Posted: July 7, 2020 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Master, submissive | Tags: BDSM, bondage, cock worship, D/s, dievca, Dominant, erotic, Life, Submission
Sometimes the Power Exchange Merges
Posted: July 2, 2020 Filed under: Dresses, lingerie | Tags: BDSM, Bustier, D/s, dievca, erotic, Fetish, Kink, polyurethane, Presentation Outfits, Sexy, Undergarments
noun. a female fox. an ill-tempered or quarrelsome woman.
a woman considered to be sexually attractive.
LaQuan Smith leopard bustier dress PVC Spring RTW 2020
Click photo to purchase the LaQuan Smith bustier dress at fwrd.com
Posted: June 26, 2020 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, Vintage | Tags: 1950's Household Kink, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Fetish, Kink, Presentation Outfits, Re/done, Shopping, submissive
Do you own an apron? Do you use it while BBQ-ing or baking?
dievca has never owned one. she’s not sure of what she is missing Her friends have laughed at her and asked what she does for dinner parties.
she cooks, changes, and hopes for the best afterward.
What about an Apron as a D/s Presentation Outfit?
Hmm, could be interesting but one might need to be careful when sitting or leaning against the countertop.
dievca found the apron she wants:
The RE/DONE | Levi’s Denim Apron is created from scraps of vintage Levi’s, reducing production waste and creating functional, machine washable, and collectible kitchen-wear. Each apron is upcycled using a waterless process from unique vintage materials and is completely one-of-a-kind.
The shades of indigo will differ from the product image due to each item being one-of-a-kind. Twenty percent of sales will be donated to the Restaurant Workers’ Community Foundation. RE/done
Posted: June 25, 2020 Filed under: lingerie, Musings | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Presentation Outfits, Sexy, Shopping, submissive
- pale pink
- GG logo
- Self: 83% polyamide, 17% elastan
- Embroidery: 90% cotton 10% poly
- Made in Italy
- Hand wash
- Elastic waistband with logo webbing detail
- Embroidered logo detail throughout
- Scalloped trim
- MSRP $1100 for the set
Posted: June 24, 2020 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Submission | Tags: BDSM, cock worship, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Master, Sexy, submissive
Exactly where your Sir wants you to be
Posted: June 18, 2020 Filed under: lingerie | Tags: BDSM, Coco de Mer, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, full slip, Lace, Presentation Outfits, Sexy, Shopping, Slave, submissive
Lingerie for Curves
Coco de Mer Paradiseus Slip Anthracite (click photo)
Allow anthracite lace to envelop your curves in the Paradiseus Slip. Whisper soft silk covers and supports your breasts, overlapped by the deep eyelash scallop of the Paradiseus lace. The lace continues down the rest of the silhouette, adorning the body in intricately detailed decoration.
Posted: June 13, 2020 Filed under: Entertainment, Musings | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dominance and submission, Dominant, erotic, Fantasy, Kink, Life, Master, outdoors, Sex, Spring, submissive
Anita Ekberg La Dolce Vita Trevi Fountain
Master told His dievca a story about D/s in the outdoors.
Anita Ekberg and Marcello Mastroianni – La Dolce Vita
Thoughts floated around in her head for a while and she fixated on the fountains around NYC.
dievca doesn’t know where her fantasy may go during nighttime dreaming, but her practical side has acknowledged the logistical nightmare D/s play in a NYC fountain might offer: dirty water, too many people, temperature, slipping, clothing – or lack of, legalities, voyeurs – might be a bonus, etc.
Maybe the Hamilton Fountain in Riverside Park — ok, it’s a horse trough.
Let’s see what dievca dreams up this evening.
Might be fabulous – might be a dievca disaster…
Posted: June 12, 2020 Filed under: Accessories | Tags: BDSM, dievca, erotic, Fetish, flogger, impact play, Kink, Leather, Shopping, Submission
Ardour red roses with thorns flogger – click photo
The phrase ‘there is no rose without thorns‘ means that in order to enjoy something that is beautiful and pleasurable, you must endure something that is difficult or painful.
