No, Master did not give up on His dievca – he just has accepted that His dievca reacts and does things differently than He expects when she is not in submissive mode. she is a completely different personality type than what Master normally hangs out with~
dievca pointed out that their underlying value structure and overall beliefs are the same – it’s just the day-to-day view of Life, ability to function and their conclusions after processing information is different.
dievca is a fox, Master is a hedgehog.
Makes for interesting conversations, activities and occasional irritations.
Along with having similar core values, both Master and dievca are well-traveled. Master travels more heavily internationally, 5 of 7 Continents. dievca, 3 of 7 Continents – but she visits more States.
Having different travel habits, dievca is very spacial and can pack a suitcase masterfully. Master cannot recreate the packing that dievca does for Him, so they have learned that she needs to leave Him extra space for, uh, messy packing.
Master would never use a passport cover. dievca has used one since college and just retired it after 20+ years to pay homage of being a Fox….
As Master has given up on figuring dievca out – dievca has settled into knowing that her Master will always fascinate her with His responses (or non-responses) to certain issues in Life.
Both Master and dievca have decided to accept each other – as is.
Does anyone have burnout from the Holidays? Can dievca distract you with a Hot Chili Pepper or two?
Definition – What does Chemical Play mean?
Chemical play refers to the use of chemical substances, often in liquid form, during sex. These chemicals are means of increasing excitement through different tactile sensations. They are applied sensually through caresses and sometimes, even using sexual body parts such as the penis or nipples. Substances used include chili peppers, tabasco, lemon, cinnamon, ginger, Bengay, Tiger Balm, and Vicks Vapor Rub. These are applied anywhere on the body, including favorites such as the genitals, anus, inner thighs, and tongue.
Chemical play can be very exciting. It adds another level of sensation during sex which can increase the intensity of orgasms. Remember that introducing foreign substances to ones body has innate risks. At the very least, applying these chemicals can cause temporary burns. Safety FIRST! When one intends to play with chemicals, test the substances and have items that can counter their effects nearby, such as water, milk, and anti-inflammatory medicine.
A comprehensive primer on CHEMICAL PLAY – please read before playing!
Coin purse, earrings and dress from Kate Spade.
plus a haiku from a Cape Cod hot sauce maker Rooster Fricke called “The Chili”:
Ooooh! It’s way too hot.
I will not do that again.
Until the next time.
What happened to dievca, last year….a dievca disaster.
dievca doesn’t consider herself a writer.
Master is a writer: His talents and gifts are amazing.
dievca does find herself looking at a keyboard – much more than she ever dreamed of
and she is enjoying the time spent there.
So, as a nod to that joy of attempting to write and
fulfilling the need for a red handbag —
dievca stalked eBay to purchase a certain Kate Spade purse:
Whimsical retro-inspired design defines a lightly textured leather satchel with a structured silhouette, furnished with an optional crossbody strap and dual patent leather handles.
- Top zip closure.
- Exterior zip-around pocket.
- Interior zip, wall and cell phone pockets.
- Custom woven script jacquard lining.
- Protective metal feet.
- By kate spade new york; imported
Did dievca do well? she thinks so — at least it makes her smile. 😀
For Santa to come down off the roof, sneak in my house, tie me up, and give all that I dream of to my Dom, to please him and surprise him with all his dreams and fantasies…To give him a break from life and stress for just one day, then I would like to spoil him and pamper him until he could take no more.
Then, get naked and roll around with him until morning.
As the cold weather arrives…
a great debate begins to take place:
GLOVE ENTHUSIASTS ARGUE:
The glove-wearers among us state that they prefer them because they provide more dexterity than mittens. Also, they say, gloves insulate each digit individually, while mittens do so only for the thumb.
MITTEN DEVOTEES COUNTER WITH:
Body heat. Your fingers, when bundled together, are better able to generate heat using one another. Plus, when it comes to snow sports, how much dexterity do you really need? You can just as easily hold your poles and put Frosty’s carrot nose into place with your mittens as well as you can with a gloved set of fingers.
THE EXPERT’S TAKE ON THINGS:
The single most important step you can take in keeping your hands warm is to make sure they stay as dry as possible. The more moist your hands get, the higher the potential that they’ll get cold.
dievca will take the mittens, please.
The ones with the “Air Quotes”.
More information: http://www.theclymb.com/stories/out-there/gloves-versus-mittens-educated-debate/
Perhaps a little Sassy
and asking to be made Happy.
Oh Dear, that was pathetic - wasn't it? Well, at least the shoes are awesome. XO