It’s funny when people notice~
Posted: March 1, 2023 Filed under: Jewelry | Tags: BDSM, bondage, D/s, dievca, earrings, Elegant, Humor, Life, submissive, Symbolism Leave a commentA gay work colleague noticed dievca’s tiny lock and key Lauren Klassen earrings, admired them and gave her a deep “look”. she couldn’t tell if he just liked the earrings or was intrigued by the symbolism. dievca imagines that its hard for a young handsome person to realize that 50+ with a few wrinkles has an interesting relationship and a vital sex life.
she just smiled.
I’m sorry, I’ve plans for tomorrow…
Posted: February 5, 2023 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Submission | Tags: BDSM, bondage, D/s, dievca, Dominant, Elegant, erotic, Life, Master, play, schedule, Scheduling, submissive Leave a commentPrada Pearls
Posted: December 9, 2022 Filed under: Accessories, Fashion | Tags: BDSM, bondage, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, harness, Holiday 2022, pearls, Prada, Presentation Outfit, Shopping, submissive Leave a commentBDSM dressing for the Holidays!
Chick in Chains
Posted: November 24, 2022 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden, Submission | Tags: BDSM, bondage, chains, cuffs, D/s, erotic, Humor, padlock, photo, submissive, Thanksgiving, Turkey Leave a commentPerhaps a little Tenderizing, too!
Aftercare of your Bird will allow it to cook evenly!
HAPPY THANKSGIVING!
Photo by Thomas Buchta
BDSM Ads: Masochism
Posted: November 4, 2022 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Home and Garden | Tags: advertising, BDSM, bondage, D/s, dievca, Dominance and submission, French, hood, Humor, latex, Life, preoperty management Leave a commentThis cheeky advertising campaign reveals that more people than it seems are into BDSM (and this is why)
French property management company wants ‘Bellman’ to be your safe word
The owners of flats or houses tend to take time to change their real estate agent, even if they are not satisfied with the current one. This is the main reason that has led the French real estate management company Bellman to create a brazen advertising campaign in which it claims that whoever is willing to put up with frustrating service must be a masochist.
The action is based on a study carried out by Bellman with Harris Interactive in November 2021. This indicated that almost half of the respondents, 45%, who were co-owners of a home said they were dissatisfied with the management company in charge of their co-ownership .
Developed by the Steve agency , the campaign presents four images of a person at home doing daily activities, such as vacuuming or watering the plants, while dressed from head to toe in a bodysuit associated with BDSM.
The eye-catching cutscenes are accompanied by lines like, ” If you’re stuck with your building manager not answering after 36 calls, you’re probably going to enjoy it .” “If you stay with your building manager despite continuous roof leaks, you probably like him,” says another of the phrases.
The ads launched in Paris on February 8 and are supported by a six-week media plan across subways, buses, bus stops and stations, along with PR, digital and social activity.
“Among the co-owners, a certain feeling of fatality has settled, but also of boredom,” says Antonio Pinto , CEO of Bellman. “Through this campaign, we wanted to tell them with a touch of humor that their suffering can come to an end. And we are not exaggerating with the suffering: the disappointments that stand out are the unfortunate reality of some co-owners », he continues explaining.
“To appeal to these too often frustrated co-owners and show the efficacy of his model, Bellman had to come up with a strong message to shock effect, but do so with the humor and sense of kinship that immediately creates a bond,” adds Guillaume. Lartigue , co-chairman and creative director of Steve.
Advertiser: Bellman
Brand Director: Virginie Deprost
Agency: Steve
Co-Chairman & Executive Creative Director: Guillaume Lartigue
Creative Director: Edouard Dorbais
Artistic Director: Isaora Le Jeannic
Copywriter: Aymeric Druaux
Chief Strategy Officer: Laure Lagarde
Group Account Director: Louis Tierny
Account Executive : Pierre Van Elslande
Photographer: Sacha Goldberg
A “Thank You” to marketingdirecto.com
BDSM Home Décor (on Auction)
Posted: October 12, 2022 Filed under: Home and Garden | Tags: art, Auction, BDSM, bondage, D/s, dievca, Dominance and submission, Home Decor, Housing Works NYC, Lock, padlock, sculpture, Shopping Leave a commentA piece of Art to show your BDSM leanings.
