All Satin and Bows
Posted: December 8, 2022 Filed under: lingerie | Tags: BDSM, Bra, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Holidays 2022, Presentation Outfit, red, sassy, satin, Shopping, submissive, Undergarments, Victoria Secret Leave a commentVictoria’s Secret Bow “Dream Angels” Bras on sale for $16.99
First Day of School
Posted: September 8, 2022 Filed under: Entertainment, Neighborhood Anecdotes (NYC) | Tags: BDSM, Cosplay, D/s, dievca, Halloween, Humor, Life, sassy, School, Shopping, submissive, Teacher Leave a commentIt’s the First Day of School here in NYC.
Kids are either celebrating or bemoaning their fate.
Maybe the Teachers are, too~
Halloween is coming up soon – a little Cosplay “Hot for Teacher” anyone?
PS. Does anyone have Van Halen’s “Hot for Teacher” in their head?
TART and sweet
Posted: August 11, 2022 Filed under: lingerie | Tags: BDSM, Corset, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Lace, Panties, sassy, Shopping, submissive, Undergarments 2 Comments
TART – high-waisted lace Eva panties w/ corset detail $34.99
A little Dutch Sass about Life (and Coffee)
Posted: July 25, 2022 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, caffiene, coffee, D/s, dievca, friendship, Humor, Love, Monday, Morning, sassy, Shopping, Tote Leave a commentGood Morning! Have a good week. XO
Sparkle on a sludgy day…
Posted: March 9, 2022 Filed under: Dresses, Shoes | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, green, heels, Party Dress, Purple, rhinestones, sassy, Shoe fetishism, Shopping, Sparkle, Weather Leave a comment
Amina Muaddi Lilac Giorgia Heels

Retrofete Apple Green Dress

Retrofete Apple Green Dress
The rain turned into thick, wet, messy snow. Showing some sparkle and skin would be a treat.
One for the $
Posted: January 26, 2022 Filed under: Discussion, Fashion, Shoes | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Elvis, erotic, poem, sassy, Shoe fetishism, Shopping, submissive Leave a commentOne for the money, two for the show is half of a rhyme used as a countdown to begin a task. The entire rhyme is: one for the money, two for the show, three to make ready and four to go. Children have used this little poem since the mid-1800s as a countdown to starting a race or competition. A famous variation of the rhyme is found in the 1955 popular song Blue Suede Shoes written by Carl Perkins: “Well, it’s one for the money, two for the show, three to get ready, now go, cat, go.”
Feeling the Blue Suede?
Mmmmmm~
Posted: January 19, 2022 Filed under: Entertainment | Tags: BDSM, cartoon, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Humor, quote, Roger Rabbit, sassy, Sexy, submissive Leave a comment“I’m not bad, I’m just drawn that way.”
— Jessica Rabbit (Kathleen Turner) in Who Framed Roger Rabbit (1988)
Get your Groove Back! (BDSM style)
Posted: December 28, 2021 Filed under: Entertainment, Shoes | Tags: 1940's, BDSM, chains, Cosplay, cuffs, D/s, dievca, dresses, Elegant, fun, sassy, Shopping, Stella McCartney, submissive, Swing Dance Leave a comment
STELLA MCCARTNEY
Groove Heels
Buffed faux-leather heels in black. Embossed detailing at round toe. Curb chain ankle strap with lanyard clasp fastening in gold-tone. Tonal covered block heel. Faux-leather sole in tan. Approx. 3.5″ heel.
Made from cruelty-free, non-animal materials.
Supplier color: Black
Upper: synthetic. Sole: synthetic.
Made in Italy.
Available on sale at SSENSE.
You’ll be ready to SWING!
Santa Lingerie – a discussion
Posted: December 2, 2021 Filed under: Analysis, Discussion, Entertainment, lingerie | Tags: BDSM, Christmas, Cosplay, D/s, dievca, erotic, Holidays 2021, Humor, Presentation Outfit, Santa, sassy, Sexy, submissive Leave a commentSanta lingerie has permeated our culture. You can probably picture the garments in question: cherry-red babydoll nightie with white fur trim lining the hem, paired with matching thong, or maybe a red satin and white fur teddy.
How did lingerie evoking Santa, a wholesome and kindly childhood figure whose presence signals a religious virgin birth, get so popular?
Undergarments for women have long been costume-like, and were often meant to dramatically alter female silhouettes. (Whalebone corsets, giant hoops worn under crinoline skirts, a bustle.) Bloomers and petticoats might look dowdy and utilitarian, but eroticizing lingerie isn’t a new trend. Lingerie really started becoming more decorative and luxurious in the late 19th and early 20th centuries.
