Presenting in the Pink of the Moment

Posted: September 23, 2022 | Author: dievca | Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, Dresses | Tags: BDSM, bold, confidence, D/s, dievca, fashion, Love, pink, Presentation Outfits, Shopping, Submission, submissive | Leave a comment

The Elder Statesman Pink Overdyed Terry Set

Helmut Lang Fussy Cardigan and Skirt Pink

The Elder Statesman Cashmere Rib Hoodie Pink

It’s everywhere – its not subtle.
A POP of color to bring Joy.
Is there such a thing as a BOLD submissive?
Yes, when Presenting for your Master or Mistress

(click on photos for brands)

What? No, I absolutely need PT

Posted: July 16, 2022 | Author: dievca | Filed under: Entertainment, submissive | Tags: advocate, BDSM, bluntness, D/s, dievca, Doctor, Knee Surgery, Life, physical health, Physical Therapy, proactive, strength, Submission | 3 Comments

dievca finally saw her Orthopedic Surgeon after traveling. Apparently, she arrived at the office after a number of older, non-athletic patients. The Doctor was thrilled with his work and dievca’s range of motion, ability to walk, etc. He didn’t think she had swelling, but he didn’t bother to look at her other knee to compare either…. When he said, “I don’t think you need Physical Therapy”, dievca nearly jacked him up against the wall.

(Side note: we all know dievca as Master’s — this is an example of why dievca needs to “switch” modes to submissive. Growing up with older brothers in a blunt family has taught her to stand up for herself – no problem.)

dievca was polite but emphatic that PT was in her best interests.
(“What f*cking planet are you on?” – was thought but not said.)

she got the script and started this week – her objectives being: getting the quadricep that atrophied to fire, getting the knee swelling down to be fitted for a custom unloader brace, to be able to walk up and down stairs, to make sure both knees are working effectively.

Look, your dievca is amazing (sometimes) – but a PT will help (a lot).

Centipede physical-therapy-what-you-think

Simple elegance in Latex

Posted: July 14, 2022 | Author: dievca | Filed under: Dresses, Latex | Tags: Autumn, bodycon, Coco de Mer, Elegant, erotic, latex, Lingerie, Presentation Outfit, Rubber Fetish, Shopping, Submission, submissive | Leave a comment

$Coco de Mer Latex Dress$

Coco de Mer Latex dress – no longer available.
But in the Autumn – the latex offerings come forward.
Inspiring.

A little D/s with your Tea?

Posted: November 3, 2021 | Author: dievca | Filed under: Home and Garden, Vintage | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, nude, pottery, Submission, submissive, Teapot | Leave a comment

Roger Michell Lustre Pottery Teapot 1976

Roger Michell (1947–2018) was a British studio potter, artist, book illustrator, writer, and poet.
Michell designed various items of Carltonware – He was most known for designing Walking Ware, a tea set on legs with oversized Mary Jane shoes – in the 70s & 80s, then set up his own Studio line of lustreware. Thousands of these tea sets were sold, either hand made from Lustre Pottery studio or manufactured by Carltonware in Stoke-on-Trent.

Interesting on so many levels

Posted: August 1, 2021 | Author: dievca | Filed under: Entertainment, Musings, Vintage | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dominant, Elegant, Humor, retro, Sexy Advertisements, Submission, submissive | Leave a comment

cigars

dievca was looking for a little submissive elegance and ran into this advertisement from the Cigar Institute of America. Their message is interesting on many levels: Why just single girls? Is she a gold digger? Does she just want to be taken care of like a good cigar? Can you truly justify that starting to smoke cigars young will keep you young? She does look older than he does. If you don’t inhale you can still enjoy the rich flavor – is that like not swallowing in fellatio? Hmm – much to think about~

A grueling week has ended.