Perhaps a a subtle reminder to your submissive of their service to their Sir or Madame.
Sculpture Description
* Terracotta body
* Powder coated
* Unglazed
* Is not a functional padlock, is an art object
* Signed on back
* Item shows some scuffs on the bottom & dust on the top
Dimensions
5.25″ W x 5.25″ H x 1.25″ D
AUCTION ENDS on 10/23/2022 at 10PM EDT – offered at HousingWorks (click the red word)
I Rub My Duckie – Bondage
Posted: July 12, 2022 Filed under: Accessories, Entertainment | Tags: bath, BDSM, bondage, Cosplay, D/s, dievca, Dominant, erotic, Foreplay, Humor, massager, Sex Toy, submissive, vibrator Leave a commentA little humor in the BDSM bath is not a bad thing. Too bad these waterproof vibrators are out-of-stock and the company may be out of business…. Big Tease Toys
Ah, well something silly for a Tuesday.
Ankle Elegance
Posted: June 8, 2022 Filed under: Accessories, Submission, submissive | Tags: BDSM, bondage, cuffs, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Foot Fetish, restraints, silver Leave a commentLight Bondage Belt Bag – Alexander Mc Queen
Posted: May 31, 2022 Filed under: Accessories | Tags: Alexander McQueen, BDSM, belt, bondage, crossbody, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Leather, Shopping, submissive Leave a comment
Restrained with a Belt:
Alexander Mc Queen – The Curve Bucket Bag is approximately $1400
Chain Reactions with Jennifer Fisher
Posted: February 2, 2022 Filed under: Home and Garden, Jewelry | Tags: anklet, BDSM, bondage, bracelet, chains, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Home Decor, Necklace, restraints, Ring, Shopping, submissive Leave a commentJennifer Fisher Marble Chain for CB2
10K Yellow Gold over Brass or Silver-Rhodium over Brass
Or the Jennifer Fisher DEAN LINE – rings, bracelets, anklets, necklaces
Showing your BDSM leanings in a lovely, affordable Manner
D/s (elfje)
Posted: January 4, 2022 Filed under: Master, Poetry, Relationships | Tags: BDSM, bondage, D/s, Desire, dievca, Dominant, elfje, erotic, Master, Orgasm, submissive Leave a commentRestrained
Spread Wide
Master Speaks His Command
Orgasm
Bordelle – Exclusive Bondage
Posted: December 16, 2021 Filed under: Dresses, lingerie | Tags: 24K Gold, BDSM, bondage, Bordelle, D/s, dievca, Elegant, exclusive, Holiday 2021, Presentation Outfit, reotic, Shopping, strappy 2 Comments
The Adjustable Bondage Angela is the ultimate in Bordelle bondage luxe, with total adjustability to flatter every curve. This piece is made up of over 150 24k gold-plated components. Each dress takes a whole day to make! Limited edition colourway – Eden. $1094.00
Details:
- Satin elastic dress in rich Eden
- Signature satin elastic strapping
- Adjustable through the back
- Includes suspender clips; wear with garters or stockings
- 24k gold plated zip fastening
- Made up of 140 24k gold-plated components
Care and Composition:
Elastic: 89% Polyamide, 11% Elastane.
Delicate hand wash separately.
Chains with Loren Stewart
Posted: November 2, 2021 Filed under: Jewelry | Tags: 14K, BDSM, bondage, chains, D/s, dievca, earrings, Elegant, gift, Loren Stewart, Master, Shopping, submissive Leave a comment14kt yellow gold baby chubbie chain earrings from LOREN STEWART featuring hinge-pin fastening, huggie hoop design, chain-link detailing for pierced ears.
A subtle BONDAGE touch.
