Options for a last minute gift~
Posted: December 21, 2023 Filed under: Accessories, Neighborhood Anecdotes (NYC) | Tags: crossbody, Gifts, handbags, Holidays 2023, Humor, Kate Spade, NYC, Shopping Leave a commentdievca was in a MALL yesterday. A bit of a high end mall. she had business at Cartier – but that is for another post. Anyways, dievca had to kill time and she ended up wandering into Coach, Theory, Tory Burch and Kate Spade.
Kate Spade had the more affordable options which were also fun!
- Pizza Slice Clutch
- “I 💖 NY” Tote
- Rhinestone Red Apple Clutch/Crossbody
- Shearling Crossbody
- Subway MetroCard small Wallet/Keychain holder
“I have stopped trying to figure you out…”
Posted: April 17, 2019 Filed under: Accessories, D/s Relationship, Musings | Tags: acceptance, BDSM, D/s, dievca, differences, Dominance and submission, Kate Spade, Life, Love, Master, Passport, Relationships, Shopping, submissive, travel 5 CommentsNo, Master did not give up on His dievca – he just has accepted that His dievca reacts and does things differently than He expects when she is not in submissive mode. she is a completely different personality type than what Master normally hangs out with~
dievca pointed out that their underlying value structure and overall beliefs are the same – it’s just the day-to-day view of Life, ability to function and their conclusions after processing information is different.
dievca is a fox, Master is a hedgehog.
Makes for interesting conversations, activities and occasional irritations.
Along with having similar core values, both Master and dievca are well-traveled. Master travels more heavily internationally, 5 of 7 Continents. dievca, 3 of 7 Continents – but she visits more States.
Having different travel habits, dievca is very spacial and can pack a suitcase masterfully. Master cannot recreate the packing that dievca does for Him, so they have learned that she needs to leave Him extra space for, uh, messy packing.
Master would never use a passport cover. dievca has used one since college and just retired it after 20+ years to pay homage of being a Fox….
dievca’s retired Kate Spade 1990’s passport cover
dievca’s new passport cover 2019
As Master has given up on figuring dievca out – dievca has settled into knowing that her Master will always fascinate her with His responses (or non-responses) to certain issues in Life.
Both Master and dievca have decided to accept each other – as is.
‘Chemical Play’: Some like it HOT!
Posted: January 2, 2019 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, Dresses, Poetry | Tags: 1950's Household Kink, BDSM, Chili Peppers, D/s, dievca, Elegant, fashion, Kate Spade, Life, Presentation Outfits, Shopping, Slave, submissive 2 Comments
Some Like It Hot, Marilyn Monroe
Does anyone have burnout from the Holidays? Can dievca distract you with a Hot Chili Pepper or two?
Definition – What does Chemical Play mean?
Chemical play refers to the use of chemical substances, often in liquid form, during sex. These chemicals are means of increasing excitement through different tactile sensations. They are applied sensually through caresses and sometimes, even using sexual body parts such as the penis or nipples. Substances used include chili peppers, tabasco, lemon, cinnamon, ginger, Bengay, Tiger Balm, and Vicks Vapor Rub. These are applied anywhere on the body, including favorites such as the genitals, anus, inner thighs, and tongue.
Chemical play can be very exciting. It adds another level of sensation during sex which can increase the intensity of orgasms. Remember that introducing foreign substances to ones body has innate risks. At the very least, applying these chemicals can cause temporary burns. Safety FIRST! When one intends to play with chemicals, test the substances and have items that can counter their effects nearby, such as water, milk, and anti-inflammatory medicine.
A comprehensive primer on CHEMICAL PLAY – please read before playing!
Coin purse, earrings and dress from Kate Spade.
plus a haiku from a Cape Cod hot sauce maker Rooster Fricke called “The Chili”:
Ooooh! It’s way too hot.
I will not do that again.