Ardour leather red roses flogger – no thorns (click photo)
Posted: June 11, 2020 Filed under: lingerie, Poetry | Tags: BDSM, cock worship, D/s, dievca, erotic, Master, music, Only Hearts, Pink Floyd, Presentation Outfits, Sequins, submissive, Undergarments
Click here to set the mood: David Gilmour – Shine On You Crazy Diamond (Live At Pompeii)
drift out softly
bare feet silent
sink to your knees
grasp Master gently
close your eyes
worship to the music
Only Hearts ‘shine on’ lingerie
Posted: June 4, 2020 Filed under: lingerie | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, embroidered, erotic, Kimono, Presentation Outfits, Robe, Shopping, submissive
Harlow and Fox Persephone_Cassiopeia Beaded Gold Robe / Kimono
Please note this item is made to order; please allow up to 8 weeks for your garment to be made for you.
Breathtaking cascades of hand-beaded gold glass trailing fringe beads and pearls drench the body with pure decadence in the Cassiopeia gold beaded robe; with all seams luxuriously bound in gold silk. Worn alone, the sheer tulle beneath offers glimpses of the skin, or pair with either black or almond silk lining robes to create a more opaque finish. The luxurious beaded robe could also be worn over a simple evening dress for a jaw-dropping outerwear look.
The one review ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
This robe is the most decadent, fabulous thing I own! It’s even more beautiful in person, dripping with strings of glistening gold beads made for twirling.
Fit-wise the size M is the same as the other H&F robes I own. The color of the beads is a lovely soft gold with pearls at the end. The beads are securely sewn on individually to the tulle base. I imagine styling it over both lingerie and as outerwear over a cream jumpsuit for a winter white ensemble for the ballet.
Posted: May 31, 2020 Filed under: D/s Relationship | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Life, Master, NYC, submissive
Out of the City
Up the Interstate
No panties to hold the wet
A place to park
Private and green
Somewhere to pet and suck
Climax on the hood
The perfect Sunday drive
Posted: May 28, 2020 Filed under: lingerie | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Etsy, Life, Panties, Shopping, silk, submissive, Undergarments
Erica Waddell Silk Jersey panties – Etsy
dievca was doing a search for silk jersey lingerie. Silk jersey is delicate, smooth, and softer than a t-shirt, the weave of silk jersey allows it to stretch gently like normal cotton underwear. However, silk has optimal air permeability over cotton and most other fibers. It has a luster and demure sophistication.
During the search, dievca ran into Erica Waddell’s Etsy site for custom clothing including lingerie. The site offers an option to choose your type of silk jersey panties – so which type is best?
9 Essential Underwear Every Woman Should Own & What To Wear Them With
Just as a strapless bra is essential when you’re wearing a summer tube dress, seamless underwear is important when you’re wearing a pencil skirt. Here are some suggestions for different types of underwear and what you should pair them with:
1. Boy Shorts
Inspired by men’s boxers, boy shorts tend to be comfortable. They are functional and can be worn with skirts, as well as flared dresses.
2. Classic Briefs
These are regular underwear. The ones you buy in a pack of three or five. You can pair them with almost anything as long as your outfit is not body-hugging because then your panty lines would be on display. Wear with a pleated skirts or jeans.
These panties are low-rise and have wide coverage on the sides. They go with almost everything. So make sure you have more than just a couple of them. Wear them with pants and low-waisted jeans.
Nothing says sexy like thongs do. They’re the perfect underwear type for outfits where the bump of your panty line can ruin the line. Wear a thong with pencil skirts and bodycon dresses.
5. French-Cut Panties
Also known as high-cut panties, these are very 1980s retro. They have a high cut on the leg holes, which makes them better for circulation from the regular ones. They go superbly well with high-waist jeans
They’re very similar to thongs, but these have absolutely no coverage. They’re meant for times when you would like to go commando, but then you would also like some sort of coverage. A little getting used to is required to be perfectly comfortable with this type. Wear with leggings and bodycon dresses.
7. Control Briefs
These are super comfortable and all about functionality. They come with a tight elastic waistband to keep your excess in. They help with bodycon dresses and high waist jeans.
This is one type of panty that everyone should keep on hand. They don’t have stitching on them, making them perfect for every type of dress. Good with pants and sheer dresses.
9. Brazilian Briefs
They have the qualities of both a hipster and a thong. And they are just what you need when you’re vacationing on the beach. Wear them with shorts or a sarong.
