Caffeine at the pool on a Monday morning~
Posted: May 22, 2023 Filed under: Home and Garden, submissive | Tags: apartment, BDSM, coffee, D/s, dievca, Early Bird, Hudson River, Life, Monday, Morning, NYC, Sunrise, swimming Leave a commentForward Crawl and Backstroke doing well. The dolphin kick was a bit of a mess. Not using the quads enough to match the top and bottom kicks – working on it.
Today dievca’s building is shutting down the elevators from 5 am to 7 am for a full fire inspection. dievca has a plan for coffee on the sundeck to watch the sunrise and an early swim. How packed are the elevators going to be at 4:45 am? Who knows – worst case scenario, dievca has coffee at home and she cancels the swim reservation.
Good Morning! have a lovely week.
M is for Masturbation, N is for…
Posted: May 2, 2023 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Entertainment, submissive | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, erotic, Life, Love, Master, masturbation, Orgasm, self-pleasure, travel Leave a comment…Nipples, O is for Orgasm
Master is traveling so His dievca is flying solo. XO
Stepping Out with Rene Caovilla
Posted: April 26, 2023 Filed under: Shoes, submissive | Tags: BDSM, crystal embellished, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, heels, Shoe fetishism, Shopping, slingbacks Leave a commentGorgeous and out of this submissive’s budget for 2023….ah, well.
Ducks in a Row
Posted: April 8, 2023 Filed under: Body Type, submissive | Tags: aging, BDSM, body awareness, D/s, dievca, Health, hormone replacement therapy, Life, Master, menopause, Science, testing Leave a commentGentlemen – this post is going to talk about Women’s Health, Menopause, Hormones, etc. If you are not curious, dievca completely understands. she would suggest if you have a Lady or female submissive in your life – consider her age and what she might be dealing with via aging and read on.
Photo: of Maggie Patterson (at 20) matched up with her Grandmothers photo - Reddit 10 years ago.
So, dievca is getting her “ducks in a row”. she gone to the GYN, has a mammogram scheduled for next week. she’s written down the cancer history of her family, spoken to her female cousins (as she has no sisters and her Aunts are dead), read the research on HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy), had a discussion with three Doctors, spoken with Master (he knows her body best), her periods have been gone for a year.
Her hot flashes are not bad, she sleeps reasonably well (wakes 6 times), her brain fog is minimal, her build doesn’t lean towards osteoporosis, sexual libido is good, she has almost no vaginal dryness.
Yet, dievca is going to try Hormone Replacement Therapy.
Why?
Master suggested that she needs to have goals with the Therapy otherwise, doing it to just do it is ridiculous. dievca has two goals in mind and the therapy might help or not.
- Better sleep – may assist with belly weight loss.
- Less body aching – which may help with loss of muscle and flexibility
- dievca’s Mom was on hormones for 20+ years and was very active and “young”.
So, dievca is waiting until after the mammogram to begin her regimen. she wants a current baseline for what her breasts look like pre-hormones. dievca is writing down her current body state, so that she can document the changes as the “team” figures out the best dosage for her – and as a reality check if the whole process is worthless or not worth it.
dievca’s process begins with estrogen alone for a month to determine what changes occur – she is starting with a “middle” dose level, so that it can go up or down. Progesterone begins the following month.
Let’s see where this goes!
If anyone has any feedback about HRT or anything to share – please do. dievca is collecting as much information as possible to stay safe and to offer to other Women who may go on this journey in the future.
Killed it!
Posted: April 7, 2023 Filed under: Entertainment, submissive | Tags: BDSM, celebration, D/s, dievca, Grateful, Joy, Life, relief, submissive, Wine, work Leave a commentdievca had a project and it blew up larger than expected!
She hit it out of the ballpark.
That doesn’t always happen.
Shazam!
Enjoying a glass of wine to celebrate.
dievca hopes you have had something good happen, too. XO
Sorry – a bit out of it.
Posted: March 9, 2023 Filed under: Master, Relationships, submissive | Tags: BDSM, D/s, D/s relationships, dievca, Illness, lay low, Life, Master, sick Leave a commentMaster and His dievca shared the wealth and both are under the weather at the moment.
Back in action soon.
d~
Waking up at 5 am to remember you missed something.
Posted: March 2, 2023 Filed under: Analysis, submissive | Tags: Age, Annoyed, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Edward Hopper, forgot, Life, messy, perimenopause, Whitney Museum Leave a commentdievca had tickets scheduled to the Edward Hopper showing at the Whitney Museum, last evening. she completely forgot. she’s just hoping that she can use them before the event closes or just use them for the museum. she’ll be stopping by today…
Old Favorites
Posted: February 25, 2023 Filed under: Collars, Dresses, Shoes, submissive | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Ease, Elegant, erotic, Go-Bag, Life, Master, practical, Presentation Outfit, Salvatore Ferragamo, Vivienne Westwood, Wolford Leave a commentWhen the schedule is packed and you are rushing around –
it helps to know that you have the “old favorites” in a Go-bag.
