Killed it!
Posted: April 7, 2023 Filed under: Entertainment, submissive | Tags: BDSM, celebration, D/s, dievca, Grateful, Joy, Life, relief, submissive, Wine, work Leave a commentdievca had a project and it blew up larger than expected!
She hit it out of the ballpark.
That doesn’t always happen.
Shazam!
Enjoying a glass of wine to celebrate.
dievca hopes you have had something good happen, too. XO
The Gardens of Santar
Posted: June 20, 2022 Filed under: Entertainment | Tags: BDSM, Corpus Christi, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Flowers, friendship, garden, Love, Portugal, Summer, travel, Wine Leave a commentBuilt on a Rock – Viseu
Posted: June 19, 2022 Filed under: Entertainment | Tags: BDSM, Church Catholic, D/s, dievca, Portugal, rock, terrain, travel, Vacation, Wine Leave a comment(click on photos to enlarge)
The origins of the city of Viseu date back to the Celtic period when it was called ‘Vissaîegobor’. With its Romanization, the settlement gained importance and was renamed ‘Vissaium’, being at the intersection of a series of Roman roads linking Mérida, Lisbon, and Galicia.
Viseu is associated with Viriathus, since it is thought that the Lusitanian hero may have been born in this region. After the Roman occupation of the peninsula, under the Visigoths, the settlement was elevated to the status of city and to the seat of a diocese by at least the 6th century.
Viseu is a regional economic hub with a strong wine industry and is the seat of international conglomerate Visabeira. The city is also a cultural center, home to the nationally acclaimed Grão Vasco Museum, seat of the Roman Catholic Diocese of Viseu, and center of national universities, including the Catholic University of Portugal.
(Thank You to Wiki)
Photos: dievca, Viseu Portugal – 06/2022
Shovel the Snow
Posted: January 5, 2022 Filed under: Clothing, Entertainment, Home and Garden, Shoes | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, elderly parents, Humor, Life, Love, Midwest, Shopping, snow, travel, Wine, Winter 3 Commentsto get to the Laundrymat to clean towels, pads, and clothing because the wash machine went out….It’s been years since dievca has had to gather quarters for the machines.Â
dievca’s desperation of not initially recognizing a wine bottle shape in the bottom cupboard was a bit pathetic. The wine is a solid Malbec and a good way to end a day of chores.Â
Mom is good, dievca got her best – but she is fading. Mom is going to go down with dignity and a healthy splash of humor~
dievca absolutely loves that her Mom cannot remember that she broke her hip twice or what she ate, but she damn well knows that dievca brought her favorite chocolates and asks about dievca’s Apple Green Dries van Noten Platform Sandals. (Note: Mom is bed/wheelchair bound, but dievca has put all the shoes on her Mother’s feet – just to get the “look”.)
dievca schlepped two pair of kick a** boots for Mom to review, platform leather Chuck Taylors, a +J Uniqlo Mixed Knit Sweater a friend gave to her and the crazy print LA Double J reversible down coat. dievca’s Mom loved it all.Â
Chocolates and Fashion – there is some kind of philosophical “Meaning of Life” in those choices.
seems appropriate
Posted: December 29, 2020 Filed under: Home and Garden, Relationships | Tags: BDSM, D/s, desperation, dievca, Family, Life, Love, Mother, Re/done, serving, Shopping, t-shirt, Wine 3 Comments
RE/Done ‘Just Bring Wine’ Tee $125
Actually, it’s not desperate.
dievca’s Mom had a bath at Noon (it takes two people) and that wiped her out until dievca woke her at 4:55 pm. Why 4:55 pm? Because her Mom insisted that Jane Eyre would be on TV at 5:00 pm… Yes, it was on – because dievca downloaded it onto the tablet from Amazon Prime.
(dievca’s brother canceled cable TV)
dievca fed her Mom dinner and watched the 2011 version with her – good acting, but it is a sad movie.
Big Band Music to pick up the mood while getting Mom ready for bed and now dievca is seeking wine.
There is no wine to be had ~ hence the appropriate t-shirt graphic.
(Wine is on the grocery list for tomorrow.) 😉
When you have done your part and…
Posted: November 3, 2020 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden | Tags: 2020 USA elections, BDSM, Bubble Bath, D/s, dievca, health benefits, Life, self-care, Stress, voting, Wine Leave a comment you cannot control an outcome.
It might be healthier to step away rather than obsessing~
Something of Use: Silicone Wine Glasses
Posted: July 3, 2020 Filed under: Accessories, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, homegoods, Life, Shopping, silicone, something of use, submissive, Summer, Wine Leave a comment
Naomi Campbell with 1993 Mick and Bono (the dogs), Jean Pigozzi
When dievca lived in Europe she stopped to see friends who were packing to move to Switzerland. The wife, who was Irish, offered dievca a glass of wine and was about to pour it into a plastic cup – they were packing to move. The husband, who was French, went meltdown and dug through the kitchen boxes to find the proper wine glasses. Ever since then, dievca has tried to offer the proper glass for a specific drink type. she won’t drink out of the can. But, on the other hand, she has broken beer and wine glasses on the rooftop. It is a mess.
Having a wine outside by the pool or on the rooftop may be the Highlight of this COVID-19 Summer.
Meeting friends for a 2-meter spacing dinner in a park calls for easy to carry, easy to eat food and accouterments.
Breaking a wine glass and having to clean it up – would just add to the 6 feet spacing stress.
dievca found some silicone wine glasses at Walmart.com, $11.99 for four. she bought Master a set, too.