Hmm-tough to make a decision….boy shorts, hipsters, briefs or Grannies!
Posted: May 23, 2020 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Musings | Tags: BDSM, bondage, D/s, dievca, erotic, Kink, Life, Love, Master, Submission
If you are tied up, anything can happen. Even if nothing happens beyond kissing, the physical nature of being bound heightens everything.
With extra time on hand, dievca took a BDSM test for giggles (www.bdsmtest.org) – her results are above. she was taken aback by “Rope Bunny” being the highest percentage – especially since rope bondage (shibari) is really not one of her or Master’s interests.
she’s been pondering the high percentage ever since.
The aha! moment came yesterday after meeting and playing with Master. Master created various cuff and strap connections during play, in response dievca switched submissive and moved all in.
Master asked her about being restrained afterward and she had a hard time verbalizing exactly why she is able to let go fully.
The gist is that dievca isn’t interested in full bondage for beauty or complete limitation of movement.
she is interested in being restrained to place full trust in Master and take away control from pieces of her body to focus fully on Master and other bodily responses. The energy from the restraints can be pushed elsewhere.
Does that make sense?
Posted: May 21, 2020 Filed under: lingerie, Vintage | Tags: 1950's Household Kink, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Hollywood Starlet, Pin Up Girl, Presentation Outfits, Sexy, Undergarments
And Just for the fun of it:
Jayne Mansfield and Sophia Loren photograph print by Joe Shere 1957
Posted: May 14, 2020 Filed under: Shoes | Tags: BDSM, bondage, D/s, Dancing, dievca, Elegant, erotic, music, Nile Rodgers, Sandals, Sexy, Shoe fetishism, Shopping, submissive
Strap on the sexy Gianvito Rossi Cory Sandals or something else as fabulous in red,
and take a moment to listen to Nile Rodgers tell the story of David Bowie’s
Red Strappy Cory Sandals
Buffed calfskin heeled sandals in ‘tabasco’ red.
Open round toe.
Adjustable pin-buckle straps.
Leather lining in beige.
Covered stiletto heel.
Leather sole in beige.
Approx. 3″ heel.
Made in Italy.
Posted: May 13, 2020 Filed under: Analysis, Musings | Tags: BDSM, blowjob, cock worship, D/s, definition, dievca, Dominant, erotic, submissive
This now-obsolete word has several definitions:
in the context of an instrument, flabile means “played by blowing”;
more broadly it means “liable to be blown about.”
The term is built on the Latin verb flare meaning “to blow.”
Posted: May 8, 2020 Filed under: Accessories | Tags: ball gag, BDSM, bondage, COVID-19, D/s, dievca, erotic, Fetish, gags, Kink, Leather, Masks, Shopping, Slave, submissive
Posted: May 7, 2020 Filed under: lingerie | Tags: BDSM, bondage, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Fetish, Floral, Full Moon, Presentation Outfits, Shopping, Slave, submissive, Undergarments
Contemporary and classic all at once, the CAGE BRA has additional straps that form a pattern resembling a cage, either in the front or back or both sides.. It looks fantastic on any size bust because it appears to give ample support to any cup size. Caged bras look awesome on goth girls, bondage mistresses, and fans of Fifty Shades of Grey. Conversely, those who prefer a more traditionally feminine style can rock a caged bra when they fancy flaunting an edgy look.
Despite its name, wearing a cage bra doesn’t mean you’re locking up your bust. The cage bra gets its name from multiple straps that spread above or below the cups for an elegant look. Coverage: Cage bras vary in coverage, but usually they favor showing off your curves and sexy cleavage rather than full coverage.
Liquid Red Floral Cage Bra on sale for $24,99 one size (click photo for link)
Elegant Floral Lace Harness Cage Bra Lingerie piece. This is a stretchy designer harness top that will compliment your black, color, or nude bra or wear alone with pasties or topless depending on how much of a bold statement you’re looking for at an affordable price! It is one size fits most.
PS. Something to wear for the next Super Floral Moon appearance!
Posted: May 1, 2020 Filed under: Body Type, Disasters, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, body hair, COVID-19, D/s, dievca, erotic, Humor, Life, Master, shaving, submissive, waxing
and dievca is out of practice.