Bondage through another’s eyes – 3 pieces of Man Ray
Posted: October 30, 2021 Filed under: Analysis, Entertainment, Relationships | Tags: art, BDSM, bondage, dievca, Dominant, Elegant, erotic, Fetish, Muse, photography, submissive 2 CommentsArtist and photographer, Man Ray, made several sadomasochistic photos in his career in the 1920s and 1930s. He was a devotee to the works of the Marquis de Sade, and created portraits of the Marquis. Man Ray was one of many artists seeking truth through extreme mental and physical states.
Man Ray’s 1930 Gloved Figure exemplifies the relationship between sadomasochism and mysticism. The photograph features a figure clad in suede elbow-length gloves, and a matching suede mask. The mask and gloves have been carefully constructed out of the same light-coloured suede material and appear to fit snugly over the model’s face and hands, suggesting that they were made specifically for this shoot based on the model’s exact measurements. The model’s hands are pulled above their head and are attached to a metal chain hanging from the ceiling with a pair of handcuffs. The model is clearly in the masochistic position, their sense of sight and hearing deprived by the mask and their ability to move severely, if not completely, hindered by the handcuffs and chain, which leaves them seemingly suspended from the ceiling.
Man Ray made a strong connection between artistic prowess and masculine prowess, specifically power over women; the bohemian machismo.
Created in 1930, the Fetishistic Mise-en-scène for William Seabrook series was considered so perverse it was only widely released to the public in 1994. As the title suggests, the series was created by Man Ray at the request of Seabrook. They worked together to bring Seabrook’s fantasies to life, male voyeurism and the fetishization of lesbianism for male pleasure.
Man Ray doesn’t seem entirely comfortable with Seabrook’s world, hence the less intimate cropping. He seems to prefer his sadism to be spontaneous outbursts of passion, not the meticulously planned, “perverse” scenarios of Seabrook.
A "Thank You" to Man Ray, Audrey Warne. Peter Tupper
Rooftop Lingerie – Strappy Bondage
Posted: October 21, 2021 Filed under: lingerie | Tags: BDSM, bondage, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, exhibitionist, Fleur du Mal, Presentation, Sexy, Shopping, submissive Leave a commentFleur du Mal’s Strappy Bondage line allows you to exhibit from the Rooftop! Pieces available from $85 for panties to the Strappy Bondage Suit at $225. Click the photo above to purchase.
Beauty in Bondage – R13
Posted: September 10, 2021 Filed under: Clothing, Fashion | Tags: BDSM, bondage, Butterfly, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Leather, submissive, sweatshirt, Symbolism Leave a commentDELICATE STRENGTH – renewal in bondage
Bondage Butterfly Oversized Crewneck Sweatshirt made with Japanese cotton lyocell terry in an acid black wash. Oversized fit sweatshirt with light distressing at ribs. Sweatshirt has been washed with acid and stones to make the garment soft to the touch. $450
Belt Print Holdall – Paul Smith
Posted: September 4, 2021 Filed under: Accessories, Master | Tags: BDSM, bondage, carryall, Cowboy, D/s, duffle bag, eBay, fun, impact play, Paul Smith, practical, Shopping 1 Comment
Western Belt Print Bag – and ode to Impact Play or Bondage
A bag to carry your accoutrements: thudders and stingers or buckled cuffs and collars
Paul Smith‘s Western Belt Print will offer a lot of additional room for water, towels, a change of clothes, etc. A fun, tongue in cheek nod to your pleasurable inclinations!
~Something of Use~
Update – the bag sold on August 2nd…sorry, dievca was too slow…
extremement hermes les extraits – locked
Posted: July 22, 2021 Filed under: Accessories, Home and Garden, submissive | Tags: Auction, BDSM, bondage, D/s, dievca, eBay, Elegant, Hermes, Housing Works NYC, padlock, Perfume, Shopping 1 CommentSomething of Use showing your BDSM leanings from Hermes.
15 hours till the Housingworks Auction End for this offering above, currently $128.