All readily available to make an elegant Presentation for Master:
- Vivienne Westwood “Orgie” Dress in Orange
- Salvatore Ferragamo Black Leather Heels
- Wolford black Thigh-Hi Stay-up stockings
- Hartman Rose Collar and Lead in Gold Lether
- Chanel Red Allure Lipstick
Happy early Valentine’s Day
Posted: February 13, 2023 Filed under: Entertainment, Relationships, submissive | Tags: BDSM, coffee, D/s, dievca, Love, Monday, Morning, share, sincerity, Valentine's Day Leave a comment~from my heart to Yours~
XO dievča
dievca wasn’t this bad, but~
Posted: January 8, 2023 Filed under: Disasters, submissive | Tags: Alcoholic Drink, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Early Bird, exhausted, Humor, Life, party pooper, retro, tired Leave a commentshe hasn’t gone out much and she rides her bike to work at 5:40 am — that makes her useless around 11 pm.
Add alcohol? Yeah, the eyelids want to shut. XO
What was under your Christmas Tree?
Posted: December 25, 2022 Filed under: Entertainment, submissive, Vintage | Tags: BDSM, Christmas Wishes, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, gift, Holidays 2022, Love, retro 2 Comments
Sending you Love, Joy and Peace for Christmas.
XO
your dievča
Expect the Unexpected
Posted: November 30, 2022 Filed under: Master, Musings, Relationships, submissive | Tags: Anniversary, being open, D/s relationships, dievca, Dominance and submission, gift, Joy, Life, Master, sharing Leave a commentYour Knight in Shining Armor can come in many different shapes and sizes. They may be what you are looking for or they may be something completely different. All dievca can suggest is to “be open” and your gift may fulfill your Life more than you could imagine.
The Progression
Posted: November 25, 2022 Filed under: Body Type, Entertainment, submissive | Tags: acceptance, BDSM, bob haircut, Curly Hair, D/s, dievca, humidity, Humor, Life, traveling Leave a commentdievca stepped on to the airplane, blown dry and straight.
By the end of eating Thanksgiving Dinner outside, her bob was moving into waves.
This morning, after sleeping with the windows open and a breeze – the ringlets have appeared.
There is no fighting it.
You have to go with the flow~
What dievca wore to Thanksgiving Dinner:
A free ticket to Ride
Posted: November 23, 2022 Filed under: Entertainment, submissive | Tags: BDSM, Catholic Guilt, D/s, dievca, healing, Humor, Life, Miami, Thanksgiving, travel, vintage, warmth Leave a comment
Fashion show in the air: entertainment for the passengers of the flights New York – Miami. The latest beach fashion is presented on board. Photography. About 1930.
dievca had a free plane ticket to use up.
she’s heading to Miami, Florida for Thanksgiving, –
which is perfect because she should heal in the sun with Vitamin D.
The weather shows highs of 82F (28C) and lows of 72F (22C).
There is a little Catholic guilt about not seeing Family…
but she’ll get over it!
XO
Keeping it simple in Bleue with ELSE
Posted: November 10, 2022 Filed under: Body Type, lingerie, submissive | Tags: BDSM, bra panty sets, comfortable, D/s, dievca, Elegant, ELSE lingerie, everyday wear, Life, Preactical, simple, Undergarments Leave a comment
A bit more practical on the Lingerie end, today.
dievca got a new set from Else Lingerie and its
Simple and Lovely.
Master is back!
Posted: November 8, 2022 Filed under: lingerie, submissive | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, grooming, Life, Master, OPI, Pedicure, Presentation, Purple Leave a commentThe temperature hit 76 F (25 C), dievca’s back was sweating from her backpack while cycling to the Dermatologist. After getting a clear Skin Cancer Screening – dievca stopped by a Nail Salon for a Mani/ Pedi to pretty up her tootsies for Master.
Now, dievca doesn’t always follow the season’s “hot” colors – she chooses what speaks to her in the moment. This color was created by OPI in 2012: Suzi and the 7 Dusseldorfs.
We’ll see if Master appreciates the grooming or the lingerie. XO
Top Photo: dievca’s tootsies 11/2022
Bottom Photo: Blush Lingerie Demi-Chemise, ash grey with purple.
Where are you?