Posted: April 16, 2021 | Author: dievca | Filed under: Entertainment, submissive | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, exhaustion, Sexy, sleep, Submission, tired, work | Leave a comment

April Flowers

Posted: April 7, 2021 | Author: dievca | Filed under: Entertainment, submissive | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Flowers, ropework, Shibari, Spring, Submission, Weather | Leave a comment

Flower Tushy

Or is that May Flowers?

All dievca knows is that NYC is starting to blossom.

Something lovely to see. XO

Subtle bondage in Boots

Posted: March 27, 2021 | Author: dievca | Filed under: Fashion, Shoes | Tags: BDSM, bondage, boots, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Gianvito Rossi, Leather, practical, Submission, submissive | Leave a comment

gianvito-rossi-chain-embellished-leather-knee-boots-black

Gianvito Rossi Gold chain-embellished leather boots $1600 Net-A-Porter (click on photo)

Gianvito Rossi‘s pair is made from smooth black leather and has gold anklets inspired by equestrian hardware.
Lovely and useful for unpredictable Spring weather.
Showing your BDSM leanings in a subtle manner.

Don’t forget to wear Green!

Posted: March 17, 2021 | Author: dievca | Filed under: Accessories, D/s Relationship | Tags: BDSM, bondage, D/s, dievca, Presentation Outfit, ropes, ropework, Saint Patrick's Day, Shibari, Submission, submissive | Leave a comment

Subtle Restraint in a Vintage Ring

Posted: March 2, 2021 | Author: dievca | Filed under: Jewelry | Tags: 14K, BDSM, bondage, D/s, dievca, Elegant, fashion, padlock, restraints, Ring, Slave, Submission, submissive | Leave a comment

Lock yourself in 1940’s Elegance
Handmade 14K Vintage Padlock Ring
Size 6 – can be re-sized
Manhattan Vintage online
Icon Style
$595

Subtly show your BDSM leanings,
a daily restraint reminder for the submissive.

She’s Got Legs! Newly Waxed – show the smoothness

Posted: February 13, 2021 | Author: dievca | Filed under: Clothing, Home and Garden, Shoes, submissive | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, erotic, Life, Love, Presentation Outfits, self-care, Sexy, Shoe fetishism, Submission, waxing | Leave a comment

It’s a real treat during COVID.
Time to show it off.
No Stockings.

Anna-Sui-Peacock-Blue-Abstract-Print-Draped-Cowl-Neckline

ACNE Studios Snakeskin Brown Sandal

Melissa Joy Manning 14K Hoop Earrings

Marla Aaron 14K Baby lock and Sterling Silver Chain

Self-care has been limited or put on hold,
but a great way to feel a bit better is to treat yourself in a safe manner.
Haircut, waxing, facials, massage, Mani/Pedi, etc.
Masks, Outdoors, Open Windows.

dievca went for the waxing and had to show-off her gams to Master.

Acne Studios Shoes,
Anna Sui Silk Jersey Dress,
Marla Aaron Babylock and Curb Chain 14K/Sterling,
Melissa Joy Manning 14K

(click on the photos to enlarge)

Do you get wet just thinking about your Sir/Madame?

Posted: January 16, 2021 | Author: dievca | Filed under: Analysis, D/s Relationship, submissive | Tags: ball gag, BDSM, bondage, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Mask, Master, Slave, Submission | Leave a comment

It’s the anticipation and completion.

Sexy Ice Fairy – Presentation Outfit

Posted: December 22, 2020 | Author: dievca | Filed under: Clothing, submissive | Tags: BDSM, Cosplay, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, fun, Presentation Outfit, Sexy, Shoe fetishism, Shopping, Submission, Winter | Leave a comment

Ice Fairy Top Etsy $70 (click photo to purchase)

Retrofête Luna Asymmetric Metallic Mini Skirt IfChic $162 (click photo to purchase)

Saint Laurent Robin Metallic Strappy Heels Neiman Marcus $591 on sale (Click photo to purchase)

Donna Salyers Faux Fur White Mink Coat $599 (click photo to purchase)

Sexy
Dynamic
Easy Access
Fun
Different

“diversity, dievca, diversity”

Sprinkled Kisses

Posted: November 4, 2020 | Author: dievca | Filed under: D/s Relationship, Musings, submissive | Tags: BDSM, cock worship, D/s, dievca, Fellatio, fun, Lips, Love, Master, Relationships, Sex, Submission | Leave a comment

A lipstick ring around your cock is a beautiful way to start cock worship. But to change it up, should we try sugar sprinkled lips? A sweet taste with a light massage and lots of spit to dissolve the little balls which can be used to massage the larger balls. Envision a lot of licking and kissing. Sounds like a very nice way to brighten up the day.