Until the next time.
dievca disasters: Holiday Party 2016
Posted: December 22, 2017 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, Disasters, Entertainment | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Empire State Building, fashion, fun, Kate Spade, Life, Miss Piggy, NYC, Shopping, submissive 12 Comments
What happened to dievca, last year….a dievca disaster.
All Typed Up: Kate Spade
Posted: January 28, 2016 Filed under: Accessories | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, fashion, Kate Spade, Leather, Life, Master, Shopping, submissive 17 Commentsdievca doesn’t consider herself a writer.
Master is a writer: His talents and gifts are amazing.
dievca does find herself looking at a keyboard – much more than she ever dreamed of
and she is enjoying the time spent there.
So, as a nod to that joy of attempting to write and
fulfilling the need for a red handbag —
dievca stalked eBay to purchase a certain Kate Spade purse:
The Clyde.
Whimsical retro-inspired design defines a lightly textured leather satchel with a structured silhouette, furnished with an optional crossbody strap and dual patent leather handles.
- Top zip closure.
- Exterior zip-around pocket.
- Interior zip, wall and cell phone pockets.
- Custom woven script jacquard lining.
- Protective metal feet.
- Leather.
- By kate spade new york; imported
Did dievca do well? she thinks so — at least it makes her smile. 😀
Splash OUT with Kate Spade!
Posted: July 16, 2015 Filed under: Accessories | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, fashion, Kate Spade, Master, Shopping, Slave, submissive, Summer 10 Comments
Kate Spade Splash Out Melly Clutch
Kate Spade Splash Out Crab Purse
Kate Spade Splash Out Flip Flop coin Purse
Kate Spade Splash Out Clam Shell Purse
Dear Santa, I wish….
Posted: December 15, 2014 Filed under: Accessories | Tags: BDSM, bondage, D/s, dievca, Dominant, erotic, Kate Spade, Kink, Master, submissive 13 Comments
Kate Spade Santa Mittens
Kate Spade Santa Hat
For Santa to come down off the roof, sneak in my house, tie me up, and give all that I dream of to my Dom, to please him and surprise him with all his dreams and fantasies…To give him a break from life and stress for just one day, then I would like to spoil him and pamper him until he could take no more.
Then, get naked and roll around with him until morning.
~ sagacity.com
Let the Hands do the Talking: Kate Spade
Posted: November 17, 2014 Filed under: Accessories | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dominant, fashion, Kate Spade, Kink, Master, mittens, Shopping, Slave, submissive 20 CommentsAs the cold weather arrives…
a great debate begins to take place:
Mittens vs. Gloves
GLOVE ENTHUSIASTS ARGUE:
The glove-wearers among us state that they prefer them because they provide more dexterity than mittens. Also, they say, gloves insulate each digit individually, while mittens do so only for the thumb.
MITTEN DEVOTEES COUNTER WITH:
Body heat. Your fingers, when bundled together, are better able to generate heat using one another. Plus, when it comes to snow sports, how much dexterity do you really need? You can just as easily hold your poles and put Frosty’s carrot nose into place with your mittens as well as you can with a gloved set of fingers.
THE EXPERT’S TAKE ON THINGS:
The single most important step you can take in keeping your hands warm is to make sure they stay as dry as possible. The more moist your hands get, the higher the potential that they’ll get cold.
dievca will take the mittens, please.
The ones with the “Air Quotes”.
XO
More information: http://www.theclymb.com/stories/out-there/gloves-versus-mittens-educated-debate/
Kate Spade Saturday: BDSM at the Office
Posted: November 6, 2014 Filed under: Shoes | Tags: BDSM, bondage, D/s, dievca, Dominant, erotic, fashion, Kate Spade, Kink, Leather, Master, Shoe fetishism, Shopping, submissive 14 Comments
Clean, Classy
and a little Strappy
Perhaps a little Sassy
and asking to be made Happy.
Oh Dear, that was pathetic - wasn't it? Well, at least the shoes are awesome. XO
dievca 