Posted: April 30, 2020 Filed under: Discussion, lingerie | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, fashion, Lycra, Presentation Outfits, Shopping, Undergarments
click photo for link to a great post about 1950’s girdles
The Miracle of Lycra Spandex- Fairy Godmother to Women Everywhere. Invented in 1959 it wasn’t until 1962 until the full scale manufacturer of Lycra went on the market , expanding possibilities for women everywhere. Girdles were no longer only peach, ivory, and black instead bright pastels and patterns became the rage. (L) Vintage ad 1962 Hollywood Vassarette Girdle and Bra (R) Fairy Godmother Cinderella Walt Disney
The synthetic fabric used to make stretchy clothing is commonly referred to as spandex and as Lycra. DuPont created the term Lycra as a brand name for its spandex, and now the terms have become interchangeable.
Dupont textiles scientist Joseph C. Shivers was determined to find a fiber to replace rubber in garments. He made a breakthrough in the early 1950s when he used an intermediate substance to modify Dacron polyester. This modification produced a stretchy fiber that could withstand high temperatures. After nearly a decade of research, the fiber was perfected in 1959. Originally called Fiber K, DuPont chose the trade name Lycra to distinguish its brand of spandex fiber.
Polyurethane Fibers (micro photo 100X)
Spandex fibers are produced in four ways: melt extrusion, reaction spinning, solution dry spinning, and solution wet spinning. All of these methods include the initial step of reacting monomers to produce a prepolymer. Once the prepolymer is formed, it is reacted further in various ways and drawn out to make the fibers.
A blessing and curse:
The comfort offered by using fabrics with Spandex comes with an environmental concern.
Today most clothes containing spandex end up as non-recyclable waste once they have been worn out, as fabric blends containing spandex are difficult to recycle. This contributes to the pollution of the environment.
When clothes are washed, hundreds of thousands of microfibres are released into the wastewater, ending up in the oceans, and if clothes contain plastic then they will cause microplastic pollution.
Posted: April 29, 2020 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Musings | Tags: 1950's Household Kink, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dominant, erotic, Kink, Love, Master, Slave, submissive
People always talk about Trust in a BDSM relationship.
If it works well, the embarrassment factor of any activity disappears.
Your Sir or Madam has seen or will see all realms of awkwardness if you are adventurous.
Sexually or just within the Power Exchange.
The good news is with Trust you will look at your Dominant or submissive and think,
“Oh-Yes, I want to do that again!”
Posted: April 23, 2020 Filed under: lingerie | Tags: BDSM, bondage, Bordelle, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Fetish, Kink, Shopping, Slave, submissive, Undergarments
Bordelle around 2011 and 2012 offered these strappy pieces. dievca is feeling the need.
Posted: April 22, 2020 Filed under: Entertainment, Relationships, submissive | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, fashion, Fetish, Humor, Presentation Outfits, submissive
To those who work through the challenges of others.
Keep the World running
and look sexy to boot!
Many fantasies have been developed over the job title.
The Secretary: Kate Slyvester 2002 Fashion
Posted: April 17, 2020 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden, Musings | Tags: BDSM, body odor, D/s, dessert, dievca, Disney, erotic, Humor, Life, Love, Master, Orgasm, recipe, Sex, submissive
It all started with the movie, Blues Brothers, and this scene:
How do you make an Orange Whip?
That photo prompted the thought that a Pineapple Whip might be a better choice sexually – why?
Yes, ladies — and men too, for that matter — drinking a good-sized glass of pineapple juice a couple of hours before the deed can help make your bodily fluids taste and even smell better. Fruits, in general, are good because they contain acids and sugars. May 31, 2005 NBC News
Does pineapple make your VAG sweeter?
Pineapple and citrus fruits are associated with a sweeter taste, Schmit said. … The result: Participants whose partners ate 200 grams of pineapple a day reported that the pineapple eaters did, in fact, taste sweeter. According to Schmit, vegan and vegetarian diets could also lead to a sweeter taste. Jul 12, 2016
How long after eating pineapple will you taste better?