Stockings, Heels, a pair of Gloves…

Posted: September 26, 2020 | Author: dievca | Filed under: submissive, Vintage | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Fetish, gloves, Presentation Outfits, Sexy, smile, stockings, Submission | Leave a comment

and a Smile.

An Excellent Presentation Outfit
for your Sir or Madame.

It’s dievca’s Birthday week

Posted: September 22, 2020 | Author: dievca | Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, Birthday, bondage, celebration, D/s, dievca, Food, Humor, Kink, Life, Love, Submission, submissive | Leave a comment

she doesn’t see a birthday cake in her future, but this submissive design made her laugh!
dievca does see Maryland crabs and crabcakes arriving tomorrow –
🤞 (cross fingers) that they are good.
she used to order from Annapolis Seafood, but they stopped shipping
so she’s trying a new place in Rockville, MD.

Click photo for link to Cameron’s Seafood online store

He’s home, He’s home, He’s home

Posted: August 18, 2020 | Author: dievca | Filed under: D/s Relationship, Master | Tags: ++, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dominance and submission, Elegant, erotic, Life, Love, NYC, Relationships, Sexy, Submission | Leave a comment

Photo: Jon Stars, Prospect Park NY w Nicola Collie

Your Master arrived safely.
The humidity has broken.
D/s outside might be an option.
Joy!

Still waiting~

Posted: August 15, 2020 | Author: dievca | Filed under: D/s Relationship, submissive | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, erotic, Life, masturbation, Orgasm, self-care, stockings, Submission, travel | Leave a comment

upon Master’s return.

Bombshell in lingerie: Mamie van Doren

Posted: July 23, 2020 | Author: dievca | Filed under: lingerie, Vintage | Tags: 1950's Household Kink, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Pin-Up, Presentation Outfits, retro, Submission, submissive, Undergarments | Leave a comment

I truly believe that one of the reasons why I look and feel so well
is because I’ve very few inhibitions.
I don’t care about age.
Life is too short to worry about what other people think. ~Mamie van Doren

It is possible that blondes also prefer gentlemen.
~ Mamie van Doren

A Moment to Take a Load Off~

Posted: July 7, 2020 | Author: dievca | Filed under: D/s Relationship, Master, submissive | Tags: BDSM, bondage, cock worship, D/s, dievca, Dominant, erotic, Life, Submission | Leave a comment

Sometimes the Power Exchange Merges

with or without THORNS

Posted: June 12, 2020 | Author: dievca | Filed under: Accessories | Tags: BDSM, dievca, erotic, Fetish, flogger, impact play, Kink, Leather, Shopping, Submission | Leave a comment

Ardour red roses with thorns flogger – click photo

The phrase ‘there is no rose without thorns‘ means that in order to enjoy something that is beautiful and pleasurable, you must endure something that is difficult or painful.

Ardour leather red roses flogger – no thorns (click photo)

Restraints

Posted: May 23, 2020 | Author: dievca | Filed under: D/s Relationship, Musings | Tags: BDSM, bondage, D/s, dievca, erotic, Kink, Life, Love, Master, Submission | Leave a comment

If you are tied up, anything can happen. Even if nothing happens beyond kissing, the physical nature of being bound heightens everything.

With extra time on hand, dievca took a BDSM test for giggles (www.bdsmtest.org) – her results are above. she was taken aback by “Rope Bunny” being the highest percentage – especially since rope bondage (shibari) is really not one of her or Master’s interests.

she’s been pondering the high percentage ever since.