In1898, after noting a “mania” for colourful, decorative and seductive lingerie throughout Europe, the French journalist Octave Uzanne wrote, “the last remains of feminine modesty sunk out of sight.”
But underwear as a costume is a newer phenomenon. It might be linked with the provocative “underwear as outerwear” period of the 1980s and 90s. At the end of the 20th century, seeing visible underwear became more shocking than the nude body. An example is Madonna’s “Blonde Ambition” cone bra.
That’s the culture that led up to the “fast fashion” lingerie that was so popular in the early 2000s. And the inexpensive “Halloween Slutty” and “Santa Baby” costumes multiplied.
Santa may be a wholesome concept, but he is asking people to sit on his lap, he’s keeping a naughty and nice list, there are songs about Santa kissing women when he comes to visit, people are getting cozy with fur and sitting by a fire, and let’s not forget the unknown quantity of Ms. Santa Claus. Perhaps people who buy Santa lingerie are buying into the commercialized, sexualized lens of those forces~
Working on a new position…
Posted: May 25, 2021 Filed under: Analysis, D/s Relationship, Vintage | Tags: 1950's Household Kink, erotic, Master, Pin-Up, retro, sassy, Sexy, submissive, work Leave a comment“Well, my boss said that if I didn’t like working under him, I should look for another position.”
Hmm~ not exactly appropriate for many reasons from a boss, but appropriate if it was your Sir/Madame.
Christmas Eve prepping!
Posted: December 24, 2020 Filed under: Entertainment, Vintage | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Earl Moran, erotic, Holiday 2020, Ice Skating, Jayne Mansfield, Pin-Up, sassy, Sexy, Winter Leave a comment
Getty Images: Artist Earl Moran gets into the picture himself as he shows Jayne Mansfield how to pose, in a provocative manner, in an ice skater’s outfit.
Ruffles to be ruffled – lingerie
Posted: December 3, 2020 Filed under: lingerie, Vintage | Tags: 1930's, BDSM, d-s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Fetish, fun, Panties, Presentation Outfits, retro, sassy, Sissy, Undergarments Leave a commentverb (used with object), ruf·fled, ruf·fling.
verb (used without object), ruf·fled, ruf·fling.
noun
ORIGIN OF RUFFLE
What to say when Life gets a bit crazy….
Posted: July 24, 2019 Filed under: Jewelry, Musings | Tags: BDSM, Bing Bang NYC, D/s, dievca, earrings, Life, Necklace, NYC, sassy, Shopping, Slave, submissive, swearing 1 CommentIf “merde” doesn’t speak for you – there is something a bit more…ummm… direct. F*ck!
The health benefits of swearing include increased circulation, elevated endorphins, and an overall sense of calm, control, and well-being.
Or you can avoid swearing and get a little good luck or grooviness:
For the Master or Mistress of BBQ
Posted: July 5, 2019 Filed under: Accessories, Home and Garden, Master | Tags: BBQ, Dominant, erotic, friendship, fun, grilling, Humor, Life, Master, NYC, sassy, Shopping, Summer 3 CommentsMaster is heading over to a friend’s Brownstone to be the “Master of the BBQ”.
They are European and haven’t learned the fine art of grilling.
dievca heard some mumbling about the grill not being cleaned properly, etc.
she really wants to send over these naughty roasting sticks:
Let’s take a closer look:
There are “kid-friendly” and “transgender” options, too.
Or you can buy a Gay couple, a Lesbian couple, singles….
Available at Amazon: 805 Metal Craft
A little Nip in the Morning
Posted: June 10, 2019 Filed under: Accessories, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, breasts, coffee cup, D/s, dievca, Fetish, Kink, Monday, Morning, Nipple, sassy, Shopping, submissive, Urban Outfitters 2 CommentsAn engaging way to start your day if you love breasts!
dievca is on Champagne this Morning
Posted: December 3, 2018 Filed under: Discussion, Entertainment, Neighborhood Anecdotes (NYC) | Tags: BDSM, champagne, D/s, dievca, Jury Duty, Life, NYC, prosecco, quotes, rules, sassy, submissive, Tallulah Bankhead 3 CommentsApparently the ADA’s came into a Court Room of the NYC Grand Jury and it smelled heavily of wine, so alcohol has been forbidden in the Courthouse – a memo went out~
Yes, dievca did ask the Warden if the Jury could do something afterward. No go~
she will work the morning holding a coffee, do her Jury Duty, have one Prosecco before hopping on the bike to get to work for the second round.
An extra 20 hours a week (that includes the commute) has taken its toll. dievca needs to celebrate the end.
Who better to celebrate with than Talullah Bankhead?
Now let her get that damn 8 year pass for doing Grand Jury Duty….