Day dreaming

Cuffs Collar laying on side

dievca needs to finish the project by Monday and she’s finding herself distracted~


Part One accepted!

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Part Two – “drop dead” is February 23th, dievca had started the work earlier – now it needs clarification and completion.

GIF: Kate Hepburn – Philadelphia Story


all-consuming

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How are you doing with the New Year?
dievca’s project is eating her alive~ 

Photo: Helmut Newton


Sassy Submissive Silk Scarf with Moschino (Housing Works Auction)

Moschino Scarf Housingworks close up

Moschino
Description
* 100% Silk
* Hand-rolled edges
* Grey ground, black pattern and edges, red grid lines
* Printed logo
* Made in Italy
* 24 inches x 24 inches (60 cm x 60 cm)

Auction Ends in 11 days – check on it HERE

Moschino Scarf Housingworks

Looking to show your sassy side?  A nod to your D/s relationship in a subtle manner.  Perhaps as a blindfold during play time?  Elegant, Erotic and Fun!  As only vintage Moschino can be~

There are 11 days left to the auction from 01/03/2024 – click on the link above!


Ends at Midnight: Up to 90% off at Agent Provocateur

Laily Model

Laily

  • Bra $45

  • Panties $25

  • Garter Belt $40

Click “Laily” to purchase


Flutter Panties – Fleur du Mal

Fleur du Mal Flutter Panties

Regular price $64

Give them cheek. Cut from our classic, luxe silk charmeuse, the Luxe Flutter Panty features an ultra flattering high leg cut that sits high at the natural waist. Flirty cheeky cut back with ruffle detailing. 

Not quite for Master’s dievca, but perhaps of interest for an adorable sassy submissive. XO


Feeling guilty…

We all know that dievca is short and has an athletic build – add a little menopause belly in there.  Humorous, as her swim training is causing her shoulders and arms to gain muscle yet she struggles to keep the muscle on her problem knee’s quad and glute. (the leg doesn’t straighten completely – makes for a lot of work to keep muscle).

Anyways…

she’s been stripping and selling her closet.  More sold to Buffalo Exchange and Crossroads this week.

At lunch, Master asked if she is refilling her closet.

dievca stuttered with her answer because – she had just paid full price for three items. 

she doesn’t look anything like these models, but the items fit her well, except for the pants having to be hemmed…


Stockings for Master

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and cuffs for His dievca.

A D/s Match made!

XO


a Drowned Rat with no gallant Master

In 2013 – dievca offered this post:

From dievca:
Sunshine is delicious, rain is refreshing, wind braces us up, snow is exhilarating; there is really no such thing as bad weather, only different kinds of good weather. ~John Ruskin
 
Mr. Ruskin did not have to walk the city today…
From your drowned rat.
 
Master’s Reply:
I’m wearing a Burberry trench coat. If I saw you I would open the coat, pull you in and surround you with Your Master’s warmth…
 
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Well, Master is off to the warm delight that is Paris then heading to the Sweden and the UK.  he’s currently not available to share his Burberry Trench…

dievca had to make her way to the Bowling Green station on the 4 in a torrential downpour where the deluge slowed the train – which made listening to the pontificating homeless person an exercise in not catching eyes.  dievca made it to her appointment, 5 min early – a minor miracle.

Her practical outfit was:


Caffeine at the pool on a Monday morning~

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Forward Crawl and Backstroke doing well.  The dolphin kick was a bit of a mess. Not using the quads enough to match the top and bottom kicks – working on it.

Today dievca’s building is shutting down the elevators from 5 am to 7 am for a full fire inspection. dievca  has a plan for coffee on the sundeck to watch the sunrise and an early swim.  How packed are the elevators going to be at 4:45 am?  Who knows – worst case scenario, dievca has coffee at home and she cancels the swim reservation.

Good Morning! have a lovely week.


M is for Masturbation, N is for…

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 …Nipples, O is for Orgasm

Master is traveling so His dievca is flying solo. XO


Stepping Out with Rene Caovilla

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Gorgeous and out of this submissive’s budget for 2023….ah, well.


Ducks in a Row

Gentlemen – this post is going to talk about Women’s Health, Menopause, Hormones, etc.  If you are not curious, dievca completely understands.  she would suggest if you have a Lady or female submissive in your life – consider her age and what she might be dealing with via aging and read on.

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Photo: of  Maggie Patterson (at 20) matched up with her Grandmothers photo - Reddit 10 years ago.

So, dievca is getting her “ducks in a row”.  she gone to the GYN, has a mammogram scheduled for next week.  she’s written down the cancer history of her family, spoken to her female cousins (as she has no sisters and her Aunts are dead), read the research on HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy), had a discussion with three Doctors, spoken with Master (he knows her body best), her periods have been gone for a year.

Her hot flashes are not bad, she sleeps reasonably well (wakes 6 times), her brain fog is minimal, her build doesn’t lean towards osteoporosis, sexual libido is good,  she has almost no vaginal dryness.

Yet, dievca is going to try Hormone  Replacement Therapy.

Why?

Master suggested that she needs to have goals with the Therapy otherwise, doing it to just do it is ridiculous.  dievca has two goals in mind and the therapy might help or not.

  1. Better sleep – may assist with belly weight loss.
  2. Less body aching – which may help with loss of muscle and flexibility
  3. dievca’s Mom was on hormones for 20+ years and was very active and “young”.

So, dievca is waiting until after the mammogram to begin her regimen. she wants a current baseline for what her breasts look like pre-hormones. dievca is writing down her current body state, so that she can document the changes as the “team” figures out the best dosage for her – and as a reality check if the whole process is worthless or not worth it. 

dievca’s  process begins with estrogen alone for a month to determine what changes occur – she is starting with a “middle” dose level, so that it can go up or down.  Progesterone begins the following month.  