Unbreakable Outdoor Rubber Wine Cups: 14 oz, Clear Silicone. 100% Dishwasher Safe, Shatterproof, can for easy carrying or storage. Solid grip, stable on the table. Replaces the one-use plastic.
she does wonder what Marius would say about the silicone….
Party on! Safely. XO
What is helping EVERYONE get through…
Posted: April 8, 2020 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, COVID-19, D/s, dievca, Humor, Life, Love, mental health, Shopping, submissive, Wine Leave a commentdievca’s good friend in Europe has found a similar solution as to how many New Yorkers are getting through ‘social distancing”…
Looks like her friend has found a really good bottle of wine. 😉
XO
After work — for your Sir/Madam
Posted: February 15, 2020 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Musings, Submission | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Life, Presentation Outfits, Slave, submissive, Wine, work 2 Comments
Keep it simple and clean.
Sexy will shine through.
she works Hard for the $
Posted: November 3, 2019 Filed under: Analysis, Entertainment, submissive, Vintage | Tags: BDSM, body, chocolate, D/s, dievca, exhaustion, Life, submissive, Wine, work Leave a comment
It was a long, arduous Saturday.
Please refer back to Saturday’s post
for where dievca’s mind has stopped.
(Does anyone have wine and all-ready-made chocolate cake for dievca?)
What a great Sister-In-Law!
Posted: September 1, 2019 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden, Relationships | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, elderly parents, Family, Humor, Life, Love, submissive, survival, travel, Wine 4 CommentsWhen someone in the Family just gets it…

dievca was grateful, really grateful~
And that watermelon? That is the way everyone is getting dievca’s Dad to have enough water intake since he insisted upon removing his feeding tube.
Well, he’s not dead, yet!
Umm, Dad might not make it to 88 if he keeps following dievca around the house telling her how to do things…
Umm- was this a Bordello?
Posted: August 28, 2019 Filed under: Entertainment, submissive | Tags: BDSM, Beer, D/s, dievca, Life, lisbon, Love, photo, Shopping, Summer, travel, views, Wine 5 Comments
It started with a lovely seafood lunch, topped off with a chocolate mousse.
The walk up the hill offered a chance for some views:
And some shopping:
Some of which was in a Bordello:
Actually, it was a very stately house that was a single family home (palace) for many years until the family couldn’t afford the upkeep. Part of the house was used as a movie set for two years – a French film for which the set designers created the nudes in the entry way and double stair case. Of course, dievca had to ask if it was a house ill-repute.
And a final walk through a park with ancient trees, Magnolia and other:
And a final beer for the way home:
Photos: dievca, Lisbon Portugal 08/2019
On the go – flight to relaxation. Have a good Saturday!
Posted: August 10, 2019 Filed under: Entertainment | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Environment, Life, Portugal, submissive, Summer, travel, traveling, Wine 2 Comments
‘Everybody else is going green, so we will too- Bring us a bottle of vinho verde.”
And she was~
Posted: January 13, 2019 Filed under: Relationships | Tags: 1980's, Death, dievca, Friends, friendship, Hospice, Life, Love, music, privilege, Relationships, Wine 10 Comments
Floating Girl by Jonathan Robrecht
A most beautiful friend died yesterday.
I got to see her, say “I love you” and hold her hand before she moved on.
I’m hoping that she was able to float out on the next plane, blissing out, losing her pain.
“I used to know a blissed-out hippie-chick in Baltimore,” recalled Byrne in the liner notes of Once in a Lifetime: The Best of Talking Heads. “She once told me that she used to do acid (the drug, not music) and lay down on the field by the Yoo-hoo chocolate soda factory. Flying out of her body, etc etc. It seemed like such a tacky kind of transcendence… but it was real! A new kind of religion being born out of heaps of rusted cars and fast food joints. And this girl was flying above it all, but in it too.”
Then as I thought about it more — I think that my friend would prefer to leave you with this:
Me? I’m firmly on the ground.
On the Go~
Posted: September 30, 2017 Filed under: Analysis, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Life, NYC, picnic, Shopping, submissive, Summer, Wine 7 CommentsDo you love picnics?
Is it still warm by you?
Nice for a bike ride and a meal?
Travel wine?
Originally spotted in a Scandinavian Liquor Store while sourcing a local liquor as a gift. The first offering’s name is stellar!:
Then found in a local NYC sandwich shop (‘wichCraft):
dievca loves picnics and is intrigued by the convenience of a canned wine. But she’s leery to waste her money and taste buds on bad wine.
Has anyone given them a try?

Winemag.com / Photo by Meg Baggott
As promised: the Wine Labels
Posted: September 3, 2016 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden | Tags: 1950's Household Kink, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Etsy, Funny, Life, Master, Shopping, Sloshed Sisters, submissive, Wine 4 Commentsdievca said she found some Retro Wine Labels for you all to buy. Â The store on Etsy is called Sloshed Sisters and they offer all different kinds of Beer and Wine labels.
The labels dievca is interested in are called Hostess Labels.
If Wine Bottles could speak…
Posted: July 22, 2016 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dominance and submission, Dominant, fun, Life, Master, Shopping, submissive, Wine 6 Comments
Sometimes you need the wine to speak to you/for you
and if the bottle could do it…
all the better.
(click on one photo to get into the gallery to see all the bottles)
Master is the wine connoisseur and dievca loves His selections. she would just like to add an appropriately fun label to the bottle after Master opens the wine.
Can you imagine your Sir/Madame’s face when offering His/Her glass after pouring from the relabeled bottle?
No, you cannot buy these labels,
but dievca found some cool ones on Etsy.
she will be sharing them is a future post.
Thank you to Tasting Table, Refinery 29 and vinepair.com