Something for the Christmas Stocking
Posted: December 2, 2022 Filed under: Accessories | Tags: BDSM, Christmas, cycling, D/s, dievca, Holiday, inexpensive, Life, Lights, practical, Running, safety, something of use Leave a comment
Something for Holiday Giving
dievca’s had these velcro/elastic band lights for a couple of years. They are rechargeable, easy to add and remove when needed. she puts them on her arm, her backpack, her bike, her ankle – whatever needs to be seen. Runners, Cyclists, Strollers, Kids, Adults can use them.
Something inexpensive,
$12.95 for two on Amazon
Something of Use
Saved a life this morning, pre-coffee
Posted: July 19, 2021 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden, Neighborhood Anecdotes (NYC) | Tags: awareness, BDSM, biking, coffee, D/s, dievca, Life, Monday, Morning, safety, traffic, West Side Highway Leave a commentWhen you are riding, walking, running, scootering in the City – you can’t be worrying about the people you are with – its every Man (Women, Child) for themselves. FOCUS! An older runner was following her “pack” across the Westside Highway – not looking at the lights – the youngsters sprinted (like fools) and she was trotting behind straight into oncoming traffic. dievca yelled and the Lady turned to make it back to the sidewalk right before getting hit. Even though the Lady was older, dievca hollered at her and said, “focus on yourself” after the Lady muttered, “I assumed my girls were watching the lights”.
When a human head cracks on the pavement it sounds like a watermelon thumping. dievca is not interested in hearing that sound and sticking around to help with the mess. If you come to the City – please pay attention and don’t depend upon others – depend upon yourself. XO
dievca was little too shaky to have coffee immediately – her adrenaline was surging.
Sticky and Wet
Posted: July 8, 2021 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Entertainment, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dominant, erotic, Life, Master, safety, shower sex, submissive, Summer heat Leave a commentWith the humidity in NYC,
one cannot escape sweating.
dievca arrived at Master’s wet and sticky.
All was solved with soap, water and shower sex.
Something to be taken carefully,
but worth the effort to beat the heat.
XO
photo: dievca - shower accoutrements 07/2021
Just so we are all on the same page.
Posted: October 14, 2019 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Entertainment, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, coffee, D/s, dievca, Humor, Life, Master, Monday, safety, Submission, submissive 1 Comment
Good Morning, Good Week, Safe BDSM.
Safety First! – something useful
Posted: December 14, 2018 Filed under: Accessories, Analysis, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, bruise, Cosco, D/s, dievca, Life, NYC, practical, safety, Shopping, Step Stool Ladder, submissive, useful 2 CommentsWhen dievca was in College she lived in an older dorm that had deep oak window frames/casings which went up almost to the 12 foot ceilings. After doing laundry at 3:00 am, she stood on the sofa and when that didn’t work, the windowsill, to hang up a sweatshirt on a hanger to dry from the window rod.
she slipped, she fell, she sounded like an elephant when she ricocheted off the window ledge hitting the right side of her back thigh, she hit the floor, she woke her roommate. The bruising was huge and you can still feel the ledge-shaped divet in her muscle/fat…yep, just checked – still there.
What dievca learned is that you should own decent step ladders, AND USE THEM!
Her NYC apartment doesn’t have ceilings quite as high as her dorm room, but they reach 9 feet in some areas. That makes painting a wall without an extension pole a little too much for dievca – but with the 3 step-ladder? A snap!
Something that has traveled with dievca from space to space are the two Cosco Step Ladders from Bed, Bath and Beyond. The two-step and three-step versions:
At $29.99 and $39.99 — an excellent and useful buy. They fit behind opened doors or in closets.
When getting on in age, the bruises don’t fade as fast and braking a bone is a more likely option~
Yeah…

juliyalavrova: Photo by Anna Durova
Sharing something useful…
Posted: November 9, 2018 Filed under: Accessories, Analysis, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Life, Master, NYC, Party, plasticware, practical, rooftop, safety, Shopping, submissive, usable goods, wind 3 Comments#2 Tossware
Yikes! Rooftops in NYC are really windy and it’s not safe to have crystal wineglasses get knocked over or break on the concrete.
Tossware is a brand of reusable, recyclable crystal clear plastic-ware which is elegant for parties where traditional crystal is not a smart idea.
dievca found it very elegant to use, it washes well and stacks/stores easily for the cupboard or storage unit.
Excellent for a NYC apartment building and just as good for the Suburbia Football Saturdays grilling out on the patio.
dievca bought her Tossware on Amazon.
Take a look:
You can even go on to the Tossware site and get pieces made for your event or use their fun graphics:
So, I was thinking about frostbite…
Posted: December 29, 2017 Filed under: Clothing, Discussion, Home and Garden | Tags: Cold Weather, D/s, dievca, Dominant, Life, NYC, safety, submissive, windchill, Winter 4 Comments
Photo: dievca 33rd /8th 12/28/17
But I don’t live in Wisconsin…
It’s cold. No, it’s not Montana, North Dakota, Canada cold – but it’s enough to worry about windchill when you ride a bike to work and the wind comes off the river and whips through the buildings. dievca was pedalling at a standstill today.
This chart is her friend:
Today’s (Thursday’s) temps in Celsius were -11C (low) to -7.22C (high) winds running at 5-10 mph with gusts at 22 mph. Fahrenheit 12F (low) to 19F (high). It will continue to be cold through the New Year.
dievca’s ride is less than 30 minutes, so she has been good. But, it makes for tears, frozen breath, and ridiculous-looking layered outfits. When its cold, fashion goes out the window….
Apparently that is the theme, this week, safety first.
Here are dievca’s cold weather standbys:
dievca wishes you luck and stay warm.
Safety First
Posted: December 27, 2017 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Submission | Tags: anal sex, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dominant, Kink, Master, NYC, Presentation Outfits, safety, submissive 11 CommentsPresentation outfit: something totally slutty. Skirt. Stockings. Heels.
Sent from my iPhone
Master,
I know that you like surprises, but I am stuck on shoe choices. Could you help me?
I have two options for safer balance. Which shoes would you prefer?
Thank you,
your wet dievča

Alaia Thigh High Wedge Boots

Red Tango Dance Shoes
Lumos Helmet
Posted: July 11, 2017 Filed under: Accessories, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, biking, cycling, D/s, dievca, helmet, Life, Master, MoMa, NYC, safety, Shopping, submissive 8 Commentsdievca may be looking at moving uptown (closer to Master). That means her bike commute would be extended. Less biking on main thoroughfares, more biking on pathways. Not a big deal in the Summer – lots of light. It does make a difference in the Winter, especially when dievca has to do an early morning ride.
dievca spotted this helmet at MoMa:
LUMOS HELMET
Pricey.
But what is the price of safety?
A dream on Kickstarter in 2015
Be safe and visible on the road with the world’s first smart bicycle helmet that integrates lights, brakes and turn signals. When you slow down, the helmet’s rear lights automatically turn red. The turn lights are activated by a small handlebar remote that’s easy to remove, water-resistant and lasts for months before requiring a charge of battery. Each helmet battery charge lasts over three hours of use. Includes rechargeable batteries for both helmet and remote, and magnetic charging USB cable. PU foam, polycarbonate, and ABS. Water-resistant. One adult size, adjustable. For ages 12+