mer
Posted: September 16, 2022 Filed under: lingerie | Tags: BDSM, Coco de Mer, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Floral, Lace, Presentation, Robe, sensual, Sexy, Shopping, submissive Leave a commentThe ultimate in indulgent elegance, the Camellia Robe is simply exquisite.
Slip into the stunning sheath of warm claret Leaver’s lace, with a beautiful bagged silk tie to unravel.
The sumptuous silk collar frames the decolletage and holds a gentle structure, whilst a delightful cut out at the back captures the elegance of the spine.
A scalloped eyelash trim graces the leg with a delicate femininity, whilst the fabulous flared sleeves add an incredibly dramatic glamour.
This is a truly unforgettably luxurious piece of inimitable craftsmanship.
Complete the look with matching Bodysuit and Slip.
View the other items in this Collection.
Camellia flowers are known for their ornate nature and exotic origins, the perfect inspiration for this delicate lace. Breathtakingly feminine silhouettes will be beautifully set off in this French Leaver’s lace, perfectly finished with a buttery-soft silk. With an enticing finish of silk button fastenings, eyelash scallop edging and delicate floral lace, the Camellia collection exudes an empowering and enthralling sensuality.
Part of our Intertwine collection, Camellia has been crafted in an indulgent shade of chocolate-like claret, beautiful sheer lace blends with the softest silk, evoking the sensuality of Godiva herself.
595 gbp — $677
Adding a little Zest!
Posted: August 25, 2022 Filed under: lingerie | Tags: BDSM, bra panty sets, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Fleur du Mal, fun, Hot Summer, Presentation, Shopping, submissive, Undergarments, Yellow Leave a comment
Fleur du Mal Bebe Bra, Thong and Hoodie in Zest!
Perfect for the heat of August. XO
Looking for Lingerie
Posted: August 19, 2022 Filed under: Body Type, Clothing, lingerie | Tags: BDSM, biking, D/s, dievca, flattering, Life, Outdoor Voices, Physical Therapy, practical, Presentation, Shopping, submissive, workout dress 3 CommentsYour Master/Mistress has arrived home from a long trip —
you’re digging frantically for something fabulous!
Then you realize that you have to work, run to Physical Therapy
and immediately afterward ride your bike uptown.
What can you get away with in that scenario?
Something practical that makes your Sir or Madam smile
(and pack your lingerie incase you get lucky with a shower):