Description
* Silver-tone metal construction
* 7.5ml
* Contains some fragrance
* Spray functionality
* Includes original velvet logo pouch
* Marked on bottom
* Imported
* Signs of wear, including surface scratches and dings
Dimensions
2.25″W x 3.25″H x .75″D
Or you can buy one on eBay for $288
A subtle BDSM touch for your home Bar
Posted: May 28, 2021 Filed under: Accessories, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, bondage, D/s, dievca, Elegant, homegoods, Master, padlock, Symbolism Leave a comment
CB2 Brass Padlock Bottle Opener:
Upping the ante on opening a beer.
A handsome way to subtly show your BDSM leanings at your Bar cart.
One sale for $9.99, click link above to purchase.
~feeling ‘dainty’~
Posted: April 6, 2021 Filed under: Jewelry | Tags: 18K, BDSM, bondage, chains, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Feminine, Ring, Sexy, Shopping, submissive Leave a comment
A delicate 18K gold Sapphire ring brings feminity and a ‘dainty’ feel.
The ring, earrings, bracelet and necklace are available at Wolf & Badger.
MEET THE DESIGNER
Founded in 2019 by Theresa Chen and Kimi Wu, Dainty Dagger provides women the opportunity to own the finest quality jewelry of high caliber without breaking the bank. The goal is to build up our own brand and start a new trend within the industry by changing the concept of how women view fine jewelry and how it could be part of their everyday essentials.
At Dainty Dagger, we set the trend when it comes to unique and astonishing modern jewelry. Combining classy elegance with the toughness and independence of modern women, Dainty Dagger offers pieces to speak for their lifestyle and attitudes. We hope to inspire women to value their own brand of uniqueness.
No matter if you are edgy or girly, you will always find a jewelry piece that perfectly matches yourself.
Subtle bondage in Boots
Posted: March 27, 2021 Filed under: Fashion, Shoes | Tags: BDSM, bondage, boots, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Gianvito Rossi, Leather, practical, Submission, submissive Leave a commentGianvito Rossi‘s pair is made from smooth black leather and has gold anklets inspired by equestrian hardware.
Lovely and useful for unpredictable Spring weather.
Showing your BDSM leanings in a subtle manner.
R & M Leathers – “Bound to Please”
Posted: March 11, 2021 Filed under: lingerie | Tags: BDSM, body chain, bondage, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Fetish, Leather, Presentation Outfit, submissive, Undergarments Leave a comment
R&M Leathers London: Thick Chain Bra and Thong
Made to order leather clothing and accessories from London. Custom pieces and sizes available. All items are handmade to order. Allow 4-5 weeks for orders to be processed and shipped. Express service also available on request. If you require a custom size outside of what is provided, there will be an additional 10% fee.
Subtle Restraint in a Vintage Ring
Posted: March 2, 2021 Filed under: Jewelry | Tags: 14K, BDSM, bondage, D/s, dievca, Elegant, fashion, padlock, restraints, Ring, Slave, Submission, submissive Leave a comment Lock yourself in 1940’s Elegance
Handmade 14K Vintage Padlock Ring
Size 6 – can be re-sized
Manhattan Vintage online
Icon Style
$595
Subtly show your BDSM leanings,
a daily restraint reminder for the submissive.
Presentation for the Lunar New Year!
Posted: February 12, 2021 Filed under: Clothing, Entertainment, submissive | Tags: BDSM, bondage, cloche hat, D/s, dievca, Elegant, fashion, Life, Love, Master, Presentation Outfits, submissive, suit 2 Comments“This is such a short life that nothing can matter very much either one way or another. I have learned not to struggle but to flow along with the tide. If I am to be rich and famous, that will be fine. If not, what do riches and fame count in the long run?” – Anna May Wong
In the 1930s Anna May was named the “world’s best-dressed woman” by the Mayfair Mannequin Society of New York, cementing her position as an international fashion icon.
Presenting in a Suit with a Cloche hat might be an excellent change of pace for dievca.
