Posted: May 30, 2020 Filed under: Jewelry | Tags: 14K, BDSM, Chain, D/s, dievca, Elegant, fashion, Gabriela Artigas, Gold, Ring, Shopping, submissive
Delicate, elegant, inexpensive
Soft Ball Chain Ring by Gabriela Artigas
14K Gold – white, yellow, rose
Soft Ball Chain Ring
Posted: May 28, 2020 Filed under: lingerie | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Etsy, Life, Panties, Shopping, silk, submissive, Undergarments
Erica Waddell Silk Jersey panties – Etsy
dievca was doing a search for silk jersey lingerie. Silk jersey is delicate, smooth, and softer than a t-shirt, the weave of silk jersey allows it to stretch gently like normal cotton underwear. However, silk has optimal air permeability over cotton and most other fibers. It has a luster and demure sophistication.
During the search, dievca ran into Erica Waddell’s Etsy site for custom clothing including lingerie. The site offers an option to choose your type of silk jersey panties – so which type is best?
9 Essential Underwear Every Woman Should Own & What To Wear Them With
Just as a strapless bra is essential when you’re wearing a summer tube dress, seamless underwear is important when you’re wearing a pencil skirt. Here are some suggestions for different types of underwear and what you should pair them with:
1. Boy Shorts
Inspired by men’s boxers, boy shorts tend to be comfortable. They are functional and can be worn with skirts, as well as flared dresses.
2. Classic Briefs
These are regular underwear. The ones you buy in a pack of three or five. You can pair them with almost anything as long as your outfit is not body-hugging because then your panty lines would be on display. Wear with a pleated skirts or jeans.
These panties are low-rise and have wide coverage on the sides. They go with almost everything. So make sure you have more than just a couple of them. Wear them with pants and low-waisted jeans.
Nothing says sexy like thongs do. They’re the perfect underwear type for outfits where the bump of your panty line can ruin the line. Wear a thong with pencil skirts and bodycon dresses.
5. French-Cut Panties
Also known as high-cut panties, these are very 1980s retro. They have a high cut on the leg holes, which makes them better for circulation from the regular ones. They go superbly well with high-waist jeans
They’re very similar to thongs, but these have absolutely no coverage. They’re meant for times when you would like to go commando, but then you would also like some sort of coverage. A little getting used to is required to be perfectly comfortable with this type. Wear with leggings and bodycon dresses.
7. Control Briefs
These are super comfortable and all about functionality. They come with a tight elastic waistband to keep your excess in. They help with bodycon dresses and high waist jeans.
This is one type of panty that everyone should keep on hand. They don’t have stitching on them, making them perfect for every type of dress. Good with pants and sheer dresses.
9. Brazilian Briefs
They have the qualities of both a hipster and a thong. And they are just what you need when you’re vacationing on the beach. Wear them with shorts or a sarong.
Hmm-tough to make a decision….boy shorts, hipsters, briefs or Grannies!
Posted: May 27, 2020 Filed under: Body Type, Dresses, Fashion | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, gala, Life, Presentation Outfits, Sequins, Shopping, submissive
Right about now, dievca should be attending the final fundraiser of the year.
Not happening for obvious reasons…
Its dievca’s habit to keep a lookout for outfits that fit the Gala bill.
she ran into this Riasa & Vanessa outfit that made her look twice and smile.
Then shake her head for the many ways it is just wrong for her build:
- Crop top at this age for formal wear?
- Pants that sweeping and long on a short body? (hard to hem)
- Short torso and curves trying to drape those sequins?
Well, this is what she had planned:
Her Black Halo Lucy Dress in Jellybean with these:
- Stuart Weitzman Axis Sandals Black
- Chandelier Earrings
- Subversive +Target ribbon bracelet
- Garay vintage black fabric clutch
- French Luxe hair combs in black
- Bobbi Brown Art Stick Harlow red
Posted: May 22, 2020 Filed under: Accessories, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, glassware, Life, practical, Shopping, submissive, water
Tablecraft Authentic 1.5 Liter Recycled Green Glass Water Bottle Carafe with Stopper
(click photo for link)
Are you drinking too much coffee? Wine? Gin & Tonics? more Wine?
Keeping water cool in the refrigerator and easily available on the tabletop during meals helps you drink more water.
Or maybe you need that water carafe bedside + aspirin after you drank a bit much…
Toyo Sasaki Glass Night Carafe $79 (click photo for link)
dievca is using both and trying to go easier on the coffee🍮 and vino🍷. XO
Posted: May 18, 2020 Filed under: Accessories, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, coffee, D/s, dievca, Humor, Life, Love, Monday, Morning, Shopping, submissive
Blue Q Kitchen Dish Towel $12.99 (click photo to purchase)
But the list is short.
Posted: May 16, 2020 Filed under: Accessories, Discussion | Tags: BDSM, D/s, definitions, dievca, Gifts, Littles, Opening Ceremony, Relationships, Shopping, Unicorn
Definition 1 of Unicorn related to the BDSM Lifestyle:
There’s a term nearly everybody in the Swinger world, the BDSM world, and the Polyamorous world is familiar with, summarized in one neat, pretty, sparkly mental image of one word: Unicorn. On the surface it’s a simple term, relating to the mythical creature of lore that is rumored to exist but is nearly impossible to find. Furthermore, once found, it’s nearly impossible to keep, for, after all, nobody can really own a unicorn. (credit absinthepassion.wordpress.com )
Colloquial; Synonym for hot or Bi babe or HBB, often derogatory, condescending, or ironic. A bisexual person usually though not always female, who is willing to join an existing couple, often with the presumption that this person will date and become sexually involved with both members of that couple, and not demand anything or do anything which might cause problems or inconvenience to that couple.
The term is often used to be dismissive of a couple seen to be only superficially polyamorous. Because of the demands that this type of couple places on the woman (that she be single and not take on any additional partners, and become involved with both members of the couple equally, and often “complete” their family as a surrogate mother and housekeeper and/or breadwinner and not do anything that may threaten or disrupt the existing couple), many in the poly community call this type of woman a ‘Unicorn’, as in mythical and not likely to be found, even though there are plenty of bi-poly women around.
Sometimes the unicorn is expected to not develop any emotional attachment and is strictly there for a sexual relationship (equally distributed to both members of the dyad) and/or is prescripted as a secondary. This term is used as a reminder that bi-poly women are people with their own desires, needs, and pre-existing lives, and not fantasy figures or pets.
(credit Urban dictionary.com).
If you are looking for a Unicorn buying this Pouch might be a great deal easier.
And it is a lovely item for the Little in your life. XO
Opening Ceremony UNDERCOVER Unicorn Pouch
Printed leather front
White leather back
Zip back closure
On sale for $60 with further discounts available
Opening Ceremony is closing their stores and temporarily closing their website. The sale is quite good.
Posted: May 14, 2020 Filed under: Shoes | Tags: BDSM, bondage, D/s, Dancing, dievca, Elegant, erotic, music, Nile Rodgers, Sandals, Sexy, Shoe fetishism, Shopping, submissive
Strap on the sexy Gianvito Rossi Cory Sandals or something else as fabulous in red,
and take a moment to listen to Nile Rodgers tell the story of David Bowie’s
Red Strappy Cory Sandals
Buffed calfskin heeled sandals in ‘tabasco’ red.
Open round toe.
Adjustable pin-buckle straps.
Leather lining in beige.
Covered stiletto heel.
Leather sole in beige.
Approx. 3″ heel.
Made in Italy.