Outdoor Voices Exercise Dress $100
Beat the Heat in White~
Posted: July 26, 2022 Filed under: Dresses | Tags: Banana Republic, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, hot weather, Life, Presentation, Shopping, submissive, Summer heat Leave a commentFor dievca to recommend white in New York City – tells you that she is desperate to feel cool.
And that she is not taking the subway.
Banana Republic has some lovely offerings in Cotton Gauze, Linen and Ramie – ranging from $39.97 to $250. Click on the photos for a closer view and the prices:
Zippered front – is that cheating?
Posted: April 28, 2022 Filed under: Disasters, lingerie | Tags: BDSM, Corset, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Life, Master, Presentation, Shopping, submissive, Undergarments 2 CommentsWearing a corset can be a challenge…as dievca well knows.
At first, Master’s dievca had to learn how to put on the corset – Master had to step in to help on a few occasions. Years later dievca became too chubby for some of her corsets – something about her waist changing with perimenopause. The hook and eyes with the steel whale bones have been a challenge – so when dievca saw this corset with a zipper…
Hmm~
Might be an asset to her lingerie closet.
Or it could be another spectacular “Dievca Disaster”!
Temptress Teal Lace-Up Front Zipper Corset
The teal-colored full bust corset is made from high-quality satin with lace net overlay material to create a romantically sexy look. Corset features a premium front zipper closure, 10 plastic bones with 4 static steel back bones, nickel brass grommets with thick cording in the back for cinching, and removable garters. On Sale for $59.95
Stockings for Master (per His request)
Posted: April 7, 2022 Filed under: Accessories, D/s Relationship, lingerie | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dominant, Elegant, erotic, Master, Presentation, stockings, submissive Leave a comment
Tanga vs Cheeky
Posted: March 24, 2022 Filed under: lingerie | Tags: Ass, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Panties, Presentation, Sexy, Shopping, Undergarments Leave a commentTanga Briefs
Tanga briefs are a type of thong underwear that cover both your front and back with triangular pieces of material. They provide moderate to minimal rear coverage between a bikini cut and a thong and also have wider sides. They can be a good way to transition from a traditional bikini panty to a thong.
Cheeky Underwear
Cheeky underwear are true to their name and enhance your derriere by exposing the better part of it. They have less coverage than bikinis but more than thongs or G-strings. The front and waist portion are mostly covered.
Shopping the Sale at Simone Perele
Posted: March 17, 2022 Filed under: lingerie | Tags: BDSM, bra panty sets, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, French, Life, Master, Presentation, sale, Shopping, Simone Perele, submissive Leave a comment
Comete in Flamingo (above)
Caresse in Anthracite (below)
Simple and Lovely under Master’s Presentation outfits.
Garter, Garter Belt, Garter Skirt
Posted: February 10, 2022 Filed under: Discussion, lingerie | Tags: BDSM, D/s, definitions, dievca, Elegant, erotic, garter belt, Master, Presentation, Shopping, stockings, submissive, Undergarments Leave a commentInitionally, Garters were use to hold up hose or socks. The advent of elastic dimished the usage of Garters in real life, but you still see limited usage at Weddings. Why?
Traditionally, the witnesses would accompany a newly wed couple to the bridal chambers to ensure consummation. The wedding garter being retrieved from the bride served as proof to other guests that the deed was done, and the garter was then tossed into the sea of people.
Symbolically, the garter was thought to influence fertility. It also symbolized marriage consummation and future children for the couple. Because of this, the garter was fiercely sought after at weddings. It was an honor to detach the garter from the bride and was believed that the luck of the wedding couple would pass on to the guest who obtained the garter.
Garter Belts (or Suspender Belts): a belt with attached garters or fasteners, worn as an undergarment to hold up stockings.
Which brings us to the newer term-
Garter Skirt: (a dievca and Master favorite) A wider garter belt acting as a short skirt or mini skrt which can attach stockings. Allows for bottom coverage with easy access – a flattering, sassy way to Present.
Dress the Part
Posted: November 24, 2021 Filed under: Clothing, Discussion, Dresses | Tags: BDSM, closet, D/s, Life, positive mental attitude, Presentation, submissive, work Leave a commentdievca has a Navy Blue Silk Dress that makes her feel amazing. Its’s not the most expensive dress nor the most fashionable, but she likes to wear it whenever she needs to clean up and present to humans. she can dress the outfit up or down with shoes/boots and accessories – any way it goes on it – she feels great.
dievca stands taller.