“It doesn’t seem to matter whether the pineapple is fresh, canned or juiced,” Helmenstine explains. “The effect is not noticeable immediately after eating a few bites of pineapple. Most respondents saw a definite effect after eating pineapple for several days. Jul 10, 2018
Hmmm~so a Pineapple Whip rather than an Orange Whip
Disney’s Dole Whip was introduced to the Walt Disney World and Disneyland resorts in 1986, the pineapple soft serve has achieved a beloved status.
Disney Dole Whip Recipe
Dole Whip Ingredients:
- 1 scoop of vanilla ice cream
- 4 ounces of pineapple juice
- 2 cups of frozen pineapple
How to Make a Dole Whip:
Add all 3 ingredients to a blender, and blend it until it’s smooth. You can serve it as-is, but Disney suggests putting the blended mixture into a piping bag and piping a swirl into your bowl for the soft-serve look. Top with a cocktail umbrella for an extra tropical touch.
Something of use – a dose of Pineapple for you and your partner – a lovely treat!
Posted: April 12, 2020 Filed under: Discussion, Entertainment, Vintage | Tags: BDSM, Bunny, D/s, dievca, Easter, Elegant, erotic, Life, Spring, submissive
Photo: Irish McCalla
dievca is prepping late. she forgot about the Holiday.
“and on the 3rd day He rose again.”
So, will NYC rise again? Good question.
All dievca can do is keep hoping (hopping) and work hard.
she sends her best wishes to you for renewal and revitalization.
Stay Healthy or Heal Well.
Posted: April 11, 2020 Filed under: Shoes, Submission | Tags: BDSM, bondage, cuffs, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Fraulein Kink, Kink, Leather, Shoe fetishism, Shopping
Fraulein Kink gold ankle restraints $335
(click photo to buy)
Handmade in Berlin, the FRAULEIN KINK (Fräulein Kink) Leather Bondage Ankle Restraints are the epitome of elegance, both in and out of the bedroom. The detachable leather leads and ankle restraints can pair with your favorite heel and be used to restrain you to a chair or bed. Detachable leads can also be used separately as handcuffs.
- Metallic Gold Stitched Leather Straps
- SWAROVSKI® Light Colorado Topaz Gold Crystal Rivets
- Detachable Gold Leather Ankle Restraint Leads
- Engraved Kink Heart Detailing
Note: Boots NOT included
Posted: April 7, 2020 Filed under: D/s Relationship, submissive | Tags: BDSM, dievca, Dominance and submission, dreams, erotic, Fantasy, Kink, Orgasm, Sex
A hint of the dream lingers
throughout the day.
A smell, a touch,
a glimpse of satiation.
Collected wisps and pieces
solidify elusive memories.
to create an Orgasm.
Posted: April 5, 2020 Filed under: Accessories | Tags: BDSM, couple pleasure, D/s, dievca, erotic, Kink, Sex Toy, Shopping, submissive, vibrator
dievca has always been a fan of multi-tasking tools.
So, when she saw the Adorime on several “Best Sex Toy of 2020” lists.
It might be a go for $27.99 at Amazon.
Ergonomic Design: This dual-action vibrator with triple-points stimulator, the flexible double head can be used to most penises or clitorial, and the firm bottom effectively stimulates g-spot, arousing most intense orgasms and sexual pleasure.
Intelligent Vibration Modes: Maximize your pleasure no matter you like slow, steady or strong pulses with different frequencies. You can use the 3 powerful motors alone or at the same time to stimulate your g-spot, clitoris anus or penis.
- 100% Waterproof & Super Quiet: You can enjoy the freedom of using it in the bath, shower, pool or anywhere you want. If you’re looking for discreet play, you can not go wrong with this clit vibrator. It’s whisper-quiet that you can’t hear it in the next room with the door closed.
- Medical Silicone Material: The g-spot vibrator made of medical-grade silicone, safe and skin-friendly, easy to clean, hygienic to the human body. As a rechargeable vibrator, you can just charge the vibrator with the attached USB cable.
Something for couple fun, solo fun, and stress-relief — a useful multi-tasker.
Posted: April 3, 2020 Filed under: lingerie | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Flowers, Life, pink, Presentation Outfits, quote, Shopping, Spring, submissive, Undergarments
“Flowers grow out of dark moments.”
Spring flowers don’t realize that COVID-19 is a problem. They are in full bloom around the City.
April Showers have brought those Flowers and Myla Lingerie is willing to help celebrate!