Posted: October 25, 2022 Filed under: Musings, submissive | Tags: awareness, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Life, mental health, Relationships, review, tired Leave a commentIts been a long day~
Many things to be done, not a lot of sleep, tired to the bone. But nothing a little aspirin and water can’t fix. Hence the late post.
dievca heard a funny thing from a friend today, “Maybe its not you – maybe its the other party.”
Whoa! What?
This Catholic girl was always taught to accept that any inter-personal problem was her fault. she doesn’t really ever look around to see if the 2nd or 3rd Party might be causing the concern.
This new concept has caused her to lose her place in space.
dievca is going to cook on it and determine if her friend is right. It might help dievca find her way back home.
XO
Photo: found on the “Kinky World of Vile” Blog
The Dom and sub who
Posted: October 18, 2022 Filed under: Home and Garden, Master, submissive | Tags: Autumn, BDSM, Birthday gift, cleaning, D/s, dievca, Dominant, Life, Love, Master, serving 1 Commentclean together, preen together!
preen
/prēn/
verb
congratulate or pride oneself.
“it did not prevent them from preening themselves on their achievement”
Master has friends and family coming for visits this Autumn, so dievca went over to help him do a “deep clean” for their arrival. Windows washed inside and out, Floors wiped, Heavy duty dusting, Leather conditioned, Granite conditioned, Bathrooms scrubbed, etc. — Master’s apartment is GLEAMING!
Hey, it was what Master asked for as a present for His Birthday. dievca was happy to serve. XO
Thank you and Happy Anniversary!
Posted: September 28, 2022 Filed under: Entertainment, Musings, submissive | Tags: BDSM, Blog Anniversary, celebration, champagne toast, D/s, dievca, Grateful, Life, Love Leave a commentdievca received a notice that the Blog hit 9 years yesterday.
Thank you for sticking with Your dievca through thick and thin.
Sending love and champagne!
XO
The Workhorses
Posted: September 3, 2022 Filed under: Body Type, submissive | Tags: aging, BDSM, body love, D/s, dievca, End of Summer, Foot Fetish, Humor, Life, Love, OPI, Pedicure Leave a commentOlder, Extending, Taking extra weight.
These feet are the workhorses of dievca’s body.
Honestly, after sitting next to six Men
In a Hell’s Kitchen Nail Salon
dievca’s feet look amazing for half a century + ~
OPI Cajun Shrimp on the Toes
Swim : dievca & Waterworks (she wishes)
Posted: August 18, 2022 Filed under: Body Type, Entertainment, submissive | Tags: BDSM, beauty, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Life, Summer, swimming, Vogue, water aerobics, workout 2 Commentsred sheets
Posted: August 16, 2022 Filed under: Home and Garden, Submission, submissive | Tags: anal plug, cock worship, erotic, Life, lube, Master, masturbation, Orgasm, self-care, travel, vibrator 2 CommentsAfter dievca finished her call with Master, she was inspired to masturbate.
dievca gathered the yellow banana and double prong vibrators, along with a towel, lube, anal plug, black hood and cock gag.
she lay the towel down on her bed hanging over one side in case she squirted, and set the vibrators to the right. Stepping into the bathroom she washed her hands after moistening her pussy and anus with lube then inserting the anal plug.
Arriving back in the bedroom, dievca stood next to the bed to put on the hood and opened her mouth to insert the cock gag. she leaned over the side of the bed, spread-eagling her legs.
dievca then felt her way to the vibrators, picked-up the yellow banana, turned it on low and used the tip to spread the lube on her clit. Afterward, the banana easily slipped into her pussy . dievca patted the bed to find the double prong vibrator with her other hand and turned it on to the medium setting. With one hand holding the banana inside her pussy, dievca use the other vibrator to tease her clitoris, while imagining that Master’s Cock was in her mouth.
The bent over position, images of Master’s Cock, and vibrators took dievca to that glorious EDGE of arousal but not quite orgasm. dievca sat on that edge of pleasure, squeezing her pussy and clenching her asshole. After about three minutes, she increased both vibrator’s intensity and flowed into a fog of Master’s presence. Riding that edge for another two minutes – dievca orgasmed HARD and found that she had drooled all over the cock gag and hood.
Not quite as good as serving her Master – but a lovely start to the week.
(why “red sheets”? the submissive in the photo is built like dievca)
What? No, I absolutely need PT
Posted: July 16, 2022 Filed under: Entertainment, submissive | Tags: advocate, BDSM, bluntness, D/s, dievca, Doctor, Knee Surgery, Life, physical health, Physical Therapy, proactive, strength, Submission 3 Commentsdievca finally saw her Orthopedic Surgeon after traveling. Apparently, she arrived at the office after a number of older, non-athletic patients. The Doctor was thrilled with his work and dievca’s range of motion, ability to walk, etc. He didn’t think she had swelling, but he didn’t bother to look at her other knee to compare either…. When he said, “I don’t think you need Physical Therapy”, dievca nearly jacked him up against the wall.