A lot of people argue that what you wear isn’t important, or that it is unfair to suggest that people should buy clothes to boost their self-esteem. If we are being realistic about the working world or IRL, we have to point out the truth: How you present yourself is important. You don’t need to have a closet full of expensive clothes to get ahead, but you will feel a lot better if you have one or two outfits you absolutely love that you can wear whenever you need a pick-me-up.
dievca doesn’t wear the silk dress because it will impress other people — she wears it because it makes her feel ready to take on the world!
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Accentuating the A**
Posted: November 4, 2021 Filed under: lingerie | Tags: Ass, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Knickers, Panties, Presentation, Sexy, Shopping, submissive, Undergarments Leave a commentOR
Swiss Dot Options!
Rooftop Lingerie – Strappy Bondage
Posted: October 21, 2021 Filed under: lingerie | Tags: BDSM, bondage, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, exhibitionist, Fleur du Mal, Presentation, Sexy, Shopping, submissive Leave a commentFleur du Mal’s Strappy Bondage line allows you to exhibit from the Rooftop! Pieces available from $85 for panties to the Strappy Bondage Suit at $225. Click the photo above to purchase.
The Look for Less – Opera Length Gloves
Posted: October 19, 2021 Filed under: Accessories, Latex | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, erotic, gloves, latex, Look for Less, Presentation, Rubber Fetish, Sexy, Shopping, submissive Leave a commentFleur du Mal’s 2-way stretch Vinyl Opera Length Gloves will set you back $150.00
- 50% Polyurethane & 50% Polyester
- Spot Clean only
The Look for Less – or in this case, the more “correct” look as well as the cheaper version at $33.99 are Amazon’s EXLATEX Gloves
- 100 % Natural Latex Rubber
- Hand Wash only
Tattoo You – Aubade Paris
Posted: September 23, 2021 Filed under: lingerie | Tags: Aubade, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, French, Presentation, Shopping, submissive, tattoo, Undergarments Leave a commentA new lease of life for tattoos
Etched into our skin for thousands of years, tattoos have become artistic as well as aesthetic. A phenomenon that has broken all the boundaries of fashion.
For a long time, tattoos conjured up the tribal images of ancient cultures and exotic peoples, with enormous symbols covering the arms, backs and torsos of Polynesian, Maori and Japanese people, for example. And rightly so: for centuries, tattoos represented a rite of passage, symbols of protection or a sign of belonging to a particular clan or tribe.
Until the trend took off again around 1990 to 2000. From the shower of tiny stars on the back of Rihanna’s neck to the giant words and patterns on David Beckham’s body, these permanent markings have become extremely fashionable. The Musée du Quai Branly in Paris hosted an exhibition on tattoos in 2015.
As a way to stand out from the crowd or express your personality, tattoos have become like a second skin. They can be proudly shown off, or reserved for only the most intimate views.
Fanciful Unicorn
Posted: August 17, 2021 Filed under: Dresses | Tags: BDSM, colorful, D/s, dievca, Littles, Presentation, Relationships, ShopBop, Shopping, submissive, Unicorn Leave a commentOn a lighter note – but following the childhood innocence theme – the La Double J Mini Swing Dress in Giungla brings color and clean lines to Life. Might be a good choice to indicate your interest in being a Little or a Unicorn.
- Fabric: Lightweight, non-stretch silk twill
- Rainforest print
- Jewel neckline and short sleeves
- Hidden zip at back
- On-seam hip pockets
- Shell: 100% silk
- Unlined
- Dry clean
- Made in Italy
- $520
Feeling submissive
Posted: June 2, 2021 Filed under: Submission, submissive | Tags: BDSM, D/s, D/s relationships, dievca, Elegant, erotic, feelings, Master, Presentation, Sexy, Slave, stockings Leave a commentFeeling flexible
Feeling risqué
Feeling the presentation
So trite…
Posted: June 1, 2021 Filed under: Analysis, Clothing, Dresses | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, economy, Humor, humot, inexpensive, Life, Presentation, Rain, Shopping Leave a comment-
(of a remark, opinion, or idea) overused and consequently of little import; lacking originality or freshness.
dievca ended up in a Mall after that Beach Memorial Mass. There wasn’t much creativity offered from any of the retailers (H&M, Aritzia, Uniqlo, Lululemon, Brooks Brothers, Zara, Kate Spade, Coach, Muji, Sephora).
dievca was bored – though Banana Republic offered this ramie peasant top dress in green. Something with pockets and short is always welcome to dievca’s closet. she was befuddled by the sizing in the stores – sometimes she needed a large, other times a small…strange.
Note: An Honorable Mention award should be given to the H&M LemLem collaboration’s Lyocell-blend Kaftan Dress. The dress is sold out online and dievca didn’t get to try it on (H&M is not allowing people to use the dressing rooms) and the line to purchase items was very long. she got out of there fast~
Has anyone else had a Mall experience? Maybe something more exciting and successful than dievca’s ride?
Fashion vs. Styling: they are not the same.