The aha! moment came yesterday after meeting and playing with Master. Master created various cuff and strap connections during play, in response dievca switched submissive and moved all in.

Master asked her about being restrained afterward and she had a hard time verbalizing exactly why she is able to let go fully.
The gist is that dievca isn’t interested in full bondage for beauty or complete limitation of movement.
she is interested in being restrained to place full trust in Master and take away control from pieces of her body to focus fully on Master and other bodily responses. The energy from the restraints can be pushed elsewhere.

Does that make sense?

Fade Into You – where do you go?

Posted: March 29, 2020 | Author: dievca | Filed under: D/s Relationship, Home and Garden, submissive | Tags: BDSM, behavior, comfort, COVID-19, D/s, dievca, habits, Life, Master, Submission | Leave a comment

Where do you go when the World gets a little crazy?
What habits, activities, processes happen?
dievca is still working, but when she has a chunk of open time after wiping down the refrigerator….three things may occur:

1. The vintage 1990’s Champion Sweats appear, cosy and worn in
2. Alexa plays Classic Cassette Era Rock, 1970’s Pop, 1980’s New Wave, 1990’s Alternative
3. dievca’s nose gets stuck in a Sci-Fi / Fantasy novel

Master just laughs at His dievca when she hides from the World – He knows she’ll come back to Reality with Him.

But Master isn’t here and dievca has slipped into her 90’s Alternative Universe with Mazzy Star. Yes, she has her Champion Reverseweave Sweatshirt on:

What do you do to slip away?

Mazzy Star – Fade Into You – 10/2/1994 – Shoreline Amphitheatre (Official)

Fade Into You
Mazzy Star
I wanna hold the hand inside you
I wanna take the breath that’s true
I look to you and I see nothing
I look to you to see the truth
You live your life, you go in shadow
You’ll come upon and you’ll go black
Some kind of night into your darkness
Close your eyes with what’s not there
Fade into you
Strange you never knew
Fade into you
I think it’s strange you never knew
The strange light comes on slowly
A stranger’s heart is out of home
You put your hands into your head
And your smiles cover your heart

Songwriters: David Roback / Hope Sandoval

History of Hair – Presentation Options

Posted: March 15, 2020 | Author: dievca | Filed under: Discussion, Entertainment, submissive | Tags: BDSM, Cosplay, D/s, dievca, fashion, Hair, Life, Presentation Outfits, Submission | Leave a comment

Well…options for dievca to work on.
Her hair hasn’t looked like any of these options.
Ever.
(Wait! She did have a pixie cut at one time)
How about your hair?

Stretching in the Sun~

Posted: March 10, 2020 | Author: dievca | Filed under: D/s Relationship, submissive | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dominance and submission, erotic, Kink, Relationships, Sexy, Submission | Leave a comment

Good Morning!

Wiggle Worm Moon

Posted: March 9, 2020 | Author: dievca | Filed under: Discussion, Entertainment | Tags: Ass, ass play, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dominant, erotic, Fetish, Monday, Submission, submissive | Leave a comment

A big, bright Full Worm Moon will appear in the east on Monday, March 9th.
It might make your Sir’s worm wiggle…

Although the Super Worm Moon officially reaches 100-percent illumination at 1:48 p.m EDT and 10:42 p.m PDT, it’s much more impressive if viewed as it appears low on the horizon.

In New York, sunset is at 6:57 p.m. EDT and moonrise is at 5:56 p.m. EDT, while in Los Angeles sunset occurs at 6:56 p.m. PDT, followed by moonrise at 6:14 p.m. PDT.

If the sky isn’t clear on Monday, check again at dawn, when the moon will be setting in the west. In New York, sunrise is at 7:15 a.m. EDT and moonset 8:06 a.m. EDT, while in LA, sunrise is at 7:09 a.m. PDT and moonset 7:58 a.m. PDT.