(Side note: we all know dievca as Master’s — this is an example of why dievca needs to “switch” modes to submissive. Growing up with older brothers in a blunt family has taught her to stand up for herself – no problem.)
dievca was polite but emphatic that PT was in her best interests.
(“What f*cking planet are you on?” – was thought but not said.)
she got the script and started this week – her objectives being: getting the quadricep that atrophied to fire, getting the knee swelling down to be fitted for a custom unloader brace, to be able to walk up and down stairs, to make sure both knees are working effectively.
Look, your dievca is amazing (sometimes) – but a PT will help (a lot).
whoa
Posted: July 3, 2022 Filed under: Musings, submissive | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, exhausted, Family, Life, overwhelmed, regroup, self-care, travel, traveling Leave a commentdievca doesn’t know if it was the international travel, the surgery or this second round of travel.
she hit a wall.
The good news is that there is no pressing schedule and there is enough time to get things done with healing.
Taking it slow this morning.
BTW: The great grand RugRats loved the NYC bagels their Grand Aunt brought
Pin Up, Legs Up!
Posted: June 30, 2022 Filed under: lingerie, submissive | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, healing, Humor, Knee Surgery, Life, Master, Pin-Up, Presentation Outfit Leave a comment
The best pin-up position after knee surgery.
dievca’s been practicing for Master.
XO
Looking a little ruff around edges
Posted: June 27, 2022 Filed under: Musings, submissive | Tags: 1st Class, BDSM, D/s, dievca, knee pain, Life, Master, Summer, surgery, travel 4 Commentsdievca got home from Europe and her knee was paining her quite a bit. A long Passport line (where a gentleman dropped with a seizure) and a heavy backpack/luggage didn’t help. Today, she caught up with Master, did her PT and has been stretching her legs to the best of her ability – it doesn’t really matter, the knee surgery is tomorrow. Please wish her luck! XO
Ankle Elegance
Posted: June 8, 2022 Filed under: Accessories, Submission, submissive | Tags: BDSM, bondage, cuffs, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Foot Fetish, restraints, silver Leave a commentWiped Out
Posted: June 1, 2022 Filed under: Body Type, submissive | Tags: 1940's, BDSM, booster shot, COVID-19, d-s, dievca, exhaustion, Life, Master, sleep, tired, vintage photo Leave a comment
Master warned His dievca — she listened, but now she needs to crawl into bed.
The 2nd Booster
dievca wanted it before traveling to Europe.
Sleep.
Photo: Movie Still from Otte Akkorder (1944) a Danish film.
Moving up a timeline – knee
Posted: April 30, 2022 Filed under: Body Type, submissive | Tags: BDSM, body awareness, D/s, dievca, Health, injury, knee pain, Life, Master, NYC, Urgent Care 1 CommentDuring COVID, dievca had a three-month period where she was able to rehab her back. Selfishly, it was one of the best things to happen to her regarding her health. she didn’t/doesn’t want a relapse of COVID or another virus in any way, but it might give her time to work on her knee, she needs it.
Last week, dievca had scheduled appointments for two Orthopedic Doctors. to look at her knee – one appointment is this Thursday and one in June. Her schedule blew up when her knee popped going up the 3rd flight of stairs from the Subway yesterday. she was stuck for a period of time trying to figure out how to get up the final 2 stairs. Finally, she slowly made it out of the subway and into a cab. The Cabbie got her to an UrgentCare and was super patient and kind – sometimes you gotta love NYC.
Why an UrgentCare? dievca knew x-rays were not needed immediately – but she did need, crutches, large ace bandages, and confirmation of her injured areas. The UrgentCare Doctor was great – the pop occurred at the ACL/PCL area – she (the Doctor) felt like there might be a cyst behind the ligaments. The area popped again (lightly) when the Dr. palpitated the area. Yes, there is chronic swelling at the meniscus (livable), the knee cap may have chips (that needs an x-ray – but not the main issue), etc. dievca knows the damage has been building for a while due to past foot/calf injuries + aging.
Anyways, dievca scheduled another group to look at the knee Monday 8am, to get “The Party” started. she has the crutches and ace bandages — the pain has receded to certain positions and angles which gives her more information for the next set of Doctors.
The Uber home included a lovely, patient driver. Again, you’ve gotta love NYC.
If you are thinking – where was dievca’s Master? He was the first call of the morning to talk about the Doctor who is scheduled for Thursday. Then after the pop, He spoke with dievca in the cab and said he would come down immediately – but it wasn’t necessary when dievca knew He had family coming in town to stay.
dievca just wishes she could have made it to Thursday without the pain and loss of mobility.