Posted: April 14, 2021 Filed under: Analysis, Fashion | Tags: BDSM, closet, D/s, dievca, image, Life, Love, Presentation, Shopping, Spring Cleaning, style, submissive, wardrobe Leave a commentWhat Is the Difference Between Style and Fashion? There is an overlap between style and fashion, but a good rule of thumb is that style relates to the individual, while fashion is more collective.
Why is dievca pondering this difference?
she wants to determine the ratio of classic clothing vs. fads she needs in her closet to look unique.
she doesn’t want a uniform, but she doesn’t want too keep ten million pieces, either.
The Marie Kondo credo doesn’t make dievca feel comfortable – but the ’30 use’ rule seems to apply better.
Will you use an item approximately 30 times in your Life? If yes, keep it.
Is that enough to create dievca’s style using Whering? Probably.
Heels for Presentation
Posted: April 13, 2021 Filed under: Fashion, Shoes | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, heels, Presentation, Rupert Sanderson, Shoe fetishism, Shopping Leave a commentHave you been presenting for your Sir/Madame in heels?
Or did your style shift with COVID-19?
dievca did present in heels during the past year.
But, she hasn’t thought about buying new heels in a long time.
A quick look around the web didn’t offer anything to trip dievca’s interest.
she may have to go back to 2019 and find these Rupert Sanderson Pumps.
Pearls for the Girls
Posted: March 16, 2021 Filed under: Accessories | Tags: BDSM, Chicago, COVID-19, D/s, dievca, Elegant, fashion, fun, pearls, Presentation, Shopping, submissive Leave a commentOr Boys – if they are in the mood.
A little décor for the push forward to Vaccineland.
Dressing for indoor dining could be fun!
Akira – Chicago
Well connected~
Posted: November 6, 2020 Filed under: D/s Relationship, submissive | Tags: BDSM, bondage, chains, D/s, dievca, Dominance and submission, Elegant, erotic, Master, Presentation, Slave Leave a comment
Elegant from any angle.
Ready, able, open –
yet locked down.
Patient for attention.
Patient for You.
When you need to accessorize your Presentation Outfit~
Posted: October 14, 2020 Filed under: Accessories, Jewelry | Tags: anal plug, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Julian Snelling, Presentation, Shopping, Slave, submissive Leave a commentWith a delightful surprise…
Call on Julian Snelling – the creator of ROSEBUDS in 2002. He developed this extraordinary jewels. The master has left us, and unimaginative vultures have been quick to take over his work; but like all copies, they are only similar in appearance… It is a true jewel that sublimates this intimate part of the body that is the anus. Decorated with a crystal Swarovsky™ or a bronze sculpture, made in France, it gives incomparable pleasure to both men and women…
Available at Coco de Mer – UK and Brigade Mondaine – France.
Something of Use: Hiding the Fish Oil
Posted: August 14, 2020 Filed under: Accessories, Analysis, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, health benefits, home accents, Life, Presentation, Shopping, submissive, Supplement Leave a comment dievca kept hiding the large ugly bottle of Fish Oil pills in her cupboard,
taking a pill once a week…maybe.
That’s not an effective way to ingest a Fish Oil supplement.
It needs to be taken 3 times a day with meals.
Changing containers and leaving the pills on the countertop has made a world of difference.
Much more elegant, much more apt to work.
Something of use!
Healthline: 13 Important Benefits of Taking Fish Oil Supplements
Omega-3s contribute to normal brain and eye development. They fight inflammation and may help prevent heart disease and a decline in brain function.
As fish oil contains a lot of omega-3s, those at risk of these disorders can benefit from taking it.
However, eating whole foods is almost always better than taking supplements, and eating two portions of oily fish per week can provide you with enough omega-3s.
In fact, fish is as effective as fish oil — if not more so — at preventing many diseases.
That said, fish oil supplements are a good alternative if you don’t eat a lot of fish.
Lipstick Stamp
Posted: February 6, 2019 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Master, Submission | Tags: BDSM, cock worship, D/s, dievca, Dominant, erotic, Life, Master, Presentation, Relationships, serving, submissive 5 Comments
Photo: Getty Images
Turquoise thread, anyone? (a dievca Disaster)
Posted: May 23, 2018 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, Disasters | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, fashion, gala, knee pain, Life, Master, Presentation, submissive 6 CommentsSo, dievca ended up picking the Oscar de la Renta dress and was planning to wear Proenza Schouler heels with a gray clutch.

Oscar de la Renta Turquoise Dress
When doing a last try-on with the proper Spanx underpinnings, dievca managed to put her thumb through a seam and she doesn’t have turquoise thread to fix it. Plus, the heels – any heels, were killing her knee.
So, back to the drawing board with flats in mind.

Alice + Olivia Dora Magenta Dress

Ivy Kirzhner Gardenia Sandals

Derek Lam 10 Crosby Gold Parka

Kenneth Jay Lane Collar

18K Gold Plated Cuff

14K gold studs

Tom Ford Sunglasses
And this is why dievca always surprises Master with her outfits…she is a Disaster.