Let’s see where this goes!

If anyone has any feedback about HRT or anything to share – please do.  dievca is collecting as much information as possible to stay safe and to offer to other Women who may go on this journey in the future.


Killed it!

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dievca had a project and it blew up larger than expected!
She hit it out of the ballpark.
That doesn’t always happen.
Shazam!
Enjoying a glass of wine to celebrate.
dievca hopes you have had something good happen, too. XO

Holmegaard 'Canada' cocktail glasses by Per Lutken 3


Sorry – a bit out of it.

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Master and His dievca shared the wealth and both are under the weather at the moment.

Back in action soon.

d~


Waking up at 5 am to remember you missed something.

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dievca had tickets scheduled to the Edward Hopper showing at the Whitney Museum, last evening.  she completely forgot. she’s just hoping that she can use them before the event closes or just use them for the museum.  she’ll be stopping by today…


Old Favorites

When the schedule is packed and you are rushing around –
it helps to know that you have the “old favorites” in a Go-bag.
All readily available to make an elegant Presentation for Master:

  • Vivienne Westwood “Orgie” Dress in Orange
  • Salvatore Ferragamo Black Leather Heels
  • Wolford black Thigh-Hi Stay-up stockings
  • Hartman Rose Collar and Lead in Gold Lether
  • Chanel Red Allure Lipstick

Happy early Valentine’s Day

Coffee Valentines Day

~from my heart to Yours~

XO dievča


dievca wasn’t this bad, but~

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she hasn’t gone out much and she rides her bike to work at 5:40 am — that makes her useless around 11 pm.
Add alcohol? Yeah, the eyelids want to shut. XO


What was under your Christmas Tree?

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Sending you Love, Joy and Peace for Christmas.
XO
your dievča


Expect the Unexpected

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Your Knight in Shining Armor can come in many different shapes and sizes.  They may be what you are looking for or they may be something completely different. All dievca can suggest is to “be open” and your gift may fulfill your Life more than you could imagine.


The Progression

Blow Dry Bob

dievca stepped on to the airplane, blown dry and straight.

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By the end of  eating Thanksgiving Dinner outside, her bob was moving into waves.

Curly Bob

This morning, after sleeping with the windows open and a breeze – the ringlets have appeared.
There is no fighting it.
You have to go with the flow~

What dievca wore to Thanksgiving Dinner:


A free ticket to Ride

Fashion show in the air

Fashion show in the air: entertainment for the passengers of the flights New York – Miami. The latest beach fashion is presented on board. Photography. About 1930. 

dievca had a free plane ticket to use up.
she’s heading to Miami, Florida for Thanksgiving, –
which is perfect because she should heal in the sun with Vitamin D.
The weather shows highs of 82F (28C) and lows of 72F (22C).

There is a little Catholic guilt about not seeing Family…
but she’ll get over it!
XO


Keeping it simple in Bleue with ELSE

Else Nano French Blue Bra and Panties
A bit more practical on the Lingerie end, today.
dievca got a new set from Else Lingerie and its
Simple and Lovely.

Else Nano French Blue Bra and Panties back


Master is back!

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The temperature hit 76 F (25 C), dievca’s back was sweating from her backpack while cycling to the Dermatologist.  After getting a clear Skin Cancer Screening – dievca stopped by a Nail Salon for a Mani/ Pedi to pretty up her tootsies for Master. 

Now, dievca doesn’t always follow the season’s “hot” colors – she chooses what speaks to her in the moment.  This color was created by OPI in 2012: Suzi and the 7 Dusseldorfs.

We’ll see if Master appreciates the grooming or the lingerie. XO

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Top Photo: dievca’s tootsies 11/2022

Bottom Photo: Blush Lingerie Demi-Chemise, ash grey with purple.


Where are you?

You are here

Its been a long day~

Many things to be done, not a lot of sleep, tired to the bone. But nothing a little aspirin and water can’t fix. Hence the late post.

dievca heard a funny thing from a friend today, “Maybe its not you – maybe its the other party.”
Whoa! What?
This Catholic girl was always taught to accept that any inter-personal problem was her fault. she doesn’t really ever look around to see if the 2nd or 3rd Party might be causing the concern.

This new concept has caused her to lose her place in space.

dievca is going to cook on it and determine if her friend is right. It might help dievca find her way back home.

XO

Photo: found on the “Kinky World of Vile” Blog


The Dom and sub who

Couple Cleaning

clean together, preen together!
preen
/prēn/
verb
congratulate or pride oneself.
“it did not prevent them from preening themselves on their achievement”

Master has friends and family coming for visits this Autumn, so dievca went over to help him do a “deep clean” for their arrival.  Windows washed inside and out, Floors wiped, Heavy duty dusting, Leather conditioned, Granite conditioned, Bathrooms scrubbed, etc. — Master’s apartment is GLEAMING!

Hey, it was what Master asked for as a present for His Birthday. dievca was happy to serve. XO


Thank you and Happy Anniversary!

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dievca received a notice that the Blog hit 9 years yesterday.
Thank you for sticking with Your dievca through thick and thin.
Sending love and champagne!
XO


The Workhorses

Older, Extending, Taking extra weight.
These feet are the workhorses of dievca’s body.

Honestly, after sitting next to six Men
In a Hell’s Kitchen Nail Salon
dievca’s feet look amazing for half a century + ~

OPI Cajun Shrimp on the Toes


Swim : dievca & Waterworks (she wishes)

Photographed by Francesco Scavullo
22/52
Debbie Dickinson
Vogue, May 1977