Diversity, dievca, Diversity!
Highlight the Nipple
Posted: February 10, 2021 Filed under: lingerie | Tags: BDSM, bondage, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, fashion, Fetish, Presentation Outfits, Shopping, Slave, submissive, Undergarments Leave a commentSometimes they are sensitive, other times numb.
Always attached unless you had breast surgery.
Often ignored unless an effort is made for attention.
Enter the Studio Pia: Clea
A subtle focus on the Nipples,
as well as,
Bondage and Elegance.
Do you get wet just thinking about your Sir/Madame?
Posted: January 16, 2021 Filed under: Analysis, D/s Relationship, submissive | Tags: ball gag, BDSM, bondage, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Mask, Master, Slave, Submission Leave a comment
It’s the anticipation and completion.
Causse Gantier – Glove Fetishism
Posted: December 20, 2020 Filed under: Accessories, Relationships | Tags: BDSM, bondage, Cosplay, D/s, dievca, Dominance and submission, Elegant, erotic, Fetish, gloves, Leather, Shopping 3 CommentsGlove fetishism is a sexual fetishism where an individual is sexually stimulated by another person or oneself wearing gloves on their hands. In some cases, the fetish is enhanced by the material of the glove (e.g., leather, cotton, latex, nitrile, PVC, satin, or nylon).
Often, the actions of a gloved hand are as arousing as the glove itself, because the glove provides a second skin, or in other words a fetishistic surrogate for the wearer’s own skin. Medical gloves and rubber gloves provide not only a safer sex environment but also give a latex glove fetishist great pleasure. Subtle movements by the gloved fingers or the hand as a whole can provide the individual with a great visual stimulus and ultimately sexual arousal. The act of putting gloves on, or slipping them off the hands, can also be a source of glove fetish fantasy.
The smell is also a factor when it comes to latex, rubber, and leather gloves. This is also often an extension of hand fetishism.
Gloves are used for fisting and sounding. They are a big part of the superhero, leather, rubber, and cosplay scenes and are a staple accessory in any crime fetish. There is something immediately different when one is wearing gloves during sex. It almost makes one feel more naughty and kinky adding to the experience.
Most glove fetishists prefer tight and shiny gloves. It is a fetish that crosses gender and sexuality stereotypes needing no anchor to one or another.
It is also sometimes associated with strangling or rape fetishes.
Medical glove fetishism involves thin latex gloves, which come in many different types. Personal preference ranges from color, smell, size, textured, smooth, powdered, or un-powdered. Fetishists are proud of their collection of medical gloves, as well as rubber gloves. Household rubber gloves tend to be thicker, longer, and are mostly used for cleaning purposes.
There is a fetish called GOM which stands for ‘Glove Over Mouth’ where a gloved hand is placed firmly over one’s mouth and/or nose and is sometimes associated with breath control. This can be arousing to the giver and/or the receiver.
Some glove fetishists prefer certain lengths, for example, the long opera-style or short cuff length. Some also like them as a part of an outfit, such as a nurse, policewoman, or French maid uniform. Some who are of a sexually submissive nature are stimulated by their dominant partner’s wearing and use of gloves. Dominant partners may likewise prefer that their submissives wear gloves. As with all fetishes, however, there need not be a BDSM connection to an affinity for gloves.
Apart from their appearance, some individuals prefer to use them on themselves or others as a form of sexual stimulation. The ones most commonly used for this are made of leather, latex, (such as those doctors or nurses use for examination) nitrile, or shoulder-length thick black latex. Some prefer the household rubber glove. The appeal behind the household glove may be due to the colors they come in but also offering what the latex examination gloves cannot; household gloves are thicker, some more than others depending on what their use is. It’s also possible that people use these as they are commonly found in one’s home so are easily available.
Many enjoy erotic spanking with gloves donned. It offers a different feeling and sound to the “spankee”, which can be a large part of the fetish.
- The gloves above are all Causse Gantier
- Expensive but lovely
- Made in France
A "Thank You" to Wikipedia