Fanciful Unicorn

On a lighter note – but following the childhood innocence theme – the La Double J Mini Swing Dress in Giungla brings color and clean lines to Life.  Might be a good choice to indicate your interest in being a Little or a Unicorn.

La Double J Mini Swing Dress Glungla ShopBop Unicorn

  • Fabric: Lightweight, non-stretch silk twill
  • Rainforest print
  • Jewel neckline and short sleeves
  • Hidden zip at back
  • On-seam hip pockets
  • Shell: 100% silk
  • Unlined
  • Dry clean
  • Made in Italy
  • $520

La Double J Mini Swing Dress Glungla ShopBop Unicorn Close-up

If you are wishing for a Unicorn

Definition 1 of Unicorn related to the BDSM Lifestyle:
There’s a term nearly everybody in the Swinger world, the BDSM world, and the Polyamorous world is familiar with, summarized in one neat, pretty, sparkly mental image of one word: Unicorn. On the surface it’s a simple term, relating to the mythical creature of lore that is rumored to exist but is nearly impossible to find. Furthermore, once found, it’s nearly impossible to keep, for, after all, nobody can really own a unicorn. (credit )

Definition 2:
Colloquial; Synonym for hot or Bi babe or HBB, often derogatory, condescending, or ironic. A bisexual person usually though not always female, who is willing to join an existing couple, often with the presumption that this person will date and become sexually involved with both members of that couple, and not demand anything or do anything which might cause problems or inconvenience to that couple.

The term is often used to be dismissive of a couple seen to be only superficially polyamorous. Because of the demands that this type of couple places on the woman (that she be single and not take on any additional partners, and become involved with both members of the couple equally, and often “complete” their family as a surrogate mother and housekeeper and/or breadwinner and not do anything that may threaten or disrupt the existing couple), many in the poly community call this type of woman a ‘Unicorn’, as in mythical and not likely to be found, even though there are plenty of bi-poly women around.

Sometimes the unicorn is expected to not develop any emotional attachment and is strictly there for a sexual relationship (equally distributed to both members of the dyad) and/or is prescripted as a secondary. This term is used as a reminder that bi-poly women are people with their own desires, needs, and pre-existing lives, and not fantasy figures or pets.
(credit Urban

If you are looking for a Unicorn buying this Pouch might be a great deal easier.
And it is a lovely item for the Little in your life. XO

Opening Ceremony UNDERCOVER Unicorn Pouch
Printed leather front
White leather back
Zip back closure
On sale for $60 with further discounts available
Opening Ceremony is closing their stores and temporarily closing their website. The sale is quite good.

I prefer to start my day with Coffee,

but here is something for the Littles after their coffee:

And on that note:

The BDSM Holy Grail

From Wildfox, click photo for purchase

Definition – What does Unicorn mean?

Colloquial;  A unicorn in polyamory, BDSM or swinging lifestyles is usually a bisexual single female who is willing to have sex or serve or enter into a relationship with an established couple. Although unicorns are usually female, this term can apply to persons of other genders.

Note: The Unicorn is willing to date both members of the existing couple, agree not to have any relationships other than the ones with the couple, agree not to be sexually involved with one member of the couple unless the other member of the couple is present or has given permission, and/or agree to move in with the couple. Because this type of person is hard to find, they are akin to the rare, mythical unicorn.

(dievca modified the definition from Kinkly and More Than Two)

dievca thought because they are so hard to find — maybe wearing this Sweatshirt would make the connection easier. XO


Description: Knit cotton-blend hoodie

  • Attached hood with adjustable drawstring
  • Graphic front
  • Kangaroo pocket
  • Banded cuffs and hem
  • Tonal topstitching and panel seaming

Measurements: * 44″ in circumference at bust; 24″ from shoulder to hem; taken from a size L * Model’s height is 5’9″

Material: 70% cotton and 30% polyester

Care: Hand or machine wash cold

Brand: Wildfox